Poisonous Cookie Pushes Woman to Give Ultimatum: Me or Your Mom 😱🍪

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Ever had to deal with a disapproving mother-in-law and a crazy ex at the same time?😩 Well, our protagonist, let's call her 'Fierce Female,' has been with her boyfriend for three years, and she's had enough of his mother's antics. The mom not only disapproves of their relationship but also invites the ex, Jane, to every family gathering. Fierce Female has been patient, but when a potentially life-threatening 'accident' occurs, she's forced to make a stand. How far would you go to protect yourself and your relationship?🤔

The Crazy Ex and the Disapproving Mom😱

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Family Friend or Foe?🤔

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The Unwelcome Guest🚫

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Family Gatherings Turned Awkward😬

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The Spare Key🔑

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Maintaining Boundaries🚧

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The Supportive Boyfriend💕

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Allergic Reaction Nightmare😨

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The Accusations Fly🗣️

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The Poisonous Plan😡

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The Ultimatum⚖️

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The Shocking Truth🤯

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Apologies and Fresh Starts🌱

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The Barbecue Dilemma🍖

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The Uninvited Mother-in-Law🚪

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The Family Divide💔

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The Choice: Love or Family?💔

Fierce Female has been dealing with her boyfriend's disapproving mother and his crazy ex, Jane, for three years. The mom would invite Jane to every family gathering, and both would make snide comments at Fierce Female's expense. The breaking point came when the mom 'accidentally' gave her a cookie containing a severe allergen, forcing Fierce Female to use her epi-pen.😨 She decided she couldn't be with her boyfriend if his family continued to be part of his life. Surprisingly, the mom admitted the cookie incident was deliberate, and other family members apologized. They agreed to start fresh, but when Fierce Female didn't invite the mom to a barbecue, the family became divided. Some say she's within her rights, while others accuse her of forcing her boyfriend to choose between her and his family.🤷 Let's see what the internet thinks of this emotionally charged situation...

Toxic mom? Give ultimatum and cut ties if partner won't.

Bmilvis | Bmilvis

No apology for attempted poisoning? Family values questioned 🤷🏻‍♂️

Forsaken-Revenue-628 | Forsaken-Revenue-628

Woman's boyfriend and family are toxic, she deserves better 👏

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Cut ties with toxic MIL and anyone defending her. NTA 👍

DaniCapsFan | DaniCapsFan

Poisoned cookie prompts legal action suggestion

Agoraphobe961 | Agoraphobe961

Don't settle for a man with a million bags of baggage 🙌

rofosho | rofosho

Cut contact with anyone who defends his mom's behavior. 🙅‍♀️

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User calls out OP for tolerating a toxic relationship.

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Passionate response calling for ultimatum and legal action. 😱

CakeZealousideal1820 | CakeZealousideal1820

🤯 Woman's partner defends mom after she tried to kill her. NTA wins.

CalligraphyMaster | CalligraphyMaster

No second chances after an attempted murder by cookie 😱

EggplantIll4927 | EggplantIll4927

Leave him before she accidentally kills you 😱

Blink182YourBedroom | Blink182YourBedroom

Cutting ties after attempted poisoning is justified. 😱

Onthelinr | Onthelinr

Ultimatum time! 🤔 Your partner's inability to set boundaries with his mom is dangerous. 🚫

NickelPickle2018 | NickelPickle2018

Poisonous cookie leads to ultimatum in toxic relationship with mama's boy 😱

maywellflower | maywellflower

Call for accountability of silent men in toxic relationships 👊

Charwyn | Charwyn

Don't risk your life for a man or his toxic family 🤯🔥

AirenAshura | AirenAshura

Toxic MIL tried to kill you. Is this the family you want? 🤔


Serious allergy, toxic family, unsupportive boyfriend 😠😡

Technical_Pumpkin_65 | Technical_Pumpkin_65

Setting boundaries after 3 years, YTA to yourself. 🤯

Adventurous-Sand6711 | Adventurous-Sand6711

Mom poisoned woman, now she's not welcome. BF change locks 👍

thehumanbaconater | thehumanbaconater

Don't be the next victim. Leave if you feel threatened. ⚠️

ActualWheel6703 | ActualWheel6703

🤯 Woman tries to kill with cookie, demands acceptance. NTA wins.

Lady013 | Lady013

User questions OP's decision to stay with a weak partner.

armchairdetective | armchairdetective

Mother and husband implicated in attempted murder, commenter wary 🤔

shammy_dammy | shammy_dammy

Surviving poisoned cookie, woman demands to cut off toxic in-laws 🤪

HotFudgeFuzz | HotFudgeFuzz

NTA admits mother-in-law tried to kill her with poisonous cookie 😱

delta_seven7 | delta_seven7

NTA! Stand up for yourself and demand respect from his family 💪

Chilli2020 | Chilli2020

Setting boundaries with toxic in-laws 🙌

Fufu-le-fu | Fufu-le-fu

Partner's lack of boundaries with mother may end relationship. 💯

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🚨 Serious warning to leave toxic relationship with potential danger.

anatosta | anatosta

User advises leaving toxic relationship and pressing charges for poisoning 🔴

smurfgrl417 | smurfgrl417

Three-year relationship nearly destroyed by attempted murder and bullying.

balderdashbird | balderdashbird

Cutting off toxic mother-in-law who attempted murder is justified. 💯

XRaiderV1 | XRaiderV1

Living in the same town with them is always a problem 😬

ChihuahuaSighs | ChihuahuaSighs

NTA, standing up for oneself against a toxic family member 👏

ReallyTracyQ | ReallyTracyQ

Self-respect over good sex 👏. You know what to do.

AspectFearless7808 | AspectFearless7808

Red flag? Boyfriend's mom has access to our apartment 🚩

zaritza8789 | zaritza8789

Cut her out or press charges: NTA comment takes a stand 💪

Haunting-Aardvark709 | Haunting-Aardvark709

NTA! Poisonous cookie is attempted murder 😱🍪

RagingFarmer | RagingFarmer

Poisoned cookie creates ultimatum between woman and husband's mom 😱🍪

thesnarkypotatohead | thesnarkypotatohead

Mother-in-law attempted poisoning, NTA for considering charges and counseling.

Knittingfairy09113 | Knittingfairy09113

NTA, serious talk needed with boyfriend. 😱


Press charges and get a restraining order; she tried to kill you 😱

DandalusRoseshade | DandalusRoseshade

Woman poisoned by boyfriend's mom considers legal action and relationship status 💥

ShelbiLee | ShelbiLee

Protect yourself from toxicity, dump him and move on. 👊

Hot_Fly_1016 | Hot_Fly_1016

Partner's toxic family not worth any more wasted years. Ultimatum valid. 👍

Laquila | Laquila

Urgent warning to call police for attempted murder with poison 😱

learnedandhumbled | learnedandhumbled

Ending the relationship is the only way out. 👋

Ok-Buddy-7979 | Ok-Buddy-7979

Mom and Jane premeditated the poisonous cookie incident. Leave now! NTA

Lynnstress | Lynnstress

Tough ultimatum, but maybe it's time to move on. 😔

gretta_smith93 | gretta_smith93

Setting boundaries in relationships is crucial for self-respect 👍

emmie_lou26 | emmie_lou26

File a police report. NTA. Boyfriend's silence is telling. 👮🏼

madamdaddy69 | madamdaddy69

Woman threatens ultimatum after BF's mom poisons her. NTA.

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Break free from this dangerous relationship 👏

pataconconqueso | pataconconqueso

NTA, BF needs to choose and set boundaries with toxic mom.

Temporary_Bug_1171 | Temporary_Bug_1171

Choose life over boyfriend. Poisonous cookie = hill to die on. ☠️

SEcouture | SEcouture

Woman poisoned by mother-in-law seeks justice and support. NTA.

MyWibblings | MyWibblings

Toxic family? Leave them behind 👋🚶‍♀️

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Mother-in-law tried to poison her, NTA, take legal action! 😱

septemberdoves | septemberdoves

He can't cut contact with his mom after she tried to harm you? 🤔 NTA

9smalltowngirl | 9smalltowngirl

Boyfriend enabled abusive family, ultimatum needed for change. 👊

Sweet-Interview5620 | Sweet-Interview5620

Toxic ex's antics and BF's family's complicity. Laugh it off. 😂

user9372889 | user9372889

Cut and run, find someone who won't put you through that 💪

Prudent_Fold190 | Prudent_Fold190

Partner's mother tried to kill her, but he won't cut ties. 🤯

Whole-Neighborhood | Whole-Neighborhood

Toxic in-laws causing relationship turmoil 🤯

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👏 Stand up for yourself and demand consequences for attempted murder.

TheFlyingToasterr | TheFlyingToasterr

🚨 Woman suggests pressing charges for attempted murder. Relationship toxic. 🚨

beachgirl76 | beachgirl76

NTA for excluding his mom, but need to discuss commitment 🚤

celticmusebooks | celticmusebooks

NTA but he needs to grow a spine and cut ties 💪

Tall-Negotiation6623 | Tall-Negotiation6623

BF's mom tried to kill OP. NTA. BF supportive. Mom can f**k right off 👍

ok-coyote-boat | ok-coyote-boat

Intentional poisoning is a safety issue 😱

Earl_your_friend | Earl_your_friend

Toxic cookie, tough choice. Ultimatum warranted. Criminal repercussions possible. 😳🍪

Able-Classroom9843 | Able-Classroom9843

Encouraging comment to leave abusive relationship. 🙏

HyenaShot8896 | HyenaShot8896

Partner's family tried to poison me, I'm not the A-hole (NTA).

furkfurk | furkfurk

Partner's mom tried to kill her, NTA for ultimatum. 😱

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Mother-in-law tried to poison her, NTA. Boyfriend's loyalty questioned 😱

Soon_trvl4evr | Soon_trvl4evr

Setting boundaries with toxic in-laws is necessary for relationships 👍

SportySue60 | SportySue60

BF's toxic mom is a danger to their relationship & health 😱

Hot_Abbreviations538 | Hot_Abbreviations538

Toxic relationship alert! Stand up for yourself and move on 🙌

FryOneFatManic | FryOneFatManic

Woman's mother-in-law attempted to kill her with cookies 🤪

raindragon92 | raindragon92

Toxic MIL and enabling SO. Ultimatum is necessary 😱

Cynistera | Cynistera

Woman nearly poisoned, NTA for not wanting MIL around. 😱

az-anime-fan | az-anime-fan

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