In a household with three young kids and a baby, finding time to relax can be a challenge. But when one mom refused her husband’s request to send the kids to bed early so he could unwind, the situation escalated into a heated debate. With both parents working full-time and the mom also homeschooling and nursing, who deserves a break more? ♀️
The Daily Grind ♀️
Unexpected Homeschooling
A Rough Week
Husband’s Perspective ♂️
Dinner Routine ️
The Early Bedtime Request ⏰
Asking Again
Husband’s Outburst
Apology and Another Request
Husband’s Frustration
The Agreement
Past Miscommunication ️
Overstepping Boundaries
Not About Quality Time
Battle of the Breaks: Who Deserves It More?
In a household juggling work, homeschooling, and a baby, tensions rise when the dad asks for the kids to go to bed early so he can relax. The mom, who’s dealing with a family tragedy and handling most of the household duties, refuses his request, sparking a conflict between the two. With both parents working full-time, the question remains: who deserves a break more? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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NTA…but wyd? Are you okay?
NTA: Rehome him OP. You can foster another later.
NTA – Kids shouldn’t be punished for dad’s bad mood
“Children need routines. They aren’t toys. Bedtime is important.”
NTA. Dad wants alone time, but kids will be upset
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NTA for wanting equal workload. Consider leaving AH husband.
NTA: Seek counseling and support, prioritize self-care.
Living with a man who doesn’t want to be a parent
♀️ No more kids with him, seriously!
Husband wants quiet house after work, but doesn’t want kids. NTA
Dad’s punishment for mom’s permission: Is it too much?
Dad wants peace and quiet, but should kids suffer?
Husband prioritizes relaxation over family, causing resentment and concern.
NTA. Dad’s relaxation time vs. family responsibilities
Supermom refuses to let dad relax – NTA, he’s wrong!
NTA: Husband needs a rude awakening!
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NTA. Can’t he just relax in your bedroom? Make an agreement!
Dad neglects kids for relaxation time? NTA says it all!
Supportive comment calls out unsupportive partner, advises against having more kids.
NTA. Dad needs to step up and share the load
“He sucks, but you’re letting him be useless.”
Dad needs to learn bedtime etiquette!
Kids feeling unwanted by dad. OP gets more responsibilities.
Mom stands up for herself, calls out dad’s unfair punishment.
NTA: Husband’s inconsiderate behavior causing strain. Seek couples therapy for resolution.
