😱 Woman's BF Ditches Her for Couples Retreat! 🌹

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Picture this: you're invited to a couples retreat with your partner, but can't find a babysitter for your kids. You'd expect your partner to stay back with you, right? Well, not in this case! Our protagonist, a 29-year-old woman, found herself in this exact situation. Her boyfriend, however, decided to go on the retreat without her, leaving her feeling hurt and betrayed. 😢💔 Let's dive into the story and see what went down.

The Couples Retreat Invitation 💌

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The Romantic Getaway 🌹

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Babysitter Hunt Begins 🕵️‍♀️

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No Help from Family 😔

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Boyfriend's Lack of Effort 😠

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The Unexpected Departure 🛄

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Confrontation Time ⏰

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The Shocking Response 😲

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The Heartbreaking Departure 💔

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Her Response 📱

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The Argument Continues 😤

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His Accusation 🤯

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The Ultimate Betrayal? 🤔

So, our protagonist is left feeling abandoned and hurt after her boyfriend decides to go on a couples retreat without her, simply because she couldn't find a babysitter for her kids. To make matters worse, he accuses her of being overdramatic when she confronts him about his lack of effort in helping her find a sitter. 😡💔 Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation...

Partner ditches woman for retreat, she's NTA. Lack of communication.

brimberly | brimberly

NTA commenter advises woman to dump selfish and deluded boyfriend 👍

LittleWinn | LittleWinn

Woman expects BF to arrange childcare for her kids, ESH.

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🚩 Partner goes on couples retreat without you? 🤔

Cat_2025 | Cat_2025

Poor communication led to a messy situation for everyone involved 😕

WanderingWedding | WanderingWedding

Relationship advice: Soft YTA comment suggests rethinking the relationship.

LeaguePillowFighter | LeaguePillowFighter

BF ditches GF for couples retreat, commenters support her (NTA)

alongstrangesomethin | alongstrangesomethin

User thinks OP is the a**hole for expecting too much.

RRiverRRising | RRiverRRising

BF not responsible for sitter, but reacted poorly. ESH 😑

shesavillain | shesavillain

🤔 Commenter calls out entitlement and lack of context in post.

niteray | niteray

Does her boyfriend avoid asking his family for help? 🤔

wildkat4 | wildkat4

User questions OP's labeling of grandmother as 'deadbeat' 👀

BaoziCheeks | BaoziCheeks

Perception vs. reality in defining family 👨‍👩‍👧

dane_crane | dane_crane

Entitled OP gets called out for expecting too much. 💁‍♀️

ThrowRAsadfriend5 | ThrowRAsadfriend5

Both sides have valid points, but communication is key. 🤝

sumoraiden | sumoraiden

Woman's boyfriend arranges childcare for kids that aren't his. ESH.

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Couples retreats are for couples, not trios. NTA.

EmmalouEsq | EmmalouEsq

Sympathetic commenter suggests the possibility of a third wheel. 🤔

HeartpineFloors | HeartpineFloors

BF's behavior towards her kids may have led to breakup. ESH 🤷‍♀️

teskeboje | teskeboje

Pre-paid couples retreat causes conflict. NAH/YTA judgement, luxury perks 🤑

Soundless_Pr | Soundless_Pr

🤣 Hilarious response to BF ditching for couples retreat alone!

juniperberry52 | juniperberry52

Entitled OP gets called out for expecting too much. 💁‍♀️

ThrowRAsadfriend5 | ThrowRAsadfriend5

Partner unwilling to take responsibility for shared commitment. 👍

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Partner ditches woman for retreat, both at fault. 🤷‍♀️

PrivateNoLlamaDrama | PrivateNoLlamaDrama

Let him go and have fun without you. YTA.

themediumchunk | themediumchunk

Defending the BF's couples retreat, calm down people ☺

dogmom12589 | dogmom12589

Partner values alone time over family, red flag alert! 🚨

mdhewitt1978 | mdhewitt1978

Is it a red flag if your partner doesn't accept your kids? 🤔

flxwrx | flxwrx

Supportive comment acknowledges passive aggression, encourages resolution. 👍

laurakershaw | laurakershaw

🤔 Passive-aggressive behavior in relationships, time to move on?

JeepNaked | JeepNaked

Communication is key! 🗣️ Speak up and clarify assumptions. NTA.

ProudBoomer | ProudBoomer

Don't break up over every silly statement, YTA but not AH.

dammahomelihpodep | dammahomelihpodep

Parenting responsibility debate with no clear verdict 🤔

w0mba7 | w0mba7

User calls out OP for being the a**hole, no replies.

noleano | noleano

BF ditches GF for couples retreat, leaves her to find sitter. NTA

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NTA's BF goes on couples retreat without telling her 🙄

Poplett | Poplett

Is it okay to go on a couples retreat alone? 🤔

towerofcheeeeza | towerofcheeeeza

Controversial comment calls out OP for being the a**hole.

GreekACA25 | GreekACA25

ESH, he's being petty with FOMO pics, both childish.

requiemforpotential | requiemforpotential

🚩 Red flag alert: BF ditches family for couples retreat.

HambdenRose | HambdenRose

Boyfriend prioritizes bros over girlfriend, may regret it later. 😐

canadiangirl007 | canadiangirl007

User suspects OP left out details, calls YTA. 🤔

nateatenate | nateatenate

Retreat refundable? Commenter needs more info before judging OP.

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Woman cancels couples retreat, expects BF to cancel too. YTA.


BF's lack of communication and insensitive behavior leads to ESH judgement

cerskor | cerskor

Moving in with partner with kids means taking responsibility. 👨🏻‍👦🏻

Viener-Schnitzel | Viener-Schnitzel

User suspects BF resents her kids, not cheating. 🤔

dwinnnnn | dwinnnnn

Partner ditches woman for retreat, commenter shares MIL struggles. NTA 👍

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User calls out OP for being TA in couples retreat argument

chihuahuaDeChapinha | chihuahuaDeChapinha

🤔 Is the boyfriend trying to provoke a breakup? 🤔

ninaa1 | ninaa1

Curious about payment and recurring issue. No replies yet.

san_souci | san_souci

Expecting BF to find childcare is ESH. He's petty, too. 😑

jessieo387 | jessieo387

Partner feels excluded due to unclear role with kids. ESH.

Bahamut_Neo | Bahamut_Neo

Partner not an a**hole for wanting time with friends without SO.

losttraveler95 | losttraveler95

Concerned commenter asks for more background information about the situation.

redditlurker100 | redditlurker100

Partner prioritizes couples retreat over family, blames her for kids. NTA

Arbiterofmorals | Arbiterofmorals

User calls out OP for being TA for not finding a babysitter 👶

xTheatreTechie | xTheatreTechie

BF gives 1 week notice for couples retreat, blames GF for sitter. 😒

sweariemother | sweariemother

💬 Lack of communication and effort led to BF's retreat ditch.

surprise_b1tch | surprise_b1tch

Harsh truth about the future of a 4-year relationship 😞

angsumnes | angsumnes

User calls out OP for passive-aggressive behavior and sabotaging trip 💩

HarbingerDread | HarbingerDread

User calls out OP for being a leech. Yikes! 🤯

rockhoundinaround | rockhoundinaround

Woman blamed for not pulling her weight on couples retreat. YTA. 👎

brbrbrbr08 | brbrbrbr08

🤔 Suspicious circumstances surrounding boyfriend's sudden couples retreat plans.

CrazyinLull | CrazyinLull

Partner goes on couples retreat without you, sends pics. NTA.

Urgash54 | Urgash54

Don't jump to conclusions! Let your partner enjoy his trip! 😎

koleethan | koleethan

Partner may be checking out due to parenting stress. Talk needed.

BooRoWo | BooRoWo

BF goes alone to couples' retreat, childcare not coordinated. ESH.

motie | motie

Communication breakdown leads to selfish behavior. Take responsibility for kids.

succulent_baby | succulent_baby

ESH. Partner prioritized friends, but communication and boundaries needed for resolution.

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Be responsible and considerate when making plans with others. 👍

aoul1 | aoul1

Communication breakdown leads to ESH judgement. 😑

08PetitSkye09 | 08PetitSkye09

🤔 Commenter questions the validity of the story.

Mutiny37 | Mutiny37

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