💔 Offer to Adopt Cousin's Child Rejected, Now They Want Help! 😮

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Imagine offering to adopt your cousin's child in a moment of need, only to be accused of trying to steal the baby. Fast forward 13 years, and now the family is asking for your help with the same child, who has grown into a troubled teenager. That's exactly what happened to one man, who shared his story online. Let's dive into the details and see how this emotional rollercoaster unfolds. 🎢😕

A Heartfelt Offer to Adopt 🤱

past-year1465 | past-year1465

A Struggling Mother 😢

past-year1465 | past-year1465

Offering Monetary Help 💰

past-year1465 | past-year1465

Family Drama Erupts 😠

past-year1465 | past-year1465

Walking Away From the Offer 🚶

past-year1465 | past-year1465

A Troubled Teenager 🚬

past-year1465 | past-year1465

Family Asks for Help Again 🆘

past-year1465 | past-year1465

Feeling Too Old for This 🧓

past-year1465 | past-year1465

Family Criticizes Him 🤬

past-year1465 | past-year1465

Feeling Guilty 😔

past-year1465 | past-year1465

A Twist of Fate and a Troubled Teen 🌪️

After offering to adopt his cousin's baby 13 years ago, our protagonist faced backlash and accusations of trying to steal the child. Fast forward to today, the family is now asking for his help with the same child, who has become a troubled teenager. Despite feeling guilty, he declined their request, as he believes he's not the right person to fix the problem. The family criticizes him for going back on his offer, but he's willing to pay for the teen's expenses if someone else takes him in. So, what do people think about this emotional dilemma? Let's find out! 🤔💭

NTA declines adoption, now parents want help with 'problematic' child 😒

Ok-Climate553 | Ok-Climate553

Offer rejected, expenses offered. NTA 👍

JudgeJudAITA | JudgeJudAITA

NTA for not adopting cousin's teenager after offer was declined 🙌

alv269 | alv269

Adopting a teen is different from a baby. NTA.

Aggressive_Cup8452 | Aggressive_Cup8452

ESH for treating the child like an object in a transaction. 🤦‍♂️

prairiemountainzen | prairiemountainzen

Rejected adoption offer, now they want help? NTA, stand firm. 🚫

CivilAsAnOrang | CivilAsAnOrang

Generous adoption offer rejected. You owe nothing. Move on. 👍

Dontbither | Dontbither

Politely declining to adopt a troubled teen is understandable. 🤷‍♀️

Runs13point1s | Runs13point1s

Uncle's offer from 10-15 years ago not applicable now. NTA 😊

unknown_928121 | unknown_928121

Generous offer rejected, criticized for not doing more. 😑

dwells2301 | dwells2301

Family rejected adoption offer, now want help. NTA stands firm.

Kcollar59 | Kcollar59

Rejected offer to adopt, now they want help? NTA 🤨

Content-Plenty-268 | Content-Plenty-268

Employer analogy shuts down rejected adoption request. NTA.

Material-Profit5923 | Material-Profit5923

Logical NTA stands firm against family's poor choices 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

Clear explanation on offer rejection. No further obligation. 👍

FaultRealistic9344 | FaultRealistic9344

NTA declined offer, now they want help. You're already generous. 🙅

Gothicc_Witchxo | Gothicc_Witchxo

Don't fall for their guilt-tripping, revoke the latest offer. 🙌

Ground-Rat | Ground-Rat

13 years later, they want your help? NTA 🤔

ButcherBird57 | ButcherBird57

NTA claps back at cousin's accusation of child kidnapping 👏

Irondaddy_29 | Irondaddy_29

Teenager isn't a 'naughty puppy' to be passed around. NTA 👍

Constellation-88 | Constellation-88

NTA for not taking in hormone-filled teenager you don't know 😮

Gray_Twilight | Gray_Twilight

Generous offer rejected, now they want help with a teenager 😒

diente_de_leon | diente_de_leon

NTA stands firm against family bullying to adopt child. 👏

Okhottie | Okhottie

Rejected adoption offer compared to car purchase, NTA.

SpruceGoose133 | SpruceGoose133

NTA. Declined adoption offer, no obligation for financial support. 👍

Quirky-Art4438 | Quirky-Art4438

Stealing or saving? The Schrödinger relative dilemma. NTA.

blearghstopthispls | blearghstopthispls

Kind offer rejected twice, no need to keep offering help 🙏

No_Pepper_3676 | No_Pepper_3676

NTA refuses to deal with negativity after being accused of stealing.

Crimson_queen911 | Crimson_queen911

Rejected adoption offer, now they want help? Not the a**hole.

DoIwantToKnow6417 | DoIwantToKnow6417

Rejected offer to adopt cousin's child causes drama years later 😮

thatattyguy | thatattyguy

Rejected adoption offer, now want help? NTA says it all 🤷‍♀️

LiffeyDodge | LiffeyDodge

Generous offer rejected, financial support declined, NTA for declining.

Seriouslydude-no-way | Seriouslydude-no-way

Be careful of potential financial exploitation. 🚨

Tanagrabelle | Tanagrabelle

Polite rejection of adoption offer, shut down with grace 👏

somethingmichael | somethingmichael

13-year-old grudge over adoption offer resurfaces. NTA stands firm.

Character-Tennis-241 | Character-Tennis-241

User criticizes cousin's decision to have 5 kids, declares NTA.

Remarkable_Job_5355 | Remarkable_Job_5355

Offered to adopt, got rejected, now she wants help? NTA 🙄

Emotional_Bonus_934 | Emotional_Bonus_934

Rejected offer to adopt cousin's child, now they want help? NTA.

Shot_Boysenberry_232 | Shot_Boysenberry_232

Rejected adoption request resurfaces 13 years later. NTA prevails. 🙌

cloverthewonderkitty | cloverthewonderkitty

Accusations nailed the door shut. Poor parenting caused chaos. NTA.

CreedTheDawg | CreedTheDawg

NTA's generous offer to adopt cousin's child rejected, now facing backlash.

Jujulabee | Jujulabee

Family rejects adoption offer, now wants to pawn off teenager 😒

elsie78 | elsie78

NTA. 13 years later, they want help after declining offer? 😑

AwkwardFoodie978 | AwkwardFoodie978

Generous offer to adopt rejected, now family wants more help.

Shells613 | Shells613

Offer to adopt rejected, now they want help! NTA.

turriferous | turriferous

Offer to adopt declined and met with scorn. NTA.

External-Hamster-991 | External-Hamster-991

NTA. Family trying to offload problem child onto distant relative.

bjorkenstocks | bjorkenstocks

Offered to adopt, declined, can't expect help 13 years later. NTA 👏

EnergyThat1518 | EnergyThat1518

Rejected adoption offer 13 years ago, not your problem now 😮

Consistent_Walrus_40 | Consistent_Walrus_40

Don't let your cousin's bad decisions become your problem! 🚫

Revolutionary_Date47 | Revolutionary_Date47

👍 NTA for not adopting a troubled 13-year-old cousin now.

Grandma_Kaos | Grandma_Kaos

Rejected adoption of granddaughter due to behavior. NTA.

Formal_Leopard_462 | Formal_Leopard_462

Don't let their accusations bring you down. NTA 👏

Clear-Firefighter877 | Clear-Firefighter877

50 and tired, but not the a**hole for not adopting.

shez19833 | shez19833

Adoption offer rejected, now expected to take dangerous pitbull instead 😱

garbagedisposaly | garbagedisposaly

Rejected adoption offer leads to insults, NTA for refusing now 😠

totallynotarobut | totallynotarobut

Declined adoption offer, now want help? NTA explains why not.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Offer to adopt expired, NTA. No a-hole here.

[deleted] | [deleted]

13 years is a long time...not like 13 months 😕

whoops53 | whoops53

Dodged a bullet 💥 NTA for not adopting cousin's child.

dodiekr | dodiekr

NTA defends against heartless family trying to separate child from parents.

Honey_loves_bear | Honey_loves_bear

NTA accused of stealing child, now they want help? Nope! 🚫

Apprehensive_Size484 | Apprehensive_Size484

NTA offers to adopt cousin's child but rejected. Kid needs help.

Ordinary_Mortgage870 | Ordinary_Mortgage870

Boundaries respected, adoption offer declined. NTA for backing out. 🙌

Queen_Sized_Beauty | Queen_Sized_Beauty

Offering to adopt without birth mother's consent is human trafficking. YTA.

FatimaAbdi8 | FatimaAbdi8

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