Losing a loved one is never easy, and dealing with their belongings afterwards can be a challenge. One man found himself in a difficult situation when his father passed away, leaving behind a 20-year-old scarlet macaw named Rainbow . With no experience in caring for a parrot and living in a rented apartment, he was unable to take Rainbow in. His extended family refused to help, and he eventually found a new home for the bird. But was this the right decision? His aunt certainly doesn’t think so…
Dad’s Sudden Passing
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Rainbow’s History
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Unprepared for Parrot Parenthood
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Family Refuses to Help
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Aunt’s Temporary Solution
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Original Owner Declines
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Aunt’s Unhappiness
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Searching for a New Home
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A New Home Found
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Reassurance and Worry
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Concern for Rainbow’s Future
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Aunt’s Persistent Texts
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The Parrot Dilemma: Right or Wrong Choice?
After his father’s sudden passing, a man found himself responsible for Rainbow, a 20-year-old scarlet macaw . Unable to care for her and with no family members willing to help, he eventually found a new home for the bird. While he hoped he made the right decision, his aunt disagreed, insisting that he should have kept Rainbow as a memento of his dad. As the debate continues, we turn to the internet for their thoughts on this emotionally charged situation…
Compassionate response to family drama over late dad’s bird

Honoring late dad’s bird love: research, safe environment, NAH.

Aunt wants bird as a memento, but not the responsibility? NTA.

Compassionate reply to a grieving person. NTA for giving away bird

Rehoming the bird is the best option. NTA for doing so.

Rehoming late dad’s macaw: NTA, aunt disagrees but OP’s right.

NTA gives away late dad’s macaw to a bird lover

Compassionate decision to give away late dad’s macaw

NTA leaves bird with woman, aunt demands it back

You did right by your father and his pet

Defending pet ownership with a touch of sass

Respectful decision to give away dad’s macaw

Family drama over late dad’s macaw, NTA stands their ground.

Compassionate response to man giving away late dad’s macaw

Honoring dad’s wishes, NTA. Rainbow found a happy home

Choosing the bird’s welfare over family drama.

Parrot lover praised for giving away late dad’s bird

Passing on dad’s macaw was responsible, but dad was slightly TA

Aunt can’t force sentimental pet on someone. Large parrots need space. NTA

Relatable! Not everyone is cut out for bird ownership.

Parrots require a lot of work and care. NTA made a responsible choice.

Compassionate comment on giving away a pet after a loved one’s death.

Parrots are like perpetual toddlers NTA for giving it away.

Taking care of a Macaw is not a joke

Rehoming dad’s bird sparks debate, but commenter supports decision

Compassionate comment supports OP’s decision to rehome late dad’s bird

NTA gives away late dad’s macaw, family drama ensues

Kudos to OP for finding a rescue to care for Rainbow

NTA. Having macaws is a big responsibility and commitment

NTA. Giving away a macaw is a huge decision. You did the right thing and your dad would be proud

Rehoming dad’s macaw causes family drama. NTA decision defended.

Sassy reply to ageist comment in macaw drama.

Giving away dad’s macaw: NTA, ignore aunt’s guilt-trip

Find Rainbow a happy home, guilt free. NTA.

Macaw-loving commenter wants pic of Rainbow, approves NTA verdict

Finding a new home for a pet: NTA and responsible

Honoring late dad by giving Macaw a loving home

Respecting dad’s memory and Rainbow’s well-being over family drama

Freeing the bird was the right move. NTA

Aunt can’t demand to keep dad’s bird. NTA

Heartbreaking concern for the bird’s future

Aunt demands Macaw stay in family, commenter says NTA

40-something year old takes offense to age-related comment

Experienced bird owner supports rehoming and advises against large bird ownership

Standing up to family pressure to keep late dad’s bird

Owning a macaw is a lifestyle, not for everyone. NTA

Compassionate response to giving away late dad’s macaw

Compassionate response to giving away late dad’s macaw

Macaw drama: Age is just a number for bird owners

NTA stands firm against aunt’s entitlement over late dad’s macaw
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Giving away dad’s macaw: NTA, Rainbow is in good hands.

Compassionate comment defends man’s decision to rehome late dad’s macaw

Parrots are tough pets, NTA for giving it away

Finding a new home for a late pet: NTA wins

Compassionate comment applauding OP’s decision to rehome late dad’s pet.

Proper care for exotic pets is crucial. Finding a good home.

Experienced lady may be best option for late dad’s macaw

Aunt’s sellers remorse is not your problem Keep distance.

Animal welfare matters! NTA for giving away the macaw

NTA for giving away late dad’s macaw. Responsible decision
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Complimentary comment applauds OP’s responsible pet rehoming decision.

Don’t feel guilty for giving away late parent’s belongings. NTA
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Finding a new home for a pet is tough. NTA!

Compassionate decision to rehome dad’s Macaw ☺️
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Macaws are loving but dangerous birds. OP did right by dad. NTA

Rehoming Rainbow was the kindest thing. Parrots need specialized care

Responsible decision to rehome late dad’s macaw

Compassionate decision to rehome dad’s macaw receives support.

Caring for birds is not for everyone. NTA for giving away.

NTA. Pets aren’t monuments to the dead. Your aunt is wrong

Putting Rainbow’s needs first, NTA.

Compassionate decision to rehome late dad’s Macaw

Don’t preach what you won’t practice

Asking the tough questions about Grey’s future.

Respecting dad’s memory: NTA gives away dad’s macaw

Bird rescue expert supports decision to give away late dad’s macaw. NTA

Finding a good home for a pet is not a monument. NTA.

Rehoming a high-maintenance bird: NTA, it’s the right decision

Heartfelt comment about rehoming a pet after a loved one’s death ❤️

Bird inheritance drama: NTA offered bird, can’t force responsibility.

Honoring late father’s wishes, NTA for giving away Macaw

Veterinary nurse praises OP’s actions in giving away macaw responsibly.
