Man Ends Relationship Over Girlfriend's Pre-Exclusivity Encounters 💔

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Picture this: You're a 32-year-old guy, content with your life, not actively seeking love, but open to the idea of marriage someday. 🤵 Then, you meet Helen, a gorgeous 28-year-old woman who seems like the perfect life partner. You hit it off, go on a few dates, and start falling hard for her. 💘 But then, you find out she's been sleeping with other guys while dating you. 😱 Even though you haven't discussed exclusivity yet, you can't shake the feeling that something's not right. So, you decide to end things. 💔 Are you in the wrong? Let's dive into this juicy story and find out.

Living the Good Life 😎

Istvan-Janos | Istvan-Janos

Not Obsessed with Love 💔

Istvan-Janos | Istvan-Janos

A Great First Date 🥰

Istvan-Janos | Istvan-Janos

Falling Hard for Helen 💞

Istvan-Janos | Istvan-Janos

Dream Girl 🌟

Istvan-Janos | Istvan-Janos

The Exclusivity Question ❓

Istvan-Janos | Istvan-Janos

The Shocking Truth 😱

Istvan-Janos | Istvan-Janos

Calling It Quits 💔

Istvan-Janos | Istvan-Janos

Helen's Defense 🛡️

Istvan-Janos | Istvan-Janos

Past Experiences 😢

Istvan-Janos | Istvan-Janos

Taking a Risk for Love 💔

Istvan-Janos | Istvan-Janos

Friends' Verdict: A**hole 😠

Istvan-Janos | Istvan-Janos

Unfair Accusations 🤷‍♂️

Istvan-Janos | Istvan-Janos

Love, Exclusivity, and Heartbreak 💔

Our 32-year-old protagonist finds himself falling for Helen, a stunning 28-year-old woman who seems to be everything he could want in a partner. 😍 But when the topic of exclusivity comes up, he discovers she's been sleeping with two other guys while dating him. 😱 Despite not having discussed exclusivity yet, he decides to end the relationship, feeling that they have different ideas about intimacy and commitment. 💔 Helen argues that she didn't owe him exclusivity and was just protecting herself from potential heartbreak. Our protagonist's friends call him an a**hole and accuse him of slut-shaming. 🤬 Was he wrong to end things? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation...

NAH. It's important to communicate your expectations in a relationship 👍

Careless_League_9494 | Careless_League_9494

Backing up the backup: Friends style. 🤣

stancilliza2 | stancilliza2

Respectful understanding of both sides in pre-exclusivity relationship ❤

Dariel2711 | Dariel2711

Don't project your standards onto her, you're the a**hole 💔

manualcorrect | manualcorrect

Communicate early and avoid assumptions to prevent future misunderstandings. 👍

StatisticalMan | StatisticalMan

User seeks clarity on timeline and expectations in relationship.

Driftwood256 | Driftwood256

Two-weeks dating is quick to go exclusive. It's your call.

No-Alternative-1321 | No-Alternative-1321

Mismatched dating preferences: NTA for ending the relationship 😊

[deleted] | [deleted]

Communication is key for exclusivity. Don't assume, discuss it 👍

_A-Q | _A-Q

Lesson learned: never assume exclusivity without clear communication 👍

donkeydelight | donkeydelight

Don't rush exclusivity after one date, appreciate her honesty 👍

Runningwithoutborder | Runningwithoutborder

NTA but should have communicated better 😕

ja4496 | ja4496

Communication is key. NAH. 👍

BONE_SAW_IS_READEEE | BONE_SAW_IS_READEEE

Choosing between fling and future, NTA made the right call ❤

BeKindImNewButtercup | BeKindImNewButtercup

Communication is key in relationships 💍

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA but missed the chance for a great relationship 💔

Kolob619 | Kolob619

NTA ends relationship over girlfriend's pre-exclusivity encounters 💔

BlueEyedBabe135 | BlueEyedBabe135

Man accused of being judgmental of sexual behavior, YTA.

dudemanlikedude | dudemanlikedude

NAH - Both have different views on exclusivity, but respect each other.

MauiValleyGirl | MauiValleyGirl

Ending a relationship over pre-exclusivity encounters is valid. 🙅‍♂️

Basic_Pomegranate857 | Basic_Pomegranate857

User calls out OP's double standards and dodged bullet. 😎

No-Serve-5387 | No-Serve-5387

Expecting immediate exclusivity after a first date is unrealistic 😉

Alybank | Alybank

Gender double standards in exclusive relationships. NTA.

Maximum-Shock7421 | Maximum-Shock7421

Setting boundaries early on is understandable and not sexist 👍

OrganicFrost | OrganicFrost

Falling for a non-existent person, NTA for ending it 😎

xmowx | xmowx

Choosing to wait for exclusivity is valid in relationships 👍

catladynotsorry | catladynotsorry

Navigating the modern dating scene with respect and communication ❤️

Fun_Concentrate_7844 | Fun_Concentrate_7844

Respectfully ending a relationship over differing moral values 👏

devilsadidas | devilsadidas

Redditor questions why everyone says NAH in response to man breaking up with girlfriend over exclusivity talk, suggests he's TA

nhorning | nhorning

Mature breakup with no blame game. Good on you both 👍

Broadside02195 | Broadside02195

NTA calls out ex-girlfriend's promiscuity in a harsh way.

GonnaBeOverIt | GonnaBeOverIt

Reflecting on the evolving dating scene and its norms 🤔

Asobimo | Asobimo

YTA for assuming exclusivity without communication and losing a great woman.

Wanderful-Woman | Wanderful-Woman

Miscommunication leads to breakup, judgmental attitude makes OP TA 😑

Feisty-Cloud5880 | Feisty-Cloud5880

A cautionary tale of rushing into exclusivity too soon 😉

Background_Newt3594 | Background_Newt3594

Communication is key! YTA for making assumptions and hurting her.

Leya1084 | Leya1084

Having boundaries is important, but communication is key beforehand. NAH.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Navigating pre-exclusivity dating and finding "the one" ❤️

jess-all-around | jess-all-around

The importance of discussing commitment and sexual values upfront 🙌

Loverfli | Loverfli

Girlfriend fears being alone, keeps other guys in wings 🤷🏻‍♂️

Woolong-Acquirer | Woolong-Acquirer

NAH but ego may have played a role 🤔

Old_Cheek1076 | Old_Cheek1076

NAH, but first-date sex may not lead to long-term compatibility 👍

jstillwag62 | jstillwag62

Having different standards on exclusivity is valid. Communication is key 👍

Mysterious_Soft7916 | Mysterious_Soft7916

🚩 Red flag alert: Sleeping around to avoid rejection

dwilatl | dwilatl

Older commenter questions why exclusivity conversation was necessary. 🤔

joetentpeg | joetentpeg

Communicate deal-breakers early on to avoid YTA situations. 👍

Twstdktty | Twstdktty

Don't be a hypocrite about sex 👌

Euphoric-Mousse | Euphoric-Mousse

NTA, no slut shaming, just a lack of connection 👍

fatalcharm | fatalcharm

Respectful breakup. It's okay to have deal breakers. 👍

Just-Like-My-Opinion | Just-Like-My-Opinion

NTA for ending it. YTA to yourself for not stating your expectations.

conqueeftador-booty | conqueeftador-booty

YTA for ending things, but consider her feelings and potential.

Cryogenic_Phoenix | Cryogenic_Phoenix

Don't be a whiny baby, YTA for not communicating.

Pure_Succotash_9683 | Pure_Succotash_9683

Traditional expectations without communication can lead to misunderstandings. 👍

baconator_out | baconator_out

NTA notices red flag in girlfriend's fear of being alone.

JerseyDevilsAdvocate | JerseyDevilsAdvocate

Prioritizing exclusivity over sexual health? Not a smart move 😬

[deleted] | [deleted]

Dating multiple people casually is illogical and leads to heartbreak ❤️

CLASSIC_SHIT | CLASSIC_SHIT

NAH, solid foundation is key. End it if you're unsure 👍

combuilder888 | combuilder888

Dodged a bullet 💔, better to end it early 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

Sex can be fun but exclusivity should be discussed upfront ❤️

geekgirlau | geekgirlau

Communication is key in relationships, don't shame your partner. 👍

sundalius | sundalius

Breaking up over pre-exclusivity encounters? YTA according to comment.

MrFunktasticc | MrFunktasticc

Dating multiple people before exclusivity: NTA's reaction and test.

Impossible_Change800 | Impossible_Change800

Decide whether to move on or work it out 🤔

Candid-Recognition13 | Candid-Recognition13

User questions normalization of hiding multiple partners during dating phase.

TheDrunkDemo | TheDrunkDemo

Different views on sex led to a missed opportunity 👍

Master_of__None | Master_of__None

Rejected girlfriend for wanting exclusivity he assumed. Let her go.

Ad-Ommmmm | Ad-Ommmmm

NTA, but blaming others for your assumptions doesn't help.

CartezDez | CartezDez

Valid feelings, but unreasonable request. Don't set yourself up for disappointment.

JeremyTheRhino | JeremyTheRhino

User suggests waiting for commitment before intimacy 💋

salmiakki1 | salmiakki1

Brutal response to a guy who misunderstood exclusivity expectations 😂

gigachadsbigbrother | gigachadsbigbrother

NAH. Communicate with her. Don't let it ruin your future ✌️

Frenk_preseren | Frenk_preseren

Poor communication leads to attacking and being the a**hole 💔

BourbonSommelier | BourbonSommelier

OP is called out for lack of communication skills and boundaries 🤔

Busterlimes | Busterlimes

OP thought instant monogamy after a one-night stand was reasonable 🤯

OwnPersonality3360 | OwnPersonality3360

Don't hate the player, hate the game. You missed out.

TheLonelyNipples | TheLonelyNipples

NTA for breaking up due to girlfriend's pre-exclusivity encounters 💔

cycophuk | cycophuk

OP's decision to end relationship over pre-exclusivity encounters justified. NTA 👍

judgementalthrow | judgementalthrow

Actions have consequences, and infidelity leads to breakups. NAH.

Superdunez | Superdunez

Sleeping around before exclusivity: Self-sabotage or fair game? 😳

Atomicleta | Atomicleta

Non-exclusive dating doesn't mean being okay with infidelity 👍

zer0aim | zer0aim

Ending a bad thing before it began 💯

Ok-Season-3433 | Ok-Season-3433

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