Vacation Nightmare: Woman Locks Out Raging Alcoholic 🔒✈️

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We've all had our fair share of bad dates, but this one takes the cake! A woman (25F) thought she was in for a fun vacation with her new beau, Jake (25M), but things took a dark turn. After inviting him to join her in Seattle, she quickly realized that he had a serious drinking problem and a nasty temper. 😡 In a rollercoaster of events, she ultimately decided to lock him out of their hotel and cancel his flight home. But was she too harsh, or was it a justified move? 🤷‍♀️

The Invitation 💌

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Red Flags 🚩

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Kayaking Chaos 🛶

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Traffic Trouble 🚗

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Forgiveness and Dispensary Drama 🌿

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The Breaking Point 💔

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Confrontation and Cussing 📞

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Taking Action 🧳

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Flight Cancelled ✈️

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Justified or Overreaction? 🤔

After a series of arguments, disrespect, and gaslighting, our protagonist had enough of Jake's antics. She decided to take matters into her own hands, locking him out of their hotel and cancelling his flight home. But was this the right move, or did she go too far? Let's see what the internet thinks of this wild vacation gone wrong... 🍿

Ending it with an alcoholic was tough, but safety first 🙌

AnselaJonla | AnselaJonla

Lesson learned: wait longer before inviting someone on vacation. #NTA

downtownpenthaus | downtownpenthaus

Stranded alcoholic's AH behavior met with AH move. ESH.

calling_water | calling_water

Kicking him out of the hotel room = NTA, stranding him in the city = ESH 😐

Left_Ad8182 | Left_Ad8182

Both parties at fault for disastrous vacation. Consider consequences before acting.

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User calls out OP for canceling flight and not keeping word.

PettyHonestThrowaway | PettyHonestThrowaway

Inviting a stranger on a trip can be risky 😱

quack2thefuture2 | quack2thefuture2

Gender bias and morality questioned in canceling alcoholic's flight. YTA.

foreversiempre | foreversiempre

Canceling his flight home was a bad move, ESH 😑

Working_Ad4014 | Working_Ad4014

Travel plans backfire as commenter and friend both suck

Mom_Is_Up_All_Night | Mom_Is_Up_All_Night

Canceled flight makes YTA, but he's still a dick. 👍

snakecasablanca | snakecasablanca

Debate over leaving a toxic partner stranded on vacation. 🤔

xavii62 | xavii62

Is it wise to invite strangers on an expensive vacation? 🤔

gwynhiblaidd | gwynhiblaidd

Leaving his return ticket active was a smart move 👍

verminiusrex | verminiusrex

Inviting strangers on trips can be risky 😱 ESH in this situation.

apatheticsahm | apatheticsahm

Standing up to a raging alcoholic 🔒✈️, NTA wins the day.

Lurkingentropy | Lurkingentropy

Be cautious of new 'friends' and avoid looking desperate 😔

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Cancelled flight makes you an AH, leaving him stranded dangerous 🔒

FearlessShelterless | FearlessShelterless

Rash decision-making and lack of safety awareness criticized. 😐

CinderellaRidvan | CinderellaRidvan

Be careful who you invite on trips 🚨. Scary situation avoided.

SJ2012 | SJ2012

Standing up against victim blaming and justifying abusive behavior. NTA 👏

2Houndgirl | 2Houndgirl

Standing up to an alcoholic partner - NTA

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Safety first! NTA, request a new room and alert staff 🙌

Glitterstar56 | Glitterstar56

Taking control of her vacation and her life. 💪

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Generosity revoked: NTA rescinds alcoholic's vacation invite 🚫

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Woman not responsible for alcoholic's behavior, NTA 👏

Zubinka | Zubinka

NTA stands up for OP's decision to not bail out alcoholic

Stone_Bucket | Stone_Bucket

Standing up to a raging alcoholic on vacation 🏝💪

hollowsbest | hollowsbest

Taking a stand against a raging alcoholic 🔒💪

stiletto929 | stiletto929

Dodged a bullet! 🎯 Good thing you found out early.

Knitty_Cat | Knitty_Cat

🚩🚩🚩 NTA for locking out the red flag factory.

MediocreSherlock | MediocreSherlock

Removing yourself from an abusive situation is always NTA 👍

Dapper_Insect_2862 | Dapper_Insect_2862

Dodged a bullet! 🎯 NTA saw the red flags early on.

CremeDeMarron | CremeDeMarron

Empathetic response to alcoholic's rage issues. NTA, move on.

bttrflyr | bttrflyr

Lucky to be alive after vacation with raging alcoholic 🙏

Scary_Offer2479 | Scary_Offer2479

Breaking societal norms: woman questions if leaving abusive partner wrong 🤔

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Blocking the alcoholic was the best decision. NTA.

Tuesday_TauRus_Child | Tuesday_TauRus_Child

Flight credit dilemma: NTA but unlikely to use it. 😕

uniqueme1 | uniqueme1

Learning a lesson about trusting strangers on vacation 😔

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Handling a raging alcoholic with grace and firmness. NTA 👏

Mrs_Weaver | Mrs_Weaver

Testing compatibility on trips is important, but everyone sucks here.

Li-renn-pwel | Li-renn-pwel

Standing up to a raging alcoholic. NTA 💯

seawitchlife | seawitchlife

🚩 Red flags everywhere. Cut him off and move on. NTA.

calamity-avalley | calamity-avalley

Setting boundaries with a raging alcoholic. Good job, NTA 👏

AnAmbitiousMann | AnAmbitiousMann

Offered to fly out a stranger and it turned into a disaster 🤷🏻‍♀️

Dangerous_Prize_4545 | Dangerous_Prize_4545

Locking out a raging alcoholic: NTA or ESH?

sunfries | sunfries

Canceled flight to deal with alcoholic partner. NTA but risky.

Idontgetredditinmd | Idontgetredditinmd

Standing up against victim-blaming in abuse cases 💪

Senior_Parking6305 | Senior_Parking6305

New partner's best behavior is being a raging alcoholic? NTA 💯

CharlotteLucasOP | CharlotteLucasOP

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