Being a new mom is tough, especially when you’re breastfeeding and your baby just wants to be close to you 24/7. One mom found herself in this exact situation, and all she wanted was a little time to herself to take a relaxing shower. But with her husband’s inability to soothe their baby, she had to call in backup – her own mom! Little did she know, this would lead to some unexpected drama between her and her husband.
Newborn Baby, No Shower Time

Craving a Relaxing Shower

Husband’s Uninterrupted Showers

The Shower Struggle

Desperate for a Break

Husband’s Cop-Out?

Calling in Mom for Backup

The Need for Self-Care ♀️

Surprise Visit from Grandma

Husband’s Reaction

The Accusation

Making Him Look Bad? ♀️

Mom vs. Hubby: The Shower Showdown
This new mom was desperate for a relaxing shower, but her husband just couldn’t seem to handle their baby without bringing her into the bathroom. Frustrated and in need of some self-care, she called her own mom to come watch the baby so she could finally have a moment to herself. But when her husband found out, he accused her of making him look bad in front of her mom and being an a**hole for not telling him to keep the baby out of the shower. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
New mom struggles to shower in peace with husband and baby

New mom gets reassurance and advice on self-care and bonding.

New mom receives support for calling out selfish husband behavior

Step up, Dad! NTA

Encouraging comment from a father, advocating for shared parenting responsibilities.

New mom struggles with husband’s incompetence in parenting

New mom gets support for clueless dad.

New mom deserves better: partner criticized for lack of support.

Husband needs to get a grip on baby crying
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Supportive comment calling out husband’s lack of help with baby

Husband needs to bond with baby for peace

Husband accused of gaslighting and being a man-baby. NTA.

Supportive comment defends husband’s parenting. NTA.
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Mom gets helpful advice on soothing baby during shower

Supportive comment encourages husband to step up and help out

New mom deserves a break!

Honest comment calls out bad husband/dad for fear of judgment

Mom receives support to hold husband accountable for baby care

Husband called out for bad behavior. NTA wins.

Partner’s hour-long shower causes parenting dispute. Commenter calls out behavior.

New mom struggles with husband’s lack of initiative during shower. NTAH

Mom seeks help with husband’s parenting, threatens shower revenge.

Mom’s savior called a saint for not blasting lazy husband

User suggests new mom stand up to husband for parenting help.

Supportive comment calls out husband’s lack of parenting responsibilities.

New mom receives support after partner refuses to watch baby. NTA

Experiences shared and advice given on handling a lazy partner.

New mom suggests revenge tactics on clueless partner.

Experienced mom calls out husband for not helping new mom

New mom sets boundaries for shower time with baby

Mom’s husband criticized for lack of initiative. Yikes

Single mom receives support after partner fails to help with child.

New mom seeks advice on husband’s attitude towards parenting ♀️

Locking the bathroom door won’t harm your baby’s development. NTA
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Encouraging comment about self-care during newborn stage

Dad’s gotta step up

Set shower time limits for fairness

Empathetic comment supporting new mom’s need for self-care.

Mom calls in reinforcements for shower break, hubby butthurt. NTA.

Husband’s lack of initiative for self-care is concerning

Supportive comment encourages communication and growth in relationship

Take a break, accept grandma’s help, and don’t feel guilty!

Husband needs to man up and stop pawning baby duties.

Husband needs to step up and learn to calm baby

Dad’s parenting skills questioned after long showers. NTA.

Husband pulls classic move, mom saves the day. NTA

Breaking gender roles in parenting. NTA for needing help

New mom receives advice on dealing with husband’s parenting anxiety

Doctor reminds new mom it’s okay to shower and cry.

New mom gets support for basic hygiene needs. Husband needs perspective.

New mom’s husband takes long showers and needs to help more ♀️

New mom asserts husband’s responsibility in comforting their crying baby.

New mom seeks advice on showering without baby, NTA.

New mom gets support for taking a shower break

Husband needs to step up and figure out how to soothe baby. NTA.

Self-care is important, don’t apologize for it

Encouraging comment for equal parenting, with a touch of humor

Mom’s comment is aggressive and suggests a lack of support.

Supportive comment shows solidarity with new moms and self-care struggles

Mom finds shower solution, husband interrupts. NTA.

Prioritizing self-care as a new mom and setting clear expectations.

Husband needs a reality check and a parenting class ♂️

New mom shares experience of husband taking care of cranky baby
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Dad calls out inconsiderate husband for not helping with baby

Navigating new parenthood and communication with empathy and understanding

New mom advised to take breaks from husband’s baby duties

Supportive comment validates new mom’s need for self-care

New dad shares his experience of learning to be responsible parent

Mom enlists help for shower, husband learns lesson. #NTA

Husband needs to step up as a father and partner. NTA

Husband won’t learn to parent, calls in reinforcements. Internet agrees NTA.

Hilarious comment shuts down excuses for not being considerate

Parenting advice sparks fiery response from commenter.

Supportive comment validates new mom’s need for hygiene break

Letting a baby cry for a few minutes is okay

Husband needs to step up and can’t dump parenting on you. Lock the door. NTA

Supportive comment defends new mom against unsupportive husband.

New mom sets shower expectations for partner, NTA
