Woman Refuses to Let Boyfriend's Daughters in Her Apartment 🚫👧

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Being child-free by choice is a personal decision, but what happens when love comes knocking with kids in tow? This 38-year-old woman found herself in a unique situation when she fell for a man with two daughters. They agreed on an arrangement to keep their relationship separate from his parental duties, but when he unexpectedly brought his daughters to her apartment, she couldn't handle it. 😬👨‍👧‍👧

The Unexpected Dilemma 🤔

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Meeting the Boyfriend 💕

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The Truth Comes Out 🚸

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The Arrangement 📆

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Love Blossoms 🌹

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The Proposal 💍

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The Surprise Visit 🏠

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The Unwelcome Guests 👗

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Change of Plans 🔄

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The Confrontation 😡

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The Relationship Struggle 💔

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The Future? 🤷

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Non-Traditional Love ❤️

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The Heartbreaking Decision 💔

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Moving On 😢

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A Love Torn Apart by Parenting 💔👨‍👧‍👧

This woman's love story took a heartbreaking turn when her boyfriend's daughters unexpectedly showed up at her apartment. Despite their non-traditional arrangement, she couldn't handle having the kids around and confronted her boyfriend. Their relationship crumbled, and they decided to end things, leaving both of them devastated. 💔😢 Let's see what people think of this complicated situation...

Dating a parent when childfree? Incompatible as f**k. ESH.

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Dating a man with kids when you don't want kids? 🤔 ESH.

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User calls out both parties for poor decision-making 🤷🏼‍♀️

ConvivialKat | ConvivialKat

Don't date someone with kids if you can't accept them. 🚫

satansBigMac | satansBigMac

Dating a man with kids means accepting the children. YTA.

ResurrectionScary | ResurrectionScary

User calls out OP for not accepting boyfriend's daughters. Yikes.

False_Risk296 | False_Risk296

User sympathizes but advises to be more cautious in relationships 🤔

Electronic_Fox_6383 | Electronic_Fox_6383

User questions OP's long-term expectations, predicts breakup 💔

XenoRyet | XenoRyet

Lesson learned: never date parents if you don't want kids. NTA 👍

TheDragonsareBarking | TheDragonsareBarking

User calls out poster for ignoring red flags, both are AHs 😬

No-Mango8923 | No-Mango8923

Boyfriend's kids left alone in apartment, woman unsure of role 🤔

Stacy3536 | Stacy3536

User questions OP's childfree stance, deems them TA. 🤔

Slight-Ad-5442 | Slight-Ad-5442

Debate on dating someone with kids, both acting selfishly 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

totallynotarobut | totallynotarobut

Relationship has run its course, ESH for reasons. 👍

ChaosAndMischeif | ChaosAndMischeif

User calls out woman for refusing to accept boyfriend's daughters 🚫👧

smallsanctuary_ | smallsanctuary_

Dating a man with kids doesn't mean you can ignore them 🚫

richardoshillyshally | richardoshillyshally

Mixed opinions on who's TA, but BF most at fault 🤷‍♀️

Syyina | Syyina

Mixed opinions on who's at fault for excluding boyfriend's kids 🤷🏼‍♀️

violetlisa | violetlisa

ESH for not communicating about kids and personal boundaries 😒

Historical_Peanut611 | Historical_Peanut611

YTA for not wanting your boyfriend's kids in your apartment 🚫👧

KaleidoscopeNo9102 | KaleidoscopeNo9102

Established boundaries, but ignored them for a month. ESH. 🤷‍♀️

Cryptographer_Alone | Cryptographer_Alone

Setting boundaries doesn't always solve the problem 😕

BeneficialTrouble333 | BeneficialTrouble333

User calls out OP for naivety in dating a man with kids

Most_Disaster_79 | Most_Disaster_79

ESH - Dating a dad without accepting his kids is wrong 🚫👧

GreyerGrey | GreyerGrey

🚩 Waiting a month to reveal kids is a red flag

LawngClaw17 | LawngClaw17

Engaged to a man with kids but won't let them in? 🤔 YTA

Patrickosplayhouse | Patrickosplayhouse

User receives backlash for being child-free and engaged to a parent 😠

WontYouBeMyNeighbors | WontYouBeMyNeighbors

Relationship advice: accept your partner's kids or move on 👯

dumdeedumdeedumdeedu | dumdeedumdeedumdeedu

User calls out woman for not accepting boyfriend's daughters. YTA.

chelsea5532 | chelsea5532

Dating for 4 years, but boyfriend's kids come first. 🤷‍♀️

LabAdministrative530 | LabAdministrative530

User calls out both parties for unrealistic expectations 🤷🏻‍♂️

CaptSpacePants | CaptSpacePants

Dating someone with kids but refusing to be around them? 🤔

Scary-Star1006 | Scary-Star1006

Step up or step out? Commenter calls out delusional OP 🤔

Mabelisms | Mabelisms

Two massive a**holes pretending his kids don't exist 🤦‍♀️

nyx926 | nyx926

Being with someone with kids when you don't want kids.

Amber-ForDays | Amber-ForDays

Mismatched expectations lead to unsustainable relationship. 🤷‍♀️

Aggressive_Boat_8047 | Aggressive_Boat_8047

Fiance and girlfriend incompatible, he pushed boundaries, ESH.

MombieZ3 | MombieZ3

Sarcasm at its finest. 😂

Gorevoid | Gorevoid

User defends woman's decision to not take on stepmother role. NTA 👏

Unusual-Sympathy-205 | Unusual-Sympathy-205

Boyfriend's sneaky plan to move in with his daughters. NTAH.

lovinglifeatmyage | lovinglifeatmyage

Stepmom defends OP's decision to not let boyfriend's daughters in. 🙌

sweetpeppah | sweetpeppah

Choosing not to have kids, but dating a parent is tricky 🤔

whoreallycarz | whoreallycarz

Boyfriend drops off daughters without notice, woman refuses entry. NTA.

AzureYLila | AzureYLila

User calls out commenter for being TA in child-free relationship.

BigBossPoodle | BigBossPoodle

User questions woman's sincerity in not wanting children 🤔

snow_angel022968 | snow_angel022968

Is it time to break up? 🤔

shimon | shimon

Dating a single parent means accepting their kids too 👥

pervprogrammer | pervprogrammer

NTA for setting boundaries in your own apartment. ESH for dating.

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Heartbreaking update on relationship ending, seeking strength and closure. ❤

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Clear boundaries set, lying partner, NTA. Time to move on. 👋

BathtubPooper | BathtubPooper

Dating a man with kids means accepting them too 👨🏻‍👦👧👦🏻‍👧👦🏻‍👦

No_Atmosphere_2186 | No_Atmosphere_2186

Relationship advice: accept the man and his kids or move on 👨👦

dumdeedumdeedumdeedu | dumdeedumdeedumdeedu

Setting clear boundaries is important in any relationship 💌

Lowered-ex | Lowered-ex

Red flag alert! Get out and leave that manipulating dude 🚨

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Boyfriend's daughters invade girlfriend's closet, she sets boundaries. 🚫

stubastuba | stubastuba

User supports OP's decision and warns of future complications. 👍

KimmyWex1972 | KimmyWex1972

Honesty is key in a tricky situation. Good luck 👍

PattersonPark | PattersonPark

NTA for enforcing boundaries and revoking permission to host boyfriend's daughters.

sdm41319 | sdm41319

Red flags in a relationship: bait and switch, unmet expectations. ESH 🚫

hidee_ho_neighborino | hidee_ho_neighborino

Dating a parent but refusing to accept their children? ESH 👎

danamo219 | danamo219

Questioning the boyfriend's intentions and past behavior. 🤔

Dry-Clock-1470 | Dry-Clock-1470

Dating someone with kids? You'll never be put first. 😔

PinkBunny5991 | PinkBunny5991

Dating someone with kids? Be ready to be a parent 👧👨👦👦 ESH

MrFabianS | MrFabianS

Dating a parent means accepting their children as a package 👨🏻‍👦🚫

PrideEfficient5807 | PrideEfficient5807

Partner's childfree stance respected, STBX's behavior unacceptable. NTA 👍

RickAdtley | RickAdtley

Think twice before dating someone with kids. 🚫👧

No-Alternative-1321 | No-Alternative-1321

User believes dating someone with kids is a dealbreaker. ESH.

punch-his-beard-off | punch-his-beard-off

Respecting privacy is not being an a**hole 🙌

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User calls out boyfriend for leaving daughters unattended at girlfriend's apartment

Down2earth62 | Down2earth62

Accepting stepchildren is crucial for a successful marriage 👨‍👧‍👦

Aliteracy | Aliteracy

Incompatible partners: ESH for dating someone with kids or not.

QueefingTheNightAway | QueefingTheNightAway

Don't date someone with kids if you don't like kids 🚫👧

ConsiderationCrazy22 | ConsiderationCrazy22

User calls out OP for ignoring inevitable conflict. YTA.

Head_Photograph9572 | Head_Photograph9572

Don't date a dad if you don't want kids. YTA move on! 🚫

Electronic_Squash_30 | Electronic_Squash_30

Dating a man with kids when you hate kids? 🤔

Chuck121763 | Chuck121763

Dating someone with kids? Don't be surprised when they're around 🤷‍♀️

Codiilovee | Codiilovee

Dating a man with kids and surprised she doesn't want them 🤷‍♀️

UltimatrixmaN | UltimatrixmaN

NTA for not wanting kids, but reconsider the lying fiance 🚫

GoodIntelligent2867 | GoodIntelligent2867

Think twice before dating someone with kids. 🙅�\dffb

ConsciousPepper5003 | ConsciousPepper5003

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