Mom Introduces Boyfriend's Parents as 'Grandma and Grandpa' to Her Son 😬

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Thanksgiving is a time for family, food, and sometimes, drama. Our protagonist, a 29-year-old mom, went to her boyfriend's house for Thanksgiving dinner with her 4-year-old son. She's been with her boyfriend, Jay, for a year and a half, and he's been amazing with her son. But when she introduced Jay's parents as 'Grandma and Grandpa' to her little boy, things took a turn for the worse. 😳 Let's dive into this turkey day tale. 🦃

Meeting the Parents 🏡

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The One? 💍

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A Brief History 📚

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First Impressions 🤝

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The Introduction 🗣️

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Awkward Silence 😶

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The Aftermath 🌪️

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Cold Goodbyes ❄️

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The Argument 💥

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Not the Point 🚫

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The Fight Continues 🥊

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Sister's Input 👩‍👧

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Self-Doubt 😔

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Misreading Signals 🚦

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Apology and Break 💔

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The Fallout of a Misguided Introduction 🌩️

Our protagonist introduced her boyfriend's parents as 'Grandma and Grandpa' to her son, causing an awkward Thanksgiving dinner and a big argument with her boyfriend, Jay. Jay's parents didn't think their relationship was that serious, and our protagonist's sister agreed. After realizing her mistake, our protagonist apologized to Jay, and they decided to take a break. Now, let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🍿

Introducing boyfriend's parents as 'Grandma and Grandpa' without discussion - YTA

TheAshenDemon4 | TheAshenDemon4

Naming boyfriend's parents 'grandma and grandpa' is inappropriate. YTA.

Kris82868 | Kris82868

Introducing your boyfriend's parents as 'grandma and grandpa' 🤦‍♀️ YTA

greenseraphima | greenseraphima

YTA introduces boyfriend's parents as 'grandma and grandpa' to son 😬

TheLovelyMadamToh | TheLovelyMadamToh

Mom introduces boyfriend's parents as 'grandma and grandpa' without consent 😬

Sallymander404 | Sallymander404

Assuming titles without consent? YTA according to commenters. 🤔

SoSleepySue | SoSleepySue

User calls out OP for not discussing family titles. YTA.

petuniaplant | petuniaplant

User calls out OP for introducing boyfriend's parents as grandparents 😱

whatsmypassword73 | whatsmypassword73

Mom introduces boyfriend's parents as 'Grandma and Grandpa' to son 😬 YTA

penguin_squeak | penguin_squeak

Introducing boyfriend's parents as 'grandma and grandpa' to son - YTA

ElderberryTrick7495 | ElderberryTrick7495

User calls out mom for introducing boyfriend's parents as 'grandma and grandpa'

5footfilly | 5footfilly

Unilateral decision to introduce boyfriend's parents as grandparents is problematic. YTA.

Material-Profit5923 | Material-Profit5923

Pushing your kid onto people is insensitive and isolating. YTA 😑

Beautiful-Ad-2207 | Beautiful-Ad-2207

Naming your boyfriend's parents 'Grandma and Grandpa' without discussion? YTA 🤪

[deleted] | [deleted]

Jumping the gun? Calling them grandma and grandpa? YTA 🤷‍♀️

Illstate309 | Illstate309

Mom faces backlash for introducing boyfriend's parents as 'Grandma and Grandpa' 😑

GothPenguin | GothPenguin

User calls out mom's inappropriate behavior, demands apology and conversation.

elladee000 | elladee000

Naming strangers 'grandma and grandpa' is confusing for kids. YTA.

keesouth | keesouth

Calling boyfriend's parents 'grandma and grandpa' without discussion - YTA

travelwoes2021 | travelwoes2021

Oops! OP made a major faux pas. YTA and needs to apologize 🤷‍♀️

an0nym0uswr1ter | an0nym0uswr1ter

Harsh response to YTA comment with no replies

Minute_Patient_8841 | Minute_Patient_8841

User calls out mom for presumptuously introducing boyfriend's parents as grandparents

ladygreyowl13 | ladygreyowl13

Discussing family titles with partner is important for everyone involved 🙌

rahim0602 | rahim0602

Forcing 'Grandma' and 'Grandpa' roles on strangers? YTA and clueless 😑

ppl_n_r_neighborhood | ppl_n_r_neighborhood

Mom introduces boyfriend's parents as 'grandma and grandpa' without consent. YTA.

[deleted] | [deleted]

User calls out mom for introducing boyfriend's parents as grandparents.

just-jen57 | just-jen57

Introducing strangers as grandparents without consent? YTA indeed 😑

Chaij2606 | Chaij2606

Introducing boyfriend's parents as 'grandma and grandpa' to son: YTA

Chaoticgood790 | Chaoticgood790

Introducing boyfriend's parents as 'grandma and grandpa' to non-related child. YTA 😑

mfruitfly | mfruitfly

Don't assume titles without discussing it first 😑

Lemony-Signal | Lemony-Signal

User calls out OP for jumping to conclusions and trapping boyfriend 🤔

UnpaidIntern19 | UnpaidIntern19

User calls out OP for introducing boyfriend's parents as grandparents.

Ennah_Schemer | Ennah_Schemer

User calls out OP for disrespecting boyfriend's wishes. 🙏

Mental_BananaPie | Mental_BananaPie

Uncomfortable reader calls out OP for inappropriate introduction of grandparents.

NorthOwl8 | NorthOwl8

User calls out mom for introducing boyfriend's parents as grandparents.

jmcboom | jmcboom

User calls out OP for overstepping boundaries with boyfriend's parents 👀

Mermaidtoo | Mermaidtoo

Cringe alert! Commenter calls out OP's behavior as YTA.

Pitiful-Pension-849 | Pitiful-Pension-849

User calls out mom for introducing boyfriend's parents as 'grandma and grandpa' without discussing with her son or the boyfriend's parents. YTA.

Temporary_Analysis55 | Temporary_Analysis55

Introducing boyfriend's parents as 'grandma and grandpa' without consent. YTA.

brisemartel | brisemartel

Assuming boyfriend's parents as 'Grandma and Grandpa' was awkward. YTA 😑

Relevant-Economy-927 | Relevant-Economy-927

Introducing your partner's parents as 'grandma and grandpa'? YTA 😱

el_gilliath | el_gilliath

User calls out mom for forcing inaccurate titles on boyfriend's parents.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Mom crosses a boundary by introducing BF's parents as grandparents. YTA.

Exotic-Mango-2768 | Exotic-Mango-2768

User calls out mom for introducing boyfriend's parents as 'grandma and grandpa'

No-Personality5421 | No-Personality5421

Naming boyfriend's parents 'grandma and grandpa'? YTA, apologize now 😑

hollywuud7 | hollywuud7

Introducing boyfriend's parents as 'grandma and grandpa' is inappropriate YTA 😱

Gold-Somewhere1770 | Gold-Somewhere1770

User calls out OP for introducing boyfriend's parents as grandparents without discussing it first. YTA.

silly_vengeful_sloth | silly_vengeful_sloth

Presuming boyfriend's parents as 'Grandma and Grandpa' was inappropriate. YTA.

PetuniaGoBlue | PetuniaGoBlue

Introducing boyfriend's parents as 'grandma and grandpa' is wrong. YTA.

Alwayspuzzles | Alwayspuzzles

User thinks mom was out of line introducing boyfriend's parents as grandparents.

DesertSong-LaLa | DesertSong-LaLa

Forcing a grandparent relationship after one meeting? YTA 😑

Sodonewithidiots | Sodonewithidiots

User calls out mom for introducing boyfriend's parents as grandparents. YTA.

Zoeyoe | Zoeyoe

User calls out OP for seeking replacement grandparents. YTA.

Universe_Reddit | Universe_Reddit

Introducing boyfriend's parents as 'grandma and grandpa' = YTA 🤯

MountainLiving5673 | MountainLiving5673

User calls out mom for introducing boyfriend's parents as grandparents 😬

Dear-Living-7014 | Dear-Living-7014

User calls out OP for emotional manipulation and attachment issues 🤯

mnbvcxz1052 | mnbvcxz1052

User calls out mom for overstepping boundaries with boyfriend's parents 🔥

Ok-Educator850 | Ok-Educator850

Apologize ASAP or risk losing the relationship and becoming instant-Dad 😓

Seanacey2k | Seanacey2k

User calls out mom for forcing 'grandparent' roles on bf's parents 😬

EnaFatCat | EnaFatCat

User calls out mom for introducing boyfriend's parents as grandparents.

jmcboom | jmcboom

Mom introduces boyfriend's parents as 'Grandma and Grandpa' to son 😬

dragonfeet1 | dragonfeet1

User calls out OP for introducing boyfriend's parents as grandparents.

TheRandomestWonderer | TheRandomestWonderer

Naming strangers 'grandma and grandpa'? YTA, says comment.

achteule | achteule

Jumping the gun on family titles without consulting? YTA 🤷‍♂️

strawberrimihlk | strawberrimihlk

Slow down! YTA for introducing your boyfriend's parents as grandparents.

Fearless-Whereas-854 | Fearless-Whereas-854

Mom introduces boyfriend's parents as 'Grandma and Grandpa' to son 😬 YTA needs to apologize.

blueberrypanda1 | blueberrypanda1

Mom introduces boyfriend's parents as 'grandma and grandpa' to son 😬 YTA.

Savings_Elk9871 | Savings_Elk9871

User calls out OP for introducing boyfriend's parents as 'grandma and grandpa' without discussing with anyone. YTA.

[deleted] | [deleted]

User calls out mom for introducing boyfriend's parents as grandparents 🤨

semmama | semmama

Harsh criticism for a mom introducing boyfriend's parents as grandparents.

SlothWilliamBorzoni | SlothWilliamBorzoni

User calls out OP for introducing boyfriend's parents as 'grandma and grandpa'

[deleted] | [deleted]

User calls out mom for using her son as a manipulation tool 😱

Ch-Ch-Ch-CherryBomb0 | Ch-Ch-Ch-CherryBomb0

User calls out mom for introducing boyfriend's parents as 'grandma and grandpa'

gurlwithdragontat2 | gurlwithdragontat2

Curious about living situation, time spent, and marriage plans 🤔

beeezlouise | beeezlouise

Dating for a year, introducing BF's parents as 'grandma and grandpa' 😬

Lily_Flowrs | Lily_Flowrs

Jumping the gun on family titles - YTA strikes again 🤭

sashaopinion | sashaopinion

Boundaries crossed: Mom introduces bf's parents as 'grandma and grandpa' 🤦‍♂️

anon466544 | anon466544

Introducing your partner's parents as grandparents without their consent? YTA 😑

United-Plum1671 | United-Plum1671

Boyfriend's parents share their experience and explain why YTA.

Human_Management8541 | Human_Management8541

User calls out OP for pushing family titles too soon 🤨

RedhotGuard08 | RedhotGuard08

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