Mom Refuses to Send Kids to Bed Early for Dad's Relaxation Time: Who's Right? 🤔

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In a household with three young kids and a baby, finding time to relax can be a challenge. But when one mom refused her husband's request to send the kids to bed early so he could unwind, the situation escalated into a heated debate. With both parents working full-time and the mom also homeschooling and nursing, who deserves a break more? 🤷‍♀️

The Daily Grind 🏃‍♀️

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Unexpected Homeschooling 🏫

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A Rough Week 😔

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Husband's Perspective 🤷‍♂️

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Dinner Routine 🍽️

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The Early Bedtime Request ⏰

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Asking Again 🔄

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Husband's Outburst 😠

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Apology and Another Request 🙏

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Husband's Frustration 😤

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The Agreement 📝

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Past Miscommunication 🗣️

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Overstepping Boundaries 🚧

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Not About Quality Time 💻

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Battle of the Breaks: Who Deserves It More? 🥊

In a household juggling work, homeschooling, and a baby, tensions rise when the dad asks for the kids to go to bed early so he can relax. The mom, who's dealing with a family tragedy and handling most of the household duties, refuses his request, sparking a conflict between the two. With both parents working full-time, the question remains: who deserves a break more? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 💭

NTA...but wyd? Are you okay? 🤔

Important-Nose3332 | Important-Nose3332

NTA: Rehome him OP. You can foster another later. 🤣

The_Bad_Agent | The_Bad_Agent

NTA - Kids shouldn't be punished for dad's bad mood 🙅

ultimateweather | ultimateweather

"Children need routines. They aren't toys. Bedtime is important." 🚤

mmiggs | mmiggs

NTA. Dad wants alone time, but kids will be upset 😡

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NTA for wanting equal workload. Consider leaving AH husband. 🙏

monkeydrawsbananas | monkeydrawsbananas

NTA: Seek counseling and support, prioritize self-care. 👍

Jerseygirl2468 | Jerseygirl2468

Living with a man who doesn't want to be a parent 😱

HoshiJones | HoshiJones

🙅‍♀️ No more kids with him, seriously! 🚫

lockmama | lockmama

Husband wants quiet house after work, but doesn't want kids. NTA

skylarfox2709 | skylarfox2709

Dad's punishment for mom's permission: Is it too much? 😱

TerrifyinglyAlive | TerrifyinglyAlive

Dad wants peace and quiet, but should kids suffer? 🤔

Ornery-Wasabi-473 | Ornery-Wasabi-473

Husband prioritizes relaxation over family, causing resentment and concern. 😡

Gloomy_Ruminant | Gloomy_Ruminant

NTA. Dad's relaxation time vs. family responsibilities 🤔

Infinite-Chapter2652 | Infinite-Chapter2652

Supermom refuses to let dad relax - NTA, he's wrong! 🤔

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NTA: Husband needs a rude awakening! 😱

Ladyughsalot1 | Ladyughsalot1

Check out One Love for insights on healthy relationships! 👍

aj0457 | aj0457

NTA. Can't he just relax in your bedroom? Make an agreement!

RWBYsnow | RWBYsnow

Dad neglects kids for relaxation time? NTA says it all! 👏

ConsistentCheesecake | ConsistentCheesecake

Supportive comment calls out unsupportive partner, advises against having more kids. 👏

HisDukka | HisDukka

NTA. Dad needs to step up and share the load 💪

Katz3njamm3r | Katz3njamm3r

"He sucks, but you're letting him be useless." 💔💤

Use_this_1 | Use_this_1

Dad needs to learn bedtime etiquette! 😜

Dittoheadforever | Dittoheadforever

Kids feeling unwanted by dad. OP gets more responsibilities. 😢

Suspicious-Peace9233 | Suspicious-Peace9233

Mom stands up for herself, calls out dad's unfair punishment. 💪

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NTA: Husband's inconsiderate behavior causing strain. Seek couples therapy for resolution. 👫

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