Man Drops Out as Best Man Over Controversial Wedding Decision 😱

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Picture this: you're supposed to be your brother's best man at his wedding, but just days before the big day, you're hit with a shocking request that leaves you questioning everything. That's exactly what happened to one man who found himself in the middle of a family drama. His brother and soon-to-be sister-in-law made a decision that left him with no choice but to drop out as best man. So, what could possibly cause such a rift in this family? Let's dive into the story. 😮🔥

The Wedding Setup 📝

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A Nearby Venue for Kids 🧒

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The Wife's Injuries 🤕

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A Capable Woman 💪

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The Rehearsal Dinner 🍽️

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A Confusing Conversation 😕

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A Shocking Suggestion 😲

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The Babysitter Bombshell 💣

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Just Looking Out for Her? 🤔

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Brother's Response 🗣️

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The Ultimatum ⚖️

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Family Fallout 💥

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The Wedding Goes On 🎊

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The Aftermath 🌪️

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The Fallout of a Family Feud 😢

So there you have it, folks. A man was supposed to be his brother's best man, but a shocking request to have his wife, who has some injuries, stay at the 'kids' venue with a babysitter led to a family feud. He dropped out as best man, causing a rift between him, his brother, and his sister-in-law. The wedding went on, but the aftermath left the family divided. Was he right to stand up for his wife, or should he have put his ego aside and participated in the wedding? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🤔💔

Defending spouse against ableism and infantilization. #NotTheAsshole 💪

whateverworks1470 | whateverworks1470

NTA. Commenter supports groom's decision and criticizes SIL's behavior.

dazed1984 | dazed1984

Fighting ableism at weddings, NTA sets an example 👏

Ethelfleda | Ethelfleda

NTA. Brother and SIL disrespected your marriage and commitment.

napincoming321zzz | napincoming321zzz

Supportive comment defends spouse's exclusion from wedding party with anger 😡

shemeno | shemeno

Wedding party disrespects disabled wife, man drops out as best man 😱

beccababe88 | beccababe88

NTA. You stood up for your wife and did the right thing. 👍

WaywardPrincess1025 | WaywardPrincess1025

NTA. Supportive comment for OP standing up for his wife. 👏

MissCallieCakes | MissCallieCakes

NTA stands their ground and shuts down criticism gracefully 👏

Environment-Elegant | Environment-Elegant

Defending spouse against ableist demands, NTA comment wins 👏

BookwyrmDream | BookwyrmDream

NTA stands up for himself and his values against brother's decision.

Draiel | Draiel

Supportive comment defends against wedding drama. NTA 👏

ilexflora | ilexflora

Couple expects best man's wife to attend separate wedding venue 😠 NTA

petitecheesepotato | petitecheesepotato

User expresses outrage at brother and SIL's ableist wedding decision. 😠

someperson717 | someperson717

Supportive comment, no replies. Love wins 💜

Unit-00 | Unit-00

Passionate comment defending wife's dignity and calling out ablist behavior 👏

WhosMimi | WhosMimi

NTA stands up for self-respect and sets healthy boundaries 💪

herdingcats2020 | herdingcats2020

Cutting toxic people out of your life is always the right move 👍

bethaneee | bethaneee

NTA stands up for wife against disrespectful brother and sister-in-law 👏

JuliaFC | JuliaFC

Standing up for spouse against family. NTA wins hearts 👏

nicehatonyourhead | nicehatonyourhead

Supportive comment, empathizing with the situation and using a sad face.

Bac0nFr0mTh3Grav3 | Bac0nFr0mTh3Grav3

NTA stands up for wife with condition, drops out of wedding

Ok_Report_3201 | Ok_Report_3201

Support for husband defending wife's independence at wedding 👍

WaywardFire | WaywardFire

NTA, SIL is insufferable. Sending wife to babysitter? Unreasonable 😑

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Defending the wife, calling out rude behavior with shock emoji 🤯

flashfoxart | flashfoxart

Supportive comment applauds OP's decision to stand behind his wife.

drtennis13 | drtennis13

NTA stands up to cruel brother and SIL over wedding decision 💪

GlitterAssociation | GlitterAssociation

User criticizes wedding decision, relieved couple exposed to criticism 👏

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Supportive comment receives no replies, but deserves all accolades 👏

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NTA. Wife is part of SIL's family now, she needs to understand 😍

bunnygfs | bunnygfs

Support for OP's decision to stand up against discrimination. 👍

Pale-Mammoth-9340 | Pale-Mammoth-9340

User expresses disgust at wedding party's horrible attitudes 🤯

ReviewOk929 | ReviewOk929

NTA stands up for wife, brother and SIL look like AHs 😏

Remarkable_Buyer4625 | Remarkable_Buyer4625

NTA stands up for wife against ableist wedding decision 👏

MbMinx | MbMinx

Supportive comment calls out rude behavior of brother's wedding party.

NGDGUnpunished | NGDGUnpunished

Supportive comment applauds man for standing up for wife 👏

sassy_pants_575 | sassy_pants_575

NTA stands up for his wife against disrespectful wedding decision 👏

OverAllTheThings | OverAllTheThings

NTA for dropping out as best man over ableism. 👏

VioletDaisyAMJ | VioletDaisyAMJ

Standing up for wife's dignity, NTA. Admirable and justified. 👏

poormansnormal | poormansnormal

Wedding culture prioritizes selfishness over kindness and maturity 😕

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Supportive comment against ableist wedding decision. NTA. 👏

ArghMoss | ArghMoss

Standing up for what's right 💪🏻

joemondo | joemondo

NTA stands up against terrible wedding decision. 🙌

chillyfeets | chillyfeets

Actions have consequences, an important life lesson. NTA 👍

Warfoki | Warfoki

NTA drops out of wedding and burns the house down 🔥

catalu64 | catalu64

NTA. SIL is a huge AH, offensive on every level 😱

chemmath11 | chemmath11

Family drama at weddings 😱

SnooBunnies7461 | SnooBunnies7461

Support for standing up against ableism. 💪

Viewfromthe31stfloor | Viewfromthe31stfloor

User expresses disgust towards SIL and brother's wedding decision.

samanthasgramma | samanthasgramma

Wife with disabilities defends husband's decision, calls out unacceptable behavior 👏

butiamsotired | butiamsotired

User suggests a dramatic exit from a controversial wedding decision 😱

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Standing up to family for wife makes him a hero 🤝

MikeDatTiger | MikeDatTiger

Standing by his wife, NTA. SIL and brother are awful 😒

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Exclusion of best man's wife from wedding sparks outrage 🤯

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Supportive comment calls out brother's shallow behavior and predicts failed marriage 😱

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No contact with trash family members. NTA 👍

AlternativeRead583 | AlternativeRead583

Man stands up for wife in controversial wedding decision. NTA 👏

somewhat_pragmatic | somewhat_pragmatic

Epileptic NTA not included in brother's wedding. This is too far.

roguespyce | roguespyce

NTA. The bride's insensitivity towards the groom's wife is appalling 😱

Lillianrik | Lillianrik

Overcoming disability and unsupportive family, NTA shines through 👏

LongNectarine3 | LongNectarine3

Standing ovation for dropping out as best man. NTA 👏

AtmosphereOk6072 | AtmosphereOk6072

Supportive comment applauds standing up for spouse against disrespectful family.

Yavanna83 | Yavanna83

Choosing between principles and family can be a tough call 🤔

GWeb1920 | GWeb1920

Family stands up for disabled father, man drops out as best man

Helen_Magnus_ | Helen_Magnus_

NTA comment: Family's controversial wedding decision disgusts commenter. 💍

Glittering-Weekend74 | Glittering-Weekend74

Respecting your wife > ego. NTA for dropping out.

mjchambers0904 | mjchambers0904

NTA defends wife against ableist family members. 💯

explodingwhale17 | explodingwhale17

NTA stands up against family's disgusting behavior towards woman. 💪

Pipereatsdogs | Pipereatsdogs

Defending wife's honor against family, NTA. Wife needs support ❤️

VladimirsPudin | VladimirsPudin

Redditors sympathize with NTA and condemn AHs in shocking story 🤯

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Brother's loss, righteous husband's gain 👏

HoneySignificant105 | HoneySignificant105

Supportive comment calls out SIL and brother for poor behavior 👏

pettyeann86 | pettyeann86

Supportive comment condemns brother's behavior, offers sympathy and hope 😢

Sensitive-Whereas574 | Sensitive-Whereas574

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