Man Promises to Cook Dinner, Chaos Ensues ️

We all know that communication is key in any relationship, but what happens when a promise is broken and tempers flare? One man found out the hard way when he promised to cook dinner for his girlfriend, who suffers from OCD. When work got in the way and he couldn’t fulfill his promise, their relationship took a dramatic turn. Let’s dive into this story and see how things unfolded. ️

Girlfriend’s OCD and Cleanliness

Moving in Together?

Trial Run for the Future

The Dinner Promise ️

Work Meeting Interrupted

The Argument Begins ️

Leaving in Anger

Accusations Fly

The Fight Continues

Schedules and Unexpected Events ⏰

Friends Take Sides

Who’s the A**hole?

Broken Promises and Heated Arguments

In a whirlwind of emotions, our protagonist finds himself in hot water after promising to cook dinner for his girlfriend, who suffers from OCD. When work gets in the way and he can’t fulfill his promise, chaos ensues as she interrupts his work meeting, leading to a heated argument and a night spent at a hotel. The next day, accusations fly, and friends take sides, leaving everyone questioning who’s really in the wrong. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this intense situation…

Mental illness doesn’t excuse being an a**hole. NTA

Communicated change in plans due to work, girlfriend overreacted. NTA.

NTA. Girlfriend’s OCD causing unrealistic expectations, needs therapy.

Being understanding and communicative in relationships is important ❤

Partner annoyed over skipped dinner, but NTA handled well

Work crisis? NTA for not cooking. Partner should’ve understood

Lesson learned: cooking dinner can lead to chaos

NTA. Despite trying to communicate, gf’s behavior was unreasonable. Consider relationship.

NTA, work got in the way, she needs to learn compromise

Understanding and empathetic comment about mental illness and relationships.

Calling out misuse of mental illness in a disagreement. NTA.

Partner’s controlling behavior and insults are red flags. NTA

Supportive comment encourages therapy and space for growth.

NTA prioritizes work, girlfriend throws toddler tantrum. Dodged a bullet

NTA for leaving after girlfriend’s OCD affected work, reconsider moving.

Friends side with partner, but commenter questions their knowledge.

Setting boundaries with an OCD partner can be tough

Misses one thing, gets attacked. NTA, yikes indeed

Dump your gf and get new friends. NTA.

Unforeseen circumstances happen. NTA for canceling dinner plans.

Cooking mishap leads to routine meltdown, but NTA prevails

Supportive comment suggests girlfriend may be autistic, NTA verdict.

Phone addiction saves man’s job after dinner dispute

Partner’s OCD causes chaos, commenter not the a**hole.

Being understanding and offering a sweet gesture makes you NTA

NTA. You did the right thing by trying to contact her several times and gave her a heads up through text.

Tips for fixing relationship after scheduling conflict due to OCD.

NTA. Work call interrupted by girlfriend’s meltdown over dinner plans.

Supportive comment encourages therapy and self-care for mental health struggles

Think twice before committing to chaotic dinner promises

Partner’s unreasonableness shouldn’t be excused by medical condition. NTA

NTA with OCD explains importance of personal responsibility and understanding.

Don’t let OCD ruin your relationships. Be kind and understanding.

Partner’s anxiety is not an excuse to control and manipulate.

NTA. Her behavior was out of line and could have gotten you fired

Understanding OCD: A personal account and advice for partners. ❤️

Promised dinner, work emergency, NTA, interrupted meeting, no choice.

NTA. Work changes happen, but it may be time to reevaluate.

Relationship advice: Communication is key for a lasting relationship ❤

Concerned commenter questions if OP can handle chaotic partner.

OCD sufferer defends OP, advises partner to work on issues

Defending against accusations of flaking due to OCD, NTA

GF’s behavior at work is unacceptable, relationship may fail ‍♂️

Managing OCD during high stress times is important. NTA.

Girlfriend’s immaturity and OCD criticized, NTA for OP.

Mental illness doesn’t excuse being an asshat ‍♂️

Setting boundaries with a roommate can be tough . NTA handled it well.

Red flag alert! Manipulative behavior can easily turn into abuse. NTA

Partner’s phone issues cause chaos in dinner plans.

Flexibility is key in relationships. Wise advice from commenter.

Supportive comment on work chaos, hoping for relationship resolution

NTA stands up against abusive behavior from mentally ill partner

Breaking up might be the best option. NTA

Setting boundaries in relationships is important

Choosing to leave can be the best decision

NTA commenter suggests GF revisit medical team for OCD issues.

NTA. Commenter refuses to tolerate childish behavior from entitled roommate.

NTA, work got in the way, partner overreacted

Coworker with similar behavior, NTA suggests compromise and flexibility.

NTA commenter suggests therapy for girlfriend’s coping skills

Partner throws tantrum during work call, NTA suggests re-evaluating relationship.

Supportive comment for someone with OCD in a chaotic situation

Slacker or multitasker? Engaging NTA comment with a humorous tone.

NTA with a twist: Commenter doubts OCD diagnosis

Partner’s lack of understanding work stress could be dealbreaker. NTA.

Support for OP’s actions in dealing with unreasonable behavior.

Don’t let anyone prioritize dinner over your job

Trial and error leads to a subscription decision

When promising to cook dinner goes wrong

Ordering food delivery could have saved the night ‍

GF’s need for routine clashes with OP’s work, ESH. Communication needed

Sage advice for avoiding dinner disaster and keeping the peace

NTA. OCD is an explanation not an excuse.

Work meeting saved you from a spoiled, pissy partner

When OCD meets chaos: NTA, but girlfriend’s pain is understandable ‍♂️

NTA. Don’t let her emotional issues sabotage your relationship.

Ordering takeout could have helped, but her reaction was unreasonable. #NTA

Navigating a relationship with OCD can be tough, but communication helps

Teacher sympathizes with OP’s girlfriend’s illness, advises help and patience.

Communication is key! NTA for breaking dinner promise