Husband Secretly Invites Lazy Sister on $2K Vacation — Wife Pays the Price! 🙅‍♀️

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Picture this: you're planning a fun family vacation with your husband and his sisters' families. You're excited, but there's a catch – one of the sisters has a history of not contributing her fair share. She brings only specific snacks for her and her daughter, doesn't help with cleaning, and you're left doing all the work. You've brought it up before, but nothing's changed. Now, your husband wants to invite her again, and you're not thrilled. Does that make you the bad guy? 🤔 Let's dive into this story and find out!

Family Vacation Time! 🏖️

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Older Sister Joins the Fun 🎉

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Younger Sister's Invitation 💌

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The Deal with Younger Sister 🍽️

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Selective Grocery Shopping 🛒

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Cleaning Duties? Nah! 🧹

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Superwoman to the Rescue 💪

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Family Dynamics 🏡

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Past Conversations 🗣️

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Willing to Help, But... 🤷

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Husband's Annoyance 😒

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Am I the a**hole?? 🤔

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Vacation Drama: Sister-in-Law Showdown! 🥊

Our protagonist is planning a family vacation with her husband and his sisters' families. They've invited the older sister, who's happily booked a cabin, but the younger sister is the cause of some concern. In the past, she's brought only specific snacks for her and her daughter, refusing to share with the other kids, and hasn't helped with any cleaning or cooking, leaving our protagonist to do all the work. Despite paying a fraction of the vacation cost, she insists she shouldn't be responsible for food and cleaning. Our protagonist is fed up and brings it up with her husband, who's annoyed and admits he didn't want to tell her he invited the younger sister. So, who's in the wrong here? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 💭

Sassy solution proposed with a 'Parent Trap' reference! 😂

LoveBeach8 | LoveBeach8

Take charge of your vacation! NTA! 👏

HistorySweet9902 | HistorySweet9902

Take control of the situation, prioritize yourself and your kids. 💪

5115E | 5115E

Take a break, enjoy your vacation and let hubby handle everything! 😎

One-Awareness3671 | One-Awareness3671

Boycott cooking and cleaning! Husband and SIL are TAs. 🙅‍♀️

UneducatedPotatoTato | UneducatedPotatoTato

Husband invites sister on vacation without consulting wife - NTA

BrinkyStitches | BrinkyStitches

NTA. Your vacation too. Hubby can do cooking, cleaning, laundry 😎

ppmd | ppmd

Tips for avoiding vacation chores with lazy sister-in-law.

Kareberrys | Kareberrys

Setting boundaries in relationships is crucial. Communicate your needs 👩‍🏻‍💻

MaHuckleberry33 | MaHuckleberry33

Partner secretly inviting lazy sister on vacation = instant AH 🙅‍♀️. Suggestions to avoid future problems.

latents | latents

NTA. Let your husband take care of everything for them. 🙅‍♀️

readytojudgeLOL | readytojudgeLOL

Other sister gets her own place, lazy sister gets free ride 😑

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Fairness in vacations matters. NTA for insisting sister helps out! ✌🏻


Skipping vacation and letting husband handle lazy sister 🤷‍♀️

roxysinsox | roxysinsox

Set boundaries and make sister contribute, husband needs to help.

nursepenguin36 | nursepenguin36

NTA - Enjoy vacation but have serious talk with husband 🏝

JuanaConCola | JuanaConCola

Stand up for yourself! Uninvite and teach him a lesson 💪

kcoinga | kcoinga

Wife deserves a real vacation. Set ground rules or stay elsewhere. 💆‍♀️

Lamacorn | Lamacorn

Husband's lazy sister invited on vacation, wife left to suffer 🙄

CP81818 | CP81818

Set boundaries with lazy sister-in-law on YOUR vacation 👩‍👧‍👦

LexiOrr50 | LexiOrr50

Taking a vacation shouldn't mean being a maid. 👫👕

AgeLower1081 | AgeLower1081

Enjoy vacation and let hubby handle lazy sister. NTA.

IamNotTheMama | IamNotTheMama

Rent your own cabin for true relaxation. NTA 🍷

JerryVand | JerryVand

When husband invites lazy SIL on vacay without telling wife 😳

Dry-Clock-1470 | Dry-Clock-1470

Set boundaries and let her take care of herself and her kid 👍

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Use a chore chart to manage her laziness. 👍

ComputerCrafty4781 | ComputerCrafty4781

Set boundaries and stop enabling the entitled leech 🤪

HotConfusion | HotConfusion

OP deserves a vacation too, not just to be a maid. 😔

itsminimes | itsminimes

Don't be a maid on your holiday 🍷. Warn your husband and enjoy!

DietcokeObessed91 | DietcokeObessed91

Husband invites freeloader sister on vacation despite wife's objections

Emotional_Bonus_934 | Emotional_Bonus_934

Require sister to pay and clean or not invite her. NTA 👍

Visual_Balance8617 | Visual_Balance8617

Taking a stand against a lazy sister with a petty twist 😂

Jesteress | Jesteress

Hold him accountable! 🤝 NTA's solution to lazy sister problem.

BrizzelBass | BrizzelBass

Vacation is for relaxation, not housework. Good advice 👍

lurninandlurkin | lurninandlurkin

NTA but also not too smart, SIL treated you like a slave 👍

International-Fee255 | International-Fee255

Take a stand! Go on vacation, relax, and don't clean 😂

Professional-Duck469 | Professional-Duck469

NTA, but setting boundaries with husband's sister 👭

Necessary_Habit_7747 | Necessary_Habit_7747

Setting boundaries with family during vacation planning. 🍷

emmytay4504 | emmytay4504

Stand up to your husband and stop enabling his dismissive behavior. 🙂 NTA

WelshWickedWitch | WelshWickedWitch

NTA. Set boundaries and refuse to do their laundry. 🙌

Feverel | Feverel

Take a break and let your husband do everything! 😊

skybound128 | skybound128

Vacation turns into unpaid housekeeping job. NTA.

MumSquared | MumSquared

Set boundaries and make lazy sister fend for herself. NTA 👍

winesis | winesis

NTA, but sister pays for own expenses 💰 and chores 🚶

HeatherAnne1975 | HeatherAnne1975

NTA demands hubby to do all cooking/cleaning for lazy sister 👩‍🍳🧼

Churchie-Baby | Churchie-Baby

"Lazy" sister invited on vacation against wife's wishes 🙅‍♀️

whenitrainsitpours4 | whenitrainsitpours4

Set clear expectations before vacation to avoid disaster 🚨

fanofpolkadotts | fanofpolkadotts

Husband prioritizes entitled sister over wife's vacation. NTA. 🙅‍♀️

celticmusebooks | celticmusebooks

NTA suggests giving lazy sister a list and no compensation.

OLAZ3000 | OLAZ3000

When does marriage prioritize your feelings? NTA but exhausting.

dragonmom03 | dragonmom03

Stand up for yourself! Don't let your husband treat you like a maid. 🙏

Lazuli_Rose | Lazuli_Rose

Book a cabin for yourself and let your husband clean up 👍

Every_Caterpillar945 | Every_Caterpillar945

Boundaries are key 🔑. Stop enabling lazy behavior. 🙅🏻‍♀️

bookaholic234 | bookaholic234

Don't let your husband's actions ruin your vacation plans. Stand firm! 💪

Salty-Contact4371 | Salty-Contact4371

Husband's lack of responsibility forces wife to deal with lazy sister-in-law on vacation.

KMN208 | KMN208

NTA. Take a break and let husband handle the household chores 👏

an0nym0uswr1ter | an0nym0uswr1ter

Take a break, put your feet up, and let him do laundry 👍

Fancy_Avocado7497 | Fancy_Avocado7497

Stand up for yourself, make her pay. NTA.

YorkshireTeaWithSalt | YorkshireTeaWithSalt

Make him do it 💪 and teach him a lesson 😉

Hour_Context_99 | Hour_Context_99

Wife's NTA comment raises concern over husband's lack of contribution. 🤔

Cohava | Cohava

Confront husband & sister, or stop complaining. YTA receives advice.

Toyotafan123 | Toyotafan123

Wife is NTA but husband is the real issue 🙅‍♀️

Just_here2020 | Just_here2020

Take control of your holiday and set clear guidelines. 🙌

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Lazy sister on vacation, NTA suggests fair contribution and discussion.

BrightonSpartan | BrightonSpartan

Solving problems with a meal plan 🍕 and clear expectations 👍

BenedictineBaby | BenedictineBaby

Suggests fair division of chores for a relaxing vacation ✌

coffeecoffi | coffeecoffi

Take charge of your vacation, be the petty queen. 👑 NTA.

practical-junkie | practical-junkie

Relatable! NTA. Let the husband and SIL do the work 🏖️😎

BeachPlze | BeachPlze

Set kitchen boundaries with lazy sister to avoid conflict 🍝

Long_Boom | Long_Boom

Stand up for yourself and don't let your SIL treat you like a doormat! 👊

NoDaisy | NoDaisy

Lazy sister on vacation? Time for hubby to do chores 🍺🛋️

SatelliteBeach123 | SatelliteBeach123

Wife gets the last laugh with a simple solution 😏

CosmicChanges | CosmicChanges

Wife encouraged to stop unpaid labor and enjoy her vacation 🌴

PARA9535307 | PARA9535307

Fair solution proposed for lazy sister's share of vacation expenses.

acarouselride | acarouselride

Wife suggests a fair compromise for a relaxing vacation ✌️

Haunting-Aardvark709 | Haunting-Aardvark709

Taking a $2k vacation but still doing chores? NTA, but...

sheba71smokey32 | sheba71smokey32

Fair point, make husband do the housework and see.

ComprehensiveBand586 | ComprehensiveBand586

Put your sanity first ✨. Don't wash dishes on vacation.

Born_Preference7982 | Born_Preference7982

Suggests practical ways to deal with lazy sister-in-law on vacation ✍️

Slightlysanemomof5 | Slightlysanemomof5

Suggests simple solution to vacation issue, reminds husband NTA.

MaryK007 | MaryK007

Lazy sister creates more work on vacation, husband blind to it.

curious382 | curious382

Don't let lazy sis ruin your vacation. NTA 👍

Pristine-Revolution5 | Pristine-Revolution5

Suggests a creative way to make husband understand the problem 🤔

throwit_amita | throwit_amita

Suggests splitting costs and meal responsibilities with lazy sister 👍

FormerRunnerAgain | FormerRunnerAgain

NTA. Wife suggests options to deal with inconsiderate husband and sister.

PettyWhite81 | PettyWhite81

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