Bride BANS Bridesmaid for Not Covering Scars & Skin! Bridesmaid Takes a Stand! 💪

Diply Social Team
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Picture this: you're a confident young woman who has learned to embrace her unique appearance, including a skin condition called vitiligo and some noticeable scars. You've been asked to be a bridesmaid in your cousin's wedding, and you're excited to be a part of their special day. But then, the bride-to-be asks you to cover up your scars and skin condition for the wedding. 😲 How would you feel? Would you comply or stand your ground? Let's dive into this story and see how our protagonist handled the situation. 👀

Meet the Bridesmaid with Vitiligo 💁‍♀️

Numerous-Ambition-13 | Numerous-Ambition-13

Scars and Confidence 💪

Numerous-Ambition-13 | Numerous-Ambition-13

Embracing My Appearance 🌟

Numerous-Ambition-13 | Numerous-Ambition-13

Cousin Dan's Wedding 💍

Numerous-Ambition-13 | Numerous-Ambition-13

Bridesmaid Request 🙋‍♀️

Numerous-Ambition-13 | Numerous-Ambition-13

Fast Forward to Last Autumn 🍂

Numerous-Ambition-13 | Numerous-Ambition-13

Standing Out and Looking Bad 😕

Numerous-Ambition-13 | Numerous-Ambition-13

Everyone Already Knows Me 🤷‍♀️

Numerous-Ambition-13 | Numerous-Ambition-13

The Simplest Solution 🚪

Numerous-Ambition-13 | Numerous-Ambition-13

Cover Up as a Guest? 🙅‍♀️

Numerous-Ambition-13 | Numerous-Ambition-13

Not Attending at All 🚫

Numerous-Ambition-13 | Numerous-Ambition-13

Swallow My Pride? 🤔

Numerous-Ambition-13 | Numerous-Ambition-13

Bridesmaid Drama: Cover Up or Stand Up? 💃🔥

Our protagonist, a 21-year-old woman with vitiligo and scars, was asked to be a bridesmaid in her cousin Dan's wedding. The bride, Laura, initially asked her to cover up her scars, which she reluctantly agreed to. However, Laura later requested that she cover up her vitiligo as well, which would mean wearing a completely different dress or being covered in concealing cream. 😳 Our protagonist tried to explain that this would only make her stand out more, but Laura insisted she figure something out. In the end, our protagonist decided not to be a part of the wedding party and even declined to attend as a guest when Laura demanded she cover up in that capacity too. 😱 While most people sided with our protagonist, some suggested she should've swallowed her pride for a day. What do you think? Let's see what the internet has to say about this situation... 🍿

Stand up for yourself and don't let anyone shame you! 💪

Ok_Childhood_9774 | Ok_Childhood_9774

NTA for skipping wedding of superficial and unkind bride 👰

Famous_Specialist_44 | Famous_Specialist_44

Standing up for health condition and dress code at wedding! 👏

p9nultimat9 | p9nultimat9

Bridesmaid refuses to change skin color for bride's wedding. NTA 🙅‍♀️

Narkareth | Narkareth

Bridesmaid supported for taking a stand against unreasonable bridezilla demands 🙌

neoprenewedgie | neoprenewedgie

Standing up for yourself against unreasonable demands is NTA 👏

supremewuster | supremewuster

NTA. The comment suggests a delightfully petty solution 😉

quats555 | quats555

Bridesmaid's clever response to bride's makeup demand. 😎

Pitiful-Solution9067 | Pitiful-Solution9067

NTA. Commenter sarcastically points out elitist attitude of bride.

Books-and-a-puppy | Books-and-a-puppy

Support for bridesmaid who stood up against body shaming bride.

Diasies_inMyHair | Diasies_inMyHair

Standing up against unfair beauty standards 💪

Return_of_the_HoWaT | Return_of_the_HoWaT

Weddings reveal people's true colors. Sorry you had to experience it. 😔

lenajlch | lenajlch

Stand up for yourself! NTA for not catering to stigma. 👏

LurkerByNatureGT | LurkerByNatureGT

Body positivity wins against toxic beauty standards! 🙌

Dogmother123 | Dogmother123

Bridesmaid stands up to shallow bridezilla, NTA.

FuzzyMom2005 | FuzzyMom2005

Vitiligo solidarity! NTA stands up to unreasonable bridezilla 💪

TempusCrystallum | TempusCrystallum

Bride asked bridesmaid with scars & vitiligo, then banned her!

PNL-Maine | PNL-Maine

Self-care over drama: NTA, enjoy a drama-free day! 💪

Anxious-Routine-5526 | Anxious-Routine-5526

Bridesmaid stands up to unrealistic beauty standards 👏

Diligent-Comfort-191 | Diligent-Comfort-191

Sarcastic comment on wedding guest aesthetic standards and guidelines 😂

Joe_Ronimo | Joe_Ronimo

Standing up against superficiality. 👏

AdBrave5490 | AdBrave5490

Stand up against body shaming! 💪

Gatodeluna | Gatodeluna

Empathetic reply supporting body positivity and true love.

cheechassad | cheechassad

Stand up for yourself and don't accept mistreatment! 💪

MaybeHughes | MaybeHughes

21-year-old bridesmaid impresses with 'NTA' attitude and takes a stand


Embrace who you are and never change for someone else! 💪

Acceptable_Bunch_586 | Acceptable_Bunch_586

Standing up against superficiality with grace and compassion 👏

Dittoheadforever | Dittoheadforever

Stand up for yourself and ditch toxic friends. 👊 NTA

throwRA-nonSeq | throwRA-nonSeq

Stand up for yourself and drop out of the wedding. 💪

RebaKitt3n | RebaKitt3n

Bridesmaid stands up to bridezilla and shares inspiring story 💪

lmmontes | lmmontes

Spouse stands up for psoriasis-afflicted partner against insensitive comments. 🤯

Maleficent-Sport1970 | Maleficent-Sport1970

Embrace your uniqueness! NTA for standing up to superficiality.

KittKatt7179 | KittKatt7179

Support for bridesmaid who took a stand against cruel request 👏

theKinkypeanut | theKinkypeanut

Embrace your beauty! Support for bridesmaid with vitiligo. ❤

DeatonationgGrenade | DeatonationgGrenade

Embrace your true self! Weddings should celebrate uniqueness and love. ❤️

Own_Purchase1388 | Own_Purchase1388

Wedding aesthetics gone too far - friend banned for scars. NTA.

Additional-Gold790 | Additional-Gold790

Embrace your scars and those who accept them, NTA! 👏

Melodic-Psychology62 | Melodic-Psychology62

NTA stands up against unreasonable dress code requests 👏

robjohnlechmere | robjohnlechmere

Be proud of who you are! NTA. Don't hide your scars or vitiligo! 👏

HogwartsTraveler | HogwartsTraveler

Predicting a short-lived marriage, NTA commenter takes a stand 💪

Moon_whisper | Moon_whisper

Bridesmaid takes a stand against body shaming bride 💪

Ok_Procedure_5853 | Ok_Procedure_5853

Bridesmaid called monster for banning bridesmaid over scars. 😱

Emperor-Gropgorp | Emperor-Gropgorp

Bridesmaid stands up against unfair ban. Petty revenge suggested. 💪

I_love_Hobbes | I_love_Hobbes

Weddings should be about love, not appearance. ❤️

Imaginary-Run-1717 | Imaginary-Run-1717

Supportive comment on vitiligo, shuts down ignorant remarks. 👏

man_with_3_buttocks | man_with_3_buttocks

Bridesmaid stands up for herself and her scars. 👏

Lisa_Knows_Best | Lisa_Knows_Best

Supportive comment about standing up to unreasonable demands. 👏

sammywhammy67 | sammywhammy67

Stand up against body shaming! NTA for being yourself 👏

nickd457 | nickd457

Be proud of who you are! NTA! 👏

IllustriousPickle657 | IllustriousPickle657

NTA stands up against bridezilla's unreasonable demands. 👏

Akasgotu | Akasgotu

Sassy comeback to bride's unfair ban sparks family drama 🤣

ArcanaeumGuardianAWC | ArcanaeumGuardianAWC

Brides should focus on the meaning of the ceremony, not perfection 💖

MuchAstronaut9932 | MuchAstronaut9932

Insensitive comments mocking disabilities. Not cool 😡

TheWhogg | TheWhogg

Be honest and confident with your scars and skin. NTA 😇

AnonymooseVamoose | AnonymooseVamoose

Natural beauty wins over makeup drama. NTA stands firm.

nikaqueen | nikaqueen

Standing up to a bridezilla. NTA for saying no. 💪

amandarae1023 | amandarae1023

Support for not judging based on physical appearance. ❤

DimSlug | DimSlug

Stand up for yourself and decline the invitation 💪

Illustrious_Leg_2537 | Illustrious_Leg_2537

Empathetic reply to bride's unreasonable demand. Stand your ground.

somewhat-sane-in-NYC | somewhat-sane-in-NYC

Skipping the wedding was the best solution! NTA 💪

Chance-Contract-1290 | Chance-Contract-1290

Empathetic support for bridesmaid standing up against disrespectful treatment.

K-Ruhl | K-Ruhl

Basic respect and acceptance are bare minimum from friends and family 👍

dorafloradoodah | dorafloradoodah

Embrace your beauty! 🎨 Stand up against unreasonable demands. NTA.

Candyland_83 | Candyland_83

Embracing uniqueness is key. NTA stands up for individuality.

PuddleLilacAgain | PuddleLilacAgain

Don't let anyone make you feel ashamed of who you are! ✊

brieles | brieles

Empathetic comment supporting bridesmaid's decision to embrace herself fully.

Tractorguy69 | Tractorguy69

Take a stand against body shaming 💪

Antelope_31 | Antelope_31

Bridesmaid stands up to intolerant bridezilla and says NTA 💪

gloryhokinetic | gloryhokinetic

Standing up for her mom's scars, NTA 💪

SuspiciousTea4224 | SuspiciousTea4224

"Look" of wedding not more important than people. NTA.

Own_Lack_4526 | Own_Lack_4526

Intense reaction to bride's ban and support for bridesmaid.

Goalie_LAX_21093 | Goalie_LAX_21093

Family support against bride's rude and disrespectful behavior 👍

jackb6ii | jackb6ii

Bridesmaid stands up against unreasonable request to cover scars 💪

shaunibauni | shaunibauni

Stand up for yourself and don't give in! 💪

buttercupgrump | buttercupgrump

Demanding to conceal medical scars?! Absolutely repugnant and appalling! 😱

bluetinycar | bluetinycar

Bridesmaid stands up for herself, NTA. Shouldn't have to hide.

MombaHuyomba | MombaHuyomba

Standing up to toxic family at weddings with NTA attitude 💪

NonamesleftUK | NonamesleftUK

Bridesmaid stands up to bride's outrageous request. NTA 👏

KimB-booksncats-11 | KimB-booksncats-11

Embrace your differences! NTA says covering up is lame 👏

gothiclg | gothiclg

Support for bridesmaid standing up for her own comfort and happiness 👏

Dry_Helicopter_2078 | Dry_Helicopter_2078

Bridesmaid questions bride's double standard on dress code 💺

Multifaceted_Learner | Multifaceted_Learner

Wedding day entitlement is a recipe for disaster 😱

Fredsundertheblanket | Fredsundertheblanket

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