Husband Demands Wife Stops Speaking Her Native Language at Home 🤯

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Language barriers can be a challenge in any relationship, but what happens when your partner demands you stop speaking your native language at home? 😲 One woman found herself in the middle of a heated debate with her husband, who insisted she stop speaking Persian around their 1.5-year-old son. The little one had picked up a few words, and the husband wasn't happy about it. Let's dive into this dramatic tale and see if we can make sense of it all. 📖

Multicultural Family Background 🌏

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A Little Parrot in the House 🦜

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Speaking Persian with Family 📞

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Little One Picks Up New Words 🗣️

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Husband's Confusion Turns to Anger 😕➡️😠

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Accusations Fly 🚩

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A Misunderstanding? 🤷‍♀️

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Wife Stands Her Ground 💪

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The Argument Continues ⏰

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Wife's Refusal 🚫

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Husband Leaves and Texts 📱

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Wife Takes a Breather 🌬️

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Questioning Reasonableness 🤔

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A Battle of Words and Culture 🌍

In a whirlwind of emotions, this wife found herself defending her right to speak her native language at home. Her husband, upset that their young son had picked up a few Persian words, demanded she stop speaking it around their child. The wife, shocked and hurt, stood her ground, arguing that she's free to speak however she wants. As the argument escalated, the husband left the house and bombarded her with texts, blaming her for the entire situation. Is the husband overreacting, or is there some validity to his concerns? Let's see what the internet has to say about this cultural clash... 🌐

Bilingualism has cognitive benefits. Husband's request is unreasonable. 👍

9okm | 9okm

Speaking a native language at home is awesome! 🙌

baklavareason | baklavareason

Teach your child a second language! 🌍 NTA

MsBaseball34 | MsBaseball34

Speaking your native language at home: NTA, it's an asset 👍

ViciousBirdie | ViciousBirdie

Husband demands wife stop speaking native language at home. Commenter calls him incomprehensible and supports wife. #NTA 👍

fernAlly | fernAlly

Celebrate your heritage 🎉 Teach your son your language!

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Teaching your child your native language is your right 👍

Age_of_Asylum | Age_of_Asylum

Teaching a child another language is valuable. NTA here. 👍

HKM-1017 | HKM-1017

Standing up for her language rights against her selfish husband. 🙌

WritPositWrit | WritPositWrit

Husband demands wife stop speaking native language at home. NTA replies.

Edemamee | Edemamee

Husband demands wife stops speaking native language, wife objects. NTA.

FireteamComics | FireteamComics

Wife speaks native language at home, husband objects. NTA suggests.

Familydrama99 | Familydrama99

Husband demands wife stop speaking her native language. Commenter suggests husband is insecure and selfish. NTA.

LMH2929 | LMH2929

Bilingualism is a valuable skill. Husband needs to get over it 👍

octopus_onmyface | octopus_onmyface

Husband demands wife stop speaking native language at home; NTA responds.

wubbly-wump | wubbly-wump

Bilingualism is a gift, NTA for wanting it for your child 🎉

MandaDian | MandaDian

Being multilingual is a valuable skill. Your husband is racist. 👍

Tinkerrific | Tinkerrific

Husband demands wife stop speaking native language, NTA stands firm 👏

tailofthecrackfox | tailofthecrackfox

Overcoming racism and embracing bilingualism for a better future 🌎

Chrysania83 | Chrysania83

Consistency is key. Speak Persian if you want your child bilingual. 💪

Maddie215 | Maddie215

Being bilingual is a privilege that opens doors. NTA.

Ace-Bunny | Ace-Bunny

Teaching your child your native language is a gift 🎁

HowardProject | HowardProject

Bilingualism is a gift, husband's fragility is not 👏

NomNom83WasTaken | NomNom83WasTaken

Teaching son native language is NTA, promotes family communication 👍

Unique_smp | Unique_smp

Don't listen to your husband. Teach your son Farsi 👍

greenthrowaway75 | greenthrowaway75

Husband's xenophobia and verbal abuse towards wife's native language 🤬

OneTwoWee000 | OneTwoWee000

Bilingual parenting dilemma solved with a compromise. NTA 👍

daquo0 | daquo0

Husband demands wife stop speaking native language at home. Commenter supports wife.

Featherymorons | Featherymorons

Learning a native language is an advantage for children. NTA.

B4pangea | B4pangea

Husband demands wife stop speaking native language, NTA claps back 👏

valerian_spiel | valerian_spiel

Encouraging bilingualism for the child, and standing up against bigotry. 🌎👶

nikkiUP | nikkiUP

Husband's demand to stop speaking native language is borderline racist. NTA.

AnchoviesAnyone | AnchoviesAnyone

Celebrating cultural diversity and language in the household 👏

peanutbutter_vibez | peanutbutter_vibez

Don't let him control your language, your child's future 🌎👨‍👩‍👦

Againstallodds972 | Againstallodds972

Husband demands wife stop speaking native language at home. NTA. 🤔

lincra | lincra

Husband feels left out, bans wife's native language at home 🤯

el_grande_ricardo | el_grande_ricardo

Spouse demands wife to stop speaking native language at home. NTA.

PM_TITS_OR_DONT | PM_TITS_OR_DONT

Bilingualism is a gift, NTA for speaking native language at home 👏

Adventurous_Coat | Adventurous_Coat

Husband demands wife stop speaking native language at home. NTA responds.

Alyssa_Hargreaves | Alyssa_Hargreaves

Teaching kids native language is beneficial. NTA 👍

SnooDoughnuts7171 | SnooDoughnuts7171

Husband reveals racism after engagement, marriage, and parenthood. NTA.

Equivalent_Willow317 | Equivalent_Willow317

Stand up for your culture and language! NTA 👍

rhi-sia | rhi-sia

Spouse demands wife to stop speaking native language at home. NTA.

iHeal4Coffee | iHeal4Coffee

Bilingualism is a perk, husband's demand is unreasonable. #NTA 👍

owlracoon | owlracoon

Teaching children a second language is important. NTA. 👍

Fancy_Swing | Fancy_Swing

Teaching Farsi to husband and kids, husband demands to stop. NTA.

parisskent | parisskent

Mother defends speaking native language at home, NTA 🌎

moonlejewski | moonlejewski

Husband wants wife to stop speaking native language at home. NTA.

Kellogs08 | Kellogs08

Teaching children a native language is important. NTA.

brazentory | brazentory

Embrace diversity at home! Don't let racism divide your family.

sayaphsy | sayaphsy

Being bilingual is beneficial. Put the kid first. 👍

-ThereIsNoSpoon- | -ThereIsNoSpoon-

Encourage bilingualism, husband is controlling. NTA 👍

alphagirl22 | alphagirl22

Supportive comment suggests counseling for abusive husband's language control.

Muladach | Muladach

Teaching your son to be bilingual will be beneficial 💬

bearbear407 | bearbear407

Support for raising children bilingual, husband's behavior criticized. 👍

Unfair-Policy | Unfair-Policy

Husband feels alienated, but son learning Persian is inevitable. NTA.

Yu-sempai | Yu-sempai

Celebrate bilingualism! 🎉 Don't let him silence your culture.

juswundern | juswundern

Bilingualism is a gift, husband needs to learn Persian too 👍

bamf1701 | bamf1701

Husband demands wife stop speaking native language at home. Not cool. 😒

SOannoynkink | SOannoynkink

Embrace multiculturalism in your home, not just your spouse's culture. 🌍

icebluefrost | icebluefrost

Bilingualism isn't a bad thing for children. 🌍

capychai | capychai

Encouraging bilingualism in children is important for their cultural identity 🌍

AkraStar | AkraStar

Bilingualism is a gift, don't let anyone take it away 🌐

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Half-Korean commenter regrets not learning language, supports OP teaching son.

Jennferno | Jennferno

Defend your culture! 🌍 Your husband is being xenophobic. 😡

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Husband forbids wife from speaking native language at home. NTA

daydreamer8642 | daydreamer8642

Learning multiple languages opens more opportunities. NTA for teaching.

NegotiationSalt | NegotiationSalt

Husband demands wife stop speaking native language at home. Commenter says NTA and being bilingual is a plus 👍

perpetuallypolite | perpetuallypolite

Husband forbids wife from speaking native language at home. NTA.

LethalTeapot | LethalTeapot

Husband can't stop wife from speaking native language at home. NTA.

arisomething | arisomething

Bilingualism is important for culture, identity, and future job prospects 💬

floss147 | floss147

Husband demands wife to stop speaking native language at home. NTA.

Lilivulture | Lilivulture

NTA, husband is controlling and denying child multi-lingualism. 😑

Roughsauce | Roughsauce

Encouraging reply to language-shaming husband. 👏

princessofperky | princessofperky

Teaching children multiple languages = smart 🤓👶

meifahs_musungs | meifahs_musungs

Teaching children multiple languages is invaluable. NTA! 👍

Spootpants | Spootpants

Regret of not learning native language due to partner's racism

LaBigotona | LaBigotona

Encouraging response to NTA's bilingual parenting and child's interest.

dontclosemywindow | dontclosemywindow

Don't let anyone take away your native language! 👏

wdht | wdht

Encourage bilingualism, shut down insecurity and racism. 🌎👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

[deleted] | [deleted]

Raising a trilingual child is super beneficial in the long run 👍

lumos_22 | lumos_22

Encouraging reply to NTA comment, suggesting communication and understanding 👍

MsMeowMiix | MsMeowMiix

Bilingual kids are blessed, dad needs to appreciate it 🙌

Iloveottermemes | Iloveottermemes

Husband's language demand raises questions about racism and child development.

roman1969 | roman1969

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