Man Tells His GF to Stop Competing with His Late Father's Cooking Skills 😳👻

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We all know that food can bring people together, but what happens when it starts driving them apart? One man found himself in a sticky situation when his girlfriend began to obsessively compete with his late father's cooking skills. As the tension builds, he finally confronts her about it, but will his words only make things worse? 🤔🍽️

A Father's Cooking Legacy 🍽️

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Family Tradition 🥘

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Girlfriend Joins the Tradition 🍲

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The Competition Begins 🏁

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Searching for Answers 🧐

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The Ultimate Question ❓

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The Big Reveal 🕵️‍♂️

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Confrontation Time ⚔️

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The Ghost Competition 🍽️👻

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Appreciation and Reality Check 🙏

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Icy Aftermath ❄️

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Extra Information 📝

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No Comparisons Allowed 🚫

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Family Time and Cooking 🍳

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Cooking at Mom's House 🏠

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Visiting and Eating at Their Place 🍽️

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Talking It Out 💬

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Can't Beat the Ghost of Cooking Past 👻🍽️

In an emotional rollercoaster, our protagonist finds himself in a culinary conflict with his girlfriend who's trying to out-cook his late father's dishes. Despite her incredible skills, she's never satisfied with his compliments, leaving him confused. It all comes to a head when she asks the ultimate question: is her cooking better than his dad's? He confronts her about the ghostly competition, but this only leads to an icy aftermath. Will they be able to clear the air and move on, or will this culinary clash leave a bitter taste in their relationship? 😬🍴

Partner's demand to be held higher than dead loved one is concerning 😬

Irish_Whiskey | Irish_Whiskey

GF competing with deceased father's cooking skills - immature behavior. #NTA

Spoopyowo | Spoopyowo

NTA handled the situation gracefully, but is GF narcissistic overall? 🤔

ImissBagels | ImissBagels

GF's cooking competition with dead father is insensitive. NTA.

mooghertdoobert | mooghertdoobert

NTA. GF trying to replace memory of dead father is psychotic 🤯

ZealousidealNotice90 | ZealousidealNotice90

Delicacy vs Memories: NTA but try to understand her perspective 🤔

winewitheverything_ | winewitheverything_

GF fishing for compliments, kicks him out. NTA wins.

p1mentvert | p1mentvert

NTA. Competing against a dead father's cooking is psycho 😳👻

k1p1coder | k1p1coder

NTA kindly responds to GF's cooking competition, seeks understanding.

ceciliabee | ceciliabee

Setting boundaries with late father's cooking skills. NTA wins.

apearlmae | apearlmae

Partner's insecurity about cooking skills may harm relationship. NTA.

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NTA comment suggests leaving GF for disrespecting late father's memory.

bunnakay | bunnakay

Different types of love, no need to compete. NTA.

NatashOverWorld | NatashOverWorld

Encouraging response to NTA comment with empathetic tone. 👍

intripletime | intripletime

Cooking skills compared to deceased father, odd and invalid expectation. 🤔

Fun_Woodpecker7095 | Fun_Woodpecker7095

Don't erase memories of a loved one. NTA.

cryinoverwangxian | cryinoverwangxian

NTA. GF may feel inferior to late father's cooking skills 😳

3spoopy_5me | 3spoopy_5me

NTA for setting boundaries with GF's inappropriate question.

Reply_or_Not | Reply_or_Not

Cooking can never replace memories. NTA's SO should understand.

Stellaaahhhh | Stellaaahhhh

NTA commenter supports OP and throws some shade at ex-girlfriend.

Bozobozo111 | Bozobozo111

Handling competition with a dead person? NTA wins!

stonerd808 | stonerd808

Respecting late father's memory vs girlfriend's disrespect. NTA wins 👍

AlienBeingMe | AlienBeingMe

Jar of Prego beats GF's cooking. Counseling recommended 🤷🏻‍♂️

ThotsforTaterTots | ThotsforTaterTots

Navigating grief in a relationship can be difficult. NTA.

BeaconToTheAngels | BeaconToTheAngels

NTA receives praise for emotionally mature response to girlfriend's insecurity.

trustyminotaur | trustyminotaur

GF can't compete with late father's cooking. NTA for OP.

HellaShelle | HellaShelle

Food is good, but not because of who made it 🍴

potatorevolver | potatorevolver

NTA comment calls out toxic behavior in relationship 😳

SteveJones313 | SteveJones313

GF's behavior is odd, NTA for telling her to stop. 😳

marajade423 | marajade423

GF's cooking competition with deceased father is insensitive, NTA.

a-_rose | a-_rose

Encourage redirecting need to prove herself towards something new and experimenting.

GojuSuzi | GojuSuzi

User suggests breaking up with girlfriend over cooking competition 😳

IndependentBid1854 | IndependentBid1854

NTA. Girlfriend wants attention, suggest she make her own dishes 😊

earlysong | earlysong

User suggests OP may have unknowingly contributed to GF's insecurities.

timetodienow2013 | timetodienow2013

Respectful response to GF's cooking competition, but not well-received 😢

LittleMxLemon | LittleMxLemon

Unreasonable GF puts him in an unwinnable position. NTA 👍

pessimistfalife | pessimistfalife

Jealousy over deceased father's cooking is a red flag. Break up.

BooksAndStarsLover | BooksAndStarsLover

NTA, but reconsider relationship. It was his dad 😳

No_Lifeguard7215 | No_Lifeguard7215

Deceased girlfriend? Oh, it's just his dad. Still weird though. 😕

SnooRabbits5620 | SnooRabbits5620

User empathizes with OP, suggests giving GF a chance to explain.

sansansa56 | sansansa56

Grandma's cooking always wins, even against Gordon Ramsay 😍

windexfresh | windexfresh

Cooking competition with deceased mother-in-law? Girlfriend is psychotic. NTA

KK_320 | KK_320

Encourage her to continue the tradition, but let her know it isn't her job to replace your dad 🙏

12BeachBabe34 | 12BeachBabe34

Cooking comparisons with late loved ones are a recipe for disaster 🤪

Many-Brilliant-8243 | Many-Brilliant-8243

GF's insecurity about late father's cooking skills. NTA handled well.

solitarybydesign | solitarybydesign

Insecure GF competes with late father's cooking skills. NTA. Talk.

PMQ14 | PMQ14

NTA. GF's behavior is insensitive and disrespectful towards late father.

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Encouraging response to NTA's request to stop unnecessary competition 👍

Daughter_of_Dusk | Daughter_of_Dusk

NTA, competing with deceased father's cooking is a red flag 🚨

HopefulSweet5163 | HopefulSweet5163

NTA. It's inappropriate for her to compete with your deceased father's cooking skills. 😳

non-creativ3 | non-creativ3

GF competing with deceased father's cooking skills 🤔, advice on communication.

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NTA, gracefully handled. GF should cook to honor, not replace.

Littlelady0410 | Littlelady0410

NTA comment suggests digging deeper and self-love before ending things.

fordse2002 | fordse2002

Encouraging response to partner's insecurity about cooking skills 😊

atkhan007 | atkhan007

User warns OP about potential future issues with girlfriend's behavior.

Bakecrazy | Bakecrazy

Cooking nostalgia wins over competition in taste. 🍲

Educational_Race5679 | Educational_Race5679

Foodie feud: Commenter chooses dad's cooking over girlfriend's. NTA.

RoseDeadInside | RoseDeadInside

Girlfriend's obsession with one-upping dead man is toxic 😳

DamnIGottaJustSay | DamnIGottaJustSay

Partner competing with memories of father's cooking. NTA response.

Someday_wonderful | Someday_wonderful

Condolences and NTA - Weird flex, but okay.

Immediate_Park_3658 | Immediate_Park_3658

Encouraging OP to help GF develop her own cooking skills 👩🏻‍🍳 instead of competing with his late father's 👻

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Supportive comment calling out girlfriend's immaturity and insecurity.

Scar-Lux94 | Scar-Lux94

Food is more than just taste, it's love and skill 🥰

Pand0ra30_ | Pand0ra30_

GF's cooking competition with deceased father is disrespectful. NTA.

blucougar57 | blucougar57

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