Ex-Partner Helps Daughter with Secret Abortion: Right or Wrong? 😲

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Picture this: you're a loving, supportive woman who's been a mentor to your ex's daughter, Marcy, even after the breakup. You've built a strong bond with her, and she trusts you enough to confide in you about a life-changing situation. Marcy discovers she's pregnant and wants an abortion, but she doesn't want her dad to know. What do you do? 🤔 You step up and help her, of course! But when her father eventually finds out, he's furious and confrontational. 😡 Now, you're left wondering if you did the right thing. 🥺 Let's dive into this emotional rollercoaster of a story...

The Ex and His Daughter 🤔

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Infidelity Strikes 💔

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Building a Bond with Marcy 💕

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A Special Connection 🌸

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Staying Close After the Breakup 📞

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Dad Can't Relocate 😕

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Seeking Support 🤰

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A Secret Request 🤫

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Mama Bear Instincts 🐻

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Her Choice, Her Privacy 👩‍👧

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Helping with Birth Control & Therapy 💊

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Thriving & Staying Connected 🌟

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Weekly Brunches & Daily Calls 🍳

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Dad Discovers the Secret 😱

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Marcy's Privacy Breached? 😰

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Confrontation & Angry Exchanges 😡

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Dad's Supportive Stance 🤷‍♂️

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Respecting Marcy's Wishes 💗

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Take It to the Grave, Dad ⚰️

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Name-Calling & Defiance 🤬

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Secret Abortion Drama: Whose Side Are You On? 😱

Our protagonist, a caring and supportive woman, helps her ex's daughter, Marcy, get an abortion without her father's knowledge. She pays for it out of pocket, helps her get on reliable birth control, and even provides therapy. They maintain a close relationship, with daily phone calls and weekly brunches. 🌸 But when Marcy's father discovers the secret, he's livid and confronts our protagonist. She stands her ground, defending Marcy's right to privacy and her choice to keep her father in the dark. 😤 The father insists he would've been supportive, but our protagonist remains firm in respecting Marcy's wishes. 🙅‍♀️ The argument ends with name-calling and defiance. So, who's in the right here? We've collected the top responses from the internet for your pleasure. Let's see what people think about this emotional dilemma! 🍿

Helping Marcy, NTA. But beware of John's potential backlash. 😐

Ateosira | Ateosira

Supportive comment, encourages setting boundaries with dad. 👏

Weird-Pea7102 | Weird-Pea7102

NTA defends daughter's secret abortion against unsupportive ex-partner 😤

butterfly-garden | butterfly-garden

Support for ex-partner who helped adult daughter with abortion 👏

Dachshundmom5 | Dachshundmom5

Supporting a loved one, keeping their confidence. NTA 👍

Electronic_Fox_6383 | Electronic_Fox_6383

Protecting Marcy's privacy: The right thing to do 🙌

likes_to_read | likes_to_read

Daughter's right to choose. Dad needs to butt out. 👏

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Daughter gets secret abortion, commenter supports father's ex-partner. 😊

nerdgirl71 | nerdgirl71

Supportive comment to woman's decision, cut toxic ex out 👏

Legitimate-Produce-1 | Legitimate-Produce-1

Medical privacy is a right 💊 Let's not shame those upholding it

Peg_leg_J | Peg_leg_J

Supportive comment defends friend's actions in helping adult daughter with abortion. 👏

joneobi9238 | joneobi9238

A heartwarming NTA comment with a clueless dad.

ConvivialKat | ConvivialKat

Respecting privacy: Ex-partner insults helper, not daughter. NTA 🙏

cassowary32 | cassowary32

Acting in the best interest of a loved one 💜

ForeignAssociation98 | ForeignAssociation98

Respecting daughter's wishes, NTA. Nosy dad can f**k off 😠

Aurion7 | Aurion7

Daughter's privacy respected, ex-partner judged harshly. NTA wins.

wmnoe | wmnoe

Supportive ex-partner receives backlash for helping daughter with abortion 😢

Dollybadlands | Dollybadlands

Daughter's abortion, ex-partner's interference, and NTA verdict 👍

2_old_for_this_spit | 2_old_for_this_spit

Father's controlling behavior sparks NTA response 🚫👨‍👧

Dragon_Bidness | Dragon_Bidness

Supporting an adult in need: NTA 👍

Scottfos72 | Scottfos72

Supportive comment with a touch of sass. 🤩

erinwhite2 | erinwhite2

Tricky situation, daughter's privacy vs trust with ex-partner. 🤔

z-eldapin | z-eldapin

Supportive ex-partner helps daughter with secret abortion. NTA wins.

c_marten | c_marten

Daughter's secret abortion causes conflict, commenter supports NTA.

Jenderflux-ScFi | Jenderflux-ScFi

Setting boundaries with ex-partner over personal choices. 🙌


Respect privacy and autonomy. NTA for helping your daughter 👏

SignificantOrange139 | SignificantOrange139

Woman defends ex-partner's daughter's abortion decision, claps back at ex.

Dry_Ask5493 | Dry_Ask5493

Supportive comment with heartwarming message 😍

kentamine4 | kentamine4

Father violates daughter's privacy and attacks her friend. NTA.

Historical_Agent9426 | Historical_Agent9426

Medical privacy concerns raised about secret abortion procedure 😓

Altarna | Altarna

Daughter gets secret abortion with ex-partner's help. Commenter supports NTA.

rojita369 | rojita369

Daughter's medical procedure, dad shouldn't be involved. NTA 👍

GreenTravelBadger | GreenTravelBadger

Respecting her choice and privacy: NTA 👏

Aggravating_Meat2101 | Aggravating_Meat2101

Daughter's right to privacy defended by ex-partner. NTA.

lidyalamammasita | lidyalamammasita

Helping someone control their future 👏

writingisfreedom | writingisfreedom

Protective ex-partner helps daughter with secret abortion. NTA.

Ok-Many4262 | Ok-Many4262

Daughter's abortion, ex-partner not involved. NTA according to comment.

alaedra | alaedra

Empowering response to judgmental ex-partner in abortion decision 🙌

Tracerround702 | Tracerround702

Friend over ex: NTA sparks agreement in the comments. 👍

GielM | GielM

Protecting a daughter's secret abortion from abusive ex-partner 🙏

Alarming_Street_437 | Alarming_Street_437

Trustable ex-partner aids daughter’s secret abortion 🙌

enriquedelcastillo | enriquedelcastillo

Supportive comment defends woman's right to make own medical decisions 👍

IAdoptedTeens | IAdoptedTeens

Being a supportive ex-partner in a tough time 👏

FloweredHook | FloweredHook

Supportive comment receives no-nonsense reply, block him 😏

Sudden-Damage-5840 | Sudden-Damage-5840

Supportive friend helps daughter with secret abortion, dad in trouble 🤪

ConsitutionalHistory | ConsitutionalHistory

Supporting women's choices and autonomy 🙌🏼

AlaskanPuppyMom | AlaskanPuppyMom

Supportive father helps daughter with secret abortion. NTA wins!

lilyofthevalley2659 | lilyofthevalley2659

NTA stands up for herself in a controversial topic. 💪

SabrinaFaire | SabrinaFaire

Supportive friend defends woman's right to choose 👏

leolawilliams5859 | leolawilliams5859

Father claims to be supportive but screams at ex-partner. 😑

MissFlatwoodsMonster | MissFlatwoodsMonster

Empathetic comment shows support for a woman's bodily autonomy. 👏

morticianmagic | morticianmagic

Daughter's body, daughter's choice. Support and protect her. 👏

GodOfUtopiaPlenitia | GodOfUtopiaPlenitia

Respect and support for a woman's personal decisions 👏

DesperateJudgment899 | DesperateJudgment899

Macy trusts OP over her own Dad. Women helping women 👭👩👧💑 is beautiful 💕

realS4V4GElike | realS4V4GElike

Respecting daughter's wishes despite ex's opinion. NTA 👏

Brassrain287 | Brassrain287

Daughter's age makes father's opinion irrelevant. NTA wins.

Aries-Corinthier | Aries-Corinthier

Supportive ex-partner helps daughter with secret abortion. NTA 👏

breathofari | breathofari

A supportive ex-partner helps friend with secret abortion 🙏

AmbitiousOrange_242 | AmbitiousOrange_242

Supportive comment, reminds us of the importance of non-judgmental friends 👍

no-name-is-free | no-name-is-free

Supportive ex-partner receives backlash for helping daughter with abortion 😠

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Supportive mom helps daughter with secret abortion. 👏

Ogodnotagain | Ogodnotagain

Trust and support triumphs over jealousy. 👏

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Helping daughter with abortion, ex-partner faces privacy invasion accusations. NTA.

Sicadoll | Sicadoll

NTA. A heartwarming story of support and friendship 😍

flogrove | flogrove

Compassionate OP praised for supporting daughter's secret abortion 👏

balooladidit | balooladidit

Reddit shows love and support for helping daughter's secret abortion 😍

Syllable_Witch | Syllable_Witch

Journaling advice sparks debate on privacy and security 📝🔒

Shdfx1 | Shdfx1

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