Teen Reveals Mom's Racism as the Reason Friends Won't Visit 😲

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Imagine having friends who refuse to visit your house, not because of the distance, but because of your mom's open racism. That's the reality for a 16-year-old girl whose mother, in her 40s, proudly admits to being racist. The teen's friendship group is predominantly Asian, and they don't feel comfortable visiting her home. The mother, however, was unaware of the real reason and accused her daughter of being unliked by her friends. This led to a heated argument, and the teen finally revealed the truth. Let's dive into this emotionally charged story. 😮

The Uncomfortable Truth 🤐

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Sheltered Childhood 🏡

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New School, New Friends 🌏

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Friends' Discomfort 😣

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The Distance Excuse 🚶‍♀️

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Revealing the Real Reason 🗣️

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Mom's Accusations 😡

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Venting to Friends 💬

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Crossing a Line? 🚧

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To Lie or Not to Lie? 🤔

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Teen Dilemma 🤷‍♀️

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The Uncomfortable Truth Unveiled 😮

Caught in a heated argument, the 16-year-old girl finally revealed the real reason her friends wouldn't visit her house - her mom's open racism. The mother, who proudly admits to being racist, flipped out and accused her daughter of badmouthing her to her friends. The teen wonders if she crossed a line or if she should have kept lying about the distance being the issue. But should a proud racist really be surprised by the consequences of her actions? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🤔

Protecting friends from racism is important, NTA for speaking up 👏

sqitten | sqitten

Racist mom wants to have her cake and eat it too 🤮

Terrorizza | Terrorizza

Calling out racism and taking a stand. #NTA 👏

piedeloup | piedeloup

NTA. Friends won't visit due to mom's racism. Honest communication advised. 👍

dog_star_ | dog_star_

Standing up against racism at home. NTA.

Dana07620 | Dana07620

Racism is dangerous and unjustified. NTA for protecting yourself. 🚨

Western-Result8780 | Western-Result8780

Mom's racism exposed, but she cares more about respect 🤦‍♂️

Kari-kateora | Kari-kateora

Pick one: either be proud of being racist or work on it 🤔

Mortisrat | Mortisrat

Standing up to a racist parent takes courage and integrity 💪

ferbiiee | ferbiiee

Mom's racism exposed by teen, NTA for speaking out 😊

Ladyseaheart | Ladyseaheart

NTA, stand up for yourself and your friends 👏

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Don't quietly tolerate racism, it makes you complicit. NTA 👏

ronearc | ronearc

Teen exposes mom's racism as reason for friend's absence. NTA.

CrypticBogBadger | CrypticBogBadger

Sassy reply calls out racism with a shrug 🤷🏼‍♀️

Pyraliss | Pyraliss

Calling out racism and supporting talking about parents to friends 👏

WifeofBath1984 | WifeofBath1984

Validating NTA's decision to avoid racist mom's repercussions 👍

Spiral-knight | Spiral-knight

Standing up against racism and defending freedom of association. 💪

infomapaz | infomapaz

Standing up against racism and protecting friends from verbal abuse 👏

Wikkidly | Wikkidly

Teen stands up to racist mom in argument with a twist

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Encouragement for a 16-year-old standing up against their mother's racism 👏

Pascalle112 | Pascalle112

Curiosity on mom's selective racism and surprising behavior towards friends.

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Calling out racism with a NTA, 🙌 for standing up

stressedheaux | stressedheaux

Supportive comment on overcoming racism in family. 👏

grizzelda1st | grizzelda1st

Call out for a proud racist who wants to hide it 🤔

OftheSea95 | OftheSea95

Speak out against family racism. Mom needs to learn better 👍

Momma_Hew | Momma_Hew

Calling out racism and hypocrisy, NTA comment stands strong 💪

dbDarrgen | dbDarrgen

NTA for unlearning toxic behaviors and protecting friends 👏

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NTA for looking out for friends when mom's racist 👍

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Standing up to racism, NTA and toxic mom. 💪

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Choosing not to subject friends to racist mother, NTA 👍

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NTA stands up to racism, internet approves 👏

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Calling out racism: NTA comment shuts down racist behavior 👏

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Mirror image scenario, NTA for calling out racism.

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Stand up against racism and let your friends know. NTA.

miithwork | miithwork

Avoiding toxic behavior despite upbringing earns respect. #NTA 👏

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Defending non-white friends from racist mother. NTA 👏

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NTA. Honesty is the best policy 👍

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Teen exposes mom's racism, gets support for distancing from bigotry. 👏

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Calling out hypocrisy in racist mother's behavior. 🤬

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Being openly racist has consequences. NTA for calling it out.

drishtimodi | drishtimodi

Calling out racism and hypocrisy. 🔥

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No sugarcoating for a racist. Just stop being one 😠

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Empathetic comment offers support and helpful subreddit recommendation ❤️

Gotchia | Gotchia

Supportive comment urges teen to stand up to racist mom 👏

FermentedThings | FermentedThings

Standing up to racism is always the right thing to do 👊

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User sympathizes with the teen's situation, questions mother's motives.

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Actions speak louder than words, pointing out the elephant 🐘. NTA

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Keeping non-white friends separate from racist mother, doing the right thing 👍

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Don't cover up racism. NTA for exposing mom's behavior. 🙌

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Calling out a self-proclaimed racist mom to friends 😲

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Calling out racism in 2020, NTA takes a stand 🙌

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Standing up to family's racism is important for healthy relationships 👍

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Brave teen confronts mother's racism, receives support. NTA 💪

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Not responsible for mom's racism, friends avoiding home understandable. #NTA

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Standing up against racism and toxic behavior. NTA wins!

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Calling out racism and protecting friends from it. NTA 👏

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Calling out racism and setting boundaries, NTA wins the day 👏

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Former racist acknowledges wrongdoing and supports OP's actions. 👏

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Calling out racism: NTA's mom needs a reality check 🤬

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Standing up to prejudice - NTA. Frankly, go you! 👏

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Kudos to commenter for supporting OP's anti-racism efforts 💪

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Teen stands up against mother's racism, earns NTA judgement.

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Standing up to emotional blackmail and racism. NTA.

Gwanosh | Gwanosh

Standing up against racism. NTA 👏

karak15 | karak15

Teen confronts racist mom, friends won't visit. NTA stands up.

iorilondon | iorilondon

NTA. Have an honest conversation with your mom about her racism 👍

ekesse | ekesse

Calling out racism: NTA stands up against bigotry 🤬

Erebus03 | Erebus03

Advice to not tell openly racist mom about friends' absence 🤔

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Standing up against racism, NTA and deserving of better friends. 👏

BenjaminaPugsington | BenjaminaPugsington

Standing up against racism, even with family, is important. ✊

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