Brother Sleeps with Girlfriend, Family Forgives Him: Can They Move On? 😱

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Family drama is never easy, but when it involves your brother sleeping with your girlfriend, it reaches a whole new level of betrayal. Our protagonist, Narrow_Ring_5943, shares an update on his family situation after his brother's unforgivable actions. Can he ever forgive him? Can the family move on? Read on to find out. 😬

A Heartfelt Thank You 💕

Narrow_Ring_5943 | Narrow_Ring_5943

Clearing Up Misconceptions 🧹

Narrow_Ring_5943 | Narrow_Ring_5943

Avoiding Violence and Rifts 🚫

Narrow_Ring_5943 | Narrow_Ring_5943

The Family Meeting 🏠

Narrow_Ring_5943 | Narrow_Ring_5943

Unforgivable Actions 😠

Narrow_Ring_5943 | Narrow_Ring_5943

Brother's Rebuttal 🗣️

Narrow_Ring_5943 | Narrow_Ring_5943

Parents' Forgiveness 🙏

Narrow_Ring_5943 | Narrow_Ring_5943

Would They Forgive Him? 🤔

Narrow_Ring_5943 | Narrow_Ring_5943

Back and Forth Arguments ⚖️

Narrow_Ring_5943 | Narrow_Ring_5943

Tears and Harsh Words 😢

Narrow_Ring_5943 | Narrow_Ring_5943

The Ultimatum ⏳

Narrow_Ring_5943 | Narrow_Ring_5943

Dad's Response 🗨️

Narrow_Ring_5943 | Narrow_Ring_5943

Accepting the Decision 🤝

Narrow_Ring_5943 | Narrow_Ring_5943

Final Words to Brother 💔

Narrow_Ring_5943 | Narrow_Ring_5943

Moving On 🍔

Narrow_Ring_5943 | Narrow_Ring_5943

New Beginnings 📱

Narrow_Ring_5943 | Narrow_Ring_5943

Can Forgiveness Be Found After Betrayal? 🤷

Our protagonist, Narrow_Ring_5943, confronted his family about his brother's unforgivable actions and the family's decision to forgive him. After an emotional discussion, he gave them an ultimatum: either accept his decision to cut ties with his brother or lose him as well. His parents reluctantly agreed to respect his wishes. As he tries to move on from this painful chapter, he's now exploring the dating scene again. Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 📣

Sarcastic comment receives no replies. Reddit being Reddit 🙄

JuliaX1984 | JuliaX1984

Sibling betrayal and forgiveness, but not for the ex-girlfriend. 😬

chaingun_samurai | chaingun_samurai

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries is important. 💪

BearsReallySuck | BearsReallySuck

OP disappointed in family's forgiveness of brother's infidelity. 😔

OceanBreeze_123 | OceanBreeze_123

Cheering for the commenter's recovery and skepticism towards the brother's intentions. 👏🏿🫶🏿

Accomplished_List_62 | Accomplished_List_62

A cautionary tale about the consequences of infidelity. 😔

Il-Separatio-86 | Il-Separatio-86

Encouraging words for OP to heal and find the right partner 👏

TagYoureItWitch | TagYoureItWitch

Cynical commenter doubts brother's redemption, suspects manipulation. 🤔

Unlikely-Ad5982 | Unlikely-Ad5982

Brother uses religion to excuse behavior, commenter calls it out. 😒

bbum | bbum

OP stands their ground against brother's infidelity, earns respect 💪

No_Astronaut2795 | No_Astronaut2795

NTA commenter criticizes religious forgiveness culture and gaslighting tactics.

DivineTarot | DivineTarot

Encouragement for OP to move on and live their best life 👏

ZealousidealTough740 | ZealousidealTough740

Brother's guilt may be the reason for asking forgiveness 🤔

Toni164 | Toni164

Empathetic comment with supportive replies. 👏

DeerBest3901 | DeerBest3901

Brother sleeps with girlfriend, becomes preacher, family forgives him. NTA.

_A-Q | _A-Q

Setting boundaries after forgiveness: a delicate balance. 🤔

Cybermagetx | Cybermagetx

Forgiveness doesn't mean accepting poor behavior. 🙏

noname_2024 | noname_2024

OP praised for being mature, brother's actions condemned. 🔥

SweetSerenityxx | SweetSerenityxx

Sibling betrayal leads to family rift. Forgiveness or estrangement?

SnooWords4839 | SnooWords4839

A commenter calls out the brother and girlfriend's toxic behavior.


Sarcastic comment applauds OP for moving on from scumbag brother 🙄

jgasbarro | jgasbarro

Family forgives brother for selfish reasons, not genuine forgiveness 🤔

[deleted] | [deleted]

A harsh prediction for a cheating brother's future. 😱

Legened255509Druss | Legened255509Druss

A sarcastic take on forgiveness and religion 😒🙏

HumanityIsBizarre | HumanityIsBizarre

Evangelical Christianity's view of forgiveness criticized for being childish 😱

weallfalldown310 | weallfalldown310

Betrayal repeats itself, can trust be regained? 🤔

IceBlue | IceBlue

Family's attempt at forgiveness is selfish and pathetic 😱

PharmBoyStrength | PharmBoyStrength

OP advised to move on and be happy without toxic family ❤️

pupyzoe | pupyzoe

Dating is healthy but be careful. Don't date for healing. 🙏

LandosMustache | LandosMustache

Taking back power from family, brother left to live with consequences. 💪

Sugar_Mama76 | Sugar_Mama76

User believes brother should regret betrayal, not be forgiven easily. 🤔

CuriousLope | CuriousLope

Forgiveness doesn't mean you have to keep toxic people around 👍

JulsTiger10 | JulsTiger10

Sarcastic comment on family's forgiveness sparks no replies.

SlaveToCat | SlaveToCat

Fiery comment denouncing family's forgiveness with angry tone 🗯

Glittersparkles7 | Glittersparkles7

Life's too short to be with the wrong people 🙌

ariesfoxx | ariesfoxx

Christian repentance doesn't mean avoiding consequences. Forgiveness can't be forced. ✨

hamillhair | hamillhair

NTAH. Commenter advises caution and honesty with forgiving family member.

julesk | julesk

Savage prediction about brother's cheating and moving on. 😱

corax4476 | corax4476

Harsh comment, but highlights the pain and anger of betrayal. 😱

NotSorry2019 | NotSorry2019

Christian commenter questions brother's sincerity in repentance 🤔

DarkSide830 | DarkSide830

Cutting out toxic family members can be necessary for self-care. 👍

Shrikeangel | Shrikeangel

Brother's 'change' seems like a facade, good on OP for standing up 💪

pineappleponyboy | pineappleponyboy

Religion doesn't excuse being a bad person. Brother's apology insufficient. 😒

Livid-Fox-3646 | Livid-Fox-3646

User calls out brother's use of religion to excuse behavior.

DimTimfromKew | DimTimfromKew

Sunday Sin Wash fundraiser? 😂 Good for setting boundaries.

Thriftyverse | Thriftyverse

Sarcasm at its finest. 🙄

zombiedinocorn | zombiedinocorn

Savage comment shuts down brother's girlfriend, no mercy given 🤪

LifeguardMundane3672 | LifeguardMundane3672

Cutting toxic family members out of your life is healthy 👍

NotUpInHurr | NotUpInHurr

Family's forgiveness may complicate explaining NC to the child 🤔

SilentMK24 | SilentMK24

Sibling betrayal leads to family rift and tough choices. 🤔

mphs95 | mphs95

Standing up against family can be tough, but it's necessary. 💪

Own-Tank5998 | Own-Tank5998

Closure doesn't always mean forgiveness. Move on and find love 💖

Candid-Quail-9927 | Candid-Quail-9927

Setting boundaries with family after betrayal. Will they respect them? 🤔

WinEquivalent4069 | WinEquivalent4069

Forgive brother for sleeping with girlfriend? Commenter disagrees with parents. 😐

First_Alfalfa2805 | First_Alfalfa2805

Forgiveness is a personal decision, not for others to decide. 🤔

l3ex_G | l3ex_G

Choosing to forgive and move on after betrayal 👍

DawnShakhar | DawnShakhar

Choosing to hate or move on after being exploited. 🤔

mentalube | mentalube

Moving on after forgiving a cheating brother. Good luck dating! 😊

Gralb_the_muffin | Gralb_the_muffin

Heartbreaking comment about parental favoritism in family scandal. 😢

Beneficial-Mine7741 | Beneficial-Mine7741

Cutting toxic family out of your life is self-care 👍

SassyB207 | SassyB207

Rebuilding trust after infidelity is a long and difficult process.

InSilenceLikeLasagna | InSilenceLikeLasagna

NTA comment: Scathing response to family's forgiveness, wishes them misery 😏

Bitter_Animator2514 | Bitter_Animator2514

Harsh advice, but sometimes cutting ties is necessary. 👍

AtlanteanScholar | AtlanteanScholar

User advises therapy before bringing pain and anger elsewhere. 💆

Aggressive_Hearing40 | Aggressive_Hearing40

Forgiveness is important, but boundaries must be set first. 🙏

Invisible-Pi | Invisible-Pi

"Brave and powerful" response to brother's infidelity and apology. 👏

JanetInSpain | JanetInSpain

Standing up against religious excuses for immoral behavior 💯

HoodieGalore | HoodieGalore

Forgiveness doesn't mean escaping consequences. NC is acceptable.

Longshot1969 | Longshot1969

Sibling betrayal and forgiveness, but did parents really care?

GratifiedViewer | GratifiedViewer

No support system, brother is garbage bag, parents lack backbone 🤷‍♂️

OlTommyBombadil | OlTommyBombadil

Forgiveness with boundaries: a pastor's advice for the betrayed.

808guamie | 808guamie

Kudos for calling out religious excuses for bad behavior! 💪

Jerseygirl2468 | Jerseygirl2468

OP forgives brother for sleeping with girlfriend, commenters approve. 👍

Bargle-Nawdle-Zouss | Bargle-Nawdle-Zouss

User sees through brother's preaching and supports OP. 😊

EntranceComfortable | EntranceComfortable

Christian user questions brother's 'repentance' in family scandal. 😕

Seethinginsepia | Seethinginsepia

Skeptical of the brother's remorse and the relationship's future 😕

Actual-Offer-127 | Actual-Offer-127

No forgiveness for cheating brother and ex-girlfriend. Karma awaits them. 😒

ClaudetteLeon23 | ClaudetteLeon23

Sibling forgiveness or enabling? Commenter stands up for accountability. 👊

Mountain-Key5673 | Mountain-Key5673

Betrayal by a brother's actions leads to irreparable damage 😢

ExcitingIce8427 | ExcitingIce8427

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