💸 Girlfriend Cuts Off Financial Support: Is She the Bad Guy?

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Meet our 23-year-old heroine, a full-time student who's been financially supporting her boyfriend for months. After her father passed away, he left her money to get through school, and she's been using it to cover not only her expenses but also her boyfriend's. But now, she's reached her breaking point and has decided to stop paying his bills. The question is, does that make her the bad guy? 🤔💔

Dad's Generous Gift 🎁

duckinmybelly | duckinmybelly

Budgeting Wisely 💰

duckinmybelly | duckinmybelly

Living with the Boyfriend 🏠

duckinmybelly | duckinmybelly

Taking on His Bills 💳

duckinmybelly | duckinmybelly

Trying to Set Boundaries 🚧

duckinmybelly | duckinmybelly

Drawing the Line ✋

duckinmybelly | duckinmybelly

Bad Timing? ⏰

duckinmybelly | duckinmybelly

Standing Her Ground 🛑

duckinmybelly | duckinmybelly

Her Offer 💵

duckinmybelly | duckinmybelly

Feeling Used 😔

duckinmybelly | duckinmybelly

The Cost Adds Up 💸

duckinmybelly | duckinmybelly

Is She Being Harsh? 🤷‍♀️

duckinmybelly | duckinmybelly

Update: Breakup 💔

duckinmybelly | duckinmybelly

Realization 🧐

duckinmybelly | duckinmybelly

The Verdict: Standing Up for Herself 💪

After months of feeling used and footing the bill for her boyfriend's expenses, our heroine finally put her foot down and told him she won't be paying his bills anymore. Despite feeling like she might be the bad guy, she realized that she needs to prioritize her own financial well-being. In the end, she decided to break up with him, as she discovered the relationship was more about control than love. Now, let's see what the internet has to say about this situation... 🍿📣

NTA. Financial boundaries are important in a relationship. 👍

ihateusernamecreates | ihateusernamecreates

NTA calls out leech boyfriend, suggests he find new host 🦋

wind-river7 | wind-river7

Charging rent? 💰 NTA's got a point. 🤔

Rega_lazar | Rega_lazar

NTA! Boyfriend disrespecting boundaries and father's dying wish. Cut off support. 👍

pieldriver | pieldriver

Partner is taking advantage of financial support, NTA for stopping.

MrsZbornak | MrsZbornak

🚫 Don't be a doormat! Cut him off and move on.

Jupiter1610 | Jupiter1610

Partner is financially irresponsible. NTA for cutting him off. 💵

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👍 Agreeing with the commenter's stance on financial support.

Tess47 | Tess47

Setting boundaries is healthy. You deserve an equal partner. 👏

BlibbetyBlobBlob | BlibbetyBlobBlob

Dumping a guy who won't pay his own bills feels amazing 👏 #NTA

drunkenavacado | drunkenavacado

Stop the leech! NTA for cutting off financial support 💰🙅‍♀️

DangerousRiver9 | DangerousRiver9

Take control of your finances 💰 and stop enabling him 🚫.

FurryChildren | FurryChildren

NTA. Is it fair for you to pay for his bills?

justheretolurk3 | justheretolurk3

Girlfriend not the a**hole for cutting off financial support. 💸

LSH88 | LSH88

💰 Girlfriend stops financial support, suggests cheaper alternatives for boyfriend's expenses.

RoseTyler38 | RoseTyler38

Standing up for yourself is never easy, but always worth it 👏

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NTA: Girlfriend cuts off financial support to leeching boyfriend. 👏

notrlyheretbh | notrlyheretbh

NTA. Stop enabling his leeching. 💸

dbf06 | dbf06

👏 Setting boundaries is important. Don't let anyone take advantage. #NTA

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Sharing bills? NTA suggests cutting off financial support for partner.

JenAnt80 | JenAnt80

Girlfriend not obligated to financially support boyfriend. Start small.

rlf016 | rlf016

Partner or child? NTA for cutting off financial support 👏

rorochocho | rorochocho

NTA. Tough love for a freeloading boyfriend. 💰👋

MrTubbyTubby | MrTubbyTubby

Partner living off your inheritance? NTA for cutting him off 👏

kayt1941 | kayt1941

NTA. Supportive comment advising to leave toxic relationship. 👏

LifeOfMaddox | LifeOfMaddox

Tough love advice for a financially dependent partner. 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

Partner is a leech and disrespectful to her late father 💰👎

midlifegreatlife | midlifegreatlife

Partner enabling financial dependence, commenter advises growth and independence. 👍

kd3906 | kd3906

Empathetic support for someone who dumped a financial leech. 👏

moonstonecrack | moonstonecrack

Relationships are about agreement. NAH for not wanting to support.

john_nash1 | john_nash1

Empowering comment on standing up for oneself. 💪

bushiest___beaver | bushiest___beaver

🤑 User accuses partner of using them as an ATM

EliSka93 | EliSka93

NTA, you deserve better than a leech 👍

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NTA for cutting off mooching boyfriend. Don't feel guilty 👍

ChimoEngr | ChimoEngr

Don't set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm 💥

Deezcleannutz | Deezcleannutz

Supportive comment encourages independence and success 🎓👍

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Take control of your finances 💰 and stand up for yourself

lalalaicanthearyou99 | lalalaicanthearyou99

🤑 Don't let him mooch off you! NTA for cutting off support.


Empathetic response to commenter's difficult situation. 🤔

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No man would live off a woman. Pack his sh*t 👋

MCKelly13 | MCKelly13

Cutting off financial support to boyfriend, focus on saving for future 💰

dtShikhaMahajan | dtShikhaMahajan

👏 Stand up for yourself! You deserve better than this. #NTA

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Partner needs to cut non-essentials, not the girlfriend. #NTA 👍

luckydidi18 | luckydidi18

OP is the a**hole for not taking advantage of opportunity 💸

rayz0101 | rayz0101

Prioritizing yourself and your experiences is important. Don't regret helping.

unpop_mom_here | unpop_mom_here

🎉 Encouraging comment, wishing OP a better life ahead.

EmilyCastro | EmilyCastro

Enabling an a**hole leech? NTA wins the day 🎉

ultimatescar | ultimatescar

Taking charge of finances and cutting off leeches. 💪

GameDayBucketGo_Boom | GameDayBucketGo_Boom

NTA for cutting off financial support to boyfriend. 💰

WhipsandPetals | WhipsandPetals

Cutting off financial support from leech ex-boyfriend. #NTA 👏

iluvcats17 | iluvcats17

Father misused funds, girlfriend not wrong to stop payments. #NTA 👍

mideon2000 | mideon2000

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