Bridesmaid Defies Bride's Wishes, Wears Dead Mom's Fave Color to Wedding 😱

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Imagine planning your dream ocean-themed wedding, only to have it disrupted by a bridesmaid's dress color choice. That's exactly what happened to a bride (31F) who had her big day on Friday. Her bridesmaid, Anna, had recently lost her mother and wanted to honor her by wearing her late mom's favorite color - dark, vibrant purple. However, the bride had explicitly requested her bridesmaids to wear blue, coral pink, or pastel green. What followed was a whirlwind of emotions, arguments, and ultimately, a screaming match at the wedding. 💔👰

The Ocean-Themed Wedding 🌊

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Color Choices for Bridesmaids 🎨

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Anna's Late Mother's Favorite Color 💜

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Anna's Request to Wear Purple 🙏

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Bride and Groom's Decision 🤔

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Anna's Reaction 😢

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Anna's Persistence 💪

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Anna's Anger 😡

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Apology and Wedding Day 🙏👰

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Bride's Ultimatum ⚠️

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Screaming Match Ensues 😱

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Post-Wedding Fallout 💔

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Bridesmaid's Purple Dress Ignites Wedding Drama 🔥

In a heart-wrenching turn of events, Anna's desire to honor her late mother by wearing a purple dress to the ocean-themed wedding led to an emotional showdown. Despite the bride's insistence on sticking to the theme, Anna showed up in a purple dress, causing a scene and ultimately being escorted out of the wedding in tears. As the dust settled, the bride was bombarded with messages accusing her of being insensitive and selfish. Was it too much to ask for Anna to follow the dress code, or should the bride have been more understanding of her friend's emotional state? Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 💬

NTA. Grieving bridesmaid wears dead mom's favorite color, causing drama.

KaliTheBlaze | KaliTheBlaze

NTA. Bride's friend lacks empathy and maturity. Therapy may help.

IllustratorDouble699 | IllustratorDouble699

"Anna's obsession with wearing purple to the wedding raises concerns."

YouthNAsia63 | YouthNAsia63

"NTA. Anna's behavior was appalling. The world doesn't revolve around her 😱"

ThisWillAgeWell | ThisWillAgeWell

NTA, but friend's insults were out of line. 👏

IncoherentTuatara | IncoherentTuatara

NTA. Anna needs professional help. Setting boundaries is important.

LeilaDFW | LeilaDFW

"NTA. Grief is tough, but her behavior isn't rational. 💔"

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Bridesmaid disobeys bride's wishes, wears mom's favorite color 😱

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Bridesmaid's mental health struggles after mom's passing, needs support ❤️

Shelfside123 | Shelfside123

Grateful for kind words and advice from everyone! 🙏

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Bridesmaid defies bride's wishes, sparks heated debate. Who's the a**hole?

art3miss15 | art3miss15

Defying bride's wishes, wearing dead mom's color: NTA or ESH?

BastardsCryinInnit | BastardsCryinInnit

NTA. Dress code ignored, bride's spotlight stolen. Suggest counseling.

atomic_golfcart | atomic_golfcart

Supportive suggestion to work purple into bridesmaid's outfit 🙏

jmbbl | jmbbl

NTA. Friend ignores bride's wishes, wears dead mom's favorite color 😱

Hatstand82 | Hatstand82

Bridesmaid's dress choice becomes a therapy session about her mom

Mountain-Jicama-6354 | Mountain-Jicama-6354

NTA stands up for their wedding choices, no disrespect allowed! 🙌

gramsknows | gramsknows

NTA. Compassion for grieving bridesmaid sparks family feud. 🙌

lonnielee3 | lonnielee3

NTA. Wedding should celebrate your love, not Anna's grief. 🙏

techbear72 | techbear72

Bride stands her ground, but empathy is key in conflicts. 😕

SwordsOfSanghelios | SwordsOfSanghelios

Bridesmaid disrespects bride's wishes, gets what she deserves 😒

brisemartel | brisemartel

Heartbreaking situation 😢 Bride's friend needs support and boundaries.

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Bridesmaid stands up to bride's manipulation tactics with purple dress 😱

annswertwin | annswertwin

Bridesmaid steals spotlight by wearing dead mom's favorite color 😱

UnbelievableTxn6969 | UnbelievableTxn6969

NTA, but was compromise possible? Bride's theme still disrupted. 😕

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Grief is tough, but ruining a wedding over a dress? 😕

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