Grieving the loss of her father, a woman (33F) and her now-husband (35M) decided to throw a small engagement party to celebrate their love. Little did their guests know, they were in for a big surprise! The couple turned their engagement party into an intimate wedding ceremony, leaving everyone shocked. But not everyone was thrilled about the surprise, especially the couple’s mothers.
A Sudden Loss and a Proposal
Small Celebration Idea
Surprise Wedding Plan
Guest List and Execution
The Big Reveal
Tying the Knot
Celebratory Meal ️
Capturing the Moment
Small Honeymoon ️
Moms Express Disappointment
Missing Out on Wedding Planning
No Dress Shopping Experience
The Dress Reveal
Did They Cross the Line?
The couple thought their surprise wedding idea was perfect for their intimate celebration. However, their mothers felt robbed of the chance to be involved in the wedding planning process. They expressed disappointment at missing out on special moments like choosing a venue and dress shopping. Was the couple’s decision to keep their wedding a secret justified, or did they go too far? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation… ️♀️
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NTA. Your wedding, your way! Your mums can feel disappointed but this suited you two. You both agreed that this minimized the insanity and pressure that a big wedding can involve. Both of you are happy. That’s really all that matters. Tell your mums you two could have eloped and no one would have witnessed. Congratulations!
NTA. Moms disappointed with surprise wedding, but it’s *your* day!
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NTA. Have a conversation with the moms about their behavior
Both moms expressed disappointment privately, no drama or blame. NAH
“Surprise wedding trend: low key, cheap, and stress-free celebrations!”
Moms disappointed with surprise wedding, but NTA. Offer future involvement
Moms disappointed to miss wedding planning moments, but be gentle with them and plan girly post-wedding activities.
NTA! It’s your wedding! Don’t let anyone steal your joy!
“Unnecessary wedding drama, people need to get over it.”
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NTA. Your wedding, your decisions. They missed out on their chance
Romantic surprise wedding, moms’ opinions don’t matter. Congrats!
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Wedding your way! NTA, moms disappointed but it’s your day
Wedding drama! NTA, it’s your special day
Parents disappointed, but it’s your wedding day. Enjoyed it!
Daughters and daughters-in-law’s weddings: entitlement or tradition?
NAH, parents disappointed but find a solution: a bridal photoshoot
You do you! It’s your special day, not theirs.
You do you! Their disappointment, their problem
NTA. Your wedding, your choice. Don’t let their disappointment ruin it
Moms disappointed about missing dress shopping, but NTA for surprising them
Mom regrets not having a wedding, but I’m happy without one
Wedding your way, stress-free, with loved ones. Congrats!
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Traditional vs Modern: No AHs here, but communication is key
NTA, moms making it about themselves. Sad they can’t be happy
