Snubbed from Wedding, Now Expected to Plan Birthday Party? 😲

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We all know that weddings can be a sensitive topic, especially when it comes to deciding who makes the guest list. But what happens when you're snubbed from a close friend's wedding, only to be asked to plan their birthday party later? One person found themselves in this exact situation, and they're wondering if they're being petty for not wanting to do it. Let's dive into their story and see if we can make sense of this emotional rollercoaster. 🎢😕

The Friendship: A Brief History 🌍

Ill-Wallaby3083 | Ill-Wallaby3083

Enter Bob, the Boyfriend 💑

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Bubble Buddies During Lockdown 🔒

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The Engagement Party 🎉

Ill-Wallaby3083 | Ill-Wallaby3083

The Wine Glass and the Texts 🍷

Ill-Wallaby3083 | Ill-Wallaby3083

Bob's Birthday Bash 🎂

Ill-Wallaby3083 | Ill-Wallaby3083

The Mysterious Birthday Trip 🏞️

Ill-Wallaby3083 | Ill-Wallaby3083

Bachelorette Party Blues 🥳

Ill-Wallaby3083 | Ill-Wallaby3083

The Big Wedding Snub 💔

Ill-Wallaby3083 | Ill-Wallaby3083

Feeling Hurt and Confused 😢

Ill-Wallaby3083 | Ill-Wallaby3083

The Silent Treatment 🤐

Ill-Wallaby3083 | Ill-Wallaby3083

The Unexpected Request 😳

Ill-Wallaby3083 | Ill-Wallaby3083

Addressing the Wedding Elephant 🐘

Ill-Wallaby3083 | Ill-Wallaby3083

The Dilemma: To Plan or Not to Plan? 🤔

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Edit: A Clarification 📝

Ill-Wallaby3083 | Ill-Wallaby3083

A Wedding Snub and a Birthday Party Dilemma 🤷

After being close friends with Jane for years, our protagonist was left out of her wedding and her birthday celebrations. They even threw Jane an engagement party, but when it came time for the big day, they weren't on the guest list. Now, Jane's husband Bob has asked them to plan Jane's birthday party, claiming they're the best at it. Feeling hurt and confused, they're wondering if they're being petty for not wanting to take on the task. It's a tough situation, and emotions are running high. Let's see what the internet has to say about this predicament... 😬

NTA - Snubbed from wedding, now expected to plan birthday party? 😲

TheDreadPirateJeff | TheDreadPirateJeff

NTA: Bob should ask someone else to plan the party 😲

readerdl22 | readerdl22

NTA. Snubbed from wedding, now expected to plan birthday party? Dump them 😲

aobcd8663_ | aobcd8663_

Frozen out, now they want something? Time to move on. 😲

AngryExsEx | AngryExsEx

NTA. Excluded from wedding, now expected to plan birthday party? 😲

purzzzell | purzzzell

NTA. No space issue, just waning friendship. Don't plan party.

1indaT | 1indaT

NTA, don't waste time on friends who don't value you. 🙏

Glum_Hamster_1076 | Glum_Hamster_1076

NTA. Block and ghost. This is the way. 😲

Sea-Dependent-8088 | Sea-Dependent-8088

NTA. They're using you as a free event planner. 😲

Material-Profit5923 | Material-Profit5923

NTA. Huge wedding, plenty of people to plan party without you.

zoomzoom90 | zoomzoom90

NTA, turn the tables and charge for Jane's birthday party! 😉

MistyMadeleine__ | MistyMadeleine__

They want an event planner, not you. Sorry. NTA 😔

queenofwasps | queenofwasps

Friend feels used and confronts couple about their behavior 😲

Thriillsy | Thriillsy

NTA. Jane isn't your friend anymore. They're using you. 😔

[deleted] | [deleted]

Savage revenge: Plan the same thing they did for yours! 😎

embopbopbopdoowop | embopbopbopdoowop

Snubbed from wedding, now expected to plan birthday party? NTA 😲

[deleted] | [deleted]

Politely decline to plan the party and wait for their response. 🙏

BaffledMum | BaffledMum

Validated for feeling undervalued, you're not obliged to plan birthday. 👏

jemann87 | jemann87

Find new friends who appreciate you for you 👍

Least-Breakfast | Least-Breakfast

NTA: Cut ties and live a fabulous life without them! 🙌

0biterdicta | 0biterdicta

They should have made space for you. Not the a**holes.

fatutu_da_great | fatutu_da_great

Friends snubbed you from wedding and birthday. Time to move on! 👋

ParsimoniousSalad | ParsimoniousSalad

NTA. They aren't your friends, just users. 😲

Admirable_Counter_66 | Admirable_Counter_66

NTA, but consider going to the party. 😲

Medical-Resolve-4872 | Medical-Resolve-4872

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