Ex's Mistress Demands Forgiveness: Is It Fair to Play Family? 🤔

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Diply | Diply

Picture this: you're a loving wife and mother of two, going through a rough patch in your marriage. Your husband asks for a break to work on your issues separately, and you agree, hoping to save the relationship. But then, you find out he's been sleeping with another woman. 💔 Fast forward a few years, and his new girlfriend is asking you to forgive him so they can move forward with their lives. 😲 What would you do? 🤔 Read on to find out what happened in this emotional rollercoaster of a story!

💔 Marriage Troubles After Baby #2

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🤐 Keeping It Short

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👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Love & Rough Times

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💔 The Workplace Romance

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⏸️ A 'Break' Is Requested

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💔 Heartbroken & Confused

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📁 Divorce Time

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⏳ 2 Years Later...

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🚫 No Apologies Accepted

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📞 The Girlfriend Calls

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💍 No Proposal, No Family

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👉 Blaming the Ex-Wife

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🔁 Round Two: More Accusations

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❓ The Big Question

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🙅‍♀️ Ex-Wife Refuses to Forgive Cheating Husband for Mistress' Sake

Our protagonist, a loving mother of two, faced marital issues after the birth of her second child. Her husband met a woman at work and asked for a break to work on their issues separately. 💔 Not long after, our protagonist found out he was sleeping with the other woman and filed for divorce. Fast forward to the present, and the husband's girlfriend is begging our protagonist to forgive him, claiming he won't propose or start a family because he feels guilty about what he did. 😳 Our protagonist refuses to help, and the girlfriend accuses her of being bitter and vindictive. 🤬 So, who's really at fault here? Let's see what the internet has to say about this tangled web of love, betrayal, and forgiveness... 🕵️‍♀️

Ex's mistress wants forgiveness but is it genuine? 🤔

Right_Bee_9809 | Right_Bee_9809

Standing up for oneself and leaving a cheating spouse. NTA 👏

ZestycloseSky8765 | ZestycloseSky8765

Savage clapback 🔥. NTA and you owe them nothing.

temp7727 | temp7727

Ex's mistress blames OP, but it's not her problem anymore. NTA 👍

No-Mango8923 | No-Mango8923

Ex's mistress demands forgiveness but OP is not responsible. 🤷‍♀️

Huge_Answer4287 | Huge_Answer4287

No sympathy for the mistress who made her own bed. 😒

forcryingoutmeow | forcryingoutmeow

Forgiveness is a personal choice, NTA. But co-parenting is tricky 😕

According_Ad6364 | According_Ad6364

Moving On: Don't Let Your Ex's Mistake Control You 🙌

Ulfasso | Ulfasso

Cheating ex-regrets actions, can't commit to mistress. NTA.

sallyblue94 | sallyblue94

Protecting your children from a cheater's low moral mistress. 👏

MaryContrary26 | MaryContrary26

Co-parenting with an ex who cheated: forgiveness not owed. 🙅

Separate_Kick3186 | Separate_Kick3186

Karma delivers justice to cheating ex. NTA for moving on. 👏

YOLO_626 | YOLO_626

Don't blame yourself for his mistakes. You deserve better. 💪

DutchMill693 | DutchMill693

Forgiving the ex's mistress: for you or for them? 🤔

kakikat | kakikat

You go, girl! Don't let him back in your life. #NTA 💪

DesignerOne2097 | DesignerOne2097

Moving on: Accepting the idea of him, not the actual him. 🤷‍♀️

Skibbs809 | Skibbs809

Respectful comment applauding OP's resolve and offering support. 💪

Flaky_Two1872 | Flaky_Two1872

Stand up for yourself against infidelity and gaslighting. 🙌

AlleyQV | AlleyQV

Spouse's affair during a break, NTA for not forgiving. ❌

Kylie_Bug | Kylie_Bug

Don't let them manipulate you, you're NTA 👌

Knittingfairy09113 | Knittingfairy09113

Ex's mistress wants forgiveness but commenter thinks she's delusional. 🤔

ChaiHai | ChaiHai

Ex's mistress asks for forgiveness, but it's not OP's responsibility 🤷‍♀️

Square-Singer | Square-Singer

Taking a break doesn't justify cheating. Block them both. NTA

Bottdavid | Bottdavid

Ex's mistress demands forgiveness, but OP owes them nothing. 💪

momxcyber | momxcyber

Ex's mistress demands forgiveness, but comment suggests otherwise. 🤔

cassowary32 | cassowary32

Taking a break doesn't mean cheating. NTA for moving on. 👍

Init4damo-nay81 | Init4damo-nay81

NTA - commenter supports OP, calls out ex-husband's behavior and mistress's delusion. 👏

Glad_Regret_1154 | Glad_Regret_1154

Block and return to cheater and mistress. Don't engage 👋

mustang19671967 | mustang19671967

Move on and be happy, don't give the cheater power. 💪

Icy-Satisfaction-372 | Icy-Satisfaction-372

NTA, ex and mistress are AHs. You owe them nothing. 👍

Janie_F | Janie_F

Supportive comment urging OP to move on and find respect ❤️

TexasTeaTelecaster | TexasTeaTelecaster

Taking responsibility for oneself after a breakup. 🙌

SuperHuckleberry125 | SuperHuckleberry125

Ex's affair during relationship troubles revealed, but now demanding forgiveness? 🤔

bigselfer | bigselfer

Ex's mistress demands forgiveness while blaming OP: NTA prevails 👏

JTD177 | JTD177

Don't give in to the cheater and mistress's demands 🚫

RTwhyNot | RTwhyNot

Ex's mistress has no right to blame you. Totally NTA! 👏

Prestigious_Pay_3459 | Prestigious_Pay_3459

Choosing to forgive is a personal journey. You're not the AH ❤️

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Blocking the ex was a smart move. Beware of manipulation. 🙉

AcrobaticMechanic265 | AcrobaticMechanic265

Don't engage with the mistress. It's not your problem anymore. 🙅

The_Crown_And_Anchor | The_Crown_And_Anchor

You owe him nothing and are NTA. Move on 👍

Special_Lemon1487 | Special_Lemon1487

Dumped him, not your problem. Trash diggers can't complain. 🗑️

716Val | 716Val

Move on, not your circus, not your monkeys. 👍

No_Association9968 | No_Association9968

Ex's mistress demands forgiveness after cheating; unhappy 'other woman' wants more.

Typical_Agency8984 | Typical_Agency8984

Cheating while married is a dealbreaker. NTA. 👍

ExternalArea6285 | ExternalArea6285

Cheating ex tries to use mistress to excuse his actions 😠

Jaded-Kitty87 | Jaded-Kitty87

Prioritize self-care, stay away from toxic situation. 💆‍♀️

EnvironmentalBat1758 | EnvironmentalBat1758

Powerful response to ex's mistress demanding forgiveness and blaming OP.

Kampfzwerg0 | Kampfzwerg0

Ex's mistress demands forgiveness, but commenter refuses to play along. 👍

Only_Meal_19 | Only_Meal_19

User calls out disingenuous argument in cheating scandal. 🤨

Spectre-907 | Spectre-907

Ex's mistress demands forgiveness, but commenter says NTA and advises to move on.

LocalBrilliant5564 | LocalBrilliant5564

Block and move on, NTA. You owe them nothing. 👍

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User calls out girlfriend's naivety about cheating, supports OP.

Educational-Pop-3351 | Educational-Pop-3351

Boundaries disregarded: Why care about his mistress' feelings? 🤔

HM202256 | HM202256

Sleeping with someone else on a break? NTA says commenters

ICWhatsNUrP | ICWhatsNUrP

Ex's mistress demands forgiveness for cheating? Definitely NTA. 🙅‍♀️

draggar | draggar

Relationships should not be based on ultimatums. NTA ✌️

Orange_Zinc_Funny | Orange_Zinc_Funny

Protecting yourself from an ex's affair partner. NTA 👍

Jumpy_RocketCat_2726 | Jumpy_RocketCat_2726

Forgiveness is personal. You don't owe anyone forgiveness. 👋

Temporary_Bug_1171 | Temporary_Bug_1171

Block the mistress, their issues aren't your problem. NTA 👍

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Divorce justified. No obligation to ex's mistress. 🤷‍♀️

Lyshi87 | Lyshi87

Clean divorce without forgiveness demands respect. No breaks in marriage. 👍

LiddyTiddie | LiddyTiddie

Hilarious take on the misconception of 'taking a break' in marriage 🤣

IceBlueDragon | IceBlueDragon

Setting boundaries with ex's mistress, avoid future contact 🚫

chelsea5532 | chelsea5532

NTA calls out ex's infidelity with mistress and enjoys karma.

Critical-Bank5269 | Critical-Bank5269

Moving on from an ex's infidelity, NTA - self-care first 👍

superwholockian62 | superwholockian62

NTA stands up for herself and her children against cheating ex.

Dry_Ask5493 | Dry_Ask5493

Don't let bitterness consume you. Forgiveness doesn't mean approval. ✌️

Fit_Sprinkles3413 | Fit_Sprinkles3413

Move on, he won't commit. Not your responsibility to forgive. 👍

bandt4ever | bandt4ever

Forgiveness is for you, not him. You owe nothing. #NTA

myrrdynwyllt | myrrdynwyllt

Block her and move on, you're not responsible for them. 👍

Cybermagetx | Cybermagetx

Ex's mistress used as plan B, NTA for not forgiving.

Aralibeth88 | Aralibeth88

Block and move on, you owe them nothing. NTA 👍

annapurnah | annapurnah

Ex's mistress gets a reality check: NTA, your ex sucks 👍

Afraid-Tea-5745 | Afraid-Tea-5745

Move on and don't look back. NTA for his choices. 👍

Candid-Quail-9927 | Candid-Quail-9927

Stay out of their drama and tell them to get therapy.

HeyHihoho | HeyHihoho

Co-parenting requires civility, not emotional support. NTA. 👍

bigballerbuster | bigballerbuster

Not your problem. 🤷‍♂️ Let them deal with it. 💁‍♀️


He's blaming her for not marrying his mistress? 🤔

Rare-Bat-2038 | Rare-Bat-2038

Ex's manipulative behavior exposed, forgiveness not owed. 👍

Salt_Consequence_878 | Salt_Consequence_878

Ex's girlfriend and mistress team up to guilt-trip, NTA wins 🎉

Dry-Crab7998 | Dry-Crab7998

No need to play family with an ex's mistress. 👍

giglbox06 | giglbox06

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