Bridesmaid Demands Plus-One at Best Friend's Wedding: Entitled or Fair? 👰🤵

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Diply | Diply

Picture this: your best friend since elementary school is getting married, and you've been given the honor of being her Co-Maid of Honor. You're beyond excited to support her and help make her dream wedding come to life. But then, you find out that you're not allowed to bring your partner of 5 years to the wedding, while other bridesmaids get to bring their significant others. 😮 How would you feel? Our protagonist is facing this exact dilemma, and it's causing some serious drama between her and her best friend. Let's dive into this story of friendship, wedding planning, and plus-one controversies. 🍿

Sisterly Bond 🤗

FishermanQueasy4152 | FishermanQueasy4152

Co-Maids of Honor 👰👯‍♀️

FishermanQueasy4152 | FishermanQueasy4152

Embracing the Role 🌟

FishermanQueasy4152 | FishermanQueasy4152

Friendship Dynamics 🔄

FishermanQueasy4152 | FishermanQueasy4152

Long Engagement 💍

FishermanQueasy4152 | FishermanQueasy4152

Co-MOA Duties 😓

FishermanQueasy4152 | FishermanQueasy4152

Duties Fall to Me 😩

FishermanQueasy4152 | FishermanQueasy4152

Cutting the Guest List ✂️

FishermanQueasy4152 | FishermanQueasy4152

Plus-One Drama 😱

FishermanQueasy4152 | FishermanQueasy4152

No Plus-One for Me? 😢

FishermanQueasy4152 | FishermanQueasy4152

Committed Relationships Only 💔

FishermanQueasy4152 | FishermanQueasy4152

Feeling Upset 😠

FishermanQueasy4152 | FishermanQueasy4152

Emily's Fiancé 🤬

FishermanQueasy4152 | FishermanQueasy4152

Confronting Jane 😤

FishermanQueasy4152 | FishermanQueasy4152

Feeling Awful 😔

FishermanQueasy4152 | FishermanQueasy4152

Not Serious Enough? 💔

FishermanQueasy4152 | FishermanQueasy4152

Family Questions 🤷‍♀️

FishermanQueasy4152 | FishermanQueasy4152

The Ultimatum 😶

FishermanQueasy4152 | FishermanQueasy4152

Feeling Like the A**hole? 😟

FishermanQueasy4152 | FishermanQueasy4152

No Plus-One, No Wedding? 🚫💔

Our protagonist has been best friends with Jane since they were kids, and they have a sister-like bond. When Jane gets engaged, our protagonist is thrilled to be one of her Co-Maids of Honor, alongside another friend, Emily. However, when Jane has to cut down her guest list, our protagonist's partner of 5 years is on the chopping block. Jane says only those in 'serious committed relationships' (aka engaged couples) can bring a plus-one, leaving our protagonist feeling upset and singled out. 😢 To make matters worse, Emily's recently-engaged fiancé, who's known to be an a**hole, is allowed to attend. After a heated fight, our protagonist tells Jane she won't attend the wedding if she can't bring her partner, and they're not speaking. 💥 Now, she's left wondering if she's in the wrong. Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation...

Drop out. You're being used as a free wedding planner. 👋

murphy2345678 | murphy2345678

Standing up for yourself and your relationship 💪🏻

CarpeCyprinidae | CarpeCyprinidae

Bridezilla excludes long-term boyfriend from wedding, friend calls her out 😠

Hangingwithoscar | Hangingwithoscar

Friendship is over. Go scorched earth or move on. 👍

BAT123456789 | BAT123456789

Demanding a plus-one? Get ready to pay for it 💰

Crazy-cat-0689 | Crazy-cat-0689

Sassy solution to bridesmaid's plus-one demand. NTA!

BensBum | BensBum

Supportive comment for demanding plus-one at best friend's wedding.

doguillo77 | doguillo77

Bridesmaid rightfully calls out bride's unfair 'no ring, no bring' rule 👏

Ok_Illustrator3344 | Ok_Illustrator3344

Cut ties with the entitled bridesmaid and her friend Emily.

content_great_gramma | content_great_gramma

Supportive comment encourages low contact until after wedding. NTA 👍

PandaMime_421 | PandaMime_421

Marriage doesn't confer social standing, education doesn't equal success. NTA.

Pencil161 | Pencil161

Bridesmaid feels slighted about plus-one, justified to skip wedding.

miscllns1 | miscllns1

Friend may have planned to make OP look like the bad guy 💁‍♀️

SeparateDisaster2068 | SeparateDisaster2068

"NTA" shuts down entitled bridesmaid's unjustified demands 👏

Wanderful-Woman | Wanderful-Woman

Committed relationship of 5 years > ring from <1 year. NTA 👏

ImNewDabadeeDabadi | ImNewDabadeeDabadi

Wedding drama: Bridesmaid's plus-one request raises eyebrows 👰🤵

SnooDucks3584 | SnooDucks3584

Partner uninvited to wedding: send message or end friendship? 👰🤵

OrganicFrost | OrganicFrost

Wedding guest list cuts are tough, but denying a plus-one for a bridesmaid's partner is unfair. #NTA 👰🎓

Pamplemousse4ever | Pamplemousse4ever

Bridesmaid feels undervalued, commenters side with her. 👰

RaymondBeaumont | RaymondBeaumont

Inclusive etiquette rule for cohabiting couples, says commenter. ✌🏻

OuttaFux | OuttaFux

Respectful MOH refuses bride's entitlement to disrespect her relationship 👏

qlohengrin | qlohengrin

Wedding drama leads to wasted money and lost friendships 👰💔

ABBAMABBA | ABBAMABBA

Bridesmaid demands plus-one, commenter suggests checking common-law marriage laws 🤩

littlefiddle05 | littlefiddle05

Skipping the wedding for baecation 😎

No_Scientist7086 | No_Scientist7086

Bridesmaid feels entitled to plus-one after planning multiple events.

slendermanismydad | slendermanismydad

Sarcastic reply to entitled bride, with laughing emoji. 🤣

Minute_Box3852 | Minute_Box3852

Cancel & salvage money, leave bride to flounder. NTA. 👍

AlisonLiterally | AlisonLiterally

Dump wedding planning on Emily, Jane is not your friend. NTA 👍

shbrinnnn | shbrinnnn

Cancel everything, enjoy your vacation and post lots of pics 📸💓

RDJ1000 | RDJ1000

Supportive comment, encouraging OP to stick to their feelings. 👍

Grimalkinnn | Grimalkinnn

Bridesmaid wants plus-one, but NTA suggests a solution 👰

Sensitive_Progress26 | Sensitive_Progress26

Bridesmaid suggests bowing out and invoicing Bridezilla. 🤵

Phat-n-Saucy7391 | Phat-n-Saucy7391

Excluded spouse ended friendship after costly bachelorette party. 💔

gliderosie | gliderosie

Bridesmaid stands up for herself, rightfully called NTA 👏

Old_Cheek1076 | Old_Cheek1076

Bridesmaid calls out bridezilla for snobbish behavior, suggests resignation. 👰🤵

MaddRamm | MaddRamm

Wedding slave after being ousted as bridesmaid? NTA.

Status-Pattern7539 | Status-Pattern7539

Bridesmaid stands up for her plus-one. Bridezilla alert! 👰🤵

ShinyAppleScoop | ShinyAppleScoop

Bridesmaid wants plus-one but OP suggests returning invitation for vacation 🤷‍♀️

[deleted] | [deleted]

Friend demands plus-one, commenter advises pulling out of wedding. NTA 🙌

Quiet-Hamster6509 | Quiet-Hamster6509

Support for NTA verdict and condemnation of disrespectful behavior. 👍

Rare-Progress5009 | Rare-Progress5009

Bridesmaid's demand for plus-one after 5 years: Fair or entitled? NTA

Actual-Gift-753 | Actual-Gift-753

Is the bride jealous of the commenter's relationship? 🤔

Capital-Temporary-17 | Capital-Temporary-17

Friend demands plus-one, commenter NTAH and suggests fun weekend trip.

Turpitudia79 | Turpitudia79

Walk away and inform mother of bride about bride's behavior 🙌

Tinkerpro | Tinkerpro

Friend demands money for wedding, commenter calls her out. 💸

Mdaro | Mdaro

Bridesmaid denies plus-one based on relationship judgment. NTA.

HoshiJones | HoshiJones

Suggests investigating possible motives behind friend's odd behavior 🤔

Phantoms12 | Phantoms12

Single commenter sympathizes with OP, calls out entitled friend. 👏

Rhuthbarb | Rhuthbarb

Bridesmaid considers dropping out due to plus-one drama. NTA.

MysteriousKale8 | MysteriousKale8

Wilderness excursion > Jane's diva demands 🌲

Electronic_Wait_7500 | Electronic_Wait_7500

Bridesmaid suggests refusing to attend or being truthful about exclusion.

wlfwrtr | wlfwrtr

Defending serious, committed relationships without marriage. NTA 👏

idiot_kid | idiot_kid

Bridesmaid's entitled demand scrutinized for being unfair and rude. 🤵

linerva | linerva

Wedding invite without partner is not a real plus-one. NTA.

ChristianUniMom | ChristianUniMom

Bridesmaid stands up for herself and steps back from wedding planning. 👏

evilcj925 | evilcj925

Bridezilla or not, Jane definitely sucks. 💁‍♀️

ittybittydiscobot | ittybittydiscobot

Maid of honor suggests stepping down to avoid drama 🤷🏼‍♀️

saedgin | saedgin

Commitment wins: Saying no to attending wedding proves loyalty. ❤

nolo_contre_basso | nolo_contre_basso

Friend demands plus-one and OP decides not to attend wedding. 💫

melmcclone | melmcclone

User slams bride's entitled friend and suggests sending her a bill. 💸

mtgistonsoffun | mtgistonsoffun

Weddings are about celebrating love, not excluding it. NTA.

Accomplished-Ad3219 | Accomplished-Ad3219

Partner doesn't want marriage, commenter advises ditching entitled bridesmaid. NTA 👍

Barracuda00 | Barracuda00

Bridesmaid's plus-one refusal seems like a ploy to control OP 🤢

mallionaire7 | mallionaire7

A scathing criticism of a bridezilla and her entitled behavior.

Emmanulla70 | Emmanulla70

Friend demands plus-one and insults relationship, NTA chooses happiness 😊

Lucky-Guess8786 | Lucky-Guess8786

Deceitful or justified? Suggests fake engagement to bring plus-one. 👍

Malibucat48 | Malibucat48

Supportive comment defends bridesmaid, calls bride childish. 🤝

FartyOldeBob | FartyOldeBob

Friendzilla alert! NTA, don't let her take advantage of you 👊

Embarrassed_Rule_341 | Embarrassed_Rule_341

Sounds like a tough talk, but NTA for setting boundaries 👏

my-kind-of-crazy | my-kind-of-crazy

A blunt suggestion to bow out of bridesmaid duties.

Chandlerdd | Chandlerdd

Guy supports bridesmaid's decision to not give plus-one, sarcastically suggests consuming all the wedding expenses 💰👀

AssistPleasant227 | AssistPleasant227

Friendship over. NTA. Heartbreaking 💔

[deleted] | [deleted]

Bridezilla demands exact rules and lost her friend and marriage. 🤪

nlopez525 | nlopez525

Bridesmaid called out for arbitrary criteria. NTA stands her ground.

Nearly_Pointless | Nearly_Pointless

Stop enabling bridezillas. People aren't fragile glass. 👏

Bird_Brain4101112 | Bird_Brain4101112

Fair rule for plus-ones at weddings, NTA comment.

Justforreddit44 | Justforreddit44

Wedding party exempt from plus-one rule. NTA.

laffgiraffe | laffgiraffe

Bridesmaid stands up for long-term partner, calls out bride's entitlement 👰🤵

Careful-Self-457 | Careful-Self-457

Bridesmaid advises to stand firm and prioritize relationship over wedding. 👍

DynkoFromTheNorth | DynkoFromTheNorth

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