Son's Boyfriend Overstays His Welcome, But There's More to the Story 😲

Diply Social Team
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We all know that feeling when someone overstays their welcome, but what if there's a deeper reason behind it? One mom found herself in a tricky situation when her son's boyfriend, Marius, started spending a little too much time at their house. She noticed her son, Tyler, seemed uncomfortable with all the attention, so she decided to confront Marius. Little did she know, there was more to the story than meets the eye. 😳

Meet Tyler and Marius

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Marius Becomes a Frequent Guest

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A Concerning Pattern

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Mom Steps In

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Setting Boundaries

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Marius' Reaction

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Tyler's Outburst

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The Real Reason

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Mom's Apology

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Tyler's Sacrifice

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Was Mom in the Wrong?

After confronting Marius about his constant presence at their home, this mom found out the real reason behind it: Marius had recently come out to his dad, who wasn't taking it well, and he'd been avoiding going home. She had unknowingly asked him to stay away without knowing the full story. Although Tyler was uncomfortable with all the attention, he was putting up with it for Marius' sake. This situation raises the question: did the mom do the right thing, or was she too quick to judge? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🤔

INFO: Should've talked to Tyler first, but understandable concern. NTA.

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NAH - Miscommunication leads to tension, but everyone has good intentions 🙏

VixenNoire | VixenNoire

Soft YTA for not communicating with son about boyfriend's situation 😕

GreekDudeYiannis | GreekDudeYiannis

NAH. Communication is key in managing houseguests, even for teenagers. 👍

Tzilung | Tzilung

NTA 👍 It's your house, your rules. But communication is key 📱

Keenzur | Keenzur

Communication could have prevented misunderstandings and helped set boundaries 📱

JazzyKnowsBest13 | JazzyKnowsBest13

Parental assumptions vs. teenage communication: the struggle is real 😲

nun_the_wiser | nun_the_wiser

Parental authority vs. communication: Who's the real a**hole here? 🤔

Odd-Mess1511 | Odd-Mess1511

Setting boundaries for your son's comfort 🙌

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NTA asks why guest won't explain themselves, despite acceptance 😐

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Setting boundaries with son's boyfriend, prioritize stable home life 🙌

Pale-Equal | Pale-Equal

Setting boundaries in their home, but considering Marius's situation 😲

ANewHopelessReviewer | ANewHopelessReviewer

NTA, your house, your rules. Marius isn't your child 😲

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NTA. Mom's talk, friend keeps popping up, I'd speak up.

imf4rds | imf4rds

Communication is key 📱 to avoiding overstaying guests 😲

MisterGentlemann | MisterGentlemann

Mom can't read minds, but son's discomfort should be addressed 😲

Applesbabe | Applesbabe

NAH, awkward situation with son's boyfriend, hoping for resolution 🤔

AuthorKimberly | AuthorKimberly

NAH - Setting boundaries to avoid potential discomfort and danger 🙏

Artichoke-8951 | Artichoke-8951

Protecting your son while finding a balance with his boyfriend 🙏

Cursd818 | Cursd818

NTA. Set boundaries! Your house, your rules. Privacy is important 🙌

VinoBoxPapi | VinoBoxPapi

NAH, but apologize to Marius. He needs your support 🙏

Owned_By_3_Kittehs | Owned_By_3_Kittehs

"Soft YTA. Understand the LGBTQ+ struggle, but respect boundaries."

aj_alva | aj_alva

Protective parent defends son's well-being. 🙌

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