Sister Expects College Student to Drop Everything for Her Baby 😲

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Imagine being a college student, trying to balance school and work during a pandemic, only to have your sister expect you to drop everything to take care of her baby. That's exactly what happened to one young woman who recently moved back in with her mom. As she tries to get her life back on track, her pregnant sister drops a bombshell, expecting her to become a full-time babysitter. Let's dive into this family drama and see how it all unfolds. 😱

The Unexpected Pregnancy 🤰

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College Student's Struggles 😓

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Renovations and Demands 🏠

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Sister's Expectations 😠

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Accusations of Selfishness 😤

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Financial Struggles 💸

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Sister's Suggestion 😒

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Update: Job Hunt 📝

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Interviews Lined Up 🎉

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Future Plans 🌟

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Standing Her Ground 💪

In the midst of this family drama, our college student remains firm on her plans to continue her education and work towards her goals. Despite her sister's accusations of selfishness, she's determined to find a balance between helping her family and pursuing her dreams. With the support of her granddad, she's making progress in her job hunt and is hopeful to move out soon. But what do people think about this sticky situation? Let's check out some top responses... 🍿

Don't sacrifice your life for someone else's baby 😑

Oopmybro | Oopmybro

NTA. Set boundaries with your sister and prioritize your education 📚

TirNannyOgg | TirNannyOgg

NTA. Commenter questions baby's father and expenses, suggests independence. 👍

dodgerecharger | dodgerecharger

NTA for not sacrificing your job to watch her baby 😲

lmholot1981 | lmholot1981

NTA suggests child care assistance program for entitled sister 😏

lisamistisa | lisamistisa

Prioritizing education over sister's baby doesn't make you an a**hole 👍

smilebreak | smilebreak

No obligation to drop everything for her baby. NTA 👍

Aggravating-Pin-8845 | Aggravating-Pin-8845

NTA stands firm against sister's lack of planning 🙌

QueenSupreme21 | QueenSupreme21

Sister expects too much, commenter advises to get out ASAP 😲

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College student refuses to drop school for sister's baby 👶

StilltheoneNY | StilltheoneNY

Sibling expects student to prioritize her baby over education 🤨

DoctorNovakaine | DoctorNovakaine

Supportive comment encourages OP to prioritize education and career goals. 👏

Jollydancer | Jollydancer

Sister expects free babysitting, clever solution proposed by commenter 😎

disneysslythprincess | disneysslythprincess

Sister demands help with baby, commenter suggests legal options. NTA 👍

JCWa50 | JCWa50

Valid point. Where is the dad in all this? 🤔

Ichauch13 | Ichauch13

Sister accuses college student of being selfish for living life 😑

moontiara16 | moontiara16

No obligation to put life on hold for sister's demands 🙌

spindacinda | spindacinda

NTA stands up for boundaries with a baby-crazy sister 👏

Chumbedum | Chumbedum

Sibling boundaries and safe sex advice in one comment 😂

HazelPhase | HazelPhase

Choosing to have a baby doesn't mean others must cater.

DecodingSerenity | DecodingSerenity

Being forced to be a third parent? NTA! 👏

Countessnuffy | Countessnuffy

NTA. 'My body, my choice' also means 'my consequences' 🙌

EngineeringOwn2299 | EngineeringOwn2299

Sister wants college student to be live-in babysitter, NTA

OneTwoWee000 | OneTwoWee000

Don't let your sister's poor choices ruin your future 👍

prettyboots | prettyboots

Don't let your sister's poor planning become your problem 🙌

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Don't sacrifice your future for your sister's convenience. #NTA 🙌

Renbarre | Renbarre

Don't let your sister's immaturity ruin your future plans 💪

AdDramatic522 | AdDramatic522

Setting boundaries with family is important for your own wellbeing 👍

TheUtopianCat | TheUtopianCat

Sister expects college student to babysit for free 😱

Nobody_Nearby | Nobody_Nearby

Having a baby is your responsibility, not anyone else's. 🙏

kaylieasf | kaylieasf

NTA stands up for herself and refuses to be a babysitter 👏

BadCorvid | BadCorvid

User calls out sister for expecting too much. NTA.

GrouchyYoung | GrouchyYoung

Set boundaries or move out to avoid being stuck with baby 😕

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Don't sacrifice your education for your sister's unplanned baby 😲

ninjataco35 | ninjataco35

Don't let her guilt-trip you into sacrificing your future 👏

Scrabulon | Scrabulon

No sympathy for entitled sister expecting free childcare 😒

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Setting boundaries with family over childcare responsibilities. 🙌

CoopssLDN | CoopssLDN

College student refuses to drop out for sister's baby, NTA 😎

fannubal | fannubal

Don't change your life around to adjust to someone else's 👍

Pastel-Painter | Pastel-Painter

Prioritize school and limit time at home to avoid conflict 📚

RedBlow22 | RedBlow22

Sister expects too much from college student. Not your problem. 🙄

jeepy85 | jeepy85

Suggests community college and grants for sister's financial struggles 👍

theTeach78 | theTeach78

OP's sister expects them to be a free babysitter. NTA.

pekoe-G | pekoe-G

Education over babysitting. NTA for prioritizing your future 👏

fallenangel17xX | fallenangel17xX

NTA. Don't sacrifice your future for your sister's poor planning 👍

Berrysama32 | Berrysama32

NTA for not dropping everything for sister's baby. Where's father?

Laramila | Laramila

Supportive response to sister's unreasonable request. 🤝

BotherBeagle | BotherBeagle

Sister expects too much from college student. NTA for prioritizing.

holisarcasm | holisarcasm

Don't have a kid if you can't take care of them 😱

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User suggests adoption/abortion, not sister's responsibility 🙅

manimopo | manimopo

Don't let them saddle you with childcare 👶💼 NTA

Unhappysong-6653 | Unhappysong-6653

Set boundaries with sister and let father take responsibility. NTA 👍

tphatmcgee | tphatmcgee

NTA for not dropping everything for sister's baby. Where's father?

mowgli0423 | mowgli0423

Don't let anyone guilt you into sacrificing your future 👏

KerrieJune | KerrieJune

No baby duty for you! NTA, sis needs to step up 😎

valerian_spiel | valerian_spiel

NTA. OP's sister expects too much and needs a reality check 😲

Avebury1 | Avebury1

NTA commenter advises to run from sister's entitled behavior 😲

Neither_March4000 | Neither_March4000

Don't let your sister guilt-trip you into taking care of her baby. NTA 👏

alaynamul | alaynamul

NTA: Blunt comment on parenting in half-assed environments 😲

metallicafan06 | metallicafan06

Encouraging response to NTA comment, advising to prioritize own life 👍

lostmycookie90 | lostmycookie90

College student not responsible for sister's baby. NTA 👍

iprobablyneedcoffeee | iprobablyneedcoffeee

Single mom suggests state help for entitled sister's childcare demands 👏

Miiesha | Miiesha

Father needs to step up and pay child support. NTA.

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Sister expects college student to drop everything for her baby 😲. Commenter says it's not her responsibility. 👍

Scrounger888 | Scrounger888

Refusing to babysit, NTA shuts down entitled sister and mom 🙌

TypicalManagement680 | TypicalManagement680

NTA. Commenter suggests better sex education and contraceptive access.

Amazingroo1973 | Amazingroo1973

Sister wants college student to drop everything for her baby. NTA suggests short training programs and apprenticeships. 🙂

FairyFartDaydreams | FairyFartDaydreams

Set boundaries and run. Don't let anyone take advantage. 🙌

endearinglysarcastic | endearinglysarcastic

Choosing a baby doesn't mean sister can force responsibility. NTA 👍

bibbiddybobbidyboo | bibbiddybobbidyboo

Setting boundaries with family about childcare. 👍

Doris_Useless | Doris_Useless

Sister expects student to drop college for her baby. NTA sets her straight.

sweetjacket | sweetjacket

NTA. It's not your responsibility to take care of her baby 😒

Chaarleymarie | Chaarleymarie

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