Man's Wife Wants Divorce but Expects Him to Stay 🏠💔

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Imagine being told your spouse wants a divorce, but they don't want you to move out! 😱 That's the situation one man found himself in after 15 years of marriage. He's been the primary breadwinner, supporting his wife's career changes and their adult step-children. Now, he's wondering if he should start looking for his own place without telling her. 🤔💭

Divorce Incoming, but No Moving Out? 🤨

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The Breadwinner's Burden 🍞💰

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Supporting Her Artistic Dreams 🎨💭

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A Decade of Financial Struggles 💸

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Sparse Contributions 😓

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Taking Care of Everything 💪

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Raising Step-Children 👩‍👧‍👦

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Unfair Expectations 🙅‍♂️

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Painful Living Situation 😢

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Her Argument 🗣️

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Hidden Motives? 🕵️‍♂️

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A Secret Escape Plan? 🚪🏃‍♂️

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Divorce Dilemma: Stay or Secretly Move Out? 🤷‍♂️

This husband is in a tough spot after his wife requested a divorce but doesn't want him to move out. 😲 He's been the primary breadwinner for years, supporting her career changes and their adult step-children. Now, he wonders if her motives are more about financial dependence than friendship. Should he start looking for his own place without telling her? 🤔💔 Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation...

NTA. Living together after divorce is unfair and impractical. 👍

jdz-615 | jdz-615

NTA. Document everything and cover your a**. 😬

Haunting_North4679 | Haunting_North4679

Leave her and her family. You deserve better 👏

south3y | south3y

Marriage turned business, get out 💼🏃‍♂️

Force_WR1 | Force_WR1

Consider financial commitments and relationship with step daughters before leaving.

tsunamisurfer35 | tsunamisurfer35

NTA. Wife's freeloading and BS reasons for staying. Lawyer up 👍

Aggressive-Peace-698 | Aggressive-Peace-698

Wife wants divorce but expects husband to pay for everything? NTA

Bizzzzzzzzyyyyy | Bizzzzzzzzyyyyy

Remaining friends with ex-spouse may not be a good idea 🤔

OrganicFrost | OrganicFrost

User advises to move out and burn the bridge with wife

Zoe2805 | Zoe2805

Man's wife wants a divorce but expects him to keep paying? 🤔

knight9665 | knight9665

Seek legal advice to protect yourself and your kids. Good luck 👍

AllTheTakenNames | AllTheTakenNames

NTA seeks legal advice for divorce. Helpful tips for preparation and mindset.

TangledUpPuppeteer | TangledUpPuppeteer

Legal advice for a NTA in a sticky situation 👍

Visible-Bicycle4345 | Visible-Bicycle4345

NTA. Wife wants divorce but expects you to pay bills? 💯

UnusualPotato1515 | UnusualPotato1515

"Loveless marriage? Time to move out and find peace" 👌

MansplainBuddha | MansplainBuddha

Get a lawyer and serve her. You owe yourself peace. 👏

Hour-Requirement6489 | Hour-Requirement6489

NTA. Contact a lawyer and find new housing. Take time apart.

Jokester_316 | Jokester_316

Divorce tip: talk to a lawyer before making financial decisions 💰

Squirrelmasta23 | Squirrelmasta23

Leaving without notice is a no-no, but paying bills isn't fair 😑

Melodic-Lawyer4152 | Melodic-Lawyer4152

Take control of your life, move out, and find peace 👌

jayjaykmm | jayjaykmm

Take control of your finances and move out. #NTA 💸

murphy2345678 | murphy2345678

Take control of the situation, see a lawyer and move out 👍

JustAGirl704 | JustAGirl704

Leave the a**hole wife and live your best life 💪

mcmurrml | mcmurrml

Divorce requested, can't expect you to stay. Move on 👍

CreditThis9963 | CreditThis9963

Protect yourself! Get a lawyer and stand up for yourself.

Radishspirit01 | Radishspirit01

User doubts authenticity of post, calls it 'fake shit' 🤔

en3mi | en3mi

Curious commenter questions two unemployed 22-year-olds in divorce article 🤔

MysteriousFootball78 | MysteriousFootball78

Get a lawyer to avoid financial pitfalls before moving out 👨‍💻

gentlemancaller2000 | gentlemancaller2000

Divorce advice: file immediately, get an attorney, and move on. 👍

tmink0220 | tmink0220

Encouraging comment to OP, advising to take space and move on.

Glittering-Major-492 | Glittering-Major-492

Leaving without telling her? NTA. Friendship may end though. 😕

Elvaanaomori | Elvaanaomori

Empathetic comment encourages man to leave toxic relationship. 👍

countytime69 | countytime69

Protect yourself legally when your spouse wants a divorce. 👍

Squibit314 | Squibit314

Plan your exit strategy before leaving, stay quiet and cautious. 👍

mistyweather | mistyweather

Take control of your life and find your peace 🙌

Blue-Phoenix23 | Blue-Phoenix23

NTA. Move out. You're not her best friend, you're her sugar daddy 💯

Curious0597 | Curious0597

Putting yourself first after a divorce 👏

Pitmus | Pitmus

Listen to your lawyer, not your soon-to-be ex 👍

Cratonis | Cratonis

NTA for leaving, but YTA for leaving without notice 👍

Gregshead | Gregshead

Get a lawyer before moving out to avoid financial trouble 💰

Prodigalsunspot | Prodigalsunspot

Abandoned wife can still claim belongings. Beware of legal battles 🚨

Shooter61 | Shooter61

Divorce and manipulation. NTA, get out and consult a lawyer 👍

Independent_Low614 | Independent_Low614

Don't be a sucker paying for a place you're not living ✌🏽

biggdogg2019 | biggdogg2019

Realizing the stupidity of one's own words 🙄

GunsnGolf | GunsnGolf

Man seeks advice on how to proceed with wife's divorce threat.

Dianachick | Dianachick

Leave ASAP without telling her. She's using you 👍

Witchynightstar | Witchynightstar

Escape the web of manipulation and leave the narcissist 🕸️

Friendly-Western-677 | Friendly-Western-677

Man's wife wants divorce after he supported her and her children. 😡

ApprehensiveAnt4862 | ApprehensiveAnt4862

Financially stable roommates? NTA, move out and consult lawyer. 👍

Birdie121 | Birdie121

Ex-wife wants to stay friends and pay her bills. NTA.

Fugglesmcgee | Fugglesmcgee

Plan your exit strategy with legal help before leaving.

Various_Cricket4695 | Various_Cricket4695

Passionate response to man's dilemma. 👏

Walder_Fr3y | Walder_Fr3y

Leave and save yourself. You owe her nothing 👍

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Get a lawyer and don't take legal advice from your opponent 👨🏻‍💻

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NTA, don't let her use you for money 👍

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Divorce means no say. Move out and regain peace. 👌

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Consider financial implications before agreeing to wife's demands 💰

corradizo | corradizo

Advice to move out and communicate like an adult 👍

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Move on, don't let her expect you to suffer 👍

SignificantRange2512 | SignificantRange2512

Escape the toxic relationship and focus on self-care 💪🏻💯🏼

elucidir | elucidir

Protect yourself legally! Get a good lawyer and move on 👍

Lucky-Individual460 | Lucky-Individual460

Harsh but honest advice for a man dealing with infidelity 👍

jw00lsey | jw00lsey

Self-care first! 🧘‍♂️💆‍♀️ You deserve better than a toxic relationship.

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Man advised to leave and remove his name from all bills 💰

Cotehill | Cotehill

Get out and talk to a lawyer ASAP! Don't be fooled 👍

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