Groomsman Ditches ‘Assigned’ Bridesmaid for Another: Wedding Chaos Ensues

Picture this: You’re a groomsman at your good friend’s wedding, and you get ‘assigned’ a bridesmaid. You’re both single, and everyone thinks you’re perfect for each other. But there’s a catch – you’re not into her at all. To make matters worse, you hit it off with another bridesmaid, and drama ensues. That’s exactly what happened to our protagonist in this wild wedding story. Buckle up, folks, because this one’s a rollercoaster of emotions!

Groomsman Duty Calls

Assigned Bridesmaid

Matchmaking Gone Wrong

Rejection and Interrogation

️‍♀️ Kelly’s Persistence

‍♂️ Kelly’s Change of Heart

New Connection with Jen

Wedding Ceremony and Reception

Bar Encounter and Dancing with Jen

Ignoring the Drama

Confrontation at the Bar

Age Difference

Liz’s Anger and Accusations

Exiting the Situation

Hotel Drama

Aftermath

Feeling Terrible

Bridesmaid Drama: A Wedding Gone Wrong

Our protagonist was a groomsman at his friend’s wedding and was assigned to a bridesmaid named Kelly. It quickly became clear that they were paired up simply because they were both black. Kelly was into him, but he wasn’t feeling it, so he kindly turned her down. However, he hit it off with another bridesmaid, Jen, and they started dancing together at the reception. This didn’t sit well with Kelly, who confronted him alongside the bride, Liz. They accused him of being creepy and having a fetish for White women. Realizing there was no winning this argument, he left the wedding early. Later, he found out that Kelly was devastated, and Liz’s night was ruined. He feels terrible about the whole situation, but sometimes you just can’t please everyone. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this drama-filled wedding fiasco… ️‍♀️

You don’t owe anyone romance or sex . NTA wins.

Pushy bridesmaid accused of race fetishism in NTA comment.

NTA stands up for himself after bridesmaid’s drama

Bridesmaid’s matchmaking ruins her own wedding, NTA groomsman free to mingle

Bridezilla insists on ‘assigned’ bridesmaids and chaos ensues. NTA stands up for himself.

Groom’s friend ditching assigned bridesmaid was disrespectful and creepy. NTA.

Defending the NTA: Liz’s good intentions gone wrong.

NTA for rejecting racist assumptions about attraction

Bride’s racist matchmaking fails, NTA for ditching ‘assigned’ bridesmaid

Wedding drama fatigue: NTA groomsman skips ‘assigned’ bridesmaid, sparks chaos.

NTA defends couple caught up in drama of racist bridesmaid.

Wedding couple’s entitlement criticized for treating guests like props

Setting people up can be manipulative. NTA for not accepting.

Setting hard boundaries with a rude, controlling bridesmaid #NTA

Bridesmaid drama leads to accusations of manipulation and creepiness.

NTA. The bridesmaid’s friend caused chaos for wanting to hook up

Don’t let anyone make you feel guilty for having harmless fun

Wedding drama unfolds as bride shows racist behavior towards groomsman

Bridesmaid drama ends with a justified NTA verdict

Wedding drama ensues after bridesmaid gets rejected by groomsman

Asserting one’s romantic interests is okay, NTA

Defending personal preferences amidst unfounded assumptions.

Friend’s husband warned her, groomsmen saves the day

User agrees with NTA judgement, calls out racist behavior

Breaking gender roles at a wedding, not racism. NTA

NTA groomsman ditches ‘assigned’ bridesmaid, commenters call out bridezilla behavior.

Bridezilla tries to set up bridesmaid, groomsmen ditches her: chaos ensues

NTA defends bride’s decision, calls out manipulative and racist behavior

Wedding matchmaking gone wrong. Friend’s wife and bridesmaid at fault.

Bridezilla alert! Let people live their lives and enjoy weddings

Friend dodges bullet as bridesmaid turns into bridezilla. NTA.

Bridesmaid assignment: official wedding business only

Bridezilla puts race over friendship, ruins wedding over hookup plan

Wedding drama avoided thanks to NTA groomsman’s wise choice

Bridezilla verbally attacks groomsman’s dance partner, gets what she deserves.

Being paired with a bridesmaid based on race is insulting. NTA.

Bizarre bridesmaid switch sparks mature advice from commenter.

Don’t let societal pressure force you into hooking up

One sane groomsman amidst a group of crazy nut bags

Bridesmaid match-making gone wrong. NTA for declining proposal.

Bridesmaid tries to set up groomsman, chaos ensues. NTAH.

Supportive comment applauds OP’s dignity and grace in wedding drama

Friend tries to force bridesmaid on groomsman: Chaos ensues

Controlling and racist bridesmaid gets called out on Reddit. NTA

Rejection based on race: a point of pride or insult?

Being true to yourself is never a**hole behavior

Supportive comment highlights double standards and victim blaming.

Bridesmaid jealousy leads to wedding chaos. NTA.

Wedding party mix-ups lead to bridezilla moments. NTA saves day.

NTA stands up for himself and calls out entitled bridesmaids.

Wedding drama averted! NTA bride saves the day

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries is not TA

NTA commenter advises groom to move on from bridesmaid drama.

NTA! Pairing up with walk partner is BS. Shake it off!

No obligation to date; entitled bridesmaid learns hard lesson

A nostalgic comment about The Love Boat

“Don’t feel bad for her, entitlement is prerequisite for abuse”

Wedding party etiquette questioned. Is it necessary to stick together?

When a TV show plot becomes a real-life wedding disaster ‍♂️

Friend trying to pimp you out? Jet out of there! NTA

Token talk needed to school these gross folks. NTA

Don’t worry, you’re not the a**hole in this crazy drama!

Respect and equality matter in weddings too!

Wedding drama averted! Dancing with someone else is NTA

Bridezilla matchmakes groomsman, gets ditched for better bridesmaid

Wedding drama unfolds as a bridesmaid’s racism is exposed.

Friend’s wife accused of racism after groomsman switch

Communication breakdown leads to wedding chaos

Groomsman refuses to sleep with ‘assigned’ bridesmaid, Bridezilla alert

Wedding drama: NTA groomsman ditches ‘assigned’ bridesmaid, gets backlash.

Wedding drama averted by respectfully declining unwanted bridesmaid duties

Gender double standard in wedding parties sparks drama. ‍♀️

Love can’t be ‘assigned’. NTA for following your heart ❤

Comparing bridesmaid to food order is hilarious and relatable

NTA bridezilla blames others for her own wedding chaos

Weddings should be about the bride and groom, not hooking up