Teen's Wild Party DESTROYS Sister's £300 Dance Pole! 😱 Should She Pay Up?

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Diply | Diply

Buckle up, folks! 🚨 We've got a wild one today. Picture this: a 23-year-old gal, let's call her Pole Princess 👸, takes in her 17-year-old sister, the Mischievous Minx 😈, while their parents are going through a messy divorce. What could possibly go wrong? 🤔 Well, apparently, a lot! 💥 The Minx invites her squad over for a little shindig, and before you know it, Pole Princess's prized dance pole is destroyed! 😱 Now, the question on everyone's mind: who's gonna pay for this pole catastrophe? 💸

Sister Staying with Me During Parents' Divorce 😔

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Sister's Friends Come Over, Chaos Ensues! 😱

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My Precious Dance Pole, Destroyed! 💔

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Pole Tackled by Overzealous Friend 🏈

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Pole Was Top Quality, Damage Must've Been Intense 😳

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£300 Down the Drain, Sister Must Pay! 💸

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Sister's Options: Get a Job, Use Allowance, or Do Chores 🛠️

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Sister Cries Unfair, I Say Take Responsibility! 😤

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I Stand My Ground: Pay Up or Work It Off 💪

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I Refuse Mom's Bailout, Sister Must Learn! 🎓

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I Can't Send Sis Away, So She Must Learn 📚

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The Great Pole Debate: Sister's Responsibility or Mom's Bailout? 🤔💰

So, here's the tea ☕: Pole Princess wants the Mischievous Minx to take responsibility for the destroyed dance pole, either by paying up 💸 or working it off with some good old-fashioned manual labor 💪. But the Minx is crying foul, saying it's not her fault and she can't afford it. 😢 Mom tries to swoop in with a £350 bailout 🦸‍♀️💰, but Pole Princess ain't having it. She wants the Minx to learn a lesson 📚 and prevent future pole-related disasters. 🙅‍♀️ The internet is divided on this one. 🤔 Some say Pole Princess is being too harsh, while others think the Minx needs to face the consequences. Let's see what the masses have to say about this pole-arizing situation! 🗣️

Taking the money and banning her sounds like a fair solution 👍

Kampungmonyet | Kampungmonyet

Sister not entirely responsible, compromise with chores or payment? 🤔

SanjeepTheJeep | SanjeepTheJeep

NTA stands her ground and gives solid parenting advice. 👏

Ryder_Juxta | Ryder_Juxta

Suggests practical options for sister's irresponsibility and damages. #NTA

themysteryoflogic | themysteryoflogic

Accepting parents' money for sister's damaged dance pole: NTA.

GrowBigorGoHard | GrowBigorGoHard

Taking responsibility for allowing the party to happen 🤔

Equivalent_Collar_59 | Equivalent_Collar_59

Fair point, split the costs with the friend who broke it 👍

cthbinxx | cthbinxx

NTA suggests grounding sister and taking money to teach a lesson.

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Sibling conflict over destroyed dance pole, ESH, suggests bigger talk.

darkstarsxx | darkstarsxx

Compromise reached for replacing destroyed dance pole, sister repainting wall. 💸

throwawayj38sld | throwawayj38sld

NTA, sister should take accountability. Summer job payment suggestion given.

Throwaway-2587 | Throwaway-2587

Sister's friend broke dance pole at party. ESH for negligence.

Musical__Angel | Musical__Angel

Half-and-half deal suggested for sister's damaged property, emphasizing responsibility.

ThrowAwayGoddess6 | ThrowAwayGoddess6

OP could give ultimatum to mom about sister's behavior. NTA 👍

Jex0003 | Jex0003

Set rules for sister's behavior, NTA for not paying.

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Accept the money and ban her from having parties 👍

Icy_Calligrapher7088 | Icy_Calligrapher7088

Sibling drama: ESH for refusing reasonable payment and teaching a lesson. 🤷‍♀️

saveyboy | saveyboy

Responsible advice on COVID protocols 👍

NoMoreTeapots | NoMoreTeapots

NTA, but sister needs to pay for damages and leave 🤷‍♀️

floss147 | floss147

Sister's friend broke dance pole at party. Who pays? 💰

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Sibling party drama: ESH, but sister should pay for damages 💸

miss_hush | miss_hush

Set boundaries and take the money offered. NTA. 👍

nova9001 | nova9001

Sister's not legally an adult, YTA for being petty. 🙅

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Don't parent your sister, but make her pay for damages 💰

LilPerditaGattino | LilPerditaGattino

Sibling drama and underhanded tactics over a broken dance pole 😬

WillfullyUnwoke | WillfullyUnwoke

Sister breaks dance pole, refuses to pay. NTA claps back 👏

OverlyLeftLesbian | OverlyLeftLesbian

Sibling conflict over damaged dance pole and responsibility (ESH) 💰

GrWr44 | GrWr44

NTA for not wanting to pay, but why not find culprit? 🤔

Lotex_Style | Lotex_Style

Sister damages dance pole at wild party. ESH for not settling.

maddr_lurker | maddr_lurker

Sister threw a pandemic party, broke dance pole. NTA for demanding payment.

GoodEater29 | GoodEater29

Suggests accepting mother's offer to pay for damaged dance pole. 🤔

trudyking3011 | trudyking3011

Taking responsibility as an adult. 💪

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Sibling advice: give a personal warning to sister and take money from mom 💰

pastelqueen69 | pastelqueen69

NTA's free standing Xpole got destroyed at teen's party 😱

CrochetTricot | CrochetTricot

Compassionate NTA suggests consequences and uses empathy for sister's situation.

Midaycarehere | Midaycarehere

Suggests a compromise between sister and parents for pole damage. 👍

SDstartingOut | SDstartingOut

Taking legal action over dance pole is not worth it. YTA.

CallmeEllen | CallmeEllen

User argues sister shouldn't make minor pay for broken pole. YTA.

RichardBachman19 | RichardBachman19

Suggests using nanny cam and fine to avoid future damage 💡

cant_think_name_22 | cant_think_name_22

Teen refuses to pay for broken dance pole; YTA or not?

bigbluewhales | bigbluewhales

NTA turned ESH due to overreaction and refusal to pay.

SolitaryTeaParty | SolitaryTeaParty

Sister's £300 dance pole destroyed at party, who pays up?

EmpressJainaSolo | EmpressJainaSolo

Don't parent your younger sister. You have growing up to do.

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Set boundaries with your sister, not your responsibility to pay. 😒

loopsonflowers | loopsonflowers

Landlord sister refuses to pay for sister's damaged dance pole 💃

huhIguess | huhIguess

Sister's irresponsibility causes damage, but can she be held accountable?


Suggests a fair solution without demanding money 💰👍

ToxicFlutter | ToxicFlutter

No blame, but fix it yourself to avoid teaching responsibility. 👍

Leg-Weekly | Leg-Weekly

NTA suggests taking money from mom and establishing new rules

sexylassy | sexylassy

Sibling drama and tough love: NTA suggests banning sister.

SleuthingSloth009 | SleuthingSloth009

Pole dancing and retail therapy, a match made in heaven?

AuroradreamerArt | AuroradreamerArt

Teaching responsibility to a 16-year-old sister. 💰🤔

MissyCross | MissyCross

Hold her accountable! NTA is reasonable to expect amends. 👏

Transmutagen | Transmutagen

Protect your property: Install cameras and set boundaries! 😎

Star_Phoenix777 | Star_Phoenix777

NTA. Making sister work off the debt seems fair. 👍

TexasYankee212 | TexasYankee212

Accept money, get a Ring doorbell, and enforce no visitors 👍

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Setting boundaries with family members can be tough! 🤔

Blackstar1401 | Blackstar1401

Sibling solidarity! Older sibling teaches responsibility while parents are absent. 👏

TheReptilianGamer | TheReptilianGamer

Protect your home with a camera, not your sister's money 💰📹

Mom_2_gurlz | Mom_2_gurlz

Sister living in your apartment? Different rules apply. NTA. 😎

Massive-Emergency-42 | Massive-Emergency-42

Sis needs to learn responsibility, NTA comment explains why. 👍

KrissyCano | KrissyCano

Fair point! Payment should be expected regardless of relation. 👍

AnonymousHorsey | AnonymousHorsey

Install cameras & ban her friends; don't spoil her. NTA

jizzy_lizzie | jizzy_lizzie

Sister's wild party damages dance pole. NTA suggests consequences.

SingularityMechanics | SingularityMechanics

NTA. Importance of source of money explained. Consider emotional cost.

Navybuffalo | Navybuffalo

Sister's friend broke dance pole at teen's party. NTA holding sister responsible.

Tarilyn13 | Tarilyn13

Suggests taking money from mom, installing cameras, and threatening sister.

JannaSnakehole | JannaSnakehole

Sibling drama over a broken dance pole. ESH, but who pays?

Ohhh_Had_Enough_Eh | Ohhh_Had_Enough_Eh

Sister breaks dance pole, but won't fix it? NTA, install camera 📺

westernfeets | westernfeets

Setting boundaries with family is important. NTA for enforcing them.

Plutocrase | Plutocrase

17-year-old should take responsibility for damaging dance pole. NTA.

juicy_belly | juicy_belly

Sister won't pay for damaged dance pole, time for tough love.

DarthLift | DarthLift

Taking responsibility for actions and standing up for personal space. NTA.

MissPeskyFace | MissPeskyFace

User suggests disciplining sister without demanding punishment from her.

RadioSupply | RadioSupply

Sister breaks dance pole, but is punishment justified? 🤔

ChuckGreenwald | ChuckGreenwald

Don't be too hard on yourself, but set boundaries. 🙏

MariaInconnu | MariaInconnu

Communication is key to resolving this pole-emma 🤣

The-Cosmic-Ghost | The-Cosmic-Ghost

Teen's sister demands reimbursement for destroyed dance pole, sister hesitant. 🤔

JagoKestral | JagoKestral

Sister refuses to take responsibility for £300 damage. YTA for not accepting mom's offer to fix it.

Rancid_Stew | Rancid_Stew

Sister's friend broke dance pole at party, no clear solution 🤔

Melodramatic_Raven | Melodramatic_Raven

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