9-Year Friendship IMPLODES Over Scathing 'Honesty' Letter - Did She Go Too Far? 💥📜

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Diply | Diply

Buckle up, folks! 🚗💨 We've got a wild ride of a story for you today! 🎢 Imagine being besties with someone for 9 whole years, only to have them suddenly drop a friendship breakup bomb on you out of nowhere! 💣😱 That's exactly what happened to our poor protagonist, who's now left wondering if she's the a-hole for refusing to read her ex-friend's 'essay' about all her supposed flaws. 📜🙅‍♀️ Grab some popcorn 🍿 and get ready for a tale of drama, betrayal, and one seriously questionable friendship! 👀

🚨 Friendship Fallout! 😱

llama67 | llama67

🙋‍♀️ Always There for Her... 🤷‍♀️ But Not the Other Way Around? 😢

llama67 | llama67

🗣️ Trying to Talk... 🙉 But She Won't Listen! 😞

llama67 | llama67

🎉 Bachelorette Party Drama! 😬

llama67 | llama67

🤐 Cagey About It... 🤔 But Never Said No! 🚫

llama67 | llama67

😭 Rejection Feels Like Garbage! 🗑️

llama67 | llama67

🤨 Realizing She's Not Worth It! 💁‍♀️

llama67 | llama67

📝 The Dreaded 'Essay'! 😱

llama67 | llama67

😊 Smiley Emojis... 🤬 But Not So Friendly! 😠

llama67 | llama67

📱 Green Texts of Guilt! 😒

llama67 | llama67

🤷‍♀️ Not Fully in the Right... 🤯 But Her Reaction Was Wild! 😲

llama67 | llama67

🤔 TL;DR: Friend Fallout and Refusal to Read 'Issues' Essay! 📜

llama67 | llama67

🙅‍♀️ I Said No to the Essay... 📝 She Said I Wouldn't Grow! 🌱

llama67 | llama67

✍️ Edit: No Letter in Hand! 🤲

llama67 | llama67

📭 Can't Post or Read It... 🤷‍♀️ Don't Even Have It! 😅

llama67 | llama67

🚨 Friendship Fallout: To Read or Not to Read the 'Issues' Essay? 📜🤔

Well, well, well... looks like our protagonist found herself in quite the pickle! 🥒😅 After 9 years of friendship, her bestie suddenly decided to call it quits 🙅‍♀️ and even wrote a whole dang essay about all the issues she had with her! 📝😱 But wait, there's more! When our girl refused to read this 'essay,' her ex-friend had the audacity to say she wouldn't grow as a person! 🌱🙄 Can you believe it?! 😤 Now, let's see what the internet has to say about this juicy drama! 🌐👀 Grab your tea ☕ and get ready for some piping hot takes! 🔥

Friendship ended, but OP not the problem. Narcissism at play. 🤷‍♀️

StealthPhoenix88 | StealthPhoenix88

Cut the drama and watch Netflix instead 😎

tannag | tannag

Curiosity killed the cat, but NTA for not reading essay 😉

Left-Car6520 | Left-Car6520

A former friend's scathing 'break-up' letter and its aftermath

ijust_ate_abee | ijust_ate_abee

Setting boundaries and working on self-growth - good response 👍

llama67 | llama67

32 and still acting like a high schooler 🙄 NTA

Anaaatomy | Anaaatomy

Toxic friendship alert 🚨. NTA. Cut her off and move on.

SnooHobbies8729 | SnooHobbies8729

One-sided friendship ends with brutally honest letter. NTA 🚫

Empress_LC | Empress_LC

Sympathetic commenter supports OP, calls out bad friend. 😔

profesional-hat | profesional-hat

🚨 Don't ignore the red flags! OP's friend showed their true colors 🚨

maat89 | maat89

Friend's scathing letter was about her issues, not yours. NTA 👍

pinkyhc | pinkyhc

High school drama queen writes scathing letter, gets cut off. 👍

FlamingCupcakess | FlamingCupcakess

Avoiding the letter was definitely the right choice! 🙅‍♀️

Dixon_Kuntz73 | Dixon_Kuntz73

Walking away is smart. NTA 👍

ActingGrad | ActingGrad

Cutting out toxic friends is self-care 👍

SuperLoris | SuperLoris

Constructive vs. Destructive Criticism: Know the Difference 👍

Kind-Kaleidoscope358 | Kind-Kaleidoscope358

Did the scathing letter reveal the true colors of 'not a friend'?

Psychological_Lie5 | Psychological_Lie5

Blocking negativity and enjoying a drama-free life 👌

TayLou33 | TayLou33

Bizarre behavior exposed: NTA for not reading her essay 👏

lonnielee3 | lonnielee3

Friendship ends due to unsolicited advice and projection. NTA.

MillipedePaws | MillipedePaws

Don't engage in her hurtful games. NTA 🙅‍♀️

HesterFabian | HesterFabian

Ending a toxic friendship is hard, but necessary for growth 🌱

Unkle_bad-touch | Unkle_bad-touch

A hopeful but doubtful theory of a surprise party 🎉

Lilac_experience | Lilac_experience

Curiosity killed the friendship, toxicity finished it. NTA.

Zandyphy | Zandyphy

Setting boundaries and blocking toxic people is important. NTA 💯

StardustStuffing | StardustStuffing

Maturity prevails as NTA responds to unhealthy friendship 💪

Capable-Run8911 | Capable-Run8911

Insightful analysis of a one-sided friendship and potential motives 🤔

Willdiealonewithcats | Willdiealonewithcats

Savage but fair comment shuts down friendship-ending essay 👍

heyheyheynopeno | heyheyheynopeno

Savage response to scathing letter. Narcissistic projection at play. 🤬

kimbeth66 | kimbeth66

NTA. Ex-friend writes scathing letter, insists on reading it. You're better off without her.

0oellao0 | 0oellao0

Friendship ends over scathing letter, commenter says NTA and advises not to read it. 👍

Stargazer86F | Stargazer86F

Cutting off toxic friends? NTA, good riddance 👏

messgonemad | messgonemad

NTA for not wanting to read scathing 'honesty' letter 👍

Ohgodimsotiredhelp | Ohgodimsotiredhelp

True friends support each other, not use each other as therapists 👍

Stellarkin1996 | Stellarkin1996

Don't accept from a friend what you wouldn't from a partner 💔

Cautious_Ad_2836 | Cautious_Ad_2836

Venting off anger with sanctimony. Glad you didn't read it. 😤

JCBashBash | JCBashBash

Middle school drama resurfaces in adult friendships. NTA wins.

HauntingHarmonie | HauntingHarmonie

Toxic friendship alert! 🚨 Learn to spot the red flags.

HighElf_Queen_Jen | HighElf_Queen_Jen

Deleting toxic friends is always the right choice. NTA 🙌

ResidentRepulsive | ResidentRepulsive

Toxic friend criticizes cancer scare, then throws a wedding fit. NTA 👍

witchbrew7 | witchbrew7

Toxic ex-friend sends hateful essay framed as a favor. NTA.

milzgrills | milzgrills

Sometimes it's best to cut loose toxic friends. 🥰

DamnItDinkles | DamnItDinkles

Block her and move on. You don't need that negativity. 🙌

Various-Bridge-325 | Various-Bridge-325

NTA suggests an email clapback to a scathing honesty letter. 👏

Master-Manipulation | Master-Manipulation

NTA- Sending a scathing honesty letter after ending a friendship? 🤦‍♀️

One_Condition_7001 | One_Condition_7001

Short and sweet NTA comment avoids drama 👌

One-Bread36 | One-Bread36

Accusation of manipulation and praise for not falling for drama. NTA 👍

UnqualifiedIT | UnqualifiedIT

A breakup via letter listing flaws. NTA for not reading 🤦‍♀️

cathyclare | cathyclare

Sudden scathing text from best friend of 7 years, NTA

twogreytabbys | twogreytabbys

NTA stands up for herself, suggests petty response to friend's letter.

Inevitable-Video-329 | Inevitable-Video-329

Curiosity killed the friendship, but NTA for reading unsent letter 🤷

Ill_Scientist_6510 | Ill_Scientist_6510

NTA slams entitled friend for scathing honesty letter 💯

daydreaming-g | daydreaming-g

Friendship ends over honesty letter, commenter supports NTA's response.

jazzzhandzz | jazzzhandzz

Don't let her break you down, leave her and enjoy!

[deleted] | [deleted]

You're better off without her. 👍

Repulsive-Nerve5127 | Repulsive-Nerve5127

Sassy comment defends against jealous friend, uses bold language 👌

JonesinforJonesey | JonesinforJonesey

Cut the crap and tell me I suck - NTA 🤪

Whole-Recover-8911 | Whole-Recover-8911

Friendship ends over harsh honesty letter, commenter shares similar experience. NTA 👍

Gigglebyte88 | Gigglebyte88

NTA commentator is appalled by the idea of reading a scathing 'honesty' letter and advises the recipient to keep the sender blocked. 😱

lisaslyfe | lisaslyfe

Dealing with a narcissistic friend. You're NTA 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA and a peaceful future without self-centered friend. 👏

princessbizz | princessbizz

Being there for someone goes both ways. NTA.

Auroraburst | Auroraburst

Blocking toxic friends is self-care 👍

mfruitfly | mfruitfly

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