Newlyweds Stunned by Family's Visa Marriage Joke 😲💍

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Weddings are supposed to be a time of love, joy, and celebration, right? 🎉 Well, sometimes, family drama can turn that special day into a nightmare. 😱 Meet our concerned father, who's dealing with some family conflict after his son's wedding. His son, James, married his long-time love, Zara, who happens to be from South Asia. But when the father's sister and her husband make some distasteful jokes about visa marriages and 90 Day Fiancées, things take a turn for the worse. 😤 Now, the father is left wondering if he's in the wrong for uninviting them from the wedding reception. Let's dive into this family drama and see what's going on! 🍿

Meet the Family 🤗

Dry-Tomatillo9385 | Dry-Tomatillo9385

A Love Story 💕

Dry-Tomatillo9385 | Dry-Tomatillo9385

Family Matters ❤️

Dry-Tomatillo9385 | Dry-Tomatillo9385

The Sister and Her Husband 😐

Dry-Tomatillo9385 | Dry-Tomatillo9385

Misconceptions and Jokes 😒

Dry-Tomatillo9385 | Dry-Tomatillo9385

Ignoring the Comments 😶

Dry-Tomatillo9385 | Dry-Tomatillo9385

Shell-Shocked 😳

Dry-Tomatillo9385 | Dry-Tomatillo9385

The Un-Invite 🚫

Dry-Tomatillo9385 | Dry-Tomatillo9385

Playing the Victim 😢

Dry-Tomatillo9385 | Dry-Tomatillo9385

Meaning Well Means Nothing 😠

Dry-Tomatillo9385 | Dry-Tomatillo9385

Refusing to Reinvite ✋

Dry-Tomatillo9385 | Dry-Tomatillo9385

90 Day Fiance? Not Here! 🇬🇧

Dry-Tomatillo9385 | Dry-Tomatillo9385

Zara's Qualifications 💼

Dry-Tomatillo9385 | Dry-Tomatillo9385

Beth and Tom's Response 🤷

Dry-Tomatillo9385 | Dry-Tomatillo9385

Forgive and Forget? 🤔

Dry-Tomatillo9385 | Dry-Tomatillo9385

90 Day Fiancé Joke Gone Wrong 😬

Our concerned father is dealing with some family drama after his son James married his long-time love, Zara, who is from South Asia. At the wedding, the father's sister, Beth, and her husband, Tom, made some inappropriate jokes about visa marriages and 90 Day Fiancées. 😒 James and Zara were shocked, and the father immediately uninvited Beth and Tom from the reception. Now, Beth and Tom are playing the victim, claiming they had James's best interests at heart. 🙄 Some family members are siding with them, saying they were just trying to help. But our father is standing his ground, refusing to reinvite them, and pointing out that Zara is more than qualified to be in the country on her own merits. 💪 Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation...

NTA commenter hilariously calls out sister's xenophobic visa joke

monstrousveggiement | monstrousveggiement

Immigrant thanks commenter for calling out hurtful 'joke' 👏

buongiornoitaly | buongiornoitaly

Defending against ignorant family visa joke. NTA 🙌

atealein | atealein

Wedding guests make racist joke, disinvited from reception. NTA.

IAndaraB | IAndaraB

NTA commenter calls out racism and disbelief at couple's ignorance.

janewilson90 | janewilson90

NTA shuts down inappropriate advice from Beth and Tom 🙌

EconomyReference3193 | EconomyReference3193

Foreigners face struggles settling in despite racist jokes 😠

MiserableEssay7126 | MiserableEssay7126

Communication is key. Heartfelt talks > Lame jokes 💍

Yes_Im_the_mole | Yes_Im_the_mole

Standing up to bullies and abusers is always the right choice 👊

ArmyPatate | ArmyPatate

Fighting racism with love and support 💍❤️

11SkiHill | 11SkiHill

Wedding racism sparks NTA's justified fury 👊

Thanatofobia | Thanatofobia

NTA. Your sister and BIL's racist views are abhorrent 😡.

ImStealingTheTowels | ImStealingTheTowels

Family's visa marriage joke after 9 years? Definitely not okay 😑

Wise_Friendship2565 | Wise_Friendship2565

Standing up against racism and ignorance, good job NTA 🙌

AdaptableAilurophile | AdaptableAilurophile

Family's joke invalidates J and Z's love. NTA for reacting.

avdepa | avdepa

Stand up against racism and call out jokes that hurt. ✊🏾

Crafty-Gardener | Crafty-Gardener

Making jokes about the bride at her event? Not cool 😒

Pretzelmamma | Pretzelmamma

Fighting back against nosy family's visa assumptions 🤙

9smalltowngirl | 9smalltowngirl

Cheers to the happy couple and kudos to the in-laws! 👏

pineappleponyboy | pineappleponyboy

Standing up to xenophobia at a wedding 💍

WhilstWhile | WhilstWhile

Standing up to racist jokes: NTA couple and family support

Daughter_of_Dusk | Daughter_of_Dusk

Spouse visa struggles in UK. Returning to US. NTA. 😔

peacelily2014 | peacelily2014

Defending a couple against foreign marriage jokes. Congrats J&Z! 💍

Inevitable-Slice-263 | Inevitable-Slice-263

Supportive comment applauds dad's decision to accept stepdaughters. 👏

Lullayable | Lullayable

Zara's citizenship won't hurt, NTA and thumbs up for you 🌹👍

Shnipi | Shnipi

Family's ignorance about visa process exposed. NTA stands firm.

TastingTheKoolaid | TastingTheKoolaid

Wedding guestlist drama ends with a happy couple. NTA

je97 | je97

NTA shuts down racist joke with a fiery comeback! 🔥

AethericOwl | AethericOwl

Couple in long-term relationship faces visa marriage joke, NTA defends.

bogo0814 | bogo0814

Standing up against racism and xenophobia. Good riddance, friends! 👏

AtticusPenguin | AtticusPenguin

Supportive comment against racism and xenophobia towards family members ❤️

AndOtherPlaces | AndOtherPlaces

No sympathy for disgraceful and foolish Beth and Tom.


Wedding bliss turns into racist joke gone wrong. 😬

buttercupgrump | buttercupgrump

Calling out racist 'visa joke' as a cover for jingoism 🔥

TheDaemonette | TheDaemonette

10 years together and still dealing with green card jokes 😒 NTA.

Salty-Contact4371 | Salty-Contact4371

Misconception around marriage and citizenship in the US 🤔

fishchick70 | fishchick70

Wedding guests called-out for racist behavior 💯 🤯

Ozludo | Ozludo

Uninviting racists: the perfect response. 👏

Matchbreakers | Matchbreakers

Love prevails despite tasteless visa joke 😢💍

Previous-Sea-9660 | Previous-Sea-9660

Stand by your decision, micro-aggressions are not acceptable 🤨

kwuson | kwuson

Family's visa joke backfires on wedding guest. NTA takes action.

miflordelicata | miflordelicata

Family makes racist visa joke, commenter recommends low contact. NTA.

loz_fanatic | loz_fanatic

Stand up against racist jokes at your wedding 👊

FairyFartDaydreams | FairyFartDaydreams

Family's visa joke goes too far, leads to rude behavior.

HalcyonDreams36 | HalcyonDreams36

Racist joke not funny. Support your son and daughter-in-law ❤

ihateusernamecreates | ihateusernamecreates

Fighting racism with NTA. No one deserves racist jokes 💫

Hey-Just-Saying | Hey-Just-Saying

Defending against rude family members, NTA wins 🙌

Dittoheadforever | Dittoheadforever

Choose the light side and enjoy your wedding. NTA 🙌

Ornery-Calendar-2769 | Ornery-Calendar-2769

Uninviting xenophobic family for visa 'joke' was justified. NTA 👏

Gaypanic0000000 | Gaypanic0000000

NTA for uninviting family who made unnecessary and rude comments 👏👏 Congrats to the newlyweds! 😊

toxiclight | toxiclight

Standing up to microaggressions - kudos to the commenter 💯

Necessary-Try7694 | Necessary-Try7694

User supports OP's decision to stand up to sister's racism 🙌

TabbieAbbie | TabbieAbbie

NTA. Don't play into their DARVO game 🙅🏼

GRidgeflyover | GRidgeflyover

Debunking the stereotype of marrying a foreigner on reality TV 🤔

Any_War_8644 | Any_War_8644

No apology from jokesters, good on OP for uninviting them 💯

AgeLower1081 | AgeLower1081

Wedding day or not, xenophobia has no place in humor 😒

Marshmallows- | Marshmallows-

Standing up against racism at a wedding 👊👏

savinathewhite | savinathewhite

Family's 'joke' at wedding was insulting and bullying. NTA.

dart1126 | dart1126

Rejecting bigotry is the only right move 👍

LetThemEatHay | LetThemEatHay

Uninviting racist family - NTA is a hero 👏

PotentialUmpire1714 | PotentialUmpire1714

NTA. The couple's father/father-in-law won't tolerate overt, insulting racism. Bravo! 👏

Electrical-Art-8641 | Electrical-Art-8641

Making 'jokes' is not expressing concern. NTA. 😱

Aria1031 | Aria1031

Calling out bigotry with grace. Nicely done! 👏

universalrefuse | universalrefuse

Standing up against racism, good on you! 💪🏽

ghjkl098 | ghjkl098

Standing up to racist 'jokes' - NTA shuts it down 👏

Tea_and_Biscuits12 | Tea_and_Biscuits12

Family's visa joke reveals racism and jealousy 🤬

DegenerateWins | DegenerateWins

Family's 'visa marriage' joke embarrasses newlyweds. NTA response.

SigourneyReap3r | SigourneyReap3r

Standing up to racist relatives for a happier wedding reception! 👏

Dot_the_Dork_26 | Dot_the_Dork_26

NTA shuts down family's ignorant visa marriage joke 😒

HellaShelle | HellaShelle

Parental advocacy praised, criticism of UK immigration system expressed 👍🤔

Meincornwall | Meincornwall

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