We all know that honesty is the best policy, but sometimes the truth hurts. A mom is facing backlash from her family after her autistic son’s blunt honesty causes tension. The 15-year-old has a habit of telling the truth, no matter how uncomfortable it may be. When his aunt asked for opinions on a baby name, his response left her in tears. Now, the family is demanding that the mom discipline her son, but she’s not so sure. Let’s dive into this family drama and see if the truth really does set you free.
The Blunt Truth

Family Members Upset

Baby Name Drama

Honesty Strikes Again

More Annoyance

Tensions Rise

Family’s Disapproval

Mom Disagrees

Husband’s Support

Family Feud

The Battle of Honesty vs. Kindness
In this family feud, we see a mom standing her ground against relatives who believe her autistic son’s brutal honesty is rude. While his blunt answers have caused some tears and tension, the mom believes her son’s approach of asking if they want him to lie is a fair compromise. With her husband’s support, she’s left to wonder if she’s really in the wrong or if her family is overreacting. Let’s see what the internet thinks about this delicate balance of truth and kindness…
Autistic commenter advises OP to teach son polite lying skills. NTA.

Autistic commenter calls out parent for not teaching empathy. YTA

Parenting advice: Help your son navigate social situations despite diagnosis.

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Navigating invisible boundaries as an autistic person

Teach your son appropriate coping mechanisms to exist comfortably in society

An individual with Asperger’s shares their experience and advises against the parent’s approach.

Teaching social skills is crucial for success in society

Parenting and neurodiversity clash in comment section.

NTA suggests softening autistic teen’s brutal honesty for advice-seeking.

Teaching neurotypical people to understand autism is a two-way street

Navigating communication with an autistic family member can be tough

Autistic commenter empathizes with teen and advises guidance for son.

A co-worker shares their experience and advises against poor supervision.

Being autistic is a reason, not an excuse for rude comments
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Teaching honesty with empathy: YTA or good parenting?

Autistic woman defends honesty, criticizes baby name choice

Being honest without being overly blunt is important. YTA gently.

Brutal honesty may hinder success and friendships ♂️

Navigating the world with autism: YTA for not helping enough

Teaching autistic son social skills: necessary or coddling?

Teaching manners to an autistic teen: YTA or NTA?

Teaching honesty with kindness is key. YTA, but learnable behavior.

NTA parent receives harsh criticism for infantilizing autistic son

Autistic commenter calls out dismissive behavior towards autistic child.

Teaching social skills is important, but he was right about name ♂️

Naming your child something unique can cause a lifetime of annoyance

Autistic teen’s honesty causes family drama over baby name choice

Autistic teacher supports NTA’s boundary-setting approach to masking.

Teach manners while valuing honesty. YTA, but son’s NTA.
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Honesty isn’t always the best policy, even for autistic individuals

Parent accused of ableism after not teaching ASD son social cues

Autistic teen’s honesty praised in face of family drama
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Parental responsibility: teaching social skills to avoid conflict

When trolling goes wrong
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Teach him social skills or he’ll be lonely

Teaching an autistic teen to navigate social norms: YTA or NAH?

Honesty is a positive trait, but hurting others isn’t. YTA

Teaching autistic kids social norms can be challenging

Accepting and understanding an autistic person’s honesty.

Explaining the misunderstanding between neurotypical and neurodivergent people

Grandparent calls out OP for not teaching kindness to autistic son.

Teaching honesty is important but not at the cost of etiquette

Honesty is not always the best policy, YTA receives backlash

Doubtful comment calls out parent for isolating autistic son. YTA

Teaching social skills to autistic son – Soft YTA.

Teaching tact is important, honesty without it is just cruelty.

Parenting an autistic child: accepting vs fixing behavior

Sibling calls out rudeness in naming, recommends tactful honesty.

Navigating honesty with ASD – when to fudge the truth

Teaching tact to an autistic child: NAH verdict
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Parent criticized for not teaching autistic teen social skills

Insensitive comment blaming autism for bad parenting skills

Navigating honesty and social skills on the autism spectrum

Support for parenting an autistic teen’s honesty

A parent is called out for using their child’s autism as an excuse

Teaching tact is important, but is calling them YTA helpful?

Honesty is the best policy, even if it’s brutal #NTA

Advice for interacting with autistic individuals with bluntness tendencies

NTA commenter suggests a rule of kindness, necessity, truthfulness. Agrees with son.

Teaching honesty vs. social norms: navigating the real world.
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Supportive comment defends autistic teen’s behavior and advises helpful approach

Defending an autistic teen’s honesty and communication style.

Unusual name choice sparks debate, commenter questions Mikaela spelling.

Navigating social situations with an autistic teen. Family drama ensues
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Honesty is the best policy

Naming controversy sparks distraction and concern among commenters

Teaching kindness and communication to an autistic child

Preparing an autistic child for a world with social conventions
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Is brutal honesty always the best policy? YTA thinks so…

Autistic commenter gives soft YTA, suggests direction for son’s behavior

Teaching an autistic teen social skills – NTA comment.

NTA for son’s honesty, but teach him to be kinder.

Pronunciation fixation sparks drama, but son is NTA

Teaching honesty without being unpleasant – a delicate balance

Teach your son social cues instead of punishing him.

Autistic commenter calls out OP and suggests social skills training

Parenting advice or harsh criticism?

Autistic commenter calls out parent’s lack of effort and weird name
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Autistic commenter provides helpful tips for honesty and tact.

Teaching tact is important for autistic individuals too

“Being *truthfully kind* is about recognizing when unfiltered honesty could hurt someone’s feelings “

Teaching manners to an autistic child: a delicate balance
