Sister-in-Law Crashes Party, Demands Everyone Stop Drinking 😱

Diply Social Team
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Picture this: you're hosting a special celebration for a friend who's just returned home from the military, and it's also their 30th birthday. You've got friends coming from all over, and everyone's having a great time. But then, your husband's sister, who's been struggling with alcohol and asked you not to drink around her, shows up uninvited. She demands that everyone stop drinking, but doesn't want anyone to know the reason. What would you do? 🤔🍻🚫

Sister-in-Law's Struggle 🥺

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The Special Celebration 🎉

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Friends Gather from Afar 🚗✈️

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A Responsible Group 🍻👍

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The Unexpected Arrival 😲

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How She Found Out 🕵️‍♀️

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The Demands Begin 🚫🍺

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The Dilemma 🤔

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The More the Merrier? 🥳

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The Aftermath 😢

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A Party Crashed and a Tough Decision 💔

So, our protagonist found themselves in a tough spot: their husband's sister arrived uninvited to a special celebration, where alcohol was being consumed. She demanded that everyone stop drinking, but didn't want anyone to know why. The host felt uncomfortable asking their guests to stop, especially since they were all there for a specific reason. In the end, the sister-in-law left in tears, and her parents are now upset too. Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🌐💬

NTA suggests sister-in-law should have attended AA meetings instead 👍

missmyrajv | missmyrajv

Sister-in-law demands no drinking at party, gets shut down NTA 💯

ltenfinger | ltenfinger

Uninvited sister-in-law ruins party, gets shut down for sobriety demands 😒

vandajoy | vandajoy

Assertive NTA comment shuts down party crasher's demand to stop drinking.

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Recovering alcoholic sister-in-law crashes party, demands sobriety. NTA.

Mikou1030 | Mikou1030

In-laws overstepped by inviting uninvited sister-in-law, NTA for not accommodating.

MistressOfNecropolis | MistressOfNecropolis

Uninvited sister-in-law tries to control party, gets shut down. 🙌

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Uninvited sister-in-law ruins party, gets called out for entitlement. 😒


Supporting sobriety is important, but crashing parties isn't okay 🚫

jmiracle23 | jmiracle23

Party crasher demands sobriety, gets reality check. 🎉

claudiarabbit123 | claudiarabbit123

NTA for not modifying life for sister-in-law's drinking problem 😱

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Let people drink in peace, NTA has had enough.

Whoisdis1909 | Whoisdis1909

Uninvited sister-in-law tries to control party, gets shut down. 😎

IAmGettingThePig | IAmGettingThePig

Uninvited sister-in-law demands sobriety at party. NTA stands firm.

Stup2plending | Stup2plending

Unannounced SIL demands sober party, commenters agree NTA 😍

xpotential31 | xpotential31

One person's sobriety shouldn't ruin everyone's fun 😒

stormgoblin | stormgoblin

Navigating mental health and addiction is tough. NTA in scenario.

tremulous | tremulous

Supportive comment defends partygoers and criticizes sister-in-law's behavior.

Pups_the_Jew | Pups_the_Jew

Setting boundaries with a recovering relative can be tough 😔

Trashmanjoe | Trashmanjoe

Sister-in-law crashes party and demands everyone stop drinking. NTA.

neverthelessidissent | neverthelessidissent

Uninvited sister-in-law crashes party, demands no drinking. NTA response.

airedalemumma | airedalemumma

Supportive comment on sister-in-law's sobriety and reasonable solution.

starchy2ber | starchy2ber

Setting boundaries on personal choices. NTA 👍

cassandrafishbones27 | cassandrafishbones27

Uninvited sister-in-law demands sobriety at party 🤪

Double_Reindeer_6884 | Double_Reindeer_6884

Setting boundaries with family and respecting personal choices. 👍

RoyallyOakie | RoyallyOakie

Sister-in-law's entitlement to sobriety ruins party. NTA's advice.

Beautiful_mistakes | Beautiful_mistakes

Hosting a party for a guest, NTA for enforcing rules 🎉

Capable_Ad_976 | Capable_Ad_976

Respectful NTA comment acknowledges difficult journey of recovery 👏

ReinaRocio | ReinaRocio

Uninvited sister-in-law ruins party, demands no drinking. NTA.

TheAxe11 | TheAxe11

Uninvited sister-in-law ruins party, demands guests stop drinking 🙄

HowardProject | HowardProject

Recovering alcoholic reminds us to manage our own addictions 🙏

sillymissmillie | sillymissmillie

Sister-in-law's behavior is a sign of dry drunk. NTA.

TheHouseOnTheCorner | TheHouseOnTheCorner

Supporting a recovering alcoholic sister-in-law: NTA, but AlAnon recommended 👍

sisterZippy | sisterZippy

Uninvited sister-in-law demands no drinking at party, NTA stands firm.

If-By-Whisky | If-By-Whisky

Recovering alcoholic SIL demands party stop drinking, OP NTA 😱

Shizanketsuga | Shizanketsuga

Entitled sister-in-law crashes party, demands sobriety 😱

dcoleski | dcoleski

Crashing party uninvited and demanding sobriety? NTA, she's selfish. 😱

justtobecontrary | justtobecontrary

Sister-in-law crashes party, demands everyone stop drinking. NTA calls out her selfishness.

cara180455 | cara180455

SIL crashes party, demands no drinking. NTA shuts her down 😊

PlantsAnimalsAndArt | PlantsAnimalsAndArt

Sister-in-law's sobriety becomes a power play. NTA stands firm. 🙌

ThunderSparkles | ThunderSparkles

Uninvited sister-in-law demands party to stop drinking 😱

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Ex-alcoholic sister-in-law crashes party, demands no drinking. NTA.

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Uninvited sister-in-law demands no drinking at party 😱 NTA

No_Proposal7628 | No_Proposal7628

Sister-in-law crashes party, demands attention. Narcissistic or misunderstood?

Whisky2121 | Whisky2121

NTA! Supporting her journey by respecting her boundaries 👏

RuthlessKittyKat | RuthlessKittyKat

NTA. Sympathies extended towards alcohol addiction victims. Reasonable to suggest affected person go to sponsor instead of shutting down party. Comparison made to unexpected guest with dietary restrictions. AA's goal is not to make society alcohol-free but to make the person able to function without alcohol. Sister-in-law left in tears saying we don't support her journey.

zqmvco99 | zqmvco99

NTA commenter questions sister-in-law's accountability and responsibility in AA.

Outrageous-Ad-9069 | Outrageous-Ad-9069

Recovering sister-in-law demands sobriety, gets reality check. NTA 👍

wyrmfood | wyrmfood

Sister-in-law's sobriety request at party leads to self-centered behavior 😱

theloveburts | theloveburts

Uninvited sister-in-law demands party stop drinking 🙄 NTA

FoxPug | FoxPug

NTA suggests In Laws not enable entitled sister-in-law's addiction 👏

Crazy-Solution-1749 | Crazy-Solution-1749

Entitled sister-in-law crashes party and demands no drinking. NTA claps back. 😱

Piercedbunny | Piercedbunny

Setting boundaries with family and respecting personal choices. 👍

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Supporting her journey doesn't mean being a dry household 🍷

Kettlewise | Kettlewise

SIL crashes party, demands no drinking. NTA shows her the door 🙌

Long-Strategy-3026 | Long-Strategy-3026

Sister-in-law crashes party and demands control. Commenter calls her self-centered. 🤔

coolbandshirt | coolbandshirt

NTA. SIL's sobriety is commendable, but can't demand others abstain 👏

Anakerie | Anakerie

35-year sober commenter calls out entitled sister-in-law's demands 🔥

lotusblossom60 | lotusblossom60

NTA stands up for their right to drink, suggests SIL seek help 👏

timeforwine11 | timeforwine11

Honesty is the best policy, even with unexpected guests 😊

walkingontinyrabbits | walkingontinyrabbits

Supporting recovery doesn't mean catering to unreasonable demands 🙏

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It's not fair to expect others to cater to your triggers. NTA 👍

Sabai_interim | Sabai_interim

Supportive comment on addiction and boundaries. NTA.

Hurtelknut | Hurtelknut

Alcoholic defends party drinking, calls out entitled sister-in-law. 💪

onceknownasmike | onceknownasmike

Recovering alcoholic explains why SIL is in the wrong 👍

Whisky-Baby15 | Whisky-Baby15

Uninvited sister-in-law tries to change party, called entitled. 😱

JBB2002902 | JBB2002902

Uninvited sister-in-law crashes party, demands sobriety, gets called out. 😱

Dotfromkansas | Dotfromkansas

NTA. Sister-in-law's behavior is selfish and intrusive 😒

SimianSteam | SimianSteam

Sister-in-law crashes party, demands everyone stop drinking. Commenter says NTA.

Both-Exam-6308 | Both-Exam-6308

NTA honors sister-in-law's wishes, drama is her fault 🙏

Abusedink75 | Abusedink75

Uninvited sister-in-law demands sober party, gets called out. NTA.

Podlingblue | Podlingblue

Newly sober SIL crashes party, demands no drinking. NTA responds.

GenX-IA | GenX-IA

Uninvited sister-in-law ruins party with unreasonable demands. NTA.

SnooCats6410 | SnooCats6410

Growing up in recovery groups, NTA for not catering SIL.

Jeb764 | Jeb764

Uninvited guest demands party-goers stop drinking 🤪

hardcoregore | hardcoregore

Taking responsibility for one's own recovery, not others' actions. 👏

beattiebeats | beattiebeats

Uninvited sister-in-law demands party-goers stop drinking. NTA stands firm.

murdocjones | murdocjones

AA member explains why sister-in-law was wrong to ask others to change for her. NTA

lesbian_canadian | lesbian_canadian

Uninvited sister-in-law demands party to stop drinking. NTA.

candles_0904 | candles_0904

Crashing party to reset rules? Not cool. NTA wins.

Crisis_Redditor | Crisis_Redditor

Being the reason for stopping the party is unreasonable. NTA 🙅

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SIL's alcohol issues shouldn't ruin everyone's fun. NTA.

ZookeeperScar | ZookeeperScar

Hosting dry parties is a reasonable way to support sobriety 👍

nickiter | nickiter

Recovering alcoholic shares coping mechanism for family member's offense towards alcohol 🙌

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