Unexpected Baby Causes Wedding Day Dilemma 😨👶

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Picture this: you're planning your dream wedding, and suddenly, your sister-in-law (SIL) announces she's expecting a baby. 😲 You're happy for her, but also confused because they previously said children weren't in their immediate future. Fast forward to the wedding planning, and it seems like the baby is becoming the center of attention, even though you're having a child-free wedding (with the exception of the new nephew, of course). 🚫👶 Now, your brother-in-law wants to use your bridal suite for baby care, and you're not okay with it. 💢 Let's dive into this wedding drama and see how it unfolds! 💍

👰 Wedding Planning and a Surprise Baby 🍼

LeoLeia88 | LeoLeia88

⏳ Timing and Distance 🚗

LeoLeia88 | LeoLeia88

📍 Wedding Location 🎊

LeoLeia88 | LeoLeia88

🤔 Confusion and Change of Plans 🔄

LeoLeia88 | LeoLeia88

🚫 Child-Free Wedding (with One Exception) 👶

LeoLeia88 | LeoLeia88

🤵 Best Man and +1 🙋‍♀️

LeoLeia88 | LeoLeia88

👰‍♀️ Bridal Shower and Dress Shopping 🛍️

LeoLeia88 | LeoLeia88

🤷‍♀️ Confusion and Compromise 💐

LeoLeia88 | LeoLeia88

🎉 Bachelor Party Changes 🌎

LeoLeia88 | LeoLeia88

✈️ Travel Restrictions and Disappointment 😞

LeoLeia88 | LeoLeia88

👶 Baby Care and Bridal Suite Request 🚪

LeoLeia88 | LeoLeia88

😠 Upset and Unwilling to Accommodate 🙅‍♀️

LeoLeia88 | LeoLeia88

👪 Alternative Options and Disagreements 🚫

LeoLeia88 | LeoLeia88

🏠 Airbnb and Venue Proximity 🏘️

LeoLeia88 | LeoLeia88

🍸 Ceremony-Only Option and Continued Disagreements 🥂

LeoLeia88 | LeoLeia88

👶 Baby Becomes the Priority 🌟

LeoLeia88 | LeoLeia88

🍼 Wedding Comfort and a Firm 'No' 🚫

LeoLeia88 | LeoLeia88

👰 Bride vs. Baby: Bridal Suite Showdown 🍼

Our bride-to-be is dealing with a wedding planning rollercoaster, as her SIL's unexpected pregnancy is causing some serious changes to their plans. 🎢 With a child-free wedding in mind, she's already made an exception for her future nephew, but now her brother-in-law wants to use the bridal suite for baby care. 😳 She's offered alternative options, like inviting her SIL's parents to help with childcare or having a ceremony-only option, but they're not satisfied. 🙅‍♀️ It seems like the baby has become the priority, and our bride is feeling the pressure. 💔 Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation and how they would handle this family drama. 🤔💬

Set boundaries and let your husband handle his family. NTA 👍

mifflewhat | mifflewhat

NTA, stick to your child-free wedding and be firm 👊

Apart-Ad-6518 | Apart-Ad-6518

Fiancé's brother with baby drama - NTA suggests uninviting him 😕

ssccrs | ssccrs

Bridal suite is for the bride, not a nursery 👶

dragonsandvamps | dragonsandvamps

Set boundaries and stick to them. Don't be guilt-tripped. 👍

DinoSnuggler | DinoSnuggler

Set boundaries for your wedding suite and stick to them. NTA 🙌

WelshWickedWitch | WelshWickedWitch

Reasonable accommodation request, but everyone sucks here for various reasons 🤷‍♀️

andromache97 | andromache97

Bride-to-be called out for being selfish about her wedding day 🙄

iamltr | iamltr

Stand your ground, it's your special day 👶

KronkLaSworda | KronkLaSworda

User calls out OP on being resentful and possibly jealous 😬

Odd_Antelope_3818 | Odd_Antelope_3818

Don't let them make your wedding all about them and the baby 💍

Turbulent-Buy3575 | Turbulent-Buy3575

Mixed feelings about a baby in the bridal suite 🤷🏼‍♀️

PuzzleheadedGoal8234 | PuzzleheadedGoal8234

Curious commenter questions SIL's relevance, sparks discussion

crackerfactorywheel | crackerfactorywheel

Reasonable requests and potential resentment towards unexpected baby. 👶🤷‍♀️

Ok_Remote_1036 | Ok_Remote_1036

Un-inviting the baby for child-free wedding, NTA wins?

neoncactusfields | neoncactusfields

Clarification needed on bridal suite location 🤔

superfastmomma | superfastmomma

Don't be jealous of the baby, but asking for the bridal suite is unreasonable 😑

adventuresofViolet | adventuresofViolet

Parenting stress vs. bridal suite drama 👶🏻🛏️ NTA

ginger_ryn | ginger_ryn

Bridezilla prioritizes wedding over pregnant SIL and baby 🤰👰

11gus11 | 11gus11

NAH. Differences in priorities can cause conflicts even in weddings. 👶

SongsAboutGhosts | SongsAboutGhosts

No kids allowed at wedding, stick to your decision 👰🤵

samk2487 | samk2487

Bride's baby-free wedding rule causes controversy among guests 😠

SnooLentils4592 | SnooLentils4592

User thinks OP is being dramatic about wedding day baby 🤷‍♀️

Zealousideal_Dog_968 | Zealousideal_Dog_968

Passive aggressive MIL and couple make ESH situation insufferable 😑

Different_Usual_6586 | Different_Usual_6586

The commenter thinks everyone sucks here, but OP sounds bitter 😕

JsCTmav | JsCTmav

User calls out bride for being self-absorbed. YTA 🚫

Opportunity_Massive | Opportunity_Massive

Bridal suite dilemma due to baby, possible solutions discussed 🤔

5daysinmay | 5daysinmay

Groom-to-be's entitled attitude gets called out. YTA 😱

CoisaFofa44 | CoisaFofa44

Selfishness on wedding day? YTA for not accommodating niece/nephew 😔

No-Professor-4434 | No-Professor-4434

Newborn at wedding causes conflict over bridal suite. NTA.

splat5285 | splat5285

Bride and MIL both need to re-evaluate their priorities 🤔

simplyclueless | simplyclueless

Sensible advice on accommodating a baby on wedding day 👶

bacucumber | bacucumber

Stand firm on bridal suite privacy, compromise with groom's side ✌️

PlayfulPiperx | PlayfulPiperx

Focus on your happiness, not others' demands 👏

TheBewitchingWitch | TheBewitchingWitch

New parents worry about balancing parenthood and wedding prep, NAH 👶

Smart-Platypus6762 | Smart-Platypus6762

Corner controversy: Bride denied space for baby? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Eternalthursday1976 | Eternalthursday1976

Offering the groom's room for the baby could be a solution 👶

Historical_Carpet262 | Historical_Carpet262

Compassionate bride allows newborn at childfree wedding 👶

xomuahxo | xomuahxo

In-laws took over my bridal suite on my wedding day 😒

travelsinheels | travelsinheels

Bride shares wedding day struggle of using bridal suite as nursery 👶🎓

PickleConfident444 | PickleConfident444

Wedding planner advises against letting new parents use bridal suite 🚫

allisonkp1 | allisonkp1

Bride called out for being self-centered about unexpected baby.

L1mpD | L1mpD

Future in-laws acting entitled about accommodations at wedding. NTA.

Confident_Policy_426 | Confident_Policy_426

New mom attends wedding with baby, SIL causes drama 🙄

CosmosOZ | CosmosOZ

NTA commenter questions couple's lack of accommodation for infant.

pat_of_glut | pat_of_glut

NTA for offering alternatives, couple wants prime stuff 😑

Familiar_Practice906 | Familiar_Practice906

Locked bridal suite: perfect solution for unexpected baby drama 👏

nothisTrophyWife | nothisTrophyWife

Wedding day plans change after unexpected baby arrival 👶

Labelloenchanted | Labelloenchanted

Comments section: A comment criticizes the bride for having a no-kids wedding, suggesting the bride be more accommodating to new parents and grandparents. Ends comment with YTA.

tammy94903 | tammy94903

Stand your ground and let the drama unfold. #NTA 👏

1-Dragonfly | 1-Dragonfly

Make it clear that the bridal suite is off-limits. 😈

Catlady0329 | Catlady0329

Focus on your wedding, not your future in-laws' child care. NTA

concretism | concretism

Suggesting a compromise for baby and bridal suite dilemma 👍

BevoFan1936 | BevoFan1936

Navigating family expectations when wedding planning with an unexpected baby 😔

Ok-Weather1267 | Ok-Weather1267

You're not the a-hole! Let them handle their own mess 👏

Carolann0308 | Carolann0308

New baby causes wedding day dilemma, but NAH. Boundaries allowed.

Catsaysmao123 | Catsaysmao123

NTA for bridal suite, YTA for lack of compassion towards baby

d_in_dc | d_in_dc

Offering a different perspective on bridal suite regrets 😔

MedicalExplorer9714 | MedicalExplorer9714

Wedding day is about you and your fiance, not others 👶

groovymama98 | groovymama98

NTA suggests renting a room and focusing on wedding day.

shortmumof2 | shortmumof2

Breastfeeding and weddings: Is it a dilemma? 🤔

Whole-Fly | Whole-Fly

Hold your ground. Reinforce the child-free rule. NTA 🙌

Famous_Connection_91 | Famous_Connection_91

Bridezilla denies MIL's request to use bridal suite, gets called out 😂

seeveeay | seeveeay

NTA. Grandparents in b&b was a great option! 💡

Rosegingerborn | Rosegingerborn

Breastfeeding baby in bridal suite? NTA, it's your day! 😊

cryrabanks | cryrabanks

A blunt response to a self-centered wedding day dilemma. YTA 🤦‍♂️

SneakySneakySquirrel | SneakySneakySquirrel

Planning is key in parenting. No special favors expected. 👶

MissusNilesCrane | MissusNilesCrane

Set boundaries with future in-laws, NTA 👏🏼

woman_thorned | woman_thorned

User criticizes groom's brother's entitled behavior towards bachelor party plans.

Mediocre-Key-4992 | Mediocre-Key-4992

Childfree weddings are becoming more common because parents think world revolves around them and their 'bub'. (🤮)

hellinahandbasket127 | hellinahandbasket127

New best man needed for wedding day baby drama 🎉

Wrangellite | Wrangellite

Childfree wedding advice sparks potential family drama 😱

zaporiah | zaporiah

New parents ask for accommodations on wedding day. NAH.

Classic_Sugar7991 | Classic_Sugar7991

Newborn invasion on wedding day? NTA for standing firm! 👏

ZoeyZephyre | ZoeyZephyre

Stick to your boundaries on your special day 😊

GracefulGiggly | GracefulGiggly

N A H for prioritizing baby, AH for not cooperating. NTA overall. 👍

anon19111 | anon19111

Controversial take: SIL and baby not welcome at wedding 😬

Melodic-Psychology62 | Melodic-Psychology62

No kids rule bent, now demands made. Write them out.

Cannabis_CatSlave | Cannabis_CatSlave

NTA for not giving up bridal suite, but being demanding otherwise 💁‍♀️

rescuesquad704 | rescuesquad704

NTA for bridal suite, but don't worry about baby stealing attention. 

Longjumping-Lab-1916 | Longjumping-Lab-1916

Stand your ground! You're NTA, say a polite no 👍

MeowGirly | MeowGirly

Setting boundaries with entitled family without being TA 💪

Lucky_Log2212 | Lucky_Log2212

Parent struggles with bringing toddlers to wedding, prefers child-free events 😭

Many-Carpenter-989 | Many-Carpenter-989

Parent empathizes with bride's unexpected baby dilemma. NTA. 👶

LK_Feral | LK_Feral

Stand your ground on YOUR wedding day 👶

Initial_Potato5023 | Initial_Potato5023

Mom calls out unrealistic expectations for bridal suite behavior 🙄

DMV_Lolli | DMV_Lolli

New parents may use bridal suite for baby, NTA.

DantesFirstBitch | DantesFirstBitch

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