Man Calls Out Wife for Never Having a Job 😮💥

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Imagine being married for only six months and already finding yourself in a heated discussion about finances with your spouse. That's exactly what happened to this 35-year-old man, who found himself in a tight spot when he pointed out that his 30-year-old wife has never had a job before. The couple was hanging out with friends, discussing ways to cut down on expenses, when things took an awkward turn. 😬💔

Married Life & Finances 🤵👰

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Sole Earner Struggles 💸

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Downpayment Dilemma 🏠

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Grocery Budget Battle 🛒

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Wife's Cooking Hobby 🍳

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Husband's Reality Check 🚨

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Wife's Work History 📝

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Marriage Changes 🔄

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Hitting a Nerve? 😳

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EDIT: More Details 📌

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Living in VHCOL Area 🌇

gurugumawaru | gurugumawaru

Food Spending Breakdown 🍽️

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Eating Out Expenses 🍴

gurugumawaru | gurugumawaru

Family Upbringing 🏡

gurugumawaru | gurugumawaru

Wife's Family Work History 🚺

gurugumawaru | gurugumawaru

Awkward Moment: Finances & Marriage 💔

So, what do you think about this husband's candid confession in front of friends? Was he out of line for pointing out his wife's lack of work experience? Or was he just being honest about their financial situation? It's a tough call, but one thing's for sure – it's definitely an awkward situation! Let's see what people have to say about this delicate matter... 🍿👀

Communication is key in relationships 💋📖

[deleted] | [deleted]

Married someone with no life skills? Get on same page! 😒

princessofperky | princessofperky

Budgeting tips needed! How much do you spend on groceries? 🤔

CandThonestpartners | CandThonestpartners

NTA calls out wife for financial irresponsibility 💥

shmegmer | shmegmer

Communication is key even when seeking outside opinions 👍

Over-Marionberry-686 | Over-Marionberry-686

Marriage advice: Discuss finances and work before tying the knot 👨🏻‍🍳

lowkeyhobi | lowkeyhobi

YTA for making the comment publicly. She needs to work.

PrincipleOtherwise70 | PrincipleOtherwise70

Man shames wife for not working, gets called out. YTA 😮

ResurrectionScary | ResurrectionScary

User criticizes spouse's financial immaturity and lack of job experience.

Top-Bit85 | Top-Bit85

YTA called out for inappropriate discussion in public 😑

Remarkable_Buyer4625 | Remarkable_Buyer4625

Communication is key. YTA for putting her down in public.

OkCan9869 | OkCan9869

YTA called out for discussing wife's job in front of others 😑

siren2040 | siren2040

Married a woman with no job, now upset with finances? 😬

Thedarkes7hour | Thedarkes7hour

Debating the fairness of $1000/mo for spouse with no job 🤔

Early-Tale-2578 | Early-Tale-2578

Red flags in marriage, advice from a family lawyer. 👍

Nope-321- | Nope-321-

Suggests cutting back on eating out to save money 🥖

gwraigty | gwraigty

Private conversations should stay private 👁

Aviation_nut63 | Aviation_nut63

YTA called out for criticizing wife's job history in public. 😑

CakeZealousideal1820 | CakeZealousideal1820

User suggests separation due to financial incompatibility. YTA/NTA.

fatkid10_ | fatkid10_

YTA for publicly calling out your wife's employment status 😑

Capable-Limit5249 | Capable-Limit5249

YTA for publicly shaming your wife's employment status 😑

[deleted] | [deleted]

Couple argues over grocery budget and wife's employment status. ESH.

clrichmond2009 | clrichmond2009

Couple argues over wife's lack of job and contribution at home

Big_lt | Big_lt

Private conversations should stay private 👉🏻

KualaG | KualaG

Married a non-working spouse, now calling her out? YTA 🙄

Historical-Zone5692 | Historical-Zone5692

Cooking enthusiast calls out group for discussing finances in public. ESH.

_yeetingmyself | _yeetingmyself

Discussion on jobless wife leads to public argument. ESH.

Lissypooh628 | Lissypooh628

Questioning exorbitant grocery budget, suggests wife become caterer.

SylphofBlood | SylphofBlood

Calling out your wife in public? YTA. 🤷‍♂️

butterfly-garden | butterfly-garden

YTA for public discussion, NTA for budget concerns 😑👍

Morrolan_V | Morrolan_V

30-year-old wife never had a job; husband calls her out. NTA.

notveryhndyhmnr | notveryhndyhmnr

User suggests ways to save money and calls out OP's behavior.

Pumibel | Pumibel

Privacy is key! Commenter is rightfully angry about oversharing.

Wereallgonnadieman | Wereallgonnadieman

YTA called out for embarrassing conversation in front of friends 🤦‍♂️

WisdumbGuy | WisdumbGuy

Confronting wife's joblessness is fair, but humiliating her isn't. 😔

KindaAbstruse | KindaAbstruse

Savage comment questions $1000/month food expense. Steak and lobster? 🤩

daximuscat | daximuscat

Calling out spouse's employment status publicly is unacceptable YTA 🚫

[deleted] | [deleted]

Calling out your wife to friends is a dick move. YTA

nancylyn | nancylyn

Private conversation gone wrong. $1000 on food? 🤷🏼

cb2239 | cb2239

Grocery budget drama sparks ESH judgement and confusion 🤔

pixie323 | pixie323

Man publicly shames wife for not working, Redditors say YTA 😮

Careless-Bobcat-2921 | Careless-Bobcat-2921

Don't put your spouse down in public. YTA 😔

tacos8 | tacos8

User empathizes with OP, but advises private conversation. Soft YTA.

GroundbreakingPast31 | GroundbreakingPast31

Marriage advice: communicate privately, not publicly. 💌

SoggyMeatloaf5 | SoggyMeatloaf5

User criticizes man for marrying unemployed woman. 🤔

SiWeyNoWay | SiWeyNoWay

User calls out OP for publicly shaming wife's joblessness 😮

CategoricalMeow | CategoricalMeow

Man criticized for inappropriate and condescending comments towards wife. 😬

Bhimtu | Bhimtu

Curious comment raises questions about the situation and marriage 🤔

Rivsmama | Rivsmama

Red flag? Commenter questions spouse's lack of financial responsibility 😳

ElegantBon | ElegantBon

Marriage isn't a magic spell. Did you talk about finances?

swatchesirish | swatchesirish

Reader questions wife's financial contribution, suggests part-time job 💰

PublicSpread4062 | PublicSpread4062

Suggests starting a vegetable garden to save money and learn skills 🌱

2ndcupofcoffee | 2ndcupofcoffee

Tips for saving money on groceries and meal prep.

Throwaway32913291 | Throwaway32913291

Podcast listener advises apology and budgeting as a couple 👍

tmccrn | tmccrn

Publicly shaming your partner? YTA 🤦‍♂️

Moemoe5 | Moemoe5

Blaming your spouse in public for being jobless makes you TA 😑

Yassssmaam | Yassssmaam

Navigating marital disagreements and finances with empathy and partnership ❤️

justwalkawayrenee | justwalkawayrenee

Pre-marriage discussions are important to avoid financial surprises 💰

RoundActual8254 | RoundActual8254

YTA called out for inappropriate public confrontation about wife's employment

JustAnotherUser8432 | JustAnotherUser8432

Teamwork is key! 💪🏼 Sit down and budget together.

UnionHughnion | UnionHughnion

Frugal cooking tips for grocery expenses. 👨‍🍳

fieria_tetra | fieria_tetra

NTA commenter calls out wife for not having a job 😮💥

Dreams-In-Green | Dreams-In-Green

Talking finances is important, but keep it private 👍

FollowingNo9572 | FollowingNo9572

User calls out husband for humiliating wife in public 😡

PaTTyCake_1971 | PaTTyCake_1971

Redditor calls out OP for embarrassing his wife in public 😒

Knowitmall | Knowitmall

Money troubles and awkward party confessions 💰🤮

Rozeline | Rozeline

Marriage expectations and respect for upbringing. YTA. 👮👩‍🍳

Justpassingbythere | Justpassingbythere

Man complains about wife never working after marrying her for it 🤷‍♂️

Humble_Original4348 | Humble_Original4348

YTA called out for being hypocritical and insensitive towards wife 😑

throwaway475763 | throwaway475763

Engagement is key, don't be a public asshat 🙈🤯

Soulhammer1 | Soulhammer1

Budgeting advice sparks debate on grocery expenses 💰

BlettaFappaChu | BlettaFappaChu

Food budget debate ensues in the comment section 🤷🏻‍♂️

KnightNight030 | KnightNight030

Frugal grocery tips for a family of four 👍

Familiar_Treacle_233 | Familiar_Treacle_233

User calls out man for publicly embarrassing his wife 😮

Miyabeaam | Miyabeaam

NTA for calling out wife, but YTA for doing it publicly 🤷🏼‍♂️

TartAromatic2281 | TartAromatic2281

Private finance conversations are important. Soft YTA for public confrontation.

SynnRider | SynnRider

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