Neighbor Gives Away Her Garden, Then Wants It Back! 😲🌿

Diply Social Team
Diply | Diply

We've all had our fair share of misunderstandings with neighbors, but this story takes it to a whole new level! 😅 A friendly neighbor, Amber, decided to give away her entire garden to the protagonist of our story. Little did they know, Amber's sudden decision was the result of a manic episode, and now she wants her plants back. But there's a catch - they're already planted in the protagonist's backyard! 🌿🏡 Let's dive into this garden drama and see how it unfolds...

A Neighborly Chat 🌞

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Garden Giveaway 🌱

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Freebies Galore! 🎉

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A Generous Offer 💰

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Backyard Transformation 🌷

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The Truth Revealed 😳

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Embarrassed and Regretful 😔

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Her Garden, Her Baby 🌺

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Standing Their Ground 🚧

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The Cold Shoulder ❄️

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New Garden Blues 🌻

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Boyfriend's Advice 🤔

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Standing Up for Themselves 😠

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A Change of Heart ❤️

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Realistic Expectations 🌿

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To Give Back or Not to Give Back? 🤷‍♀️

In a whirlwind of emotions, Amber gave away her beloved garden during a manic episode, only to regret it later. Now, the protagonist is left with a beautiful backyard full of Amber's plants, and a dilemma - should they return the plants or keep them? 🌹😕 After some soul-searching, they decide to offer Amber a $100 gift card to a local nursery and help with planting. But will this be enough to mend fences and restore neighborly relations? 🌳💔 Let's see what the internet has to say about this garden drama...

Compromise could have led to a gardening ally. Soft YTA 😕

CatteHerder | CatteHerder

Neighbor receives free plants, calls neighbor rude for wanting them back 😒

Cocoasneeze | Cocoasneeze

Insensitive comment about taking advantage of mentally ill neighbor. 😔

sadclowncunt | sadclowncunt

Offer to pay or help set up garden to make amends 👍

ParsimoniousSalad | ParsimoniousSalad

Neighbor regrets giving away garden, gets called out for attitude 😬

embopbopbopdoowop | embopbopbopdoowop

Neighbor gave away garden, wants it back. Commenter says YTA.

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Empathetic comment about depression and regret. YTA verdict.

History_Buff19 | History_Buff19

Neighbor takes advantage of mentally ill woman, YTA. 😠

Plastic_Melodic | Plastic_Melodic

Mentally ill neighbor's garden taken. Commenter says YTA. 😔

nznetty | nznetty

Apologize and strengthen your friendship! 🌸👭 YTA

_froot_salad | _froot_salad

Offer to split plants in spring/summer to mend relationship 🌱

Queen_Latifah69 | Queen_Latifah69

Defending against unfair accusations of lack of empathy 💪

Putrid_Hippo_3153 | Putrid_Hippo_3153

Neighbor refuses to make amends, called out for being AH 😒

extrabigcomfycouch | extrabigcomfycouch

Neighbor with bipolar regrets giving garden away, OP is TA 😠

anonhumanontheweb | anonhumanontheweb

Show empathy for neighbor with bipolar disorder. YTA for selfishness. 😢

Scareypoppins | Scareypoppins

Clarifying intentions and acknowledging her situation may help reconcile.

LilArsene | LilArsene

Sympathetic commenter defends replanting and suggests compromise. 👍

hrlyrdr58 | hrlyrdr58

Empathetic comment about mental health and suggestion to mend relationship.

RedheadedTati19 | RedheadedTati19

Compassionate reply about mental illness and regretful actions. 👏

dazedandc0nfusedd | dazedandc0nfusedd

Compassion goes a long way, be a good neighbor 💜

skyntbook | skyntbook

Neighbor called out for being unreasonable and rude. YTA 😠

the_saltlord | the_saltlord

Compassionate suggestion to return hardy plants and cash offered twice 👍

coffeecoffi | coffeecoffi

Neighbor had a mental health episode & gave plants for free. OP refuses to give them back, thinks neighbor doesn't deserve money for them. YTA.

AdventurousEconomy6 | AdventurousEconomy6

Neighbor's husband could have explained the situation earlier. NTA 👍

Public-Ad-9827 | Public-Ad-9827

Expert explains why NTA for not returning garden after giveaway.

mc_lean28 | mc_lean28

Mental illness is not an excuse for poor behavior. NTA.

InterestingTone1384 | InterestingTone1384

Neighbor had a problem, OP not responsible. NTA 👍

RevRagnarok | RevRagnarok

Neighbor gives away garden, regrets it, and offers $100. YTA.

i_forgot_everything | i_forgot_everything

Neighbor learns coping skills, mental health not your responsibility. NTA 👍

Fantastic_Rock_3836 | Fantastic_Rock_3836

Suggests making amends by helping Amber with her backyard. YTA.

Merryannm | Merryannm

Neighbor gives away garden, OP wants to teach a lesson. YTA.

Brainjacker | Brainjacker

Neighbor with bipolar disorder asks for compassion, OP is YTA. 😢

Kandiknight | Kandiknight

Understanding comment about helping someone with bipolar depression. 🙏

Nervous-Translator76 | Nervous-Translator76

Clear communication and boundaries, NTA. Plants need care too. 🌱

Fluffy-Shelter-1258 | Fluffy-Shelter-1258

Offer to help with their new garden, be the bigger person 👍

Independent-Top3524 | Independent-Top3524

Don't give away what you can't give up. 👍

rainbow_mak3r | rainbow_mak3r

Neighbor's husband asked for garden back, commenter says be direct.

MK_King69 | MK_King69

Bipolar commenter defends OP's decision to not return garden. 🙌

Guilty-Bench9146 | Guilty-Bench9146

Keep the shrubbery, forget the neighbor drama. 🌱

Trice316 | Trice316

NTA accepted plants in good faith, put in labor to plant. Neighbor's withdrawal not manipulative.

Amiedeslivres | Amiedeslivres

Don't be selfish, be kind and empathetic. YTA 🚫

Comfortable_Sock4229 | Comfortable_Sock4229

Offer to buy plants and help with planting to avoid conflict 🌿

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Politely declining twice, NTA. Not your responsibility to guess episodes.

halzgen | halzgen

Compassion for neighbor who wants garden back 🌿

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Standing up for yourself is not being TA. NTA 👏

Ness18518 | Ness18518

Neighbor gave away garden, now wants it back. NTA keeps it. 🌿

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NTA comment justifying OP's actions with logical points 👍

Responsible-Mall2222 | Responsible-Mall2222

Buying a gift certificate could make amends for garden mishap 🎁

FarNorthern | FarNorthern

Supportive comment about mental health and personal experience. 🙌

HotelLow7065 | HotelLow7065

Moving plants is like surgery, they'd die if moved twice 🌱

eemmiillyygg | eemmiillyygg

Neighbor gives away garden, but wants it back. YTA.

ValiantCanary | ValiantCanary

A garden giveaway gone wrong, now a pickle for all 🌿

FloridaMomm | FloridaMomm

Kind gesture and compromise can mend neighborly relationships. 💜

Shemishka | Shemishka

Neighbor wants garden back, but offering to help with replanting.

zephyrseija | zephyrseija

Standing firm on a gift, mental illness not an excuse 💪

rainbow_mak3r | rainbow_mak3r

A plea for empathy towards mental health struggles. 💚

littlemissant | littlemissant

Compromise for a few plants or YTA? 👍

celest_99 | celest_99

Mental health is important, but actions have consequences. NTA.

Maybeidontknow99 | Maybeidontknow99

NTA with bipolar disorder shares personal experience and advice. 👍

Tilikon | Tilikon

Neighbor gave away garden, now wants it back. NTA.

Afraid_Ad_1536 | Afraid_Ad_1536

Neighbor gave away garden, took it back. OP NTA.

WilltherealAHstand | WilltherealAHstand

Neighbor has a manic episode, gives away garden, then wants it back. NTA.

ferdril | ferdril

Neighbor takes plants, wants them back but won't restore yard. NTA 👍

Dry-Onion1419 | Dry-Onion1419

NTA for not wanting to give garden back, but consider letting them do the work if offered 👍

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Good idea to buy a gift card or replacement plants! 🌿

armybeans | armybeans

Neighbor takes garden due to mental illness; refuses to return.

Skankasaursrex | Skankasaursrex

Neighbor gives away garden, neighbor takes it back. YTA.

One-Satisfaction3518 | One-Satisfaction3518

Empathetic comment calls out OP's lack of basic decency 😢

ziggystarpups | ziggystarpups

Helping neighbor reclaim plants: don't be selfish 🙏

Shail666 | Shail666

Neighbor with mental illness gave away garden, regrets it. YTA.

Plantsandanger | Plantsandanger

Bipolar vs depression, medication, and husband's absence. YTA. 😔

Shastaismybaby | Shastaismybaby

Taking plants without permission? YTA 😑

Rengrl | Rengrl

User calls out plant thief in hilarious comment. 😂

didnebeu | didnebeu

Neighbor accused of stealing plants in YTA comment section 🌱

OneJobToRuleThemAll | OneJobToRuleThemAll

Returning gifts from a mentally ill person? YTA, says commenter.

Ok_Lie_3872 | Ok_Lie_3872

Compassion and understanding are key in this situation. 💜

Wang_Tsung | Wang_Tsung

Neighbor regrets giving away garden, commenter calls them out. 😔

Ippus_21 | Ippus_21

Educate yourself about bipolar disorder before judging. YTA.

Ilsabet | Ilsabet

Offering money as a goodwill gesture after garden dispute 👍

HexStarlight | HexStarlight

Neighbor wants garden back, but who should pay for restoration? 👨‍🌾

OkProfessional9405 | OkProfessional9405

Taking responsibility for our actions is important, even with BPD 👍

across79 | across79

Generous neighbor gives away garden, but should they take it back?

Nalbas88 | Nalbas88

Neighbor faces backlash after giving away garden and wanting it back 😕

magus424 | magus424

Understanding the struggles of mental health is important. 👍

kaywal89 | kaywal89

Taking advantage of someone's disorder for personal gain is despicable. 💯

lemonsneeker | lemonsneeker

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