Bride's Dilemma: Poly Friend's Partners Uninvited to Wedding 😱

Diply Social Team
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Imagine planning your dream wedding, only to find yourself in the middle of a dramatic dilemma involving your best friend's love life. That's exactly what happened to a 25-year-old bride-to-be, who found herself torn between her husband's conservative family and her best friend's polyamorous relationship. With emotions running high and the big day fast approaching, she's left wondering if she's the one in the wrong. 🤔💔

Dream Wedding Plans 🎊

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Best Friend's Poly Love Life 💕

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Conservative Family vs. Polyamory 🚫

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The Uninvited Partners 😢

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Marissa's Reaction 💔

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Brandon's Plea 🙏

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Greg's Anger 😡

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Marissa's Ultimatum 🚫

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Mike's Response 🤷‍♂️

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Friends' Opinions 🗣️

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Realization and Apology 🙇‍♀️

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Making Amends 💞

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Compromise and Resolution 🕊️

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Ace's Decision 🤔

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Happy Ending? 🎉

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A Wedding Dilemma Resolved? 🌈

After realizing her mistake, the bride-to-be and her husband apologized to Marissa and her partners. They reached a compromise, with Greg and Marissa attending as a couple, and Brandon and Ace doing the same. With the drama seemingly resolved, the wedding party can now focus on celebrating love, in all its forms. 💖🥂

"YWBTA. You put the opinion of bigots over your friends."

OurMasterAM | OurMasterAM

"YTA already. They way you've handled this is awful and your husband sounds like an AH too. You are putting the opinions of your bigoted in laws (and I'm guessing husband too) over your actual friends. If you go through with this you will most likely permanently damage your relationship with you MoH." 🚫 Handling the situation poorly, prioritizing bigoted in-laws over friends.

MoistQuiches | MoistQuiches

"Mike said he can't uninvite his co-workers now so it's not his problem." - Ho - but you can uninvite your closest friend's partners? You let your AH partner be AH to your friends and to you, forces you to be a AH yourself to them - and it's 'not is problem'? 😡💔

KittiesLove1 | KittiesLove1

Bride's wedding invite mishap sparks heated debate on inclusivity 😱

Molly_Hatchett | Molly_Hatchett

Poly friend's uninvited partners cause wedding dilemma 😱

Sufficient_Cat | Sufficient_Cat

Don't stress! Most guests won't notice or care about poly partners. 😊

MrJeanPoutine | MrJeanPoutine

YTA, catering to bigots. Irrecoverable damage to friendship 😱

Lacroix24601 | Lacroix24601

YTA for uninviting her partners. Should've handled it better. 😱

ratsassdm | ratsassdm

"YTA. Uninvite the bigots instead of your loyal friend." 😱

Mogwai_92 | Mogwai_92

Bride's decision to uninvite poly friend's partners is causing backlash 😬

annie783 | annie783

Poly bride's wedding guest dilemma sparks heated debate 😱

Creative-Yoghurt1510 | Creative-Yoghurt1510

"NTA. Seriously, a 'plus three'? What would you have done if there had been more of them? Everyone is entitled to have whatever type of relationship they want of course but you don't have to go overboard to accommodate their expectations in every aspect. I would have thought a good compromise would have been to offer her a +1 and let her sort out who comes with her. This guy Greg who told you f**k off, I wouldn't invite him to anything, ever, with that attitude." 💁‍♀️

Blinky_Kitty_61 | Blinky_Kitty_61

Bride's poly friend uninvited to wedding: YTA and extreme A!

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Invite who you want, ignore the haters. YTA for capitulating.

Regular_Condition_28 | Regular_Condition_28

"Bride, it's YOUR big day too! Don't let others dictate. 😱"

Piggythelavasurfer | Piggythelavasurfer

Debate over plus one at wedding sparks heated discussion 😱

eeo11 | eeo11

Fiancé's coworkers invited, poly friends uninvited. Awkward family avoidance? 😳

LetterLegal8543 | LetterLegal8543

NTA for not inviting poly friend's partners to wedding 👰🏻

Ok_Marionberry_7838 | Ok_Marionberry_7838

YTA for hiding information from Marissa about the wedding guests 😱

MimosaVendetta | MimosaVendetta

NTA: Bride's poly friend's partners uninvited to wedding 😱

Alert_Sorbet4016 | Alert_Sorbet4016

"YTA, but less so than Mike." You should value true friendship. 💜

Jess3200 | Jess3200

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