Roommate's Pregnant Girlfriend Kicked Out: Heartless or Justified? 😲

Diply Social Team
Diply | Diply

Imagine this: you live with two roommates, and one of them asks if his struggling girlfriend can move in. You agree, only to find out she's 7 months pregnant! That's exactly what happened to our 27-year-old protagonist. The lease is under his name, and he's faced with the decision of whether to kick them out before the baby arrives. Let's dive into this dramatic story and see how it unfolds. 🍿

The Roommate Situation 🏠

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Matthew's Request 🙏

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Surprise, She's Pregnant! 🤰

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The Lease Situation 📄

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No Renewal, No Baby Drama 🚫👶

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Standing Firm on the Decision 💪

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Jay's Opinion 🤷‍♂️

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A Different Perspective 🧐

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The Ultimate Dilemma: Compassion or Boundaries? 😓

Our protagonist is in a tough spot. He agreed to let Matthew's girlfriend move in, but didn't know she was 7 months pregnant. Now, he's faced with the choice of kicking them out before the baby arrives or showing compassion and letting them stay a bit longer. Jay, the other roommate, respects the decision but thinks they should be given a few extra weeks. What do you think? Should they be allowed to stay, or is it time for them to find a new place? Let's see what people have to say about this dramatic situation... 💬

NTA: Roommate should have informed you about girlfriend's pregnancy 🤔

Dashcamkitty | Dashcamkitty

Roommate's surprise baby causes tension and lack of compassion. NTA.

StAlvis | StAlvis

Honesty is the best policy. NTA for kicking them out. 😲

crapatthethriftstore | crapatthethriftstore

Roommate lied about girlfriend's pregnancy, justified to kick out? 😐

raerae6672 | raerae6672

Sleepless nights are for parents, not roommates. NTA 😊

Gardening-Baker | Gardening-Baker

Agreed to a 4th roommate, not a newborn. NTA 😊

Mission-Cloud360 | Mission-Cloud360

Giving written notice after kicking out pregnant girlfriend. Business-like NTA.

a1exia_frogs | a1exia_frogs

Choosing compassion over judgment in tough situations 🤗

NiceButton7 | NiceButton7

Surprise baby causes tension between roommates. NTA or ESH?

whateverisnttaken22 | whateverisnttaken22

Landlord not obligated to extend lease for roommate's pregnant girlfriend. NTA 👍

Consistent-Leopard71 | Consistent-Leopard71

Roommate faces consequences for not disclosing girlfriend's pregnancy. NTA 👍

cultqueennn | cultqueennn

NTA, the roommate had 7 months to make arrangements. 😊

aquasaurex | aquasaurex

NTA for not wanting to live with a baby. ESH for lack of upfront communication. 😐

VirgilThe2nd | VirgilThe2nd

NTA commenter justifies kicking out pregnant girlfriend. 🙄

Ngwanuza | Ngwanuza

Split decision on kicking out pregnant girlfriend, but offer time 🤔

toyfangs | toyfangs

Your place, your call. Stick to it. NTA 👍

databaseincumbant | databaseincumbant

Legally removing a mother and baby is harder. Roommate pulled bait-and-switch. NTA 👍

terrapharma | terrapharma

Roommate's girlfriend pregnant, kicked out: NTA, newborn inconvenience. 😴

ddog49 | ddog49

User calls out YTA for lack of empathy towards pregnant girlfriend.

Final-Call | Final-Call

Roommate's girlfriend pregnant, YTA for kicking them out. 😢

jessielyons | jessielyons

Kicking out a pregnant girlfriend may lead to future conflicts 😕

Katy_moxie | Katy_moxie

Logical solution: baby daddy should have ended sublease and moved in.

Inevitable-Celery-62 | Inevitable-Celery-62

Curious commenter seeks more information on roommate's secret pregnancy.

ItsAllFinite | ItsAllFinite

Unsympathetic commenter condemns deceitful pregnant couple, uses profanity. 😑

queen0fgreen | queen0fgreen

NTA calls out manipulative behavior of roommate's girlfriend 😒

exhauta | exhauta

NTA commenter defends evicting pregnant girlfriend, cites personal experience.

somerrae | somerrae

No compassion for pregnant girlfriend, total a**hole move. 😱

Mufatufa | Mufatufa

Working from home with an unexpected baby? NTA for kicking out.

itssowingseasonyeah | itssowingseasonyeah

Give them a chance or be an a**hole? 🤔

Itsapseudonym | Itsapseudonym

Sharing a personal experience, commenter justifies why OP is NTA.

mavwok | mavwok

Deception is not acceptable. NTA for not wanting to accommodate.

Aggressive-Sample612 | Aggressive-Sample612

ESH: Roommate misled about pregnancy, but obligation to help briefly.

WishingAnaStar | WishingAnaStar

NTA: Commenter questions missing information in roommate situation. 🙂

LxSky90 | LxSky90

Deceptive move by the roommate, NTA for not renewing lease 🙅

friendlily | friendlily

NTA suggests extra rent for pregnant girlfriend, sparks no debate. 😊

evelbug | evelbug

Curious commenter questions living situation of pregnant girlfriend. 🤔

cakeisreallygood | cakeisreallygood

Pregnancy doesn't give extra special rights, NTA 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

Giving a month's notice is fair, they need to find elsewhere 😊

Future-Mastodon | Future-Mastodon

Roommate lied about girlfriend's pregnancy, NTA for kicking them out 😒

Kay_Elle | Kay_Elle

NTA commenter suggests lack of planning from couple's side. 👍

mollyec | mollyec

OP not the a**hole for roommate and girlfriend's lies. 😒

lady_edesia | lady_edesia

Roommate's secret pregnant girlfriend: red flag or misunderstanding? 🤔

princessgeezer1704 | princessgeezer1704

The realities of living with a baby in the house 😨

Discombobulatedslug | Discombobulatedslug

User sympathizes with pregnant girlfriend but supports poster's decision. NTA 👍

Hyponeutral | Hyponeutral

NTA gives advice on legal eviction to avoid future problems.

AnnaBanana3468 | AnnaBanana3468

NTA. Tough love for irresponsible parents-to-be 👍

whyisulikethis | whyisulikethis

NTA, but offering temporary help would have been kinder. 😊

[deleted] | [deleted]

Curious commenter questions if roommate hid pregnant girlfriend. 🤔

GleichUmDieEcke | GleichUmDieEcke

Taking responsibility for their actions, NTA kicks out pregnant girlfriend.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Choosing personal comfort over helping a pregnant couple in need. ESH 😕

littleln | littleln

Stand your ground! NTA for not being their escape plan 💪


Deceptive roommate deserves consequences for hiding girlfriend's pregnancy. NTA.

DutyValuable | DutyValuable

Roommate's pregnant girlfriend kicked out. NTA. Stay firm.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Choosing not to renew sublease due to newborn. NTA 👍

nooklingthugs | nooklingthugs

Be decisive or lose a friend and money 💸. NTA likely.

stuckinnowhereville | stuckinnowhereville

Roommate's deceitful behavior about pregnant girlfriend shocks commenter. NTA.

baby_soul | baby_soul

NTA: Commenter suggests it's easier for the couple to find a new place before the baby arrives. Agree?

traumascares | traumascares

Tricking someone into taking in a pregnant renter is crappy 😒

thatonepersoniam | thatonepersoniam

Roommate's lack of honesty justifies girlfriend's eviction. NTA 👍

Just_a_reader_ | Just_a_reader_

Roommate's pregnancy is not your responsibility. NTA 👍

kellikat7 | kellikat7

Roommate's girlfriend pregnant, kicked out. Commenter says NTA.

bmanley620 | bmanley620

Awkward encounter leads to unwanted pregnancy conflict 😳

Denbi53 | Denbi53

Finding a new place to live in six weeks? Yikes. 😱

Warm_Bath_6535 | Warm_Bath_6535

Discrimination based on familial status is illegal. YTA.

keyfile | keyfile

NTA. Roommate should have been honest about girlfriend's pregnancy. 👏

[deleted] | [deleted]

Roommate's pregnant girlfriend not your problem. NTA. 👍

austinberries | austinberries

Roommate's pregnant girlfriend kicked out - commenter says NTA 👍

24272 | 24272

NTA for not falling for emotional blackmail and setting boundaries. Seek legal help to handle the situation with Matthew, Jay, and Alyssa. 👨‍👩‍👧

Forteanforever | Forteanforever

Roommate didn't communicate about pregnant girlfriend, NTA for kicking out.

sunsetoncoral0321 | sunsetoncoral0321

Roommate's secret girlfriend's pregnancy leads to eviction. NTA.

BellaSantiago1975 | BellaSantiago1975

YTA for not being willing to work with them on moving out 🤦‍♂️

Just_here2020 | Just_here2020

Roommate's surprise fatherhood raises questions among roommates 🤔

firefightersgirl76 | firefightersgirl76

Redditor calls out OP for being heartless towards pregnant girlfriend.

Not-Not-A-Potato | Not-Not-A-Potato

Denying pregnant girlfriend's move-in request justified? NTA commenter thinks so. 🙄

Lobster-Bubbly | Lobster-Bubbly

Roommate's pregnant girlfriend needs to find a new place ASAP. NTA. 👍

eferoth | eferoth

Communication is key: NTA for not renewing sublease.

jairatraci | jairatraci

Friend lied and girlfriend isn't paying rent. NTA.

X-e-o | X-e-o

NTA: Roommate deceived you into letting his pregnant girlfriend move in 😒

brita998866 | brita998866

Having roommates with kids is tough, NTA for setting boundaries 👍

DarkySilverwing | DarkySilverwing

NTA calls out roommate's lies and lack of preparation 😎

saradil25 | saradil25

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