Man Faces Dilemma: Wife or Family? 😱

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Imagine being torn between the love of your life and your family. This man is in a predicament as he and his wife try to conceive a child while facing a major disagreement about where to live. He wants to stay close to his family, but his wife has other plans. What would you do in this situation? 🤔 Read on to find out what happened...

The Wife's Family Background 🏡

Spiritedpooper216 | Spiritedpooper216

Her Stand on Having Kids 👶

Spiritedpooper216 | Spiritedpooper216

A Change of Heart ♥️

Spiritedpooper216 | Spiritedpooper216

Moving Closer to His Family 🚚

Spiritedpooper216 | Spiritedpooper216

His Agreement to Her Conditions ✅

Spiritedpooper216 | Spiritedpooper216

Hobbies Hindered by Pollution 🌊

Spiritedpooper216 | Spiritedpooper216

His Love for Being an Uncle ❤️

Spiritedpooper216 | Spiritedpooper216

The Guilt of Leaving 🥺

Spiritedpooper216 | Spiritedpooper216

Trying for a Baby 👶

Spiritedpooper216 | Spiritedpooper216

Admitting His Desire to Stay 🗣️

Spiritedpooper216 | Spiritedpooper216

Wife's Reaction 😠

Spiritedpooper216 | Spiritedpooper216

His Dilemma 🤯

Spiritedpooper216 | Spiritedpooper216

A Heart-Wrenching Decision Awaits 💔

Caught between his love for his wife and his family, this man is faced with a heart-wrenching decision. As they try to conceive a child, they're at odds about where to live. He wants to stay close to his family, but his wife is adamant about moving south. After admitting his desire to stay, she gives him an ultimatum: he can have the kid and stay, while she pays child support and visits in the summers. What would you do in this situation? Let's see what people have to say about this emotional dilemma... 💬

Man's broken promise: Wife or family? Who's the AH? 🤔

litt3lli0n | litt3lli0n

User receives backlash for putting nieces and nephews over wife 🤯

EmpressPear | EmpressPear

User calls out OP for prioritizing himself over family. YTA.

Ladyughsalot1 | Ladyughsalot1

Man faces tough love dilemma: wife or family? YTA verdict.

LeaJadis | LeaJadis

Toxicity alert! Commenter calls out OP's behavior towards wife.

Maleficent_Virus_556 | Maleficent_Virus_556

Man's selfishness towards wife called out by commenter. 🔥

Simple_Proof_721 | Simple_Proof_721

User calls out OP for betraying wife's trust. 😡

gcot802 | gcot802

User calls out man for trapping wife, advises divorce 🔥

shammy_dammy | shammy_dammy

User calls out OP for being selfish and not considering partner's needs. 🔥

a_shadeless_tree | a_shadeless_tree

Man wants to prioritize niblings over wife's sacrifices. YTA 🤷‍♂️

trilliumsummer | trilliumsummer

YTA wants to trap wife away from family. Manipulative and abusive 😱

TTsaisai | TTsaisai

When it comes to moving, is honesty the best policy? 🤔

Peaceful_Stranger | Peaceful_Stranger

Grieving man advised to halt baby plans, consider separation/divorce. NAH.

Sailor_Chibi | Sailor_Chibi

YTA for prioritizing weather over wife. Divorce is drastic.

mcindy28 | mcindy28

OP's selfishness will damage his relationship with his child. 😱

Friendly_University7 | Friendly_University7

Agreement with wife vs love for nieces. YTA dilemma. 🤷‍♂️

wmartin03 | wmartin03

Don't jump to divorce talks, try to compromise and realign priorities. 👍

Apart_Insect_8859 | Apart_Insect_8859

Man chooses family over marriage, commenters call him ridiculous. 😱

properlysad | properlysad

Navigating family vs. spouse with condolences for loss 😢

Gonebabythoughts | Gonebabythoughts

YTA dilemma: wife wants to leave for family. Bruh moment.

shesinsaneanditsucks | shesinsaneanditsucks

Redditor calls out OP's behavior towards wife. Yikes. 🤨

Sublixxx | Sublixxx

User accuses man of using wife and going back on promises 😒

Reasonable-Sale8611 | Reasonable-Sale8611

OP gets called out for breaking promise to wife 😬

SteampunkHarley | SteampunkHarley

Trust broken: Commenter advises leaving untrustworthy spouse. 😔

Suckerforcats | Suckerforcats

Uncle prioritizes Louisiana nieces over 24 others in Florida. YTA.

Puzzled-Barnacle-200 | Puzzled-Barnacle-200

YTA receives backlash for considering wife or family dilemma 🤯

AggravatingOkra1117 | AggravatingOkra1117

User calls out OP for being selfish in marriage 🤷

United-Plum1671 | United-Plum1671

User advises OP to seek therapy and consider wife's sacrifices. 👍

throwRA094532 | throwRA094532

Accusation of pregnancy deception leads to heated comment section. 😱

LanaraLore | LanaraLore

Compromise and sacrifice are key in a relationship. 👬

withlove_07 | withlove_07

Harsh judgement on a tough decision. End things for happiness.

jinjiginji | jinjiginji

Choosing between wife and family: YTA or following your heart?

Petefriend86 | Petefriend86

Man prioritizes family over wife's needs, called out for selfishness. 🤷‍♂️

Ok-Guidance-2112 | Ok-Guidance-2112

User calls out OP for bait and switch on wife 🤔

jesusthroughmary | jesusthroughmary

Having a baby won't fix a teetering relationship. ESH 😱

JanetInSpain | JanetInSpain

Red flags raised as commenter calls out manipulative behavior. 🚨

gahidus | gahidus

Man prioritizes extended family over wife, called out for being AH 😬

ibeerianhamhock | ibeerianhamhock

YTA wants to move, but wife sacrificed for his parents. 💔

_gadget_girl | _gadget_girl

User calls out OP's confusing gender and AH behavior. 🤨

SweetinTampa_2022 | SweetinTampa_2022

Marriage dilemma: incompatible values. Commenter calls out OP's selfishness. YTA 😠

noncomposmentis_123 | noncomposmentis_123

Red flag alert! YTA needs to change his manipulative behavior.

CigarsAndFastCars | CigarsAndFastCars

User calls out YTA for neglecting wife's needs. 😱

GreenTravelBadger | GreenTravelBadger

Ouch! This comment is a brutal takedown of OP's character 😬

itammya | itammya

Man prioritizes family over wife's wishes for potential children. YTA. 😱

newprairiegirl | newprairiegirl

Man is called out for prioritizing cold family over pregnant wife 😱

Perfect-Employer9568 | Perfect-Employer9568

User calls out OP for selfish behavior. 🤨

FutureOk6751 | FutureOk6751

Man's selfishness and lack of empathy criticized by commenter. 😱

mcdulph | mcdulph

Compromise is key, don't dismiss your partner's feelings. 🙌

yolodamo | yolodamo

A comment about learning from past mistakes. 💪


User called out for breaking agreement with spouse. 🤨

Feisty_Irish | Feisty_Irish

User calls out OP for being a bad husband. 😱

Lifes_Complicated | Lifes_Complicated

Selfish husband faces backlash for prioritizing own interests over wife's.

Top-Cut-369 | Top-Cut-369

Confusing situation, but comment calls out YTA with humor 😂

OneMustAlwaysPlanAhe | OneMustAlwaysPlanAhe

Ouch! Harsh criticism for prioritizing family over wife 😱

trollanony | trollanony

Backed out on agreement, YTA hopes wife leaves. 🤯

Strange-Courage | Strange-Courage

User accuses man of leading wife on, hopes she leaves him 😬

bunnybunny690 | bunnybunny690

Redditor called out for selfishness and lack of empathy. 😱

lilo1405 | lilo1405

Harsh comment suggests OP is the a**hole. 😬

Lucky_Claim7492 | Lucky_Claim7492

User calls out OP for bait and switch, advises birth control.

wanderingdev | wanderingdev

Moving north against wife's wishes, YTA, tough decisions ahead 😱

tmink0220 | tmink0220

User calls out OP for going back on original deal. 🤔

kikivee612 | kikivee612

Man wants to trap pregnant wife away from family. YTA.

Cannabis_CatSlave | Cannabis_CatSlave

YTA gets called out for being selfish. 🙄

wellbehavedhuman | wellbehavedhuman

Agreement broken: commenter thinks OP is the a-hole. 👎

cloistered_around | cloistered_around

Straight to the point. No beating around the bush. 👍

MsTerious1 | MsTerious1

User questions if having a baby is wise in failing marriage. 😬

ElkLow7350 | ElkLow7350

When in doubt, it's better to be an AH. 🤷‍♂️

Suspicious-Put-2701 | Suspicious-Put-2701

User calls out OP for breaking agreement, advises wife to leave.

Awesomekidsmom | Awesomekidsmom

Selfish husband faces tough criticism for prioritizing himself over family. 😬

notmycupoftea111 | notmycupoftea111

YTA for breaking your promise and making her feel trapped 😠

Epickitty17 | Epickitty17

Man prioritizes family over pregnant wife. Commenter calls him selfish. 😠

step107329 | step107329

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