Imagine becoming a parent to your younger sibling overnight, with no support from family. That’s the reality for our 26-year-old protagonist, who took custody of his 14-year-old brother, Isaac, after their drug-addicted parents disappeared. Fast forward to the present, Isaac is now 18, emotionally dependent, and living at home while attending college. One night, Isaac and his friends decide to drink and drive. Big brother steps in, but his choice of punishment leaves us questioning if he went too far. Let’s dive into the story.
A Sudden Guardian

Sensitive Isaac

Emotionally Dependent, but Responsible

A Night with Friends

Big Brother Steps In

Diffusing the Situation ️

Arguments and Punishment

Isaac’s Reaction

Apology and Withdrawal

Fear of Traumatizing Isaac

Isaac’s True Feelings

A Promise and Understanding

Bonding Time

Gratitude

A Lesson Learned or a Step Too Far?
After a night of underage drinking, Isaac and his friends decide to hit the road. Big brother intervenes and forces Isaac to watch disturbing drunk driving videos as punishment. Isaac freaks out, but later admits he was more upset about his brother’s anger than the videos themselves. They talk it out, Isaac promises never to drink and drive again, and the two bond over a peaceful drive. So, was this punishment too harsh or a valuable lesson for young Isaac? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA praised for teaching safety, suggests reassurance for trauma.
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Zero sympathy for drunk drivers, NTA takes a stand.

Driving drunk? NTA shows the reality of the consequences.

Disturbing videos pale in comparison to potential consequences. #NTA

Dissuading drunk driving: NAH, but could’ve handled anxiety better

NTA suggests talking after punishment to prevent further issues
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Graphic driver’s ed classes in the US, but soft doesn’t work. NTA

Former drunk driver supports NTA’s decision to punish son.

Redditor questions punishment for drinking and driving, sparking debate.

YTA for forcing him through distressing videos despite his sensitivity
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Prevention over intervention, NTA shows truth about drunk driving.

Reddit user suggests seeking professional help instead of Reddit advice.

ESH admits fault, but lacked empathy for partner’s anxiety disorder

NTA for scaring him into not getting in the car

Watching drunk driving videos in school: necessary or traumatizing?

Attending traffic school as punishment is more educational than traumatizing

Simulated accidents in US high schools too, not unusual punishment ♂️

OP gets called out for being TA, no sympathy here

NTA explains how to handle a traumatic situation with empathy

Parenting win: Teaching the consequences of drunk driving
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Concerns raised about possible abuse of person’s issues for punishment.

Powerful reminder of the consequences of drunk driving

Age doesn’t excuse bad behavior, NTA handled it well

Scary videos in driver’s ed don’t work for everyone

User questions if punishment for drinking and driving is excessive.

NTA comment: Scaring him straight was worth it

A powerful safety campaign left a lasting impact on commenter.

Gruesome but effective DUI punishment. NTA.

Showing drunk driving videos is standard for driver’s ed. Lighten up!

Traumatized or dead? Unusual punishment sparks debate

Disturbing driver’s ed video made commenter wear seatbelt

NTA suggests showing drunk driving videos to high school students.

Heartbreaking story of a failed attempt to be a role model

Scaring someone can be harsh, but it’ll work. NTA

Survivor of a tragic accident supports the harsh truth.

Sibling’s punishment for emotionally needy brother sparks debate.

Viewer calls out punishment as ‘horrible’ and ‘arse hole move’
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Punishing with anxiety attacks? ESH in this situation. ♂️

Heartwarming comment about doing the right thing ❤

Sibling bond shines through tough life lesson

Big bro praised for taking tough love approach
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Debating the ethics of punishing a brother for driving after drinking.

Avoiding future trauma: a justified punishment?

NTA. Using visuals to teach driving safety.
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Driving drunk is dangerous, NTA for harsh punishment.

NTA commenter recalls gruesome Drivers’ Ed videos ♂️

Parenting comes with tough love

Surviving a drunk driving accident doesn’t mean no trauma.

NTA. One commenter shares their own extreme drivers ed. experience.

Sometimes tough love is necessary to prevent tragedy.

Beloved teacher’s tragic story helped prevent drunk driving. NTA.

NTA saves friend’s life by giving him a traumatic lesson.

NTA commenter approves of punishment, questions brother’s intentions.

NTA saves driver from trauma of drunk driving.

Brother’s drunk driving punishment: NAH, good reality check

Avoiding drunk driving is the real punishment. NTA wins.

Praise for OP’s creative punishment and responsibility teaching skills

Serious consequences for drunk driving, NTA.
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Unconventional teaching methods or crossing the line? NTA

A heartbreaking story emphasizing the dangers of drunk driving. NTA.

Video trauma vs real accident: a lucky escape?

Redditor calls out OP’s abusive punishment on responsible brother.

NTA. Preventing drunk driving is crucial for everyone’s safety!

Powerful reminder of the dangers of drunk driving

Heartbreaking story of loss and gratitude. NTA.

Parent defends showing child 3rd degree burn video for safety

Sibling parenting win! NTA protected others and nipped behavior.

Clear message against drunk driving. Hopefully, lesson learned.

Hilarious drunk driving compilation traumatizes Big Bro? NTA’s curious.
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Choosing not to drink and drive is always the right choice

Educating instead of punishing could have been a better approach
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Military veteran shares personal experience on importance of not drunk driving.
