Man Refuses to Bring Girlfriend's Son to Guy's Night - Is He Wrong? 😲

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Imagine being in a relationship where you've bonded with your partner's kids, and you're all getting along great. But what happens when you want a night out with your buddies, and your partner asks you to bring her teenage son along? That's the dilemma our friend here is facing. He's been dating his girlfriend for over a year and has formed a strong connection with her son, Jake. However, when it comes to his guy's night, he's hesitant to bring the teenager along, fearing the environment might not be suitable. And now, his girlfriend isn't too happy about his decision. Let's dive into the story and see what unfolds. 🍿

A Year of Love and Bonding 💕

live-bear7660 | live-bear7660

Connecting with Jake 🎣

live-bear7660 | live-bear7660

Guy's Night Plans 🍻

live-bear7660 | live-bear7660

Poker Night with the Boys 🃏

live-bear7660 | live-bear7660

Not Suitable for Teens? 🚬

live-bear7660 | live-bear7660

Growing Up Without a Father 👨‍👦

live-bear7660 | live-bear7660

Guy's Night for Adults Only? 🚫

live-bear7660 | live-bear7660

Girlfriend's Disapproval 😠

live-bear7660 | live-bear7660

Caught Between Buddies and Being a Role Model 🤔

Our friend is in a tough spot - he enjoys spending time with his girlfriend's son, but when it comes to his guy's night, he's not sure if it's an appropriate environment for a teenager. He just wants to have fun with his buddies without worrying about being a role model. His girlfriend, on the other hand, believes it would be good for Jake to experience some 'guy time' since he grew up without a father. Now, the internet is weighing in on whether our friend is in the wrong for not including Jake in his guy's night plans. Let's see what people have to say... 🗣️

"NTA. Having a kid at Guys' Night would be uncomfortable for everyone 😲"

FoxWyrd | FoxWyrd

NTA. Guys night is not for babysitting a teen 😲

scarletcross37 | scarletcross37

NTA for not wanting to drink in front of a child 🚫🍻

Smutternaught | Smutternaught

NTA. No obligation to form father/son bond. Doing plenty already 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA - Quality time suggestions for bonding with the teenager 🎿


NTA. Independence is important in relationships. Bonding over activities helps.

Shadowtirs | Shadowtirs

NTA: Guy's night without girlfriend's son. Mom overstepped boundaries. 😲

Trendy04 | Trendy04

"NTA. Let the guy have his one day off! 😲"

saywgo | saywgo

NTA. Bonding with mates without girlfriend's son. Find alternatives! 👍

Full-String7137 | Full-String7137

NTA. You know the scene, offer a wholesome night with Jake. 🙌

Particular-Try5584 | Particular-Try5584

NTA. Taking a kid to an adult gathering? That's bizarre! 😲

blackmetronome | blackmetronome

NTA. Girlfriend wants to crash guy's night with her son? 😳

Purpleurkelfromurk | Purpleurkelfromurk

Mom approved, but he said no. One boy's night! 😎

Timely_Proposal_1821 | Timely_Proposal_1821

NTA: Bringing an underage son would cramp everyone's style 😲

Future_Direction5174 | Future_Direction5174

NTA. Girlfriend doesn't get guys nights, but compromise with kid.

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA: Jake probably wouldn't enjoy poker night with old guys.

Alarming_Reply_6286 | Alarming_Reply_6286

Confused moms discuss girlfriend's request for step-daddy duty on guy's night 🤔

Pumpkinkra | Pumpkinkra

NTA: Adult night out, no place for teenager. Enjoy freedom! 😎

keesouth | keesouth

NTA: Underage son shouldn't be at guy's night. Enjoy your friends! 👍

Competitive-Way7780 | Competitive-Way7780

NTA: Party, kid, and approval - a recipe for disaster! 🤪

WillBottomForBanana | WillBottomForBanana

NTA: Boundaries are important. Don't let guilt control your decisions. 💪

KnightofForestsWild | KnightofForestsWild

NTA: Mom wants you to fill a void, but you're not obligated. 🙏

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA, OP. It's not fun for him or your friends. 😲

swillshop | swillshop

NTA: Teenager doesn't belong at guy's night. Awkward for everyone 😲

just-jen57 | just-jen57

NTA for wanting guy time, but consider separate teenage-friendly plans 😊

drinking-up-the-tea | drinking-up-the-tea

"NTA - She wants you to bring friends on guys night."

somewhat_pragmatic | somewhat_pragmatic

NTA! Pushy girlfriend after only a year? 🙄

Dogmother123 | Dogmother123

NTA. Protecting the kid from adult activities. 😲

jwynnxx22 | jwynnxx22

NTA, consider your friends and girlfriend's son's comfort 😲

tytyoreo | tytyoreo

Not the a**hole for refusing to bring girlfriend's son 😲

Asif_Minhas | Asif_Minhas

Not the a**hole for refusing to bring girlfriend's son 😲

Zestyclose_Public_47 | Zestyclose_Public_47

NTA. Let the baby be a baby for now! 👶

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA. Girlfriend disrespects boundaries - freedom is important in relationships. 🙌

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA - Take some time for yourself, kid-free! 😊

tiredmummum | tiredmummum

NTA: Bio dad's absence may have skewed her expectations. 😲

Roux_Harbour | Roux_Harbour

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