💔 Sibling's Relationship Advice Backfires: Who's the Real Gold Digger?

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When it comes to relationships and finances, things can get messy. One woman found herself caught in the middle of her brother's relationship drama when he and his girlfriend asked her for advice on their financial situation. Little did she know, her well-intentioned advice would lead to a family feud and accusations of gold-digging. 😱💔

The Brother's Success & Girlfriend's Struggle

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Moving In Together: A Financial Dilemma

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Champagne Tastes on a Beer Budget

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Seeking Neutral Advice

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Two Possible Solutions

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The Unwillingness to Compromise

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Brother's Fury and Family Feud

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A Harsh Reality Check

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The Real Issue

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Family Demands an Apology

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A Family Torn Apart: Who's the Real Gold Digger?

Caught in the middle of her brother's relationship drama, our protagonist offered advice on how to handle their financial issues. Instead of gratitude, she was met with fury and accusations of gold-digging. As the family feud unfolds, she wonders if she's the one with a warped view on relationships and finances. 😔💸 Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation...

Don't apologize! You gave great advice, brother misrepresented it. NTA 👏

garthastro | garthastro

Brother's refusal to compromise ended the relationship. 👏

pink-pangolin | pink-pangolin

Don't develop expensive tastes and expect a poor SO to pay 💰

PretentiousUsername1 | PretentiousUsername1

GF wasn't asking for everything, just equity. NTA 👍

Southern-Tee | Southern-Tee

Financial abuse is real. NTA for standing up for yourself.

cara180455 | cara180455

Brother asks for mediation, gets mad when it doesn't work. NTA.

IllustriousPomelo152 | IllustriousPomelo152

NTA gives sound relationship advice and brother refuses to compromise.

Seliphra | Seliphra

Compromise is key in a relationship 👍🏻 #lovewins

Bad_Astra_Channel | Bad_Astra_Channel

Brother can't have it both ways, NTA suggests finding equal partner 👍

fsbbem | fsbbem

NTA tells truth about gold digger, highlights unrealistic expectations 🤷‍♀️

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Generosity in relationships should go both ways. 💛

Pabst34 | Pabst34

NTA provides honest relationship advice, supports mutual compatibility and responsibility.

AccordingTelevision6 | AccordingTelevision6

Unfair financial expectations in a relationship. 👎

ChipmunkCalling | ChipmunkCalling

NTA predicts future, GF leaves, brother calls her gold digger 🤷‍♂️

kingshwarma | kingshwarma

NTA. The boyfriend is the one stuck on money 💵

eggelemental | eggelemental

NTA realizes he's an option, not a necessity, and avoids gold diggers.

randomnurse | randomnurse

Impartial advice given, brother refused to compromise. NTA 👍

alienabductionfan | alienabductionfan

Sibling seeks relationship advice, gets called out for gold digging 💰

balder1917 | balder1917

NTA. Brother wants lavish lifestyle with partner who can't afford it. 👏

kittynoodlesoap | kittynoodlesoap

Giving relationship advice, called gold digger, but not the a-hole.

Sighlenz | Sighlenz

NTA for calling out brother's behavior. Great job looking out 👏

theMarianasTrench | theMarianasTrench

Fairness in household finances is crucial for a healthy relationship 💰

verminiusrex | verminiusrex

Giving advice when asked doesn't make you the gold digger.

K-no-B | K-no-B

Sibling asks for advice, but only wants validation. NTA.

showherthewayshowher | showherthewayshowher

Supportive comment against financial abuse with a witty ending 😎

Jorojr | Jorojr

Brother can't handle the truth about his champagne tastes 🍾

gigibuffoon | gigibuffoon

NTA gives honest advice to someone who deserves better 👏

linpashpants | linpashpants

Sibling's meddling ruins relationship, commenter applauds OP's response. 👏

Cocoasneeze | Cocoasneeze

Savage NTA comment shuts down gold digger accusations. 💯

KnightofForestsWild | KnightofForestsWild

👏👏 Good on you for helping the GF see the light

aliquilts71 | aliquilts71

👍 Not the a-hole! Brother in denial and deflecting blame.

StockholmCuckquean | StockholmCuckquean

Empathetic comment supports girlfriend and encourages her to move on. 👏

1929TurtlesandBirds | 1929TurtlesandBirds

NTA. Love doesn't drive someone to bankruptcy over cereal preferences.

ExtremelyLongButtock | ExtremelyLongButtock

NTA commenter defends GF in unequal relationship, calls out brother's behavior.

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NTA. GF shouldn't pay for BF's extravagant lifestyle. Brother was wrong.

sirenwitchy | sirenwitchy

NTA gives perfect advice despite name-calling. Apologize for that only.

anthropaedic | anthropaedic

🤔 Brother's unrealistic relationship expectations called out by commenter

tharp993 | tharp993

Lawyer gives sound advice, brother's unrealistic expectations caused relationship split.

Steups13 | Steups13

NTA tells truth about brother's unwillingness to compromise in relationship 💔

Radiant_Cat618 | Radiant_Cat618

NTA. You gave reasonable advice and options. Relationships require teamwork.

S4mD1g1 | S4mD1g1

Third wife pays half the bills, works three jobs 🤔

Fuck_you_Reddit_Nazi | Fuck_you_Reddit_Nazi

NTA comment: Asking for advice but not liking the answer 🤷‍♂️

Siriuxx | Siriuxx

NTA for looking out for GF. Brother needs a wake-up call 😊

theMarianasTrench | theMarianasTrench

Sibling's gold digger accusations backfire, commenter advises not to apologize.

izzyoftheashtree | izzyoftheashtree

Family taking sides in gold-digging sibling feud. 🤔

Rosieapples | Rosieapples

👏 Standing up against financial abuse. NTA for saving her.

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Sibling's greed exposed: NTA for helping ex-girlfriend dodge a bullet 👏

Avebury1 | Avebury1

Brother's greediness exposed by girlfriend's unequal contribution. 💰

JHawk444 | JHawk444

Brother's entitlement exposed, family's elitism questioned. NTA wins.

nononanana | nononanana

NTA. Fairness in a relationship is proportional to income. 💰

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Brother's math skills called out in gold digger accusation. 🤔

mindbird | mindbird

NTA calls out basic incompatibility in brother's relationship priorities 👏

AuntJ2583 | AuntJ2583

Financially secure partner, fair contribution, and supportive advice. NTA!

TheStarryLioness | TheStarryLioness

Sibling's advice backfires as couple splits, NTA for honesty.

RiverSong_777 | RiverSong_777

Splitting living expenses with different incomes: fair or gold-digging? 💰

Kittenn1412 | Kittenn1412

Brother's unrealistic expectations leave him with no solution 🤔

PandaGirl2019 | PandaGirl2019

NTA stands up to unfair expectations and name-calling. 👏

AccessibleBeige | AccessibleBeige

NTA agrees that the ex-boyfriend was a gold digger 🤑

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NTA. Brother's gold digger accusation backfires. Good for his ex-girlfriend! 💯

Quicksilver1964 | Quicksilver1964

A heartfelt apology and clarification for a NTA judgment.

ginsengtea3 | ginsengtea3

NTA. Good advice given, not responsible for their actions 👍

randomnessaa | randomnessaa

NTA advises to find someone who can afford his lifestyle 💰

Maleficent_Ad_3958 | Maleficent_Ad_3958

NTA commenter applauds GF for taking the smartest move 💪

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Fairness in finances between partners. NTA agrees with OP.

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NTA advises against gold diggers, saves GF from financial drain 👍

Limerase | Limerase

NTA. A fair distribution of expenses based on income 🤝

GodEmperorPotato | GodEmperorPotato

NTA defends woman accused of being a gold digger 💰

mangonlime | mangonlime

👍 NTA commenter supports sound advice and calls out ex's behavior.

Beautiful_mistakes | Beautiful_mistakes

NTA gives great advice on gf's financial situation 💰

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Date GF to assert dominance over brother and family. 👊

aziruthedark | aziruthedark

Giving relationship advice to a gold digger? NTA wins 🏆

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Fair and simple financial arrangement for couples. 👍

MeiliCanada82 | MeiliCanada82

NTA for giving neutral advice and calling out brother's unreasonable behavior. 👍

HarlesBronson | HarlesBronson

Lawyer's inability to compromise raises concerns about client representation 🤔

Victor-Grimm | Victor-Grimm

Sibling's lies exposed: NTA should set the record straight or move on 👍

Shruggles8 | Shruggles8

NTA agrees that the guy is a gold digger and applauds the girl for leaving before he ruins her future 👏

coconutshave | coconutshave

NTA commenter defends woman's financial choices against unsupportive partner.

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NTA gives honest advice, calls out potential gold digger brother 👀

blanktom9 | blanktom9

Sibling's advice helps girlfriend realize truth, but suggests counseling next time.

ANALizethispease | ANALizethispease

NTA gives unbiased advice to brother and sets him straight 💰💔

Playful-Mastodon-872 | Playful-Mastodon-872

Girlfriend stands up for herself, NTA advises to ignore family 🙅‍♀️

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👍 NTA's concise point exposes brother's gold digging intentions.

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