Vacation Nightmare: Woman Locks Out Raging Alcoholic ✈️

We’ve all had our fair share of bad dates, but this one takes the cake! A woman (25F) thought she was in for a fun vacation with her new beau, Jake (25M), but things took a dark turn. After inviting him to join her in Seattle, she quickly realized that he had a serious drinking problem and a nasty temper. In a rollercoaster of events, she ultimately decided to lock him out of their hotel and cancel his flight home. But was she too harsh, or was it a justified move? ‍♀️

The Invitation

Red Flags

Kayaking Chaos

Traffic Trouble

Forgiveness and Dispensary Drama

The Breaking Point

Confrontation and Cussing

Taking Action

Flight Cancelled ✈️

Justified or Overreaction?

After a series of arguments, disrespect, and gaslighting, our protagonist had enough of Jake’s antics. She decided to take matters into her own hands, locking him out of their hotel and cancelling his flight home. But was this the right move, or did she go too far? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this wild vacation gone wrong…

Ending it with an alcoholic was tough, but safety first

Lesson learned: wait longer before inviting someone on vacation. #NTA

Stranded alcoholic’s AH behavior met with AH move. ESH.

Kicking him out of the hotel room = NTA, stranding him in the city = ESH

Both parties at fault for disastrous vacation. Consider consequences before acting.

User calls out OP for canceling flight and not keeping word.

Inviting a stranger on a trip can be risky

Gender bias and morality questioned in canceling alcoholic’s flight. YTA.

Canceling his flight home was a bad move, ESH

Travel plans backfire as commenter and friend both suck

Canceled flight makes YTA, but he’s still a dick.

Debate over leaving a toxic partner stranded on vacation.

Is it wise to invite strangers on an expensive vacation?

Leaving his return ticket active was a smart move

Inviting strangers on trips can be risky ESH in this situation.

Standing up to a raging alcoholic ✈️, NTA wins the day.

Be cautious of new ‘friends’ and avoid looking desperate

Cancelled flight makes you an AH, leaving him stranded dangerous

Rash decision-making and lack of safety awareness criticized.

Be careful who you invite on trips . Scary situation avoided.

Standing up against victim blaming and justifying abusive behavior. NTA

Standing up to an alcoholic partner – NTA

Safety first! NTA, request a new room and alert staff

Taking control of her vacation and her life.

Generosity revoked: NTA rescinds alcoholic’s vacation invite

Woman not responsible for alcoholic’s behavior, NTA

NTA stands up for OP’s decision to not bail out alcoholic

Standing up to a raging alcoholic on vacation

Taking a stand against a raging alcoholic

Dodged a bullet! Good thing you found out early.

NTA for locking out the red flag factory.

Removing yourself from an abusive situation is always NTA

Dodged a bullet! NTA saw the red flags early on.

Empathetic response to alcoholic’s rage issues. NTA, move on.

Lucky to be alive after vacation with raging alcoholic

Breaking societal norms: woman questions if leaving abusive partner wrong

Blocking the alcoholic was the best decision. NTA.

Flight credit dilemma: NTA but unlikely to use it.

Learning a lesson about trusting strangers on vacation

Handling a raging alcoholic with grace and firmness. NTA

Testing compatibility on trips is important, but everyone sucks here.

Standing up to a raging alcoholic. NTA

Red flags everywhere. Cut him off and move on. NTA.

Setting boundaries with a raging alcoholic. Good job, NTA

Offered to fly out a stranger and it turned into a disaster ‍♀️

Locking out a raging alcoholic: NTA or ESH?

Canceled flight to deal with alcoholic partner. NTA but risky.

Standing up against victim-blaming in abuse cases

New partner’s best behavior is being a raging alcoholic? NTA