💔 Fiancé Demands Prenup, But Is It Fair? 🤔

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Imagine being in a loving relationship for over two years, supporting your partner financially during tough times, and then they demand a prenup that seems to protect them more than you! That's the situation our protagonist finds herself in. She's a successful technical writer and manager, while her fiancé is a programmer, both earning six figures. However, her fiancé seems to be influenced by content he consumes online, claiming that men are often cheated in divorces. Let's dive into the story and find out what's going on. 😮

The Prenup Discussion Begins

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Financial Support and Unpaid Debts

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His Justification

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Influenced by Online Content

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Contrasting Personal Life

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No Bad Relationship Experience

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Prenup Necessity?

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Future Plans and Housework

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Explaining Her Concerns

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Accusations and Shock

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Prenup or Betrayal? 💔

Our protagonist has been with her fiancé for over two years, supporting him financially when he needed it. Now, he's demanding a prenup that seems to protect him more than her, influenced by online content claiming men are often cheated in divorces. Despite their financial equality and plans to have children, he insists she signs the prenup, even accusing her of potentially cheating and taking his money in the future. This has left her shocked and questioning their relationship. Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 😕

Red flag alert! Protect yourself and your assets in prenup. 👌

MistressFuzzylegs | MistressFuzzylegs

Savage reply to fiancé's prenup demand with a twist 😂

NorthwestPassenger | NorthwestPassenger

Fiancé's prenup request based on toxic content consumption, NTA for concern.

hellerinahandbasket | hellerinahandbasket

Suggests taking control of the prenup to address concerns 👍

Eve-3 | Eve-3

Demanding equality in a prenup? 🤔

Sea-Ad9057 | Sea-Ad9057

Demanding a prenup? Make sure you're protected and informed. 💪

RJack151 | RJack151

Criticism of fiancé's priorities and potential parenting abilities. 🤔

potenttechnicality | potenttechnicality

NTA but beware of red flags 🚩 in his behavior 🤔

CarbonS0ul | CarbonS0ul

Avoid men who follow Andrew Tate's toxic and misogynistic views. 👎

SaltyDangerHands | SaltyDangerHands

Red flag alert! 🚩 Trust your gut and run 🏃‍♀️💨

LissaBryan | LissaBryan

Protect yourself with a prenup that represents your needs. 💍

elizzup | elizzup

Consider a prenup if you have a positive net worth 💰

cassowary32 | cassowary32

Red flags in relationship, leave before it's too late 👍

ThisReport877 | ThisReport877

Financially incompatible fiancé demands prenup, commenter advises cutting ties. NTA 👍

toastedmarsh7 | toastedmarsh7

Fair prenups are reasonable, but his idea is unreasonable. 😑

lifehappenedwhatnow | lifehappenedwhatnow

🤔 Commenter warns against marrying someone like the guy mentioned.

recyclopath_ | recyclopath_

Draw up your own prenup or go to therapy together 💍

pithair_dontcare | pithair_dontcare

NTA. Fairness is key in prenups, not just for him.

LhasaApsoSmile | LhasaApsoSmile

🤔 Is it time to say goodbye to this Andrew Tate supporter?

yeah_right_4685 | yeah_right_4685

🚩 Red flag alert! Consider leaving this fiancé ASAP.

sgoodie22 | sgoodie22

Warning against Andrew Tate as a partner 😱

Leslie_Galen | Leslie_Galen

End the engagement and find someone who trusts and respects you 💔

Kittytigris | Kittytigris

Fiancé accuses partner of future infidelity and money theft. ESH. 💰💔

StoneAgePrue | StoneAgePrue

NTA. Andrew Tate? Run, girl, run! 👋🏻

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Get your own lawyer and sign the prenup, protect yourself. 👍

Cannabis_CatSlave | Cannabis_CatSlave

🚩 Red flags in fiancé's views on women and cheating. NTA. Consider prenup.

Agoraphobe961 | Agoraphobe961

🚩 Red flag alert: partner's views on dating may cause issues.

ZZartin | ZZartin

Protect your assets and maternity leave with a fair prenup 💰🤰

survival-nut | survival-nut

Consider a prenup for financial protection, but RUN from distrust.

DeshaMustFly | DeshaMustFly

Stand your ground and dump him 💍🚫 NTA.

ChimoEngr | ChimoEngr

Protect your assets 💰, but also consider if he's worth it 🤔

Wise-Resist-4804 | Wise-Resist-4804

Sign a prenup, it's messy even when you don't have much 💍

Nacnaz | Nacnaz

🚩 Red flag alert! Commenter questions fiancé's intentions and financial responsibility.

antiquity_queen | antiquity_queen

🚨RUN🚨: Commenter warns against marrying a sexist and misogynistic man.

JennieGee | JennieGee

🤔 Red flag alert! Commenter suggests penalties in prenup for misogynist content.

BackmarkerLife | BackmarkerLife

Adding a little extra to the prenup 💰💄💅

Decent_Bandicoot122 | Decent_Bandicoot122

Suggests drawing up own prenup and keeping money separate. 👍

Overall-Scholar-4676 | Overall-Scholar-4676

💍 Prenups benefit both parties, not just men. Get a lawyer.

cottonlavenderfairy | cottonlavenderfairy

Beware of red flags and consider the potential consequences. 👌

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Protect yourself and your future kids with a fair prenup. 👍

Unusual_Season_7196 | Unusual_Season_7196

Protect yourself and run. You deserve a trustworthy partner 👏

Fun-Yellow-6576 | Fun-Yellow-6576

YNTAH for not wanting to sign prenup, but NTAH for wanting one. People need to see past themselves and understand the reality of divorce. 💍💔

lovestocomment | lovestocomment

Compromise with a fair prenup and compensation for household responsibilities. 💪

Responsible_Log_4595 | Responsible_Log_4595

Prenups are contracts, they can contain anything! Know what's included.

SushiGuacDNA | SushiGuacDNA

👍 NTA: Commenter argues against 50/50 split after having kids.

TelMeWutUReallyThink | TelMeWutUReallyThink

Questioning the fiancé's motives for prenup. NTA.

PeriodSupply | PeriodSupply

Red flag alert! 🚩 Don't marry someone who listens to Andrew Tate.

verone3784 | verone3784

Fiancé's obsession with Andrew Tate is a red flag 🚩

Any-Refrigerator-966 | Any-Refrigerator-966

Negotiate a fair prenup that protects both parties. 👍

PlatformInevitable49 | PlatformInevitable49

👍 Prenup recommended for protection, but don't marry a loser.

ChumpChainge | ChumpChainge

🚩 Red flag alert: Commenter warns about fiancé's controlling behavior

LostInSpace-2245 | LostInSpace-2245

Red flags ignored? 🚩 Don't be TA, trust your gut.

The_Human_One | The_Human_One

🚩 Red flag alert! Run, don't walk away from this relationship.

Dachshundmom5 | Dachshundmom5

User expresses concern over man's attitude towards prenup. 🤔

justgottono | justgottono

User refuses to sign prenup, but may regret it later. 🤔

OkBalance2879 | OkBalance2879

Fiancé demands prenup, commenter suggests questioning their value as partner.

abletofable | abletofable

Don't let exciting sex blind you to incompatibility. Move on. ✨️

Liagirl1953 | Liagirl1953

Lawyer calls fiancé a garbage misogynist, advises to leave. 😱

frolicndetour | frolicndetour

Avoid Tater Tots and their false promises of change. 🙅

redcolumbine | redcolumbine

Red flags through rose colored glasses, leave him, find better 👍

Dependent_Pen_6715 | Dependent_Pen_6715

A clever prenup clause to protect against Andrew Tate obsession 🤣

mudwoman | mudwoman

Prenups protect both parties and promote peace of mind 👍

JustWordsInYourHead | JustWordsInYourHead

Stand up for yourself and find a partner who values equality. ✌🏻

Moemoe5 | Moemoe5

Creative prenup demands, but will they agree? 🤔

SleepyKoalaBear4812 | SleepyKoalaBear4812

Gender bias in divorce settlements, OP NTA for demanding prenup. 👏

Classic-Arugula2994 | Classic-Arugula2994

🤔 Questioning the relationship after prenup request and outside influence.

Sweet-Ad-4724 | Sweet-Ad-4724

Prenups can protect BOTH of you. But his views on women? 🤔

Techlet9625 | Techlet9625

Fiancé's toxic views? NTA. You deserve better. 👏

Frankieneedles | Frankieneedles

Consider counseling before tying the knot with red flags 🚩

Timely_Concept8516 | Timely_Concept8516

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