Ex Shows Up Drunk, Demands to See Baby She Gave Up 🍼😱

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Picture this: You're a single dad raising a six-month-old baby after your ex-girlfriend gave up her parental rights. One night, she shows up drunk at your doorstep, crying and begging to see her son. What would you do? 🤷‍♂️ This is the situation our protagonist found himself in, and his decision has sparked quite the debate. Read on to find out what happened and whether you think he made the right choice. 👇

The Unplanned Baby and a Broken Relationship 💔

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Custody and Cutting Ties 📝

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The Handoff and a New Beginning 🏠

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No Contact, No Problem? 🚫

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A Drunken Surprise 🍻

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Door Shut, Heart Closed 😢

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Cruel or Justified? 🤷‍♂️

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The Debate Begins 🔥

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A Suggestion and a Harsh Reply 💥

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Silence and Guilt 😶

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A Father's Choice: Right or Wrong? 🤔

So, our single dad faced a tough decision when his ex showed up drunk and desperate to see their baby. He chose to shut the door in her face, leaving her crying outside. A mutual friend suggested he could've let her in to calm her down, but he stood his ground, saying she made her bed and could lay in it. Now, he's left feeling guilty and wondering if he made the right choice. Let's dive into what the internet thinks of this emotional situation... 💭

Shutting out the drunk ex was the kindest thing. 🙌

Daktari2018 | Daktari2018

Being drunk and demanding to see a baby is not okay 😱. NTA

MoonGladeLadyBug | MoonGladeLadyBug

Putting the baby's safety first 🙌, NTA

HurricaneBells | HurricaneBells

Restraining order may be necessary to protect the baby. NTA 🚨

RandomFunUsername | RandomFunUsername

Ex shows up drunk demanding to see baby she gave up 😱

Alert-Potato | Alert-Potato

Empathetic but firm response to drunk ex demanding to see baby. NTA

Sheshcoco | Sheshcoco

Standing up for your child's stability is commendable. NTA 👏

chiefholdfast | chiefholdfast

Gender reversal highlights double standard. NTA for denying access.

Kat-a-strophy | Kat-a-strophy

🚫 Ex's drunken demand to see baby raises safety concerns.

tacodecent | tacodecent

Hannah's sarcastic comment on letting a drunk see a baby 😂

AllyKalamity | AllyKalamity

Setting clear boundaries for ex's visitation, protecting child. NTA. 👍

Session-Special | Session-Special

Choosing to let go of a toxic ex for your child 👌

toonie89 | toonie89

Protecting your baby from a drunk ex? NTA, you're responsible 👍

CrabbiestAsp | CrabbiestAsp

NTA commenter defends OP's decision to not let ex see baby.

Anniemarsh69 | Anniemarsh69

NTA! Hannah needs to have a word with herself too 👏

pandora840 | pandora840

Setting boundaries and protecting the baby from a drunk ex 🚫

SusieC0161 | SusieC0161

Protecting your baby from a drunk ex - NTA 👏

I_Dont_Like_Rice | I_Dont_Like_Rice

Drunk ex demands to see baby she abandoned. NTA stands firm.

Lyzab77 | Lyzab77

Protecting peace and baby, NTA gets ex home safely. 👏

Single_Sprinkles_438 | Single_Sprinkles_438

Don't let a drunk ex endanger your child. #NTA 🙌

bigben7102 | bigben7102

Communication is key, even for exes 📞👍

Acceptable-Spot1738 | Acceptable-Spot1738

Birth mother advises to prioritize child's safety over ex's emotions 👍

WhichRisk6472 | WhichRisk6472

NTA. OP did the right thing by not letting her in. 🙅‍♀️

TheatreWolfeGirl | TheatreWolfeGirl

Ex forfeited parental rights, protect your son. NTA 👍

ImprovementMental646 | ImprovementMental646

Mom stands her ground against drunk ex demanding to see baby. NTA 👏

korli74 | korli74

Ex's drunken demand for baby visitation gets shut down. 😊

CarPars | CarPars

Single dad defends himself against ex's drunken demands. #NTA 👏

spiritoftg | spiritoftg

Protective parent prioritizes child's well-being over ex's demands 👏

marathonwater | marathonwater

Ex's drunken demand to see baby sparks debate on friendship boundaries 😱

Longjumping-Many4082 | Longjumping-Many4082

NTA OP, protect your child from a toxic ex. 👏

DGM109 | DGM109

Choosing to keep a drunk ex away from her abandoned baby.

09Klr650 | 09Klr650

Forgiveness is important, but only when she gets help. 👏

FLAkay27 | FLAkay27

Keeping her son safe from a drunk ex. NTA 👍

Ok-Coyote-8529 | Ok-Coyote-8529

Protecting your child from drunk relatives. NTA 👍

Lunch_Time_No_Worky | Lunch_Time_No_Worky

Standing up for what's right, even when it's hard 💪 NTA

hndygal | hndygal

Ex gave up parental rights, NTA for protecting child 🚫👶

Runaway_Angel | Runaway_Angel

Protecting your baby is top priority. NTA, trust your instincts!


Gender bias in judgment highlighted in NTA comment.

Own-Diamond8255 | Own-Diamond8255

Baby not responsible for calming drunk and upset mother 🚫

BuryMelnTheSky | BuryMelnTheSky

Surrogate ex shows up drunk, demands to see baby. Commenter supports OP.

chyaraskiss | chyaraskiss

Setting boundaries with an ex who wants to see baby 👶

LazyIndication8398 | LazyIndication8398

Protect baby James at all costs. 👍

lost_in_the_ozarks | lost_in_the_ozarks

Setting boundaries with an ex who gave up their baby 👬

AGoodFaceForRadio | AGoodFaceForRadio

Protecting the child from a drunk parent 🚫

Anxious-Custard6208 | Anxious-Custard6208

Putting your child's well-being first is always the right choice 👍

notthedefaultname | notthedefaultname

Don't let drunks near babies! Stay vigilant and safe 🙌

Malibucat48 | Malibucat48

Protect yourself and your baby. Get a restraining order ASAP 🚨

DerelictDizzy | DerelictDizzy

NTA dad refuses drunk ex's demand to see baby she gave up 🙌

Dashqu | Dashqu

Protecting your child is top priority. You did the right thing 👍

Swardyn | Swardyn

Co-parenting advice for a drunk ex, prioritize child's well-being 👨🏻👦🏻👤

7daykatie | 7daykatie

Setting boundaries with a regretful ex. NTA 👍

GrammaBear707 | GrammaBear707

NTA, don't fall for her guilt trip. Protect your baby 👶

CuriousLope | CuriousLope

NTA. Reach out to your lawyer and protect yourself and James 💪🏻

redgreenbrownblue | redgreenbrownblue

Ex shows up drunk demanding to see baby she gave up. Commenter advises moving away to avoid future conflicts. #ProtectTheChild 👶

Unsolicitedadvice13 | Unsolicitedadvice13

Choosing to prioritize the baby's safety. NTA wins parenting.

fucc_yo_couch | fucc_yo_couch

Drunk ex demanding to see baby? Not okay. NTA.

plsobeytrafficlights | plsobeytrafficlights

Standing up for his son, a fantastic dad! 👏

Rawrsome_Mommy | Rawrsome_Mommy

NTA dad protects child from drunk ex demanding visit. 👏

Geeklove27 | Geeklove27

Ex shows up drunk demanding to see baby she gave up. Commenter defends OP's decision to keep child safe. NTA 👍

EbonKnight78 | EbonKnight78

Don't risk your child's safety for a drunk ex. NTA.

Simple-Caterpillar14 | Simple-Caterpillar14

Compassionate response to drunk ex demanding to see baby 👨🏻👶

No-Lifeguard-8273 | No-Lifeguard-8273

Protecting baby from drunk ex, NTA. Watch for sympathizers. 🙌

Beatrix-the-floof | Beatrix-the-floof

She signed away her rights, no say in seeing the baby 🚫

judy7679 | judy7679

Protecting your child from an irresponsible ex 💪

Individual_Trust_414 | Individual_Trust_414

Setting boundaries with an ex who gave up parental rights 👍

momof20408 | momof20408

Ex shows up drunk demanding to see baby, commenter says NTA.

justwannaseesumthing | justwannaseesumthing

Putting baby first, NTA stands up to drunk ex 🍼👶

Cenitchar | Cenitchar

Standing up for yourself against a manipulative ex 💪

AskRampagingTurtle | AskRampagingTurtle

Ex demands to see baby she gave up, commenter says NTA

dystopianpirate | dystopianpirate

User questions defenders of drunk ex who gave up rights 🤔

Java4452 | Java4452

User suggests considering ex's regret but not her behavior. NTA 👍

megamawax | megamawax

Setting boundaries with ex who wants to see baby 🙏

mikamitcha | mikamitcha

Setting boundaries with a drunk ex for baby's safety 🙏

Individual_You_6586 | Individual_You_6586

Protect your son. Kids aren't props. NTA 👏

TissueOfLies | TissueOfLies

Setting boundaries for son's safety, compassion for ex's situation. 👍

HalcyonDreams36 | HalcyonDreams36

Supportive comment advises legal check for parental rights.

khendr01 | khendr01

Ex gave up parental rights, can't demand to see baby. NTA 👍

jo1336 | jo1336

Choosing to give up a child doesn't give you rights 👍

Western_Grape_4239 | Western_Grape_4239

NTA stood their ground against ex's drunk demand to see baby 🙌

MidiReader | MidiReader

Ex's behavior is unacceptable, Hannah has every right to decide.

777joeb | 777joeb

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