Mom Tells Son's Boyfriend He's Not Family Yet 😲🤯

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We all know that family gatherings can be a breeding ground for drama, especially when it comes to relationships. One mom found herself in hot water after making a controversial statement at Thanksgiving dinner. She wanted the best for her five sons, including marriage and success, but when her son brought his new boyfriend to the family feast, she couldn't help but share her opinion. 🙅‍♀️🌈 Let's dive into this juicy story!

A Mother's High Hopes 🌟

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LGBT Sons and Relationships 🏳️‍🌈

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The Ex-Boyfriend: A Perfect Match? 💔

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Mom's Concerns About the New Boyfriend 😕

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A Clash of Personalities 🤨

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A Mother's Intuition? 🤔

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An Offer of Help Rejected ❌

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Mom Drops the Bombshell 💣

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Son's Reaction to Mom's Statement 😠

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A Question of Family Ties 🤷‍♀️

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A Thanksgiving Dinner to Remember 🦃🤦‍♀️

This mom's Thanksgiving dinner turned into a dramatic affair when she told her son's boyfriend that he wasn't part of the family yet because they weren't married. Despite her concerns about their compatibility and the boyfriend's behavior, her son was understandably upset by her statement. Was she just being logical, or did she cross a line? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🌐💭

User calls out classism and appearance-based judgement. 🔥

necromandie | necromandie

User calls out mom's prejudices and classism towards son's boyfriend 🔥

20sidedhumorist | 20sidedhumorist

Questioning the motive behind the mother's disapproval 🤔

fakemonalisa | fakemonalisa

Mom faces backlash for telling son's boyfriend he's not compatible 😱

redditor191389 | redditor191389

Mother's rude behavior towards son's boyfriend is condemned. 👍

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Prioritizing observables over happiness and love makes YTA 😠

Homer_04_13 | Homer_04_13

Mom rejects son's boyfriend for no reason, commenter calls out prejudice.

Early_Shallot_4759 | Early_Shallot_4759

Judgmental mom refuses help and judges son's boyfriend unfairly 😒

iAmFabled | iAmFabled

Did the son's ex count as family? Commenter wants to know 🤔

[deleted] | [deleted]

Middle-aged man can make his own decisions. Apologize and reassess.

LeeLooPoopy | LeeLooPoopy

User calls out mom's outdated view on family and relationships 👏

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Being hostile to your child's partner is very tacky 😒

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Mother's disapproval of son's boyfriend is selfish and unfair. YTA. 😡

ijustwanttoaskaq123 | ijustwanttoaskaq123

Marriage doesn't define family. YTA for not accepting him.

LawlipopLa | LawlipopLa

Mom's disapproval of son's boyfriend makes marriage irrelevant 🙄

HappiestApple | HappiestApple

User calls out rudeness and hypocrisy of commenter. 👏

yourlittlebirdie | yourlittlebirdie

A scathing reply to a judgmental mom's comment about her son's boyfriend 🔫

MelodyRaine | MelodyRaine

A blunt YTA comment predicts a grandkid but lost son.

ndcollector | ndcollector

User calls out mom's negativity and possible jealousy towards son's boyfriend.

PotentialityKnocks | PotentialityKnocks

Old person yells at cloud about son's boyfriend's style. 🌪

H_E_Pennypacker | H_E_Pennypacker

User calls out OP for failing the 'true, necessary, kind' test. YTA.

Ok_Cry_1741 | Ok_Cry_1741

Mother's classist behavior towards son's boyfriend condemned by commenter.

No-Policy-4095 | No-Policy-4095

Let your son be happy with who he chooses. YTA 😠

brokenoasis | brokenoasis

Mom gets called out for judging son's boyfriend's job and appearance 🔮

nesashy | nesashy

User calls out mom for being biased and spiteful. YTA 🤯

zerok_nyc | zerok_nyc

User calls out classism in a comment, receives no replies.

iwanttoquitposting | iwanttoquitposting

YTA comment: Calling out hurtful behavior with empathy 👍

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Don't be a classist a**hole, let your son be happy 😒

Spare-Article-396 | Spare-Article-396

Mom faces backlash for controlling son's dating life 😠

Moon-Queen95 | Moon-Queen95

Mom's logic questioned, YTA for not accepting son's happiness 😕

Able-Calendar7508 | Able-Calendar7508

User calls out mom's unfair treatment of son's boyfriend. 👏

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Let your son be happy 👍. Don't be an interfering parent 🙄.

ToastylilToast | ToastylilToast

Mother's logic questioned, happiness of son overlooked. YTA 🤯

Lkzn | Lkzn

User calls out mom for being controlling and judgmental. 👏

Pennsatucky2017 | Pennsatucky2017

Be kind and get some manners, YTA. 🙏

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Don't let personal beliefs affect your son's relationship 👍

LCadaval | LCadaval

OP's illogical behavior towards son's boyfriend, YTA 🤯

RudytheSquirrel | RudytheSquirrel

Mom faces backlash for excluding son's BF from family. YTA 🤯

Ancient-Transition-4 | Ancient-Transition-4

Mom gets called out for being classist and controlling 🔥

athynz | athynz

Fiery comment calls out parent's hypocrisy with profanity.

Heilbroner | Heilbroner

User calls out prejudice towards son's boyfriend. 🔥

Puzzleheaded-Cut688 | Puzzleheaded-Cut688

Mom faces backlash for not considering son's boyfriend family 😒

Eliza_Kane | Eliza_Kane

Defining family is subjective, but being inclusive is important 🙌

AlexEvenstar | AlexEvenstar

Engaging with a YTA comment about a controlling parent.

pscotto | pscotto

Double standards and classism make you YTA 👎

Smoly-Feetlong | Smoly-Feetlong

Mom's disapproval of son's boyfriend leads to YTA judgement.

Misshell44 | Misshell44

User calls out mother's double standards and lack of support. 🔥

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Mom's passive-aggressive behavior towards son's boyfriend is unacceptable 😒

rdickert | rdickert

NTA for saying he's not family, but AH for everything else 🤯

siberianphoenix | siberianphoenix

Lawyer boyfriend approved, but not average guy? Classism. YTA 😠

throwaway77177274 | throwaway77177274

User calls out mom's archaic thinking and advises to apologize.

Scarlett_-Rose | Scarlett_-Rose

Partner of 7 years not family, but son's boyfriend isn't? 🤔

GreatScotRace | GreatScotRace

User finds humor in the way the mother worded her question 😂

MoonLover318 | MoonLover318

Red flags raised as commenter questions OP's negative portrayal of boyfriend 😳

Xanaxhehehe | Xanaxhehehe

A comment defends age gap relationships and criticizes classism.

IFeelMoiGerbil | IFeelMoiGerbil

User calls out mom's outdated views on family and relationships 👏

tinabelcher182 | tinabelcher182

User calls out mom's behavior and advises to move on. 👍

sarahlampi | sarahlampi

User calls out mother for being classist and petty 🔥

SpaceCrazyArtist | SpaceCrazyArtist

Accepting your child's partner is important, YTA for not trying. 😒

Braixie | Braixie

A comment calling out a mom for not respecting her son's choices.

bubbsnana | bubbsnana

Insulting and judging son's boyfriend's financial status. YTA 100% 👎

PrestachioTree | PrestachioTree

Mom faces backlash for rejecting son's boyfriend. YTA indeed 😡

athomefarfromhome | athomefarfromhome

User calls out commenter for classism and lack of kindness 🔥

Legitimate_Arm_8094 | Legitimate_Arm_8094

Fiery comment calls out classism and bigotry in mom's behavior. 🔥

UnorthodoxJew27 | UnorthodoxJew27

Boyfriend's family accepted commenter, mom should too. 👍

l8millenial | l8millenial

Mom's classism and dislike for son's boyfriend criticized. YTA.

kt99_ | kt99_

Judging the boyfriend too harshly? NTA but give him time 🙂

Djhinnwe | Djhinnwe

User calls out YTA for hating son's boyfriend for wrong reasons 😱

prosperosniece | prosperosniece

User mocks mom's disdain for son's boyfriend's 'normal' job. YTA.

UnicornCackle | UnicornCackle

OP is called out for being classist and biased towards son's boyfriend 😬

JCWa50 | JCWa50

Let them decide. YTA for not accepting your son's partner 🙄

kaiti714 | kaiti714

Mom's preconceived notions cause tension with son's boyfriend. YTA.

Caranath128 | Caranath128

Mom's rudeness towards son's boyfriend could damage their relationship. YTA.

CarelessCow2599 | CarelessCow2599

YTA for being rude to your son's boyfriend 😠

raspberry77 | raspberry77

Mom disapproves of son's boyfriend for wrong reasons. Son calls out.

No-Locksmith-8590 | No-Locksmith-8590

User calls out OP for being classist and possibly racist 🤯

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Sassy comment shuts down mom's illogical reasoning 😎

Linzk425 | Linzk425

Defending son's relationship, criticizing mom's behavior. 🤔

pscotto | pscotto

User calls out mom's behavior, defends son's boyfriend. 👏

Desert_Sea_4998 | Desert_Sea_4998

User calls out mom's behavior and lack of class. 👏

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Mom dislikes son's BF for classist reasons. YTA, not BF.

Independent_Sea_836 | Independent_Sea_836

Son's boyfriend is not family yet, but mom can't decide.

Thriss13 | Thriss13

Defending the OP's NTA stance, acknowledging classist behavior. 👍

The_Krudler | The_Krudler

User calls out mom's hypocrisy and classism towards son's boyfriend. 😱

cancergirl-peanut65 | cancergirl-peanut65

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