Groomsman Ditches 'Assigned' Bridesmaid for Another: Wedding Chaos Ensues 😱💔

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Picture this: You're a groomsman at your good friend's wedding, and you get 'assigned' a bridesmaid. You're both single, and everyone thinks you're perfect for each other. But there's a catch – you're not into her at all. 😬 To make matters worse, you hit it off with another bridesmaid, and drama ensues. 🍿 That's exactly what happened to our protagonist in this wild wedding story. Buckle up, folks, because this one's a rollercoaster of emotions! 🎢

🤵 Groomsman Duty Calls

Cheap-Arm-2966 | Cheap-Arm-2966

👰 Assigned Bridesmaid

Cheap-Arm-2966 | Cheap-Arm-2966

🤔 Matchmaking Gone Wrong

Cheap-Arm-2966 | Cheap-Arm-2966

💔 Rejection and Interrogation

Cheap-Arm-2966 | Cheap-Arm-2966

🕵️‍♀️ Kelly's Persistence

Cheap-Arm-2966 | Cheap-Arm-2966

🤷‍♂️ Kelly's Change of Heart

Cheap-Arm-2966 | Cheap-Arm-2966

💃 New Connection with Jen

Cheap-Arm-2966 | Cheap-Arm-2966

🎉 Wedding Ceremony and Reception

Cheap-Arm-2966 | Cheap-Arm-2966

🍸 Bar Encounter and Dancing with Jen

Cheap-Arm-2966 | Cheap-Arm-2966

👀 Ignoring the Drama

Cheap-Arm-2966 | Cheap-Arm-2966

😠 Confrontation at the Bar

Cheap-Arm-2966 | Cheap-Arm-2966

📏 Age Difference

Cheap-Arm-2966 | Cheap-Arm-2966

😡 Liz's Anger and Accusations

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🚪 Exiting the Situation

Cheap-Arm-2966 | Cheap-Arm-2966

🏨 Hotel Drama

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😢 Aftermath

Cheap-Arm-2966 | Cheap-Arm-2966

🙁 Feeling Terrible

Cheap-Arm-2966 | Cheap-Arm-2966

💔 Bridesmaid Drama: A Wedding Gone Wrong

Our protagonist was a groomsman at his friend's wedding and was assigned to a bridesmaid named Kelly. It quickly became clear that they were paired up simply because they were both black. Kelly was into him, but he wasn't feeling it, so he kindly turned her down. 💔 However, he hit it off with another bridesmaid, Jen, and they started dancing together at the reception. This didn't sit well with Kelly, who confronted him alongside the bride, Liz. 😠 They accused him of being creepy and having a fetish for White women. Realizing there was no winning this argument, he left the wedding early. 🚪 Later, he found out that Kelly was devastated, and Liz's night was ruined. 😢 He feels terrible about the whole situation, but sometimes you just can't please everyone. Let's see what the internet thinks of this drama-filled wedding fiasco... 🕵️‍♀️

You don't owe anyone romance or sex 👍. NTA wins.

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Pushy bridesmaid accused of race fetishism in NTA comment.

ArmChairDetective84 | ArmChairDetective84

NTA stands up for himself after bridesmaid's drama 💪

Content-Potential191 | Content-Potential191

Bridesmaid's matchmaking ruins her own wedding, NTA groomsman free to mingle 👏

Frosty_Comparison_85 | Frosty_Comparison_85

Bridezilla insists on 'assigned' bridesmaids and chaos ensues. NTA stands up for himself.

GoldenGoof19 | GoldenGoof19

Groom's friend ditching assigned bridesmaid was disrespectful and creepy. NTA.

MoonGladeLadyBug | MoonGladeLadyBug

Defending the NTA: Liz's good intentions gone wrong.

Octuplicate | Octuplicate

NTA for rejecting racist assumptions about attraction 🔥

jlzania | jlzania

Bride's racist matchmaking fails, NTA for ditching 'assigned' bridesmaid 💯

YouSayWotNow | YouSayWotNow

Wedding drama fatigue: NTA groomsman skips 'assigned' bridesmaid, sparks chaos. 😱

JennyPunk87 | JennyPunk87

NTA defends couple caught up in drama of racist bridesmaid.

mauve55 | mauve55

Wedding couple's entitlement criticized for treating guests like props 😱

Aim2bFit | Aim2bFit

Setting people up can be manipulative. NTA for not accepting.

notmyfirstlanguag | notmyfirstlanguag

Setting hard boundaries with a rude, controlling bridesmaid #NTA 🙌

Madame_Kitsune98 | Madame_Kitsune98

Bridesmaid drama leads to accusations of manipulation and creepiness. 😬

Odd_Welcome7940 | Odd_Welcome7940

NTA. The bridesmaid's friend caused chaos for wanting to hook up 👏

Greedy_Information96 | Greedy_Information96

Don't let anyone make you feel guilty for having harmless fun 👏

Aggravating_Meat2101 | Aggravating_Meat2101

Wedding drama unfolds as bride shows racist behavior towards groomsman 😱

hi_hola_salut | hi_hola_salut

Bridesmaid drama ends with a justified NTA verdict 👏

Tasty_Doughnut_9226 | Tasty_Doughnut_9226

Wedding drama ensues after bridesmaid gets rejected by groomsman 😱

Workin-progress82 | Workin-progress82

Asserting one's romantic interests is okay, NTA 👍

TalkingBackAgain | TalkingBackAgain

Defending personal preferences amidst unfounded assumptions. 👏

PsychologicalRain913 | PsychologicalRain913

Friend's husband warned her, groomsmen saves the day 👏

mustang19671967 | mustang19671967

User agrees with NTA judgement, calls out racist behavior 👏

Cursd818 | Cursd818

Breaking gender roles at a wedding, not racism. NTA 👏

chaingun_samurai | chaingun_samurai

NTA groomsman ditches 'assigned' bridesmaid, commenters call out bridezilla behavior.

Reasonable-Salad7274 | Reasonable-Salad7274

Bridezilla tries to set up bridesmaid, groomsmen ditches her: chaos ensues 😱

Midlife_Crisis_46 | Midlife_Crisis_46

NTA defends bride's decision, calls out manipulative and racist behavior 🔥

goddessmayari | goddessmayari

Wedding matchmaking gone wrong. Friend's wife and bridesmaid at fault.

Nuktos1517 | Nuktos1517

Bridezilla alert! Let people live their lives and enjoy weddings 👏

Medical-Cry-7320 | Medical-Cry-7320

Friend dodges bullet as bridesmaid turns into bridezilla. NTA.

Wild_Perspective_291 | Wild_Perspective_291

Bridesmaid assignment: official wedding business only 🎊👌

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Bridezilla puts race over friendship, ruins wedding over hookup plan 😱

SirRabbott | SirRabbott

Wedding drama avoided thanks to NTA groomsman's wise choice 👏

Icy_Curmudgeon | Icy_Curmudgeon

Bridezilla verbally attacks groomsman's dance partner, gets what she deserves. 😒

MindingUrBusiness17 | MindingUrBusiness17

Being paired with a bridesmaid based on race is insulting. NTA. 👏

Dazzling-Box4393 | Dazzling-Box4393

Bizarre bridesmaid switch sparks mature advice from commenter.

Knittingfairy09113 | Knittingfairy09113

Don't let societal pressure force you into hooking up 🙌

mariruizgar | mariruizgar

One sane groomsman amidst a group of crazy nut bags 🍕

Dangerous_Data6749 | Dangerous_Data6749

Bridesmaid match-making gone wrong. NTA for declining proposal.

sweetsweetjane1 | sweetsweetjane1

Bridesmaid tries to set up groomsman, chaos ensues. NTAH.

Slave2themusik | Slave2themusik

Supportive comment applauds OP's dignity and grace in wedding drama 👏

Akasgotu | Akasgotu

Friend tries to force bridesmaid on groomsman: Chaos ensues 😱

SnooWords4839 | SnooWords4839

Controlling and racist bridesmaid gets called out on Reddit. NTA

EdnaForeva | EdnaForeva

Rejection based on race: a point of pride or insult? 🤔

MMDCAENE | MMDCAENE

Being true to yourself is never a**hole behavior 💪

Due-Average-8136 | Due-Average-8136

Supportive comment highlights double standards and victim blaming. 👏

DamnitGravity | DamnitGravity

Bridesmaid jealousy leads to wedding chaos. NTA.

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Wedding party mix-ups lead to bridezilla moments. NTA saves day.

ChimoEngr | ChimoEngr

NTA stands up for himself and calls out entitled bridesmaids.

AmeliaChatwin | AmeliaChatwin

Wedding drama averted! NTA bride saves the day 🙌

pup_101 | pup_101

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries is not TA 👏

Legendkillerwes | Legendkillerwes

NTA commenter advises groom to move on from bridesmaid drama.

phredzepplin | phredzepplin

NTA! Pairing up with walk partner is BS. Shake it off!

Subterranean44 | Subterranean44

No obligation to date; entitled bridesmaid learns hard lesson 😎

LittleFatPotat | LittleFatPotat

A nostalgic comment about The Love Boat

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"Don't feel bad for her, entitlement is prerequisite for abuse" 👏

StanielBlorch | StanielBlorch

Wedding party etiquette questioned. Is it necessary to stick together?

Not-Enough-Spoons | Not-Enough-Spoons

When a TV show plot becomes a real-life wedding disaster 🤦‍♂️

Gogo726 | Gogo726

Friend trying to pimp you out? Jet out of there! NTA 😉

throwawayyourfun | throwawayyourfun

Token talk needed to school these gross folks. NTA 👏

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Don't worry, you're not the a**hole in this crazy drama! 😊

Dylans116thDream | Dylans116thDream

Respect and equality matter in weddings too! 👏

CCassie1979 | CCassie1979

Wedding drama averted! Dancing with someone else is NTA 😊

SaskTravelbug | SaskTravelbug

Bridezilla matchmakes groomsman, gets ditched for better bridesmaid 😱

honeybaby2019 | honeybaby2019

Wedding drama unfolds as a bridesmaid's racism is exposed. 😱

emr830 | emr830

Friend's wife accused of racism after groomsman switch 😱

MyLadyBits | MyLadyBits

Communication breakdown leads to wedding chaos 😱

leolawilliams5859 | leolawilliams5859

Groomsman refuses to sleep with 'assigned' bridesmaid, Bridezilla alert 😱

Crazy_Banshee_333 | Crazy_Banshee_333

Wedding drama: NTA groomsman ditches 'assigned' bridesmaid, gets backlash.

brieles | brieles

Wedding drama averted by respectfully declining unwanted bridesmaid duties 🙌

Ok_Giraffe_6396 | Ok_Giraffe_6396

Gender double standard in wedding parties sparks drama. 🤷‍♀️

Anxious_droid | Anxious_droid

Love can't be 'assigned'. NTA for following your heart ❤

Pand0ra30_ | Pand0ra30_

Comparing bridesmaid to food order is hilarious and relatable 😂

Turbulent_Tip_9756 | Turbulent_Tip_9756

NTA bridezilla blames others for her own wedding chaos 😒

SadLaser | SadLaser

Weddings should be about the bride and groom, not hooking up 😒

ellygator13 | ellygator13

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