Girlfriend's Friend Tests Boyfriend's Loyalty: A Betrayal or a Misunderstanding? 😲💔

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Picture this: You're in a happy relationship, planning to move in with your significant other, and then one of their friends tries to 'test' your loyalty by making advances towards you. 😱 That's exactly what happened to our protagonist, who's now questioning his girlfriend's trust in her friend. 🤔 Is he overreacting, or is there more to this story than meets the eye? Let's dive into the drama and find out! 🍿

☕ Love Brewed in a Coffee Shop ☕

ta-Harper32423 | ta-Harper32423

💑 Compatibility on Point 💑

ta-Harper32423 | ta-Harper32423

👯‍♀️ Olivia's Girl Gang 👯‍♀️

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🎮 Gamer Girl Harper 🎮

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🏠 Moving In Together 🏠

ta-Harper32423 | ta-Harper32423

👭 Sharing the News with Friends 👭

ta-Harper32423 | ta-Harper32423

🍻 Downtown Drinks 🍻

ta-Harper32423 | ta-Harper32423

🍸 Bar Hopping 🍸

ta-Harper32423 | ta-Harper32423

👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩 Just Harper and I 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩

ta-Harper32423 | ta-Harper32423

🚕 Calling an Uber 🚕

ta-Harper32423 | ta-Harper32423

🍷 Drunk Harper's Attempt 🍷

ta-Harper32423 | ta-Harper32423

💋 The Unwanted Kiss 💋

ta-Harper32423 | ta-Harper32423

🙏 Apologies and Handsy Behavior 🙏

ta-Harper32423 | ta-Harper32423

😡 Snapping at Harper 😡

ta-Harper32423 | ta-Harper32423

🚗 Tracking the Uber 🚗

ta-Harper32423 | ta-Harper32423

📞 Calling Olivia 📞

ta-Harper32423 | ta-Harper32423

😭 Olivia's Tears and Harper's Test 😭

ta-Harper32423 | ta-Harper32423

🤔 The Test Reveal 🤔

ta-Harper32423 | ta-Harper32423

📱 Harper's Message 📱

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🕵️‍♀️ Harper's Cheater Check 🕵️‍♀️

ta-Harper32423 | ta-Harper32423

🤬 Calling Out Harper's BS 🤬

ta-Harper32423 | ta-Harper32423

👩‍❤️‍👩 Olivia's Trust in Harper 👩‍❤️‍👩

ta-Harper32423 | ta-Harper32423

🤷‍♂️ Am I Overreacting? 🤷‍♂️

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🚫 No More Harper? 🚫

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🕵️‍♀️ Loyalty Test Gone Wrong? 🕵️‍♀️

Our protagonist has been dating Olivia for a year and they've decided to move in together. 💑 One night, he goes out for drinks with Olivia's friends, including Harper, who ends up getting drunk and making advances towards him. 😳 He rejects her and tells Olivia, only to find out the next day that Harper claims it was all a 'test' to make sure he wouldn't cheat before Olivia moved in with him. 🤯 Olivia believes her friend's story, but our protagonist is convinced Harper's just covering her tracks. 🕵️‍♂️ So, is this a case of a well-intentioned but misguided loyalty test, or is Harper hiding her true intentions? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🧐

Being naive isn't a dealbreaker, but this commenter thinks so 🙄

Arminlegout1 | Arminlegout1

Girlfriend's loyalty to her friend could cause issues in relationship 😕

MuttFett | MuttFett

Dating immaturity: don't move in with an immature partner. 🤷🏼‍♀️

cthulularoo | cthulularoo

Set a boundary and stick to it. 👍

Gosc101 | Gosc101

Toxic friend or a liar? Either way, NTA. 🤷‍♂️

ExtendedSpikeProtein | ExtendedSpikeProtein

Age difference causing maturity gap? 🤔

Proud_Ad_8830 | Proud_Ad_8830

Age is just a number, but not when it comes to maturity 😒 NTA

[deleted] | [deleted]

Suggests ending the relationship due to potential drama and offers a playful solution 👌

AskRampagingTurtle | AskRampagingTurtle

Sarcastic suggestion to test girlfriend's friend's loyalty. 😉

Tokugawa | Tokugawa

Age difference leads to immaturity in relationship 😕

uiam_ | uiam_

🚩 Red flag alert! Trust issues in a relationship.

Alda_ria | Alda_ria

Doubting girlfriend's loyalty after a friend's test. NTA.

Babtain70 | Babtain70

Dump Olivia and avoid future conflicts 😑

NogginNotionsNeverNo | NogginNotionsNeverNo

Drunk friend makes a move, NTA sees right through it. 👍

Equal_Educator4745 | Equal_Educator4745

Alarming accusation! Break up for your safety 😱

sehrgut | sehrgut

Rejected friend creates a fake test. NTA. Don't worry.

Craig2334 | Craig2334

User calls out boyfriend's immaturity and lack of intelligence 🤔

AscorbicDH | AscorbicDH

Don't be played for a fool, end it and move on 👌

calmanxiety88 | calmanxiety88

Ageism and immaturity accusations sour comment section 😕

ReferenceFabulous830 | ReferenceFabulous830

Red flags in girlfriend's choice of friends, NTA for not tolerating it. 👍

xanshiz | xanshiz

NTA, Harper tried to seduce you to prove you're a cheater. 😒

Jokester_316 | Jokester_316

Age gap causes girlfriend problem, not just friend problem 🙅

IamblichusSneezed | IamblichusSneezed

Dump the girlfriend and find someone with more emotional intelligence. 👍

VampyAnji | VampyAnji

Sarcastic comment suggests absurdity of 'loyalty test', no replies.

Itisfinallydone | Itisfinallydone

Testing someone's loyalty is immature and not acceptable 🙅‍♂️

Ortsarecool | Ortsarecool

Age difference causes drama in relationship. Good luck! 🤷‍♀️

Miss_Melody_Pond | Miss_Melody_Pond

Dating age gap drama: When immaturity meets experience. 🤬

SweetinTampa_2022 | SweetinTampa_2022

Dating someone on a different life path: Stay away 👋

blonde_Cupid | blonde_Cupid

Ouch! A harsh truth for the boyfriend to swallow. 🤨

Hachiko75 | Hachiko75

Questioning a drunk 23-year-old's loyalty test? ESH for this.

Brickman_monocle | Brickman_monocle

Age is just a number, but maturity matters 🤷‍♀️

yourcreditscore100 | yourcreditscore100

Dating someone younger? 🤔 Be wary of their friends. 😈

NaturesVividPictures | NaturesVividPictures

Age difference causing incompatibility concerns in the relationship. 🤔

Pretty-Economy2437 | Pretty-Economy2437

Harsh truth about age and maturity. 🤷‍♂️

fuckeetall | fuckeetall

Age difference causes maturity gap, commenter calls out hypocrisy. YTA. 🤪

GreenUnderstanding39 | GreenUnderstanding39

Dating games from both girlfriend and friend? Run, bro, run! 😳

Johnsmith13371337 | Johnsmith13371337

Dating 23-year-olds = non-stop drama 🤯

AppropriateBit9949 | AppropriateBit9949

Dating someone younger can come with immature friend drama. NTA.

UntradeableRNG | UntradeableRNG

NTA for telling the truth, but dating a 23-year-old has its challenges 😕

ticklechickens | ticklechickens

Age difference causing loyalty test? 🤔

pinkelephants777 | pinkelephants777

When a "test" backfires and reveals betrayal or misunderstanding? 😬

kingmoobot | kingmoobot

Dating an immature partner? Have an honest conversation. 💪

Tinkerpro | Tinkerpro

Assault and toxicity: why leaving is the best option. NTA

phlippygames | phlippygames

A harsh comment criticizing the age gap in the relationship. 😔

Poinsettia917 | Poinsettia917

User advises to set boundaries and consider dating someone closer in age. NTA 👍

RNGinx3 | RNGinx3

Advice for dating younger women. Don't call them "dumb". 👍

occasionallystabby | occasionallystabby

Age difference and immaturity concerns in a questionable 'test'.

SaorsaB | SaorsaB

Testing a partner's loyalty is dumb and usually involves both. 👎

Creative-Sun6739 | Creative-Sun6739

Advice to avoid girlfriend's jealous friend. Keep girlfriend informed.

Lucky_Log2212 | Lucky_Log2212

Age and experience make the betrayal clear, but powerless to act. ⌛🤔

taketheredleaf | taketheredleaf

Beware of friends testing your loyalty to your partner 🚨

Wide_palm | Wide_palm

Girlfriend's friend fabricated story to excuse bad behavior. Drama ensues. 😕

Particular_Boss_3018 | Particular_Boss_3018

A strange loyalty test with unclear motives. Move on.

Western_Parking5842 | Western_Parking5842

Friend's 'test' doesn't excuse sexual assault 😡 NTA

b2hcy0 | b2hcy0

Age gap drama in the comments 😑

Tyberious_ | Tyberious_

A cautionary warning about trusting young friends. 😔

Bwomprocker | Bwomprocker

Sassy advice: Date someone your own age, leave the drama.

thatquietmenace | thatquietmenace

Be cautious of Harper, but don't make a fuss 🤪

That_Scarcity_5045 | That_Scarcity_5045

A blunt take on dating a younger woman. 🤯

Rainbowponydaddy | Rainbowponydaddy

Age difference affecting girlfriend's friend's behavior, according to comment.

icze4r | icze4r

Dating a younger partner comes with challenges 😕

TruffleSalty | TruffleSalty

Age difference can affect judgement, you're not the a**hole. 😴

The-disgracist | The-disgracist

Don't be played like a fiddle. Move on. 👍

lhrboy | lhrboy

Avoid the drama, rescind the offer. 🚫

No-Bath-5129 | No-Bath-5129

When age is just a number and maturity is everything 🤷‍♀️

beatissima | beatissima

Confused commenter disapproves of boyfriend's behavior with friend. 🤔

Juartama | Juartama

Dating a younger girl with immature friends. Relationship may not survive. 😒

Left-Yak-5623 | Left-Yak-5623

Harsh criticism for hanging out with immature friends. 🙁

knowsaboutit | knowsaboutit

Jealousy and betrayal: NTA calls out 'test' as a lie 🤔

cynicgal | cynicgal

Age might be a factor in avoiding loyalty tests. 🤔😂

Dangerous-Wear-8202 | Dangerous-Wear-8202

Age difference sparks debate on maturity level in relationships 💥

flindersandtrim | flindersandtrim

NTA for setting boundaries, but age-shaming makes YTA 😒

DisillusionedDruid | DisillusionedDruid

Dumping her for the "test" comment? NTA wins!

Iamreallynotok | Iamreallynotok

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