Man Promises to Cook Dinner, Chaos Ensues 😱🍽️

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We all know that communication is key in any relationship, but what happens when a promise is broken and tempers flare? One man found out the hard way when he promised to cook dinner for his girlfriend, who suffers from OCD. When work got in the way and he couldn't fulfill his promise, their relationship took a dramatic turn. Let's dive into this story and see how things unfolded. 😳🍽️

Girlfriend's OCD and Cleanliness 🧹

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Moving in Together? 🏠

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Trial Run for the Future 💑

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The Dinner Promise 🍽️

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Work Meeting Interrupted 😠

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The Argument Begins 🗣️

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Leaving in Anger 😡

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Accusations Fly 🥊

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The Fight Continues 🔥

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Schedules and Unexpected Events ⏰

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Friends Take Sides 🤔

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Who's the A**hole? 🤷

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Broken Promises and Heated Arguments 🔥

In a whirlwind of emotions, our protagonist finds himself in hot water after promising to cook dinner for his girlfriend, who suffers from OCD. When work gets in the way and he can't fulfill his promise, chaos ensues as she interrupts his work meeting, leading to a heated argument and a night spent at a hotel. The next day, accusations fly, and friends take sides, leaving everyone questioning who's really in the wrong. Let's see what the internet has to say about this intense situation... 😬

Mental illness doesn't excuse being an a**hole. NTA 👍

Kevin7650 | Kevin7650

Communicated change in plans due to work, girlfriend overreacted. NTA.

puppyfarts99 | puppyfarts99

NTA. Girlfriend's OCD causing unrealistic expectations, needs therapy.

Fangs_McWolf | Fangs_McWolf

Being understanding and communicative in relationships is important ❤

Kam_the_devil | Kam_the_devil

Partner annoyed over skipped dinner, but NTA handled well 👍

triggerhappypoptarts | triggerhappypoptarts

Work crisis? NTA for not cooking. Partner should've understood 🙏

poeadam | poeadam

Lesson learned: cooking dinner can lead to chaos 😱

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NTA. Despite trying to communicate, gf's behavior was unreasonable. Consider relationship.

Consistent-Leopard71 | Consistent-Leopard71

NTA, work got in the way, she needs to learn compromise 👍

Piper6728 | Piper6728

Understanding and empathetic comment about mental illness and relationships.

guessagain72 | guessagain72

Calling out misuse of mental illness in a disagreement. NTA.

Lots-of-Apples | Lots-of-Apples

Partner's controlling behavior and insults are red flags. NTA 👍

Mistress-DragonFlame | Mistress-DragonFlame

Supportive comment encourages therapy and space for growth. 👍

gaurddog | gaurddog

NTA prioritizes work, girlfriend throws toddler tantrum. Dodged a bullet 👍

windyrainyrain | windyrainyrain

NTA for leaving after girlfriend's OCD affected work, reconsider moving.

OrangeCubit | OrangeCubit

Friends side with partner, but commenter questions their knowledge. 🤔

firefly232 | firefly232

Setting boundaries with an OCD partner can be tough 🤔

Coco_Dirichlet | Coco_Dirichlet

Misses one thing, gets attacked. NTA, yikes indeed 😱

Expensive-Network-93 | Expensive-Network-93

Dump your gf and get new friends. NTA. 😱

OutlawPixieStick | OutlawPixieStick

Unforeseen circumstances happen. NTA for canceling dinner plans.

HoldFastO2 | HoldFastO2

Cooking mishap leads to routine meltdown, but NTA prevails 😊

Potential_Speech_703 | Potential_Speech_703

Supportive comment suggests girlfriend may be autistic, NTA verdict.

aynrandstuquoque | aynrandstuquoque

Phone addiction saves man's job after dinner dispute 📞😂

Icy_Conversation_612 | Icy_Conversation_612

Partner's OCD causes chaos, commenter not the a**hole. 😠

i-have-two-dogs | i-have-two-dogs

Being understanding and offering a sweet gesture makes you NTA 👍

PracticeMakesP | PracticeMakesP

NTA. You did the right thing by trying to contact her several times and gave her a heads up through text. 👍

mooseskull | mooseskull

Tips for fixing relationship after scheduling conflict due to OCD.

DazzlingAssistant342 | DazzlingAssistant342

NTA. Work call interrupted by girlfriend's meltdown over dinner plans.

tiny_little_bit | tiny_little_bit

Supportive comment encourages therapy and self-care for mental health struggles 🙏

Affectionate-Fee5841 | Affectionate-Fee5841

Think twice before committing to chaotic dinner promises 🤔

lazybeans008 | lazybeans008

Partner's unreasonableness shouldn't be excused by medical condition. NTA 👍

ClaymoreClair | ClaymoreClair

NTA with OCD explains importance of personal responsibility and understanding.

thelistman1 | thelistman1

Don't let OCD ruin your relationships. Be kind and understanding.

Mama_Odie | Mama_Odie

Partner's anxiety is not an excuse to control and manipulate. 💪

Pickle1036 | Pickle1036

NTA. Her behavior was out of line and could have gotten you fired 😱

Murderbunny13 | Murderbunny13

Understanding OCD: A personal account and advice for partners. ❤️

full07britney | full07britney

Promised dinner, work emergency, NTA, interrupted meeting, no choice. 👍

Squid_Cas | Squid_Cas

NTA. Work changes happen, but it may be time to reevaluate.

Flaky_Ad194 | Flaky_Ad194

Relationship advice: Communication is key for a lasting relationship ❤

fawnsonline | fawnsonline

Concerned commenter questions if OP can handle chaotic partner.

mrsicebitch | mrsicebitch

OCD sufferer defends OP, advises partner to work on issues 🙌

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Defending against accusations of flaking due to OCD, NTA

Cranberr3 | Cranberr3

GF's behavior at work is unacceptable, relationship may fail 🤷🏼‍♂️

Burned-Shoulder | Burned-Shoulder

Managing OCD during high stress times is important. NTA.

TealHousewife | TealHousewife

Girlfriend's immaturity and OCD criticized, NTA for OP.

Appropriate_Self_113 | Appropriate_Self_113

Mental illness doesn't excuse being an asshat 🤷‍♂️

bmbmwmfm | bmbmwmfm

Setting boundaries with a roommate can be tough 😓. NTA handled it well.

Ok_Point7463 | Ok_Point7463

Red flag alert! Manipulative behavior can easily turn into abuse. NTA 🚨

squishyfoxi | squishyfoxi

Partner's phone issues cause chaos in dinner plans. 📱🍴

Sea-Ad9057 | Sea-Ad9057

Flexibility is key in relationships. Wise advice from commenter.

Tootie0 | Tootie0

Supportive comment on work chaos, hoping for relationship resolution 🙏

Careless_Mango | Careless_Mango

NTA stands up against abusive behavior from mentally ill partner 👏

Accomplished-Mud2840 | Accomplished-Mud2840

Breaking up might be the best option. NTA 👍

CompetitiveYoung9 | CompetitiveYoung9

Setting boundaries in relationships is important 👍

OneSmolBean | OneSmolBean

Choosing to leave can be the best decision 👍

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NTA commenter suggests GF revisit medical team for OCD issues.

ResoluteMuse | ResoluteMuse

NTA. Commenter refuses to tolerate childish behavior from entitled roommate.

HonorableJudgeTolerr | HonorableJudgeTolerr

NTA, work got in the way, partner overreacted 😒

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Coworker with similar behavior, NTA suggests compromise and flexibility.

TheGooseWithNoose | TheGooseWithNoose

NTA commenter suggests therapy for girlfriend's coping skills 👍

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Partner throws tantrum during work call, NTA suggests re-evaluating relationship. 👍

ElimGarakOfCardassia | ElimGarakOfCardassia

Supportive comment for someone with OCD in a chaotic situation 👍

stories4 | stories4

Slacker or multitasker? Engaging NTA comment with a humorous tone.

lundibix | lundibix

NTA with a twist: Commenter doubts OCD diagnosis 🤔

tzelli | tzelli

Partner's lack of understanding work stress could be dealbreaker. NTA.

BryLac | BryLac

Support for OP's actions in dealing with unreasonable behavior. 👍

Reading4LifeForever | Reading4LifeForever

Don't let anyone prioritize dinner over your job 💪

B00k_wyrm_ | B00k_wyrm_

Trial and error leads to a subscription decision 👍

hekkinchonker | hekkinchonker

When promising to cook dinner goes wrong 🤯

Soggy_Sando | Soggy_Sando

Ordering food delivery could have saved the night 👨‍🍳

Plum68 | Plum68

GF's need for routine clashes with OP's work, ESH. Communication needed 👍

hammocks_ | hammocks_

Sage advice for avoiding dinner disaster and keeping the peace 🙌

Equivalent_Ship_6128 | Equivalent_Ship_6128

NTA. OCD is an explanation not an excuse. 🤔

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Work meeting saved you from a spoiled, pissy partner 🙌

Time_Mud_6433 | Time_Mud_6433

When OCD meets chaos: NTA, but girlfriend's pain is understandable 🤷🏻‍♂️

i_aam_sadd | i_aam_sadd

NTA. Don't let her emotional issues sabotage your relationship. 🙌

PrettyinPerpignan | PrettyinPerpignan

Ordering takeout could have helped, but her reaction was unreasonable. #NTA 🍔

JustThatOneRedditGuy | JustThatOneRedditGuy

Navigating a relationship with OCD can be tough, but communication helps 💬

MayhemWins25 | MayhemWins25

Teacher sympathizes with OP's girlfriend's illness, advises help and patience.

darpolicious | darpolicious

Communication is key! NTA for breaking dinner promise 👍

TrustedTriangle | TrustedTriangle

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