🌈💔 Crushed by a Crush: Friendship on the Line

Diply Social Team
Diply | Diply

We've all had that one friend who can't seem to get over their crush, but what happens when that crush is on you? Our protagonist (21 f), an openly gay woman, has found herself in a sticky situation with her bisexual friend, S (19 f). After a series of events, S's infatuation with our protagonist has reached an all-time high, leading to a confrontation that may cost them their friendship. 😬🌈

High School Crush

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The Breakup and the Return

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Hangouts or Dates?

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The Truth Comes Out

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Blocked and Shocked

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Confronting S

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Accusations and Ultimatums

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Take Down the Posts

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S's Reaction

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Sisterly Advice

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Update: Contacting Friends

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Understanding Mutual Friends

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Ending the Friendship

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Realization

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Ex-Girlfriend Pronouns

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Ex's Pronoun Change

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Crush Catastrophe: Friendship in Jeopardy

Our protagonist's friendship with S has been put to the test after discovering S's secret finsta account, where she portrayed them as a couple. 😳 After confronting her, S broke down and accused our protagonist of leading her on. Tired of the drama, our protagonist gave S an ultimatum: get over her infatuation or their friendship is over. Now, with friends taking sides and emotions running high, our protagonist wonders if she's in the wrong. 🤔💔 Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation...

👍 Standing up for yourself against creepy behavior. #NTA

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Don't blame your feelings for being a creep 🙄

caffeine-and-emotion | caffeine-and-emotion

Friendship over after creepy move. NTA 👍

BumbleBri7 | BumbleBri7

NTA. Friend tried to manipulate and gaslight, distance yourself immediately. 👍

TogarSucks | TogarSucks

Exposing a fake relationship: NTA for calling out the lies 👏

CaduceusClaymation | CaduceusClaymation

Standing up to a creepy friend, but losing others' support 💔

UGHlostboy | UGHlostboy

NTA. Friend faked a relationship, blew up when rejected. Cut ties.

SquirrelGirlVA | SquirrelGirlVA

👍 Standing up for oneself against a delusional friend. Good luck!

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NTA. Friend crossed the line by posting pictures as a couple.

Blanket_Club | Blanket_Club

Demanding boundaries from a creepy friend. NTA 👏

CermaitLaphroaig | CermaitLaphroaig

Navigating unrequited love in friendships can be tricky and painful 🤷‍♀️. Communication is key.

BaddestPatsy | BaddestPatsy

Crushes are normal, but honesty is key. NTA 👍

jb5858 | jb5858

Standing up against creepy behavior and double standards. #NTA 👏

DancingInAHotTub | DancingInAHotTub

Friend's behavior is creepy and obsessive, NTA for setting boundaries 👍

nononanana | nononanana

Survivor shares harrowing experience of sexual assault and victim blaming. 😢

CloudieKitt | CloudieKitt

Take control of your online presence and report her account! NTA

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Infatuation doesn't equal feelings. Lying about it is creepy. #NTA

Something_Syck | Something_Syck

Cutting off toxic friends is necessary for self-respect 👍

neonsaber | neonsaber

Setting boundaries with a friend who has a crush. 👍

DivineTarot | DivineTarot

Friendship over. Accused of leading on and taking advantage. NTA.

L45TPH45E | L45TPH45E

Navigating unreciprocated feelings in friendships can be tricky. 👍

OHRavenclaw | OHRavenclaw

Sometimes cutting ties is the kindest thing to do 💔

MarcusofMenace | MarcusofMenace

Friendship crushed by social media lies. NTA for ending it.

DIADAMS | DIADAMS

Friend violated trust and privacy, NTA for being upset 👏

izzyoftheashtree | izzyoftheashtree

Friend warns OP of potential stalker behavior. Stay safe 👍

ThePolyMoose | ThePolyMoose

Documenting a fake relationship is creepy and dangerous. Get help.

Smiley-Canadian | Smiley-Canadian

Set boundaries and don't let her pressure you into anything. 👍

pandemicthrowaway1 | pandemicthrowaway1

Toxic ex spreading rumors to friends? NTA, cut them off 👍

IAmAllOfTheSith | IAmAllOfTheSith

Calling out double standards and lack of respect for LGBTQ+ people 🏳️‍🌈

paola0406 | paola0406

Avoiding a potential disaster. 😱

linka1913 | linka1913

Friend betrays host's trust, gets kicked out, host finds love ❤

anonnormifag | anonnormifag

Friend confesses feelings, posts as girlfriend, blames OP. NTA.

skyfree12 | skyfree12

Calling out bad behavior within the queer community 👏

aSpanks | aSpanks

Time to cut ties and move on. NTA 👍

ShadowCast2550 | ShadowCast2550

Crushes can't justify lying and breaking trust in relationships. #NTA

AffectionatePrize2 | AffectionatePrize2

Cutting off toxic friend. Keep an eye on social media 👍

jennlovesyarn | jennlovesyarn

Consider friends' perspectives, but NTA in situation 🤔

min6char | min6char

Standing up for yourself and your chance at love. 👏

thicklover | thicklover

Don't let your friends gaslight you, stand up for yourself 💪

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Friend expresses concern for OP's self-respect after insensitive question.

AClockworkProfessor | AClockworkProfessor

Sometimes, distance is the best solution. 🤝

aidennqueen | aidennqueen

Don't be a prop in someone else's drama 👏

DeliSoupItExplodes | DeliSoupItExplodes

Standing up for a friend against a crazy crush. NTA 👏

mocat10 | mocat10

Set boundaries and end toxic friendships. 👍

izzymariexx | izzymariexx

Setting boundaries with possessive friends is important for self-care 👍

allyek | allyek

🚩 Giant red flag. Cut her off immediately to avoid escalation.

frankenramen | frankenramen

Crushing on a friend's partner: NTA, but actions matter 💔

Adric_01 | Adric_01

Navigating the thin line between friendship and stalker behavior 🤔

Reading4LifeForever | Reading4LifeForever

Cutting ties with toxic people is important for self-care 👌

RusticSurgery | RusticSurgery

Controlling feelings vs. actions. NTA, but friend needs help 🙅

vonadler | vonadler

Friend's crush crosses the line, commenter suggests restraining order. 🤔

TheDreamingFae | TheDreamingFae

Friend catfished me, said she loved me, ruined our friendship. NTA 👏

NorvilleR0gers | NorvilleR0gers

Setting boundaries is important for healthy friendships. 👍

MandaMaelstrom | MandaMaelstrom

Stand up against double standards and consider legal action. 🚨

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