Wife's Ultimatum: Lose Weight or Lose Me 😱👫

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Hey there, Facebook fam! 😊 Have you ever felt like you're putting in all the effort in a relationship, while your partner just doesn't seem to care? Well, that's exactly what happened to our protagonist here. She and her husband, Rob, both struggled with weight issues, but after a wake-up call, she decided to turn her life around. 💪 Unfortunately, Rob didn't get the memo and continued to gain weight, lie about going to the gym, and sneak unhealthy snacks. 🍔🍪 After a heated confrontation, she told him she deserves better and can do better than him. 😱 The question is, did she go too far? Let's dive into this rollercoaster of a story! 🎢

Throwaway and Backstory 📖

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Weight Struggles 😔

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Rob's Weight 📈

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Health Problems 😷

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Wake Up Call ⏰

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Time for Change 💪

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Pact for a Better Life 🤝

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Rob's Weight Gain 😞

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Gym Lies 🏋️‍♂️

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Fast Food and Snack Secrets 🍔🍪

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Hidden Snacks 🍫

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Doctor's Warning ⚠️

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Therapy and Confrontation 🗣️

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Couples Therapy Rejection 💔

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The Big Confrontation 🤬

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Accusations and Ego 💥

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Credit Card Proof 💳

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Attractive Man Accusation 🤨

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I Deserve Better 💔

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No More Pity Party 🚫

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Ultimatum 😠

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Rob Leaves 🚪

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Mother-in-Law's Call ☎️

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Standing My Ground 💪

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Siblings' Reaction 😮

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Did I Go Too Far? 🤔

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Desperate Wife's Ultimatum 📣

In a heart-wrenching story, our protagonist desperately tries to help her husband, Rob, lose weight and live a healthier life. 💔 After losing her father to weight-related health issues, she made a pact with Rob to change their lives. However, Rob continued to gain weight, lie about going to the gym, and indulge in unhealthy habits. 😔 After a heated confrontation, she told him she deserves better and can do better than him. 😱 Rob's mother called to shame her, but she stood her ground, insisting that Rob needs to change. 📞 Her siblings, however, think she went too far. 🤔 Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 💭

Setting firm boundaries with empathy and support. NTA. 💪

LifeSparkles418 | LifeSparkles418

Partner's weight affects future health, not about looks or ego 💪🏻

mellysuzanne | mellysuzanne

NTA for working on your weight. Concerning comment about life insurance.

HoneySignificant105 | HoneySignificant105

Leave him, he won't change. His worst habits are yours. 💔

StubbornKindOfFellow | StubbornKindOfFellow

NTA for giving ultimatum to husband refusing to make changes 🚨

DirtyPinkTeaKettle | DirtyPinkTeaKettle

Couple loses over 500lbs together after ultimatum 🙌

MelodyRaine | MelodyRaine

Support for a friend struggling with food addiction, NTA.

Nikkyjohnson | Nikkyjohnson

Giving an ultimatum to prioritize health isn't being an a**hole 💪

CJ_Southworth | CJ_Southworth

Partner's lack of respect, not weight, the real issue. NTA 👏

Agoraphobe961 | Agoraphobe961

NTA stands up for herself against husband's lack of self-care 👏

WhyAmIStillHere86 | WhyAmIStillHere86

It's your decision: wait for him to change or leave 🤔

PeteyPorkchops | PeteyPorkchops

Partner lies about weight loss, commenter supports OP's efforts 💪

United-Plum1671 | United-Plum1671

Empathetic comment suggests separation as a potential wake-up call 😔

DamienWells1118 | DamienWells1118

Support and empathy for someone struggling to get healthy.

Nanojak15 | Nanojak15

Confronting an addict is difficult, his manipulative behavior is evident. 💪

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Passive-aggressive remark leads to no solution 🤷‍♀️

notasandpiper | notasandpiper

Partner's lies and unwillingness to change justify leaving. NTA 💪

princessofperky | princessofperky

Sometimes tough love is necessary for someone's health 👍

asbestospajamas | asbestospajamas

Encouraging comment on self-care and relationship boundaries. ❤

Glinda-The-Witch | Glinda-The-Witch

Weight ultimatum deemed serious, communication irrelevant. NTA.

jimmap | jimmap

Obesity is a serious illness and needs intervention. NTA 👍

Outrageous_Smile_996 | Outrageous_Smile_996

Setting boundaries for unhealthy behavior. NTA 👍

mdthomas | mdthomas

ESH gets called out for fat-shaming and unrealistic expectations.

atterysquash | atterysquash

Choose yourself first 👍, it's not worth sacrificing your goals for love.

D0ctorwh010 | D0ctorwh010

Apologize, lay out terms for marriage, NTA overall. 👍

ImMe_NotYou | ImMe_NotYou

Supportive comment on weight ultimatum and fitness journey 💪

ScoutSteveR | ScoutSteveR

Supportive reply to YTA comment about ultimatum and weight loss 🙌

econdonetired | econdonetired

User explains food addiction and criticizes approach with YTA judgement.

Remarkable_Rock3654 | Remarkable_Rock3654

Encouraging comment about taking responsibility for one's health. 👍

Expensive_Pain_5987 | Expensive_Pain_5987

Encouraging comment on health journey, but with a firm warning ⚠️

ChefGdub | ChefGdub

Shaming someone for their weight is ineffective and mean-spirited 🤯

AffectionateWheel386 | AffectionateWheel386

Supportive comment encourages prioritizing own health amidst addict husband's denial 👏

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Insults won't help, husband needs professional help for food addiction 👨🏻‍🌾

convertedlurker88 | convertedlurker88

NTA. Husband in denial about weight. Separation may be necessary.

Sea_Firefighter_4598 | Sea_Firefighter_4598

Stay true to yourself, seek legal help if necessary. 💪

SnooWords4839 | SnooWords4839

Encouraging comment about seeking therapy for husband's weight issue ❤️

Nitehawke88 | Nitehawke88

NTA. Empowering response to toxic ultimatum. 💪

Slappyhandz | Slappyhandz

Poor communication may have permanently damaged the relationship 😞

Garaleth | Garaleth

Weight shaming and insults aren't a healthy motivator. YTA.

TalkieTina | TalkieTina

Encouragement for OP's husband to take action to save marriage ❤️

Dodger808 | Dodger808

Partner's weight ultimatum: tough love or toxic behavior? NTA

BluBird0203 | BluBird0203

Weight ultimatum leads to ESH situation with lying and manipulation

burna_boy1 | burna_boy1

Partner wants weight loss, but approach was cruel and abusive 😕

GracieW7 | GracieW7

Brutal honesty saves lives. Hopefully, he learned from it. 🙏

Scary-Alternative-11 | Scary-Alternative-11

NTA for wanting him to lose weight, but YTA for name-calling. 👍 It's a sensitive issue and may come with other underlying problems like depression, EDs, etc. Be supportive instead 🙏

ViviBest211 | ViviBest211

Encouraging comment on weight loss journey and tough love advice.

incorrigible_reacher | incorrigible_reacher

Overcoming obesity: A personal journey to save oneself. 🙌


Partner's support is crucial for weight loss. NTA but YTA too.

PurpleStabsPixel | PurpleStabsPixel

Encouraging NTA, but partner's health is a priority 💪

Ballamookieofficial | Ballamookieofficial

Heartbreaking story of losing a friend to addiction-related illness. 💔

Educational-Dirt4059 | Educational-Dirt4059

Lovingly encouraging weight loss is okay, ultimatums are not. 👍

TheKing931 | TheKing931

Encouraging comment about prioritizing self-care over toxic relationship 👍

Upstairs_Bad5078 | Upstairs_Bad5078

Compassionate comment on spousal food addiction intervention 💕

wyrd- | wyrd-

Empathy is key: imagine reverse roles before being cruel. 💔

XxxAresIXxxX | XxxAresIXxxX

Weight shaming is not the answer 🚫. Treat people with respect.

jefjohms | jefjohms

Encouraging tough love from a spouse can backfire tragically. 😢

TheFairyingForest | TheFairyingForest

Food addiction is real. Harsh comments but not wrong 👍

ModernTrumanShowStar | ModernTrumanShowStar

OP's tough love for her husband's obesity and denial 😱

Practical-Junket-520 | Practical-Junket-520

NTA for feeling hurt and wanting better. Condolences for loss 😢

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Encouragement for setting boundaries and seeking therapy 👏

monolim | monolim

Working on a healthier lifestyle is scary for him. NTA. 🙏

meltedcheeser | meltedcheeser

A heartbreaking story about the dangers of obesity. 💔

AlwaysRighteous | AlwaysRighteous

Tough love and standing your ground for a healthier relationship ✊

Blonde2468 | Blonde2468

Both TA, but for different reasons. Need to address lying.

JungleMouse_ | JungleMouse_

Choose life over Rob 🙏, there needs to be support in relationships. 👍

smalltowncynic | smalltowncynic

Sometimes change is only possible if someone wants it themselves 🙏

ClearAwakening | ClearAwakening

Harsh comments about weight loss ultimatum, empathy suggested. 🙏

Mr_BillyB | Mr_BillyB

YTA for expecting him to change on your time table 😑

TheDonutTouch | TheDonutTouch

Comparing Rob to Tammy from TLC's show 😳

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NTA for giving an ultimatum. Outcome depends on his actions. 🙏

MinnieShoof | MinnieShoof

Straightforward advice with a touch of humor. YNTA.

Psychological_You353 | Psychological_You353

Partner's lack of effort towards self-improvement leads to breakup. NTA 👏

untitledfolder4 | untitledfolder4

Supportive comment, encouraging self-care and setting boundaries. 👍

Top-Bit85 | Top-Bit85

Encouraging comment from stranger on health journey 🙏

SpiritedDiscussion74 | SpiritedDiscussion74

Society's double standard on addiction pointed out 🤔

Logical_Area_5552 | Logical_Area_5552

Supportive comment urges OP to consider separation for husband's addiction.

girlieb1991 | girlieb1991

User calls out hypocrisy of overweight husband's ultimatum. YTA.

Top-Ad-6333 | Top-Ad-6333

Toxicity in a relationship can lead to negative health outcomes. 🤪

Mack373 | Mack373

Compassion and understanding could have been a better approach 🤝

wrenwynn | wrenwynn

Empathetic commenter shares experience and advises against insulting language 👍

StrawberryTallCake84 | StrawberryTallCake84

Encouraging NTA comment with empowering message and sympathy.

a-_rose | a-_rose

A helpful suggestion for managing type 2 diabetes 🙏

Kittykungfu87 | Kittykungfu87

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