Dad's SHOCKING Reason for Skipping Daughter's Wedding! 😱💔

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Picture this: you find out your ex-wife cheated on you with your own brother, and to add insult to injury, your two youngest children aren't even biologically yours. Fast forward a few years, and your biological daughter is getting married. Your ex-wife is invited, but you can't stand the thought of being in the same room with her, let alone if she brings your brother as her plus one 😡. But your daughter wants both her parents there on her special day. What would you do? 🤔 Read on to find out what one conflicted father is considering...

💔 The Cheating Ex-Wife and Brother

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😱 The Shocking Truth

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🎉 Son's Wedding Sans Mom

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👰 Daughter's Wedding Dilemma

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🚫 No Brother Allowed

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💔 Torn Between Parents

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📵 Blocked But Not Stopped

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😔 Feeling Guilty

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🤔 To Go or Not to Go?

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👨‍👧 Father's Wedding Woes: To Attend or Not?

Our troubled dad is faced with a heart-wrenching decision: should he attend his daughter's wedding, knowing his cheating ex-wife will be there? His daughter has made it clear that she wants both her parents present on her big day, but he's worried his ex might sneak his brother in as her plus one 😒. The ex-wife even had the audacity to message him, telling him to 'suck it up' and not make it all about him. Despite feeling guilty, our father is torn between wanting to support his daughter and staying away from the toxic duo that ruined his family. Let's dive into the internet's top responses to this emotional rollercoaster of a situation... 🎢

Put your differences aside and attend your daughter's wedding! 💓

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Put aside your pettiness and be there for your daughter. 👍

Stormtrooper35 | Stormtrooper35

Father's hate for ex-wife/brother vs. love for daughter 💔

Usrname52 | Usrname52

ESH except daughter. Dad, go to wedding and use social distancing.

OldAndUnfashionable | OldAndUnfashionable

Don't be the a-hole dad! Attend your daughter's wedding 👰🏻

purplepersephone | purplepersephone

Father's selfishness is a YTA moment for daughter's wedding 😑

anarchyshift | anarchyshift

Be there for your daughter, even if it's just for a bit. 🙏

dane_crane | dane_crane

Don't let anger and bitterness ruin your relationship with family. ❤

ScubaCC | ScubaCC

Skipping your daughter's wedding? YTA, and you'll regret it ☹

The_final_frontier_ | The_final_frontier_

Father skips daughter's wedding due to family betrayal. NTA.

Unusual-Finding-9146 | Unusual-Finding-9146

Putting your feelings aside for daughter's wedding is tough 😞

GoldenFrog14 | GoldenFrog14

Compromises can save the day! YTA if you miss it 😔

trilliumsummer | trilliumsummer

Compromising for daughter's wedding despite painful family history is NAH.

Ozdreamer | Ozdreamer

Weddings are optional, mental health is not. Daughter's TA.

ProgmusicHans | ProgmusicHans

Ex-wife is right, it's your daughter's big day. Don't be YTA.

milee30 | milee30

Father should prioritize daughter's big day over personal grudges. 💔

WhenYouAreLost | WhenYouAreLost

OP's situation is deeply regrettable and deserves gentleness in judgment 👍

queerbychoice | queerbychoice

Daughter cheated with brother, OP NTA for skipping wedding. 👍

melth0rpe | melth0rpe

NTA refuses entitled daughter's wedding demands. Family drama ensues. 😜

butwhoisjasmine | butwhoisjasmine

Family betrayal at weddings? NTA says it all. 🙌

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Don't let anyone tell you NTA. Stand your ground! 💪

KamieKarla | KamieKarla

Skipping daughter's wedding - valid reason or AH move? 😬

Crafty-Particular998 | Crafty-Particular998

Support for NTA who skipped daughter's wedding after family betrayal.

EmmaWoodhous3 | EmmaWoodhous3

Validated feelings and a compromise suggestion for a happy wedding day! 🙌🏻

Rossybel | Rossybel

Choosing between daughter and ex-wife on wedding day. 😱

RonitSarangi | RonitSarangi

Compassionate comment acknowledges emotional impact of wife's infidelity.

Excellent-Fox9240 | Excellent-Fox9240

Choosing to skip his daughter's wedding, a man is called NTA by a commenter who warns about possible problems from his ex. The commenter advises him to avoid asking Reddit for advice and not to pay attention to those shaming him.

Villain_911 | Villain_911

Father faces backlash for skipping daughter's wedding, YTA verdict.

AndromedaGreen | AndromedaGreen

Putting aside past grudges to attend your child's wedding 🚤

Swoozibootz | Swoozibootz

Redditor defends NTA ruling on sister's wedding dispute. 👏

MinutemanRising | MinutemanRising

Choosing not to go to your daughter's wedding is unfair 💔

Longjumping_2390 | Longjumping_2390

Despite not being the a**hole, dad's absence still hurts daughter 😢

Quetzacoatyl77 | Quetzacoatyl77

Setting boundaries for mental wellbeing. NTA 👍

MinPDnim | MinPDnim

Skipping daughter's wedding - is it worth the lifetime regret? 😕

flowers4u | flowers4u

A heartwarming suggestion for the father-daughter dance. ❤️

dramaandaheadache | dramaandaheadache

Emotional abuse and family drama on wedding day 😱

Clever_Word_Play | Clever_Word_Play

Wedding drama! Commenter supports NTA's choice to stand up for themselves.

leftcoastjazz | leftcoastjazz

Choosing not to attend daughter's wedding due to mental abuse.

ThuderingFoxy | ThuderingFoxy

Encouraging words to support a father-daughter relationship. 👍

Captkiller77 | Captkiller77

Wedding cynic thinks everyone sucks, hates celebrations 🤷🏻‍♂️

LeonaEnjaulada | LeonaEnjaulada

Heartfelt plea for father to attend daughter's wedding despite ex.

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Father chooses ego over daughter's big day 😠

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Father's betrayal discovered, but still find a way to support daughter. 👨🏻툀👰🏻💕

Cranberryblue112 | Cranberryblue112

Navigating a tricky situation with ex and daughter's wedding 💓

ToshenRaz | ToshenRaz

Father's justified decision to skip daughter's wedding discussed.

Spicy_Tea53 | Spicy_Tea53

Choose love over hate and be there for your daughter ❤️

Athena_zx | Athena_zx

Ex-wife ruins dad's life, skips daughter's wedding. NTA 👍

supr3m3codeine | supr3m3codeine

Don't be the a**hole at your daughter's wedding! 😱

afistfulofyen | afistfulofyen

Setting boundaries is important for self-care and mental health 👍

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Rise above and attend the wedding. Be the bigger person. ✌👍

RolanSteinRunnald | RolanSteinRunnald

Family drama and ultimatums over wedding guest list. 🤷‍♀️

neroisstillbanned | neroisstillbanned

Avoiding wedding drama with a reverse ultimatum 🙌

AJs3rdAlt | AJs3rdAlt

A heartwarming plea for a father to attend his daughter's wedding ♥️

Quetzacoatyl77 | Quetzacoatyl77

Father's mental health concerns about ex-wife at daughter's wedding. 😪

Nice-Positive9435 | Nice-Positive9435

Complicated family dynamics post-divorce, still in contact with younger kids?

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Family drama averted at commenter's wedding 🙌

JennaLS | JennaLS

Put your pain aside and be there for your daughter ❤️

MinnieMinx01 | MinnieMinx01

Father chooses to skip daughter's wedding for personal reasons. NTA.

Ramanujin666 | Ramanujin666

Skipping daughter's wedding: NTA, it's okay to set boundaries.

cerealbox03 | cerealbox03

Prioritizing feelings vs. daughter's special day 😢💔

selenaconsuela | selenaconsuela

Avoid drama at daughter's wedding ceremony by attending briefly. 👍

rosechells | rosechells

Who will walk her down the aisle? Don't miss it! 💓

peachbottomjeans | peachbottomjeans

OP's dilemma: choosing hate for ex or love for daughter. YWBTA.

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Father refuses to attend daughter's wedding without reason 🤷‍♂️

thearcher2112 | thearcher2112

Navigating difficult family situations at weddings 👯🏻

Overlord0810 | Overlord0810

Be there for your kid, don't let the drama win 🙏

Jadefeather12 | Jadefeather12

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